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Dave Stern
Yesterday
Great pictures of your mom, Lisa... my deepest condolences to you and all the family.
Lilly Melartin
Yesterday
We miss you, Baba
susan. J Feingold
July 19, 2025
I now remember that when my boyfriend dropped for another girl,
Barbara & Si took me out for pizza. On the jukebox, The Platters were singing The Great Pretender. I can still hear it now.
Noelle Melartin
July 18, 2025
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Lisa Melartin
July 18, 2025
I am slowly getting my act together here, and now that we have this Legacy site, I wanted to publicly thank our wonderful, dear friend Herb Westphalen, who lovingly cooked gourmet quality, healthy, balanced meals in the right consistency for our mother to handle for all these years she has been at home post-stroke. Michael could totally rely on Herb to prepare and deliver these delicious meals every two weeks for him to keep frozen and use as needed each day for our mother. She loved them, and was a good eater because they were so tasty! Herb has also been a tremendous support to Michael, me, our lovely home caretakers, and my mother this entire time. The day after her death, he came over to spend a couple of hours with me, Michael, and Jussi, and cheered us all up with funny stories and true compassion. Thank you so much for being a huge part of our mother's care team, and for helping her do so well all these years. Love you. -Lisa
Joan Haber Blank
July 17, 2025
Barbara is my cousin and I love her and
fond memories with her
Joan Haber
Debrah Peters
July 17, 2025
Barbara was a very special person to me ,it was a pleasure taking care of her. I loved her and will truly miss her.
My condolences to her entire family and friends.
Heidi Schochet Humm
July 17, 2025
I remember as a very young child when my mom would prepare a light dinner for Peter and I, get us ready for a bath, put our pajamas on and wait for my dad to walk in the door after work, kiss each of us gently, to quickly run out the door to meet your mom on the corner of Montague and
Pierrepont Street and drive together twice a week to Brooklyn College. My mom would tell me in later years how she loved those drives, talking about their days,their life in Brooklyn Heights, their life journeys before children ,talk of motherhood and their love of learning. My mom would always say those drives were so special and always said your mother was a treasure with a beautiful smile. We both were so blessed to have mothers who loved us so and who gave us so much of themselves to us. Sending you all my love to you ,Michael and family .My deepest condolences.
Herbert Westphalen
July 17, 2025
I will miss Barbara terribly. I have known her for 20+ years. I had the honor of cooking for her over the last 8 years. Rest peacefully beautiful friend.
Lisa Melartin
July 17, 2025
I want to use this space to publicly give our greatest thanks and acknowledgement to my mother's wonderful, loving, extremely capable and beyond-competent home caregivers, Joan, Rama, Comfort and Debrah. These caring, very kind ladies became like family, and were her main caregivers over the many years she was at home following her 7 month stay in the Amsterdam rehab/nursing home immediately following her stroke in Sept. of 2016. Joan has been with us the longest, and all played a major role in preventing even one single bed sore in all these years, keeping our mother comfortable, healthy and peaceful, and offering major support to the whole family. We love them very much and will always be grateful to them.
Beth Enson
July 17, 2025
Lisa, I have so many wonderful memories of your mom and the years and years I spent at your house. Her delicious bright green Brussels Sprouts. Her glamorous Jackie O sunglasses. The way she´d bring us orange juice in bed in the morning after sleepovers because it wakes up the pancreas. Her kindness and her FUN! My deepest condolences to you and Michael.
Joan Pantry
July 16, 2025
Barbara was very special to she was a Gem someone I cared for and loved .As her health care provider she wasn't just a patient but more like family. She will be missed by many and she was loved. Joan Pantry
susan. J Feingold
July 16, 2025
Deep Condolences for Barbara Joan Sheerin [Waitzman] She was my oldest friend from grade school and high school. We were on the cheering squad together, but I was often at her family home. I still remember her mother thinking that Simon Waitzman was too old for her. I'm not much for photos but Barbara will always be in my heart
Doreen Caravaglia Rice
July 16, 2025
Lisa, your mom was 10 years younger than mine so my mom was 30 when she met Barb at 20! Although my mother shared with me how she enjoyed being the experienced mother in their friendship, she never thought of your mom as `young´. I think that is true. Your mom, to me always seemed wise and grounded. I often think about their friendship as they were indeed close old dear friends. Lots of time spent sitting on a bench together at the Pierpont playground yakking it up!
And we both were blessed to have shared each other´s moms! Both being like second moms during all our formative years!
She was a great lady! Very generous with her time and affection!
Michael, although I do not remember when you were born, I do have early memories of you being what I would call a cuddle bug. I can see you cuddled in your mom´s arms. Your mom had the best smile and laugh and I do remember you having a special talent of making her laugh.
What a great woman.
You both have my sincere condolences and sending much love out to all Barbara´s family.
With deep love for all,
Doreen
Lisa Melartin
July 16, 2025
I love and miss you, my precious Mommy. When I was a very young child, and I knew you were exactly 20 years older than me, I was so afraid of one day losing you that I told myself you could live to be 100 and I could live to be 80, and we could die on the same day. It didn't turn out that way, but with the love and support of dear family and friends, I will somehow cope with your loss. Will keep you in my heart forever. Your loving daughter, Lisa
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