BORN
1958
DIED
2017
Barry Muth Obituary
Major Barry William Muth, 59, passed away Wednesday, September 20, 2017, with his family and loved ones by his side at the Audie L. Murphy VA Hospital in San Antonio, Texas. Barry was born on June 7th, 1958. In 1999, the WestPoint graduate was paralyzed in an accident in Saudi Arabia. After his injury, Barry participated in a local wheel chair rugby team, along with competing in the National Veterans Wheelchair Games. In 2003, Barry was part of the largest disabled group to make it to the base camp of Mount Everest. Barry became the Executive Director of COIL CDC. He is survived by his wife, Dee; their three children, Evan, Ashley, and Barry Jr. and wife, Rebecca; grandchildren, Savannah and Vivienne. He is also survived by his mother, Marilyn; sister, Marlene; and brother, John. Barry will forever be remembered for the inspirational light he shed on the many lives he touched. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to COIL CDC or the San Antonio Paralyzed Veterans Association. Visitation will be held on Thursday, September 28, 2017 from 6:00pm to 9:00pm at Porter Loring North Funeral Home. A Memorial Service will be held on Friday, September 29, 2017 at 11:00am at Crown of Life Lutheran, with a reception to follow.
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Joan Lockwood Smith
September 19, 2020
In honor & memory of Barry a true American hero.
Douglas Dickson
January 19, 2019
sorry to hear...great man...Douglas Dickson year 77 n his wife
Richard O'Shaughnessy
October 11, 2017
So sorry to hear about Barry's passing. I was his football coach at The Hill School, and enjoyed working with him. He was an outstanding young man, and always tried to do his best. He was a leader and a man of principle. Please accept my condolences. Dick O'Shaughnessy
Rene Martinez
September 28, 2017
Dee Dee, so sorry for your great loss. Condolences to you and the family. We will continue to keep you and the family in our thoughts and prayers. He will be missed but not forgotten. Rene, Robin, Gabby and Jules
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Sue Muller
September 27, 2017
Dear Dee Dee,
I am so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. He was a warm and friendly person and I feel fortunate to have met him. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Olivia Tefera
September 26, 2017
Barry was a beacon of hope to anyone with a new injury. He was a leader, veteran, coach, and all around inspiration. More than a patient to me, Barry was a friend. I'll always cherish the laughs we shared in the PT gym. A man of Barry's caliber is hard to come by, and I'm grateful to have known him. And I'm so thankful to have shared dinner with Dee and Barry this summer after Ashley's big game. Those personal conversations meant so much to me then and always will. I'm grateful I was able to tell Barry how important he was to me when I saw him last. To Dee, you are in my thoughts and prayers. You are an amazing woman. Your relationship will remain in my heart as one of the few examples of true love. I'll never forget the time Barry propped his leg up in the gym on a pillow with your wedding picture! Thank you for sharing your stories and words of encouragement. I love you guys. Rest In Peace to the realest, toughest, smartest guy I have ever known, Barry Muth.
Sincerely,
Olivia Tefera
September 26, 2017
Dee - I am saddened to hear about Barry. I think of you all often and tell stories at work about Barry and his Mt Everest adventure, hand cycling in the MS 150 and the winter games. You, Barry and your family helped me on my journey to become a better rehabilitation physician. May God hold you in his hands in this sad time.
Love, Paula Wegert
Bobby Permenter
September 26, 2017
In the years that I have known and worked with Barry, at the Cambridge Village HOA, he was an inspiration. He worked tirelessly for the HOA. He always tried to do what was right and fair for all parties concerned. He always kept a great sense of humor and we would laugh together many times at situations that otherwise would make you want to pull your hair out. I will miss you my friend very much. May God bless you Barry and your family.
Brenda and Rick Holcombe
September 25, 2017
May God give the family the peace, the understanding, the comfort and the love that only He can, now and forever.
Scott Bolin
September 25, 2017
Barry was one of the most generous men I have ever known. His life though short was a tribute to being a real human being. Rest in peace my friend and my prayers are with your family and friends.
