Benjamin Charles McMillan

Benjamin Charles McMillan obituary, Huntersville, NC

Benjamin Charles McMillan

Benjamin McMillan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 20, 2024.
BENJAMIN CHARLES MCMILLAN, affectionately called "BJ" by family and Ben by all others, entered this life on February 12, 1998, and entered his eternal rest on February 15, 2024. Born in Charlotte, NC, to Benjamin Carlyle and Lisa Common McMillan, Ben was a beloved son to his parents and a loving and devoted brother to his big sister, Lindsay McMillan and his younger brother, Caleb McMillan.

As a child, Ben was a joyful, loving and sensitive. He smiled easily and was known for giving great hugs. At the age of 9, he professed faith in Christ and was baptized at Peninsula Baptist Church in Mooresville, NC. He was active in their children's ministry and grew to love the Word of God. He knew his way around the bible and in middle school was the State Bible Drill champion two years in a row. He continued to grow spiritually as part of the youth ministry at NFCC and upon graduation, he continued to find houses of worship to attend wherever he was.

Ben was a competitive scholar, athlete, and musician, balancing academic success in the classroom with stellar performance on the track and on the piano. He was an exceptional student known for his intelligence, curiosity, and diligence. As a youth he eagerly collected and spouted off facts and figures. He always wanted to learn and to be the smartest person in the room. He took great pride in his academic achievements and was rewarded for his efforts. He received an academic scholarship to several universities but chose to attend the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis, where he graduated in 2020 with a degree in Electrical Engineering.

Ben started running track at age 9 with the Charlotte Flights Track Club and continued his career during his time at North Mecklenburg High and Hough High.

He began as a middle-distance runner (400m & 800m) but found his greatest success as a hurdler. He consistently advanced to the regional, state, and national levels to compete during high school athletics and youth USA Track & Field competition. Ben began piano lessons at 7 and grew to become a classically-trained pianist competing in local competitions during his high school years. More In recent years, Ben enjoyed long walks through nature trails, reading and listening to podcasts, and time with his family. Although he was reserved, he had many who called him friend.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, February 24, 2024 at 11:00 am at Nations Ford Community Church - 5901 Nations Ford Rd, Charlotte, NC 28217.

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February 27, 2024

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February 27, 2024

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Ulises Jardon

February 27, 2024

Ulises Jardon

February 27, 2024

Ulises Jardon

February 27, 2024

Ulises Jardon

February 27, 2024

Ulises Jardon

February 27, 2024

Ulises Jardon

February 27, 2024

Ulises Jardon

February 27, 2024

Ulises Jardon

February 27, 2024

Ulises Jardon

February 27, 2024

My sincerest condolences to the McMillan Family. Ben was truly a lifelong best friend, who I had the pleasure of knowing since the third grade. He always had a way of bringing energy into the room. Ben was intelligent, funny, charismatic, loyal, and an amazing friend. I will forever cherish the memories we made together from high school track meets to traveling across Charlotte and experiencing new places. God bless Ben and the rest of the McMillan family. Love always

Romona Matthews

February 27, 2024

Lisa & Ben, I am soo soo sorry for your loss. Ben is an incredible young man who's full intelligence, respect, charm, brilliance, and the Spirit of God. He will be greatly missed. Peace and Blessings,
Romona

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Shemiyah McKnight

February 26, 2024

Ben was a good friend of mine in middle school. I always admired his intelligence and just how strong his character was. I can´t help but smile when I think of the times we had. I remember us judging who had better waves in class lol.

Prayers for the McMillan family!

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Scott DiStefano

February 24, 2024

Chrissy and I send our deepest sympathies and condolences. Ben and his close friends at the Naval Academy graced our lives through the academy´s family sponsor program. We´ll forever cherish the many hours we spent talking, cooking, eating, and hanging out together. Likewise, we´ll always remember his kind spirit and warm smile. Ben and his friends would regularly join us in the kitchen and help in any way possible. In remembrance, I´m sharing a fond memory of Ben cooking pancakes for breakfast on one of our many weekends together. Ben and Lisa - Ben will always have a special place in our hearts. Please know that he was loved while at the academy.

Cassandra Black

February 24, 2024

My deepest condolences. Cassandra Black

Rachel White

February 24, 2024

Victor Johnson

February 24, 2024

Mr. and Mrs. Ben McMillan. I am so sorry and shocked to hear the news of your son's passing. What a terrible thing. On behalf of the Johnson Family, you have our deepest condolences. My prayers are with you and i pray for comfort and strength for you and your family.

