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Bernhard Preiss Obituary
Bernhard's personality allowed him to make lasting friendships and deeply impact those around him. He is remembered as someone who truly enjoyed life and worked diligently to support and uplift others.
At this time, there are no services planned. A virtual space here has been established for sharing thoughts, prayers, and stories to celebrate Bernhard's life and legacy. His family appreciates the sharing of memories and support during this time.
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Heidi Urlaub, sister
May 8, 2025
RR
May 7, 2025
My thoughts and prayers go out to family and friends. Bernhard was a tremendous friend. We shared many a great time sippin on Cappuccino venti wets at Starbucks discussing our passions for great cars, music and lots more. I am so grateful for having his friendship.
Thank you Bernhard, you have been a tremendous inspiration.
Cheers,
Rob
Bernard
April 17, 2025
First, I am just hearing of Bernhard's passing. My condolences to his family and loved ones. He was a great man. We joked we were twins because my name is Bernard. And how people across the globe butchered our names. The earth lost an angel. I will miss you namesake twin...
Heidi Urlaub
February 18, 2025
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Heidi Urlaub
February 18, 2025
Heidi Urlaub
February 18, 2025
Dear friends and collegues of Bernhard,
now we have taken the last journey with Bernhard and said goodby on a mild and sunny day at the end of January.
Please find a few pics, perhaps one of them will make you smile in your memory of him.
Thank you again for your deep appreciation and friendship you showed Bernhard throughout his life.
Heidi and family
Winter Manuela
February 15, 2025
Wir waren zusammen in der Schule in Nürnberg
Shane Yarbrough
October 6, 2024
A man of many talents, he was. Bernhard was SME is multiple technical areas. As soon as I met him, I knew I was dealing with a man who pressed himself to greatness, to achieve even when it became difficult. I'll never forgot our chat over lunch in Seattle years ago; how he managed backup for a data center and the things he had to do overnight to get the system backed up and online before the workforce came in for the day. He had a number of narrow escapes! Oh, the humor of it all! Yesterday was the launch of Microsoft Windows 11, an OS that Bernhard had a HUGE hand in bringing up for the world. Tomorrow would have been Bernhard's 59th birthday. I'll lean on those two events to remember Bernhard; my annual calendar reminder will see to it. One more thing; I’m happy to lose the “h”, my friend :-)
Boon Ken Loon
August 13, 2024
Saddened to hear of such news on the passing of a great colleague and friend.
Deepest condolences to the family.
Claudia Disney
August 13, 2024
Bernhard and I met working at Dell. I was lucky enough to hang out with him in OKC and RR having lunches and dinners on work trips. He was an amazing man, smart, and very funny. He will be very missed by many both personally and professionally.
Miguel Flores
August 13, 2024
Bernhard was such a pleasure to work with. He was always so friendly and had a great laugh! He will be greatly missed.
Colin Sainsbury
August 13, 2024
A brilliant mind, a generous spirit and always willing to help with the challenge. I shall miss our weekly calls. Too soon my friend, too soon.
Rezwanul Kabir
August 12, 2024
The last time I talked with Bernhard was just before I went on a vacation last month. Little did I know that that would be our last conversation! Bernhard and I spent most of our careers in almost mutually exclusive technology area, he in Windows land and I in Linux land. So, I got to meet him for the very first time when I moved to the Services Organization and landed on the same team. I knew him for the last 3-4 years as a colleague. I was impressed with his strong work ethics and vast interest in anything related to technology. I'll never forget his very unique style of talking and witty remarks. Rest in peace, my friend.
Tyler Zreet
August 12, 2024
Bernhard was a beloved co-worker, mentor, and friend. Though I never had the chance to meet him in person, our regular conversations over the past few months left an enduring mark on me.
During our calls, which would often last for hours, Bernhard shared his vast well of knowledge on topics ranging from the latest technology trends to the rich culture and history of Europe. But beyond his intellectual gifts, it was Bernhard's warm personality, keen sense of humor, and thoughtful perspective that truly resonated with me.
In a world of remote work that can sometimes feel isolating, Bernhard was a beacon of light - his voice of reason, wisdom, and occasional well-placed cynicism became a cherished touchstone that I will carry with me for a long time. The lessons I learned from him, both practical and philosophical, have permanently shaped my character and outlook on life.
To Bernhard's family, please know that even though I never had the privilege of meeting him face-to-face, he made a profound impact on me. His memory will live on through the lives he touched, mine included. My deepest condolences to you all.
Teresa Preiss
August 10, 2024
I was so deeply saddened to learn of Bernhard’s passing. He was my husband for 12 years and my friend for many years before and after we separated. He was vibrant and funny and intelligent and loved by many. Thank you all for sharing your thoughts. Sending so much love to Heidi and the family in Germany.
