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November 16, 2009
School will never be the same without seeing you walking with your football in hand and a big smile on your face. Rest In Peace Bernie, you will be forever missed.
November 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
November 14, 2009
For the short time that I knew Bernie on the football team, he always had a smile on his face. He was the most optimistic, outgoing, and caring person I had ever met. Rest in peace Bernie, I love you man.
November 13, 2009
Miss you Bernie! everyone does! Rest In peace buddy..we will reunite one day
Donna Mitchel
November 13, 2009
My thoughts go out to this man's family. I have 3 children and I cannot imagine the pain that must be felt.
November 13, 2009
Rest in Peace Bernd, It has been an inspiration to know you.
Cindy Ransom
November 13, 2009
I am very sorry this young man's family.It is sad when someone so young has so much of life to live but is taken away so soon.R I P young man.
Renee' Farmer
November 12, 2009
"Ben" was our student for a year, in Heavener, OK, U.S. 2007.He was a mature and respectful young man, and he captured all of our hearts. Yes, he was a football player, but he was also a seriously ambitious person who wanted to live life to the fullest. It is devastating to have lost him, and we are grieving because he was here by chance, and we had the lucky opportunity to claim him as ours for a moment in time. He will be missed across the miles-from border to border, it's a universal mourning. Our hearts are hurting in Heavener...
L. Dell
November 12, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Bernd's family, friends, coaches and teammates. As a mom of two University football players, this touches all of us deeply especially in the football community.
W Rollins
November 12, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Susan
November 12, 2009
For some reason this story really touched my heart. He sounds like a remarkable young man with so much promise. My prayer of healing goes out to his parents and friends.
Joe
November 12, 2009
As the dad of a son that age, this is heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are with Bernd's family back in Austria.
Sally Davis
November 12, 2009
My prayers go out to Bernd's family and teammates. As a parent of a junior football player it hits hard to see one of our own fall. May his legacy with the team never be forgotten.
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