Maryann Bassett
September 25, 2017
I only knew Barry over the past five or six years, in connection with his role at COIL, and mostly for his involvement and leadership for the Cambridge Village HOA. I am one of the property owners there and serve on the Board of Directors. Barry was our HOA Board president. He was a man of vision and determination, diligently completing every task and responsibility. Barry tirelessly served the Board, property owners and managers, and tenants. He was not a man to take short cuts but rather sought the best, most honorable way to get things done. We shall miss him greatly as we remember his friendship, personality, and leadership. May he be standing before the Lord, hearing "well done, good and faithful servant."
Dee Dee Aspell, Ph.D.
September 25, 2017
May your memories of Barry strengthen your foundation for experiencing soul-depth meaning and purpose in your lives. God bless you as you continue Barry's legacy by interweaving your memories of who he was and who you are yet to be. Sincerely, Dr. Dee Dee Aspell, Board Member, COIL and COIL CDC
Teresa Macias
September 25, 2017
Barry was an extraordinary man. He hired me and gave me a chance when I moved from Maine. I'm still in the social work field because of him. He re-hired me after I left the Air Force on short notice. Have lots of good memories. He really built a legacy for the disabled community. Thank you, Barry.
Patty &John Reid
September 25, 2017
DeeDee,
Love to you & your Family at this sad time.
Debra Jefferson
September 25, 2017
To Dee and Family,
I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of Barry. I extend my most sincere condolences to you and your family. He will truly be missed.
Pete, Margaret, Stevie & Caitlin Wells
September 25, 2017
Dee, Ashley, Evan, Barry Jr , Rebecca and girls.
We can't even begin to tell you how devastated we are by the loss of Barry. He was such a kind and wonderful man an Inspiration to all. He will never be forgotten. He gave so much of himself and his time coaching our girls Special Olympics Basketball Team who he always took to the win. He will be missed by so many. He was taken too soon but we know he is now running down the streets of gold up in Heaven with Our Lord and Savior. You now have your very own angel watching down over y'all. We are praying for all of you.
❤
The Wells Family
Jim Schaffer
September 24, 2017
You were an inspiration and always with a positive outlook. We are proud of your accomplishments. Your legacy will live on !
Richie Mulcahy
September 24, 2017
Dear Dee and Ashley
I am really sorry for the loss of a wonderful Man and Coach he was a good Basketball Coach.
September 24, 2017
words are hard to say , The Jennings family know ,from the another TPVA member and caregiver, we are sending our prayers to God to give guides.
John, Diane and Travis Bost
September 24, 2017
Your family is in our prayers during this time. Travis has memories of Coach Barry assisting him with his basketball. He was a good coach and man will be missed.
Nancy Holley-Natale
September 24, 2017
To the family
May God bless you all through this difficult time! Barry was a classmate way back when at Solehi and a kind, fun and happy friend! Taken to soon but an inspiration to all! He has now earned his wings and is one of God's angels! May he rest in peace! His memory and love will live on in each one of You!
Pam Peters
September 24, 2017
Dee and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you with Barry's passing. I fondly remember when he and Russ and I shared an apartment in Colorado Springs way back when. He could always make us laugh. Those early Army days were special. His picture brings all that back. Love to you all! Pam (Poling)
Joan Lockwood Smith
September 24, 2017
With deepest sympathy to the family of this great American Hero.Barry was truly an inspiration to us all.You earned your peaceful rest in the arms of an Angel in your Heavenly home.God Bless & comfort you all as you grieve your tremendous loss.
YVONNE SPADE
September 24, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Mark, Yvonne and Joe Spade....
Rosie Cavazos
September 23, 2017
With my deepest condolences for you and your family. Barry will be missed. His COMPASSION for getting people involved especially those with disabilities find their worth. With much gratitude in knowing him. May he rest in peace.
Rosie
Debbie Christian. (Clum)
September 23, 2017
To the family of Barry, I new Barry when he was growing up in PA. My prayers are with then entire family.
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