Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Barbara Carter Obituary
She was born on June 15, 1948, in Portsmouth to Oscar and Elizabeth (Morrison) Muder.
Barbara was always and forever about her family. First with her kids, then with her grandchildren and then great grandchildren. She was a loving and passionate soul and was never shy about her love for her family and just a tremendous cook for all the Carter meals and family parties.
She is predeceased by her husband of over 50 years, Joseph J. Carter. Barbara leaves behind Fred (Sue) Carter, Joseph (Shelly) Carter, Jodi (Darrin) Sargent, Jenny (Jason) Smith. Grandchildren Brandon (Holly) Carter, Tony (Meaghan) Carter, Cassidy (Ben) Stanton, Ashlin (Anthony) Ghirin, Abigail (Jake) Coffey, Katie Sargent, Andrew Carter, Brady Carter, Emma Carter; great children Rowan, Francesca, Paul, Luca, Mila, Ellie and a new one on the way and many cherished family and friends, she will be missed by all.
The family would like to extend their love and appreciation for all the efforts of Beacon Hospice especially Claudia Watson and Tonya Nolette. A time of visitation will be held from 4:00-7:00 PM on Friday, March 15 at the Farrell Funeral Home, 684 State Street, Portsmouth, New Hampshire. A graveside service will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, March 16 at Central Cemetery in Rye, New Hampshire with a reception to follow at the Portsmouth Elks, 500 Jones Avenue, Portsmouth, NH. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that memorial contributions may be made to Beacon Hospice in Barbara's name.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Michael Muder
March 16, 2024
Mike Muder
I will always remember the times I visited Aunt Barbara at her house in Greenland with my parents. She was very hospitable and fun to be around. She will be missed by all those who loved her. We wish the best to everyone who loved her so much.
Mike & Gina
Billy Cavanaugh
March 11, 2024
Fred, Joe, Jodi and Jen ~ It is impossible for me to adequately express the sense of loss I experienced upon learning of your mother's passing. She was truly loved by the Cavanaugh Family. My mother, Aunt Joyce, had a love for your mother that had no boundaries. I cannot think back upon those wonderful times spent with the Carter Family without smiling - - - such fond memories. In closing, the Cavanaugh Family is saddened by the loss of your mother. We wish you peace and solace during this difficult time. Billy Cavanaugh
Jon and Linda Emerton
March 10, 2024
To Fred, Joe, Jenny , and Jodi Please accept condolences from Jon and Linda Emerton . My fondest memory of Aunt Barbara was the welcoming way she had whenever we visited. She never failed to make us feel welcomed in her home not to mention the wonderful food she fed us when we visited. Aunt Barbara rest forever and give all those who went before a big hug and kiss for us. You are forever loved and in our hearts always.
Jon and Linda Emerton and family
Joe Carter
March 10, 2024
Mom you know we're far from a perfect family but you left behind a family with lots of love and heart you always had my back growing up no one messed with mama bears kids as Jodi Jenny and Fred can attest to.. we'll make sure that yours and dads memories and love get pasted down from generation to generations we all hope your reunited with Dad and your smiling and proud of the family you left behind we love you lots and more
Joe
How you can show support
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Lisa (Moulton) Soule
March 9, 2024
Just that she always made me feel so welcome. Thinking of you all.
Robin Oddo
March 9, 2024
She had a heart of gold and lots of love for all her family. I will miss her so much. We spent a lot of time together when I was younger. Memories forever in my heart.
Amanda (Carter) and Joseph Marotta
March 9, 2024
I am so sorry for your loss, I love you all so much. Aunt Barbara was an amazing woman and will be greatly missed.
Kathi Dufton
March 9, 2024
Barbara was an amazing woman full of unconditional love for all her family and friends. From early childhood she was also a very protective friend. No one was allowed to hurt those she loved. I will miss her so much and will continue to keep her and her family in my prayers. Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May her soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.
Showing 1 - 8 of 8 results
Make a Donation
in Barbara Carter's name
How to support Barbara's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Barbara Carter's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
