Barry Lynn Wilburn

Barry Lynn Wilburn obituary, Roanoke, VA

Barry Lynn Wilburn

Barry Wilburn Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 6, 2025.
Barry Lynn Wilburn, 73, of Roanoke, Virginia passed away peacefully, surrounded by loved ones. Born on October 24, 1951 in Roanoke, Barry lived life to the fullest - always quick with a joke, the first to turn up the music, and ready to jump on the dance floor the moment the music started.

Known for his big personality and even bigger heart, Barry was the life of the party and brought joy and energy wherever he went. He was preceded in death by his loving parents, John Turner Wilburn and Mildred Slone Wilburn; his brother, Chris Wilburn; and his niece, Pamela Ginter.

Barry is survived by Sandra Wilburn Ginter (Reggie), Kenny Wilburn (Shelly), Becky Wilburn, and Lauralee Grim (Skip Johnson), in addition to his nieces and nephews: Scott and Kerri Wilburn, Robin Schaeffer (Eugene), and Molly Zimmerman (Dustin).

Barry was a proud and loving father to his son, Joshua Tiller, and his daughters, Maegan Deibler and Ashlee Wilburn (David Gaylord), who brought him endless joy and pride. He was forever grateful to his friend Debra Heath for her love, support, and help raising such wonderful girls together.

Nothing lit up his life more than time spent with his grandchildren - Turner and Wells Deibler, Charlotte and Henry Gaylord, and Kierra Tiller - who affectionately knew just how much they were adored by their "Paw Paw."

Barry will be remembered for his magnetic personality, his loyalty to those he loved, and the unforgettable memories he created with family and friends. His legacy lives on in the laughter, stories, and love he shared so generously.

A celebration of life will be held on Friday, August 8, 2025, at 11 a.m. at South Roanoke United Methodist Church with reception in the fellowship hall to follow.

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Martha Heck

August 17, 2025

So sorry to hear of Barry's passing. Love and prayers to his loving family.

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Debby Tiller

August 7, 2025

My last seeing Barry was in R.Court, with us both going thur P.T. & I was going back 2 my room & he was coming up the hall & we both open arms 2 hug about 3 minutes & hugging I asked if he was ready 2 meet his maker, he said yes...we hav many memories but this was our last, I've love many yrs & will always love him & miss him, but I kno he is out of pain & in a much better place & I know I will see him again oneday...I LOVE U SQUIRREL..LOL

Debby Tiller

August 7, 2025

4 generation, Barry. Joshua, IVY Neveah, & Jaxson made July 2025, U can tell Great PawPaw Wilburn & Pawpaw Joshua are very proud Pawpaw's

Jamie Dillman

August 7, 2025

Barry was a great guy and will be remembered as funny and caring. I remember meeting him as my new neighbor and then becoming a friend. We use to sit on his front porch and chat and see what has come of our days. Hed also go out of his way if he stopped in my work to make sure he said hi to me. Thanks for being you Barry. Ill miss you.

Maegan

August 7, 2025

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