Barbara Joan Sheerin (Waitzman)

Barbara Joan Sheerin (Waitzman) obituary, New York, NY

Barbara Joan Sheerin (Waitzman)

Barbara Sheerin (Waitzman) Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 16, 2025.
Barbara Joan Waitzman Sheerin (née Margolis), of New York, NY, died peacefully at home on June 8, 2025. Born in Brooklyn on May 31, 1939, to Samuel and Gladys Margolis, Barbara grew up in East Flatbush, then lived in Brooklyn Heights and the West Village, and part-time in Sag Harbor, NY. She graduated from Tilden High School and Brooklyn College. In the early 1970s, she began a successful career in marketing of technology consultants, a male-dominated field at the time; she also co-owned a business in this field. Barbara later returned to creative writing, which she had studied as an undergraduate and again at The New School. She was one of the original, pioneering Saint Ann's School parents in Brooklyn Heights, enrolling her daughter Lisa in the first grade the year the then-tiny school opened in 1965, and her son Michael two years later when he started first grade. They both graduated from the school.



Barbara was beloved by a large family and life-long friends. She is survived by children and stepchildren Lisa Waitzman Melartin (Jussi), Michael Waitzman, Raymond Sheerin Jr. (Ally Rodbell), Matthew Sheerin (Eileen), Mark Sheerin (Tanya Velazquez); grandchildren Noelle Melartin, Lilly Melartin (Dmitry Merkulov), Allison Wittbold (Patrick), Raymond Sheerin III (Carley Copeland), Alexander Sheerin, Kati Sanchez (Marc), Richard Graham; sister-in-law Barbara Margolis, nephew Steven Margolis (Jenifer), niece Dr. Jennifer Fryer (Dr. Eric); seven great-grandchildren and four grandniece/nephews, and many cousins and dear friends of all ages. She was preceded in death by beloved husband Raymond Sheerin, stepdaughter Laurie Sheerin, ex-husband Simon Waitzman, adored grandson Cody Melartin, brother Dr. Robert Margolis, and many cherished cats and dogs. Barbara was a dedicated, lifelong supporter of liberal human and animal rights causes, and treated everyone she encountered with deeply felt empathy and compassion. We will forever love and miss our Ma, our Baba, our dear friend Barbara.

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Dave Stern

Yesterday

Great pictures of your mom, Lisa... my deepest condolences to you and all the family.

Lilly Melartin

Yesterday

We miss you, Baba

susan. J Feingold

July 19, 2025

I now remember that when my boyfriend dropped for another girl,

Barbara & Si took me out for pizza. On the jukebox, The Platters were singing The Great Pretender. I can still hear it now.

Noelle Melartin

July 18, 2025

Lisa Melartin

July 18, 2025

I am slowly getting my act together here, and now that we have this Legacy site, I wanted to publicly thank our wonderful, dear friend Herb Westphalen, who lovingly cooked gourmet quality, healthy, balanced meals in the right consistency for our mother to handle for all these years she has been at home post-stroke. Michael could totally rely on Herb to prepare and deliver these delicious meals every two weeks for him to keep frozen and use as needed each day for our mother. She loved them, and was a good eater because they were so tasty! Herb has also been a tremendous support to Michael, me, our lovely home caretakers, and my mother this entire time. The day after her death, he came over to spend a couple of hours with me, Michael, and Jussi, and cheered us all up with funny stories and true compassion. Thank you so much for being a huge part of our mother's care team, and for helping her do so well all these years. Love you. -Lisa

Joan Haber Blank

July 17, 2025

Barbara is my cousin and I love her and
fond memories with her
Joan Haber

Debrah Peters

July 17, 2025

Barbara was a very special person to me ,it was a pleasure taking care of her. I loved her and will truly miss her.
My condolences to her entire family and friends.

Heidi Schochet Humm

July 17, 2025

I remember as a very young child when my mom would prepare a light dinner for Peter and I, get us ready for a bath, put our pajamas on and wait for my dad to walk in the door after work, kiss each of us gently, to quickly run out the door to meet your mom on the corner of Montague and
Pierrepont Street and drive together twice a week to Brooklyn College. My mom would tell me in later years how she loved those drives, talking about their days,their life in Brooklyn Heights, their life journeys before children ,talk of motherhood and their love of learning. My mom would always say those drives were so special and always said your mother was a treasure with a beautiful smile. We both were so blessed to have mothers who loved us so and who gave us so much of themselves to us. Sending you all my love to you ,Michael and family .My deepest condolences.

Herbert Westphalen

July 17, 2025

I will miss Barbara terribly. I have known her for 20+ years. I had the honor of cooking for her over the last 8 years. Rest peacefully beautiful friend.

Lisa Melartin

July 17, 2025

I want to use this space to publicly give our greatest thanks and acknowledgement to my mother's wonderful, loving, extremely capable and beyond-competent home caregivers, Joan, Rama, Comfort and Debrah. These caring, very kind ladies became like family, and were her main caregivers over the many years she was at home following her 7 month stay in the Amsterdam rehab/nursing home immediately following her stroke in Sept. of 2016. Joan has been with us the longest, and all played a major role in preventing even one single bed sore in all these years, keeping our mother comfortable, healthy and peaceful, and offering major support to the whole family. We love them very much and will always be grateful to them.

Beth Enson

July 17, 2025

Lisa, I have so many wonderful memories of your mom and the years and years I spent at your house. Her delicious bright green Brussels Sprouts. Her glamorous Jackie O sunglasses. The way she´d bring us orange juice in bed in the morning after sleepovers because it wakes up the pancreas. Her kindness and her FUN! My deepest condolences to you and Michael.

Joan Pantry

July 16, 2025

Barbara was very special to she was a Gem someone I cared for and loved .As her health care provider she wasn't just a patient but more like family. She will be missed by many and she was loved. Joan Pantry

susan. J Feingold

July 16, 2025

Deep Condolences for Barbara Joan Sheerin [Waitzman] She was my oldest friend from grade school and high school. We were on the cheering squad together, but I was often at her family home. I still remember her mother thinking that Simon Waitzman was too old for her. I'm not much for photos but Barbara will always be in my heart

Doreen Caravaglia Rice

July 16, 2025

Lisa, your mom was 10 years younger than mine so my mom was 30 when she met Barb at 20! Although my mother shared with me how she enjoyed being the experienced mother in their friendship, she never thought of your mom as `young´. I think that is true. Your mom, to me always seemed wise and grounded. I often think about their friendship as they were indeed close old dear friends. Lots of time spent sitting on a bench together at the Pierpont playground yakking it up!
And we both were blessed to have shared each other´s moms! Both being like second moms during all our formative years!
She was a great lady! Very generous with her time and affection!
Michael, although I do not remember when you were born, I do have early memories of you being what I would call a cuddle bug. I can see you cuddled in your mom´s arms. Your mom had the best smile and laugh and I do remember you having a special talent of making her laugh.
What a great woman.
You both have my sincere condolences and sending much love out to all Barbara´s family.
With deep love for all,
Doreen

Lisa Melartin

July 16, 2025

I love and miss you, my precious Mommy. When I was a very young child, and I knew you were exactly 20 years older than me, I was so afraid of one day losing you that I told myself you could live to be 100 and I could live to be 80, and we could die on the same day. It didn't turn out that way, but with the love and support of dear family and friends, I will somehow cope with your loss. Will keep you in my heart forever. Your loving daughter, Lisa

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