Barbara Lee McConnor

Barbara Lee McConnor obituary, Shelby, NC

Barbara Lee McConnor

Barbara McConnor Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 20, 2024.
Barbara Lee (Bowman) McConnor, age 54, passed away unexpectedly on August 19th, 2024, in Charlotte, NC. Born on May 5, 1970, in Marysville, OH.

Proceeded in death by her father: Robert Bowman; sister: Sandra Stiltner; and brother-in-law: Mark Burkhart.

Survived by her mother: Marcella (Colflesh) Bowman; sister: Karen (David) Huston; brothers-in-law: Kermit Stiltner, Sean McConnor, and Scot McConnor; nieces: Amanda (Pat) Trombley and Abby McConnor; nephews: Zach (Jordan) Huston, Jack McConnor, Henry McConnor, Arlo McConnor, and Perry McConnor; great-nieces: Natalie Taylor and Piper Trombley; great-nephew: Rowan Trombley; as well as many good friends and neighbors.

Barb graduated from Fairbanks High School, in Milford Center, OH and went on to continue her education at Otterbein University, in Westerville, OH. Most recently working at Beckway Group as a senior director.

Barb will be remembered for her infectious laugh, generosity, kind heart, and fun spirit. Barb loved to travel, THE Ohio State Buckeyes, beach reading, golf outings in VA, live music and spending time with her friends and family. Her most recent trip was a tour of Italy, joined by her mother, sister, brother-in-law and dear friend.

Private services will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Children's Homes of Cleveland County (chccinc.org). Barb was instrumental each year she was at Curtis-Wright in co-chairing two fund drives: back to school, including backpacks and supplies for 16-21 kids, and at Christmas, two outfit minimum, shoes, pajamas, coats, underwear, socks, personal care packets, and everyone on their wish list. She loved doing it, and was determined that every child received everything they deserved. Barb will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and all who knew and loved her.

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November 3, 2024

Leah Riddle posted to the memorial.

September 12, 2024

Deborah Bridges posted to the memorial.

August 26, 2024

Cathy and Brad McGath posted to the memorial.

Leah Riddle

November 3, 2024

I am so sorry for your loss. Barb was my sister’s friend. I met her a couple of times through my sister. Praying for you all!

Deborah Bridges

September 12, 2024

Sorry for your loss
Debbie

Cathy and Brad McGath

August 26, 2024

We are so sorry for your loss. Praying for Barbara's family and friends.

Donna Calderone

August 26, 2024

Barbara was such an incredible mentor, coworker, and friend. During my time getting to know her she provided empowering advice, guidance, and her own perspective on situations at work that could be stressful. I will miss her kindness and spirit, she was such a light for the women at our firm and she will be missed dearly. My thoughts are with her family during this time.

Rebecca (Becky) Hugus

August 23, 2024

Even though she lived on the other side of the country from me, when we got to see each other it´s like we were never apart. Every stranger was a friend with her, and our adventures together were always memorable. This year she came to Arizona twice, once for my daughter´s bridal shower and of course Spring Training, then in June for the wedding and more fun. The most beautiful memory will be her dancing at the wedding and the live band we saw in Munds Park. She even had one of the elderly locals out dancing with his cane. I could write multitudes about each time we got together over the last 7 years, but I´ll keep those memories close to me. Words cannot express my heartache, and my sincere condolences to Barb´s friends and family. Love you my sister from another mother - until we see each other again.

Jeff Northern

August 23, 2024

Barbara was always positive and upbeat. A joy to spend time with. She was a top-notch professional and a beautiful soul. She will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace my friend. Jeff Northern

Carol Hartis

August 23, 2024

Barb was my roommate for 5 years. She was one of the smartest, most generous person I had ever known.
Her love for living life was contagious and her determination to help others was something I most admired about her. She was a get it done kinda woman. I will miss our shared laughter. Dance on my special friend. You will be missed

JoAnn Tucker

August 22, 2024

Will Perkinson

August 22, 2024

Barb was a great mentor to me during the time we worked together. I was blessed to have her spirit in my life even if just for a brief moment.

Lisa Leal

August 22, 2024

Barbara was the epitome of a true, loyal friend. She was an encourager, a supporter and a confidante. I was fortunate to have her as a boss, a mentor and my best friend. Barbara will be missed for smile, sense of humor, thirst for adventure and her servant's heart for others. She loved new experiences from work situations to food to travel. The world is a bit darker for us all. Thank you for being my best friend. You are so greatly missed.

My prayers and deepest condolences are with her family, friends and all her loved her.

Teresa Walker

August 21, 2024

Barbara always had time for a chat. She was sympathize, empathetic, supportive, encouraging, and many other things I could list. It was a blessing to call her coworker, mentor and friend. Prayers and love for her family and friends. Love you always Ms Barb!

Sean McConnor

August 21, 2024

Our deepest sympathies to the Bowman and Huston families. We are saddened and will forever miss her. Barb was a wonderful sister-in-law to me and a thoughtful and caring aunt to her nephews. She was a bright light.

I will always admire her adventurous spirit and determination to enjoy life. I'm thankful for the time together and memories shared. Love you and miss you, Barb.

Sean McConnor and family

Judy Mendez

August 21, 2024

As all who knew her can attest, Barbara was a very special lady. She was loving, loyal, and faithful in all she did. I offer my sincerest condolences and will be praying for her family and her dearest friends.

Lesley McDaniel

August 21, 2024

Lesley McDaniel

August 21, 2024

Lesley McDaniel

August 21, 2024

Barbara was one in a million. I met her through work and was blessed with her friendship. We attended a The Cure concert one night after work. And recently visited Biltmore and the Chihuly exhibit. She was the kindest, most encouraging friend and generous in spirit. Love and condolences to her family.

Nathan Blanton

August 21, 2024

Barbara always had a smile on her face even on bad days. She was positive at work and to her fellow employees. When I think of her it will always be that beautiful smile and kind heart. Prayers to the family.

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