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john mathys
August 15, 2005
TO TARA, SCOTT, ALEX
YOUR MOM, MY SISTER, WILL NEVER EVER BE FORGOTTEN.
WE HAD MANY GREAT YEARS TOGETHER. GROWING UP AS KIDS IN THE OLD GREENPOINT BROOKLYN DAYS. THERE WERE HAPPY AND SAD OCCASIONS. WE HAD MANY LAUGHS WHEN WE HAD 2 BUNK BEDS AND THE FOUR OF US SLEPT IN THE SAME ROOM . OUR SISTER DOLORES ON THE TOP BUNK AND YOUR MOM, MY SISTER, BARBARA ON THE BOTTOM. OUR BROTHER JOSEPH (JOEY) ON THE BOTTOM AND ME, UNCLE JOHNNY, ON THE TOP. WE ALL SHARED ONE BEDROOM, HAD PILLOW FIGHTS AND LOTS OF LAUGHS.
OUR MOM DIED AT 41YRS OF AGE AND OUR FAMILY WAS SADDENED AND SPLIT UP. I WAS IN THE NAVY, DOLORES WENT WITH AUNT JANE AND BARBARA AND JOEY WENT INTO HOMES.
BARBARA LIVED WITH US A WHILE. HERE I AM A NEWLY WED WITH MY SISTER BARBARA WHO WAS CLOSE IN AGE WITH MY LOVELY WIFE (CAROLYN)IN THE MIDDLE OF SOME ARGUMENTS 2 WOMEN IN SAME KITCHEN WOW. BUT WE GOT THRU AND BARBARA LATER MARRIED AND WENT ON HER OWN. UNFORTUNATELY THAT ENDED UP AS A ROUGH DIVOICE BUT SHE MANAGED TO RAISE YOU KIDS PRETTY DAM WELL.
I AM EXTREMELY PROUD OF THE WAY YOU HAVE TURNED OUT. SHE WAS ALSO EXTREMELY POUD OF YOU ALL AND WAS HAPPY THAT YOU MADE HER A GRANDMA.
SHE WAS SO CONCERNED ABOUT ME AND MY CANCER. WE HAD MADE A PACT IF I WENT FIRST I WOULD GIVE HER MY LUNGS, AND SHE WAS TO GIVE ME HER LIVER - UNFORTUNATELY NEITHER WORKED OUT.
I WAS EXTREMELY PROUD OF THE WAY YOU HANDLED ALL THE FUNERAL ARRANGEMENTS AND COULD NOT OF DONE ANY BETTER. IT WAS IMPRESSIVE THE TURN OUT OF PEOPLE FROM HER JOB SHE WAS TRULY LOVED BY THEM AND ALSO BY US.
IF EVER THERE IS A NEED FOR ANYTHING, DO NOT HESIATE TO CALL UNCLE JOHNNY OR AUNT CAROLYN.
LOVE YA (UNCLE)JOHNNY
Carolyn Mathys
August 15, 2005
Dear Scott & Carrie, Tara and Alex,
Your mom wasn't a sister-in-law to me, she was the sister I never had. I have always loved her and always will.
We had our moments when Uncle Johnny and I first got married and took her out of the home to live with us. After all I was only 4 years older than her, but we grew to truly love and respect each other.
Your mom was so proud of you and her grandchildren (with good reason). I am so proud of all of you too. She did a great job raising you alone. All of you grew up to be wonderful.
Your mom was so worried about Uncle Johnny with his liver cancer. She came all the way down to Manhattan to donate blood for his surgery in December. Little did we know then that she had cancer too.
I will never forget your mom and please know I will always be here for all of you. I love you more than words can express.
God bless all of you.
Love, Aunt Carolyn
Carol Purzycki
April 20, 2005
Scott,Carrie, Alex, Tara & Family
As you already know, the passing of Barbara has left a deep void in my heart and in my life. As I cleaned out her office bit by bit this week, I came across a sheet of paper that said simply...Things that Carol likes. I thought how like Barbara to be thinking of someone else with all she has going on. That was typical of her and is one of the things I'll miss most. She was always looking it seemed for positive reinforcement. I don't know why because she would never be faulted for neglect or failure to do the right thing. I love you Barbara, my friend, my co- worker and my sounding board. I will miss your laugh, your anger and your kind and loving heart. Rest in peace.
Michelle Hayner, Louis Schmigel
April 15, 2005
Scott & Carrie, Tara, and Alex,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at your time of loss. Your mom was a wonderful person, and will be missed. Be strong. Michelle & Louis
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Pat Young
April 14, 2005
Scott and Carrie you are in our thoughts and prayers. We're here for you if you need anything.
Sandy Maxon
April 13, 2005
A Message to the Family:
It is with a heavy heart that I write this. Scott, Alex and Tara, and those precious grandchildren of hers, I have worked with your mom and grandma for over 11 years. Never was there a day, when you weren’t sure what she would come out with, but every day you could guarantee that she would have something wonderful to say about those grandchildren of hers, who were the sunshine and stars of her life.
In this time of sadness, remember your mom as she was, Strong willed, a hard worker and most of all proud of her family.
I will miss her very much.
Ismay Ashley
April 13, 2005
To Barbara's Family and Friends. I was so saddened to hear the news about Barbara. I have worked fairly closely with her and I like to think that she and I were friends too. There were many times that she and I would stop and talk to each other about many different things. I sometimes would have questions about our work that she would always be willing to help me solve the problems without hesitation. She will truly be missed around our office because she was always willing to go the extra step to help anyone who asked. I know that she loved her family very very much and I am so sorry for your loss. I unfortunatly will not be able to attend her services as I am away on medical emergency with my son in Hawaii.
Please know that even though it was such a short time since she heard the diagnosis that she had already began to have a Positive Attitude and took great steps to try to recover. I feel that God had "other plans" for Barbara to sit by his side to assist him with bigger and greater issues from Heaven. I feel that she will always be a special memory for me and everyone who knew and loved her. She will truly be missed. May God bless her and keep her by his side and she will now be forever happy and content by his side. May God Bless her loving family and forever keep her in your hearts.
judy blankenhorn
April 13, 2005
sorry to hear about barb i didnot know her that well only to say hi
Cathy Vooris
April 13, 2005
To The Family Of Barbara - I am so sorry for your loss. I used to work with Barbara and she was a nice person. She always talked very fondly of her family.
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