Charles James

February 23, 2024

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your son, my heart goes out to you and your family. My God comfort you, and guide you through this unbearable time. I am hear if you need anything. Deepest condolences
Charles and Nadine James

Robin Fraley

February 23, 2024

Ben I´m so so sorry to hear of your passing!! You will be missed terribly!!
Thoughts and prayers to your family & friends and my heart felt Deepest condolences .

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Teresa Fuller

February 23, 2024

Ben and Lisa,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of your son BJ. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May your memories help comfort you in the days ahead.

God Bless you and your family.
Jimmy and Teresa Fuller

Jon Lawrence

February 23, 2024

McMillan Family,

I am so sorry to hear the news about Ben. I didn't know Ben very long, but I was fortunate enough to have had several heart felt conversations with him during the time that he worked with us. What I remember most about those conversations was his commitment to Christ, his love for his family, and his gentle spirit. My prayer is that God be with you all and comfort you during season.

Sincerely,
Jon Lawrence

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Toni Webb

February 23, 2024

Ben & Lisa,

I pray you find comfort in the Great Comforter Jesus Christ. So sorry for your loss. My husband and I will keep you all in our prayers.
Toni M. Webb

Ed Deans

February 23, 2024

My condolences to Ben and family. I pray you find strength and internal peace with the memories of time shared in life with BJ.

John E. King

February 23, 2024

Ben and Lisa,
I know and understand your great loss personally. I am truly sorry that you all have to bear this as well. Your whole family will be in our thoughts and prayers as you continue your life's journey together. Always you will be in my prayers.

Warren Hicks

February 23, 2024

Ben and Lisa,

We are so sorry to receive this news. We are so sorry for the loss of Benjamin. As parents we know this is devastating for you and your family. May God bless you and help you through this difficult time.

With love and sympathy,
Warren and Janet Hicks

Crystal Daniels Davis

February 23, 2024

Ben & Lisa:

Please accept mine & Adrian's deepest condolences on the passing of your son. We are truly saddened to hear about the loss you and your family are dealing with.

Sending caring thoughts and prayers your way.
Crystal Daniels Davis (Corning)

A. Works

February 23, 2024

Sorry For Your Loss Ben.

Antwan

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Donna Thompson

February 22, 2024

Peace and ALL that "The Comforter" can provide to the entire McMillan Family. I am so very sorry for your loss. May you feel God's presence surrounding you through many blessed BJ memories.

David Ledbetter

February 21, 2024

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Jerry Graves

February 21, 2024

My deepest condolence to the family. My first memory of Ben was when he was an 8th grader running the 100m hurdles at Wake Forest University. The reason the event was so memorable because he won that race by 20 meters and my son Elliott was in that event and said he would never run the hurdles again. Fortunately, that was not the case and he Ben became good friends and great competitors. Ben will be truly missed.

Maria Ross

February 21, 2024

The love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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Stewart and Terri Bumgarner

February 21, 2024

Dear
Lisa ,Ben , and Kids

Words can´t express Terri and I sadness over the loss of your precious son BJ I remember when at dog training on the field our children and your guys playing together while we did dog training..
And seeing them run and play together...

I can say THAT GOD IS NEVER CLOSER THAN HE IS AT THIS TIME IN YOUR LIVES ...
AND THIS IS A GIFT AS CHRISTIANS WE ALL SHARE TOGETHER..

PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ALL ARE IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS AT THIS TIME...
AND
THAT GOD WILL GET YOU THROUGH THIS TOGETHER AS A FAMILY ALONG WITH FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES.

In the BIBLE THE PEOPLE ASKED KING DAVID WHY HAVE YOU STOPPED GRIEVING FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR SON..??

TO WHICH DAVID REPLIED I WILL GO TO MY SON IN HEAVEN WHEN MY TIME COMES AND HE WILL WELCOME ME INTO HIS LOVING ARMS...

MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND HOLD YOU CLOSE...

Stewart and Terri Bumgarner

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Alisa Atkinson McDonald

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Marcia Law

February 20, 2024

Lisa, Benjamin and siblings, I send you my deeply sympathy. I know you will miss Ben's earthly presences, but hold on to his smile, his laughter and his talents...they will keep you warm. Ben will ALWAYS be with you in Spirit. He will remain in your mind and heart !!!
Lisa, my Sister, please know you all are in my PRAYERS. I LOVE YOU!!!

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