Kristi McNaughton
August 10, 2024
He was my father in law and I adored him. I'm sad to hear he has passed away and he will be greatly missed. He was a wonderful and caring person.
Heidi Urlaub
August 10, 2024
It is touching and very comforting to hear how respectfully, appreciatively and lovingly you all, colleagues and friends, speak about my brother Bernhard. I would like to thank you very much for that, also on behalf of our family. In many conversations he told me how connected he felt to the 'DELL family' over the many years. He was passionate about his work, always looking to learn new things. Bernhard loved life in the USA, the country of his dreams. He thought and acted generously and passionately. His lovable, cheerful nature and quirky humor, his upright character, his sense of beauty and aesthetics and, last but not least, his attitude towards his handicap were impressive. Although he was my 'little brother', I was able to learn so much from him. It was unimaginable to be without him.
Jerry Chang
August 10, 2024
Bernhard was one of the best colleagues I worked with throughout the years. He always showed passion and professionalism to help on the tasks. It has been my honor to know and work with Bernhard. My sincerely condolences to all friends and family.
Vincent Nicotra
August 9, 2024
Bernhard was one of many friends I made over the years at Dell whom I cherish and honor. He was a great colleague and co-worker. I really wish we could have shared another lunch hour together. Cheers Bernhard! Godspeed, my friend.
Gary Stewart
August 9, 2024
Shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Bernhard, we worked together for many years or better put, I pestered him for many years due to his wealth of knowledge and patience. An incredible mentor and humble human being. Rest in Peace Bernhard. Sincerest condolences to his friends and family.
Roxanne Beaver
August 8, 2024
I worked with Bernhard (Dell) while I was a OSEP PM (Microsoft) for ~3 years from 2020-2022. He was a strong advocate for building great Dell devices. He was always thoughtful and gave kudos to those who did great work. To his family and close friends, please note that Bernhard was an inspiration. He made a difference in so many lives and will be missed. Sending my deepest condolences.
Greg Havenga
August 8, 2024
Truly saddened to hear of Bernhard's passing. While we worked in different areas, I was often in meetings with him and we could always depend on his wisdom and humor to make the meetings productive and fun. The world and Dell just won't be the same without him. Condolences to the family as well.
Barbara Moore
August 8, 2024
Absolutely gutted by the loss of this dear colleague and friend. Bernhard was a delight to work alongside and, pre-Covid, to travel with. He was always ready to share a laugh, pitch in to help, and share his insights. It sounds silly, I know, but I keep thinking about how he pronounced my name--low, gravelly, a little drawn out, and with that beautiful German accent. I already miss him so much. Rest in peace.
Paul Childress
August 8, 2024
I knew Bernhard through our working relationship but he was an amazing person. He was always so vibrant and fun. Always looking to do the right thing. I miss him dearly and send my deepest condolences to his family and loved ones. Rest in peace Bernhard.
Denise Kirkham
August 8, 2024
I had the pleasure of working with Bernhard for many, many years. Not only was he extremely knowledgeable, he was always able to make others feel comfortable and be part of the conversations and solutions. I will miss the friendship that endured. Bernhard has touched many lives in an outstanding way and he will truly be missed by all. May the memories never be forgotten. God Bless.
Kearson McNulty
August 8, 2024
Bernhard and I traveled for business up to the Microsoft campus often prior to Covid from 2016-2019, we had lots of great conversations over a beer when not talking about work subjects. He was always available to chat on either work or really any subject, he would always talk passionately about German car engineering, once you got him spun up on the subject he would go on for hours.
A place that will always remind me of him is an outdoor seating area at an Italian restaurant in Bellevue WA that he would text me to meet at before our night meetings would start.
I will miss you and think of you often Bernhard.
Ludovic Paumier
August 8, 2024
It has not only been a constant pleasure but a privilege working with Bernhard
His competence and vast knowledge were unparalleled, and he had a unique gift for sharing these
His dedication to helping solving issues, improve your leaning while doing so was appreciated in every interaction, and his absence leaves a void that will be deeply felt.
My heartfelt condolences to his family
Abbey Barretto
August 7, 2024
My memories of Bernhard, he could always break up the tension on calls and make everyone laugh, his extensive knowledge of everything Microsoft, learning about new technology and how he would explain it with a bit of wit was amazing, in the short time that I have known you, I am sorry to see you go so soon, My heartfelt condolences to his family
Deanna Lim
August 7, 2024
Bernhard was not just a colleague but a friend through the ups and downs in the past few years. His sense of humor, dry wit and insight made me laugh on my toughest days. He will be missed!
Jeremy ZIegler
August 7, 2024
I have had the pleasure of working with Bernhard more closely over the past few years. While I worked with him in my previous role, when I opted to move to his team he was super excited and welcoming to me. We have had countless conversations around our Windows and Office "war stories." Our 1x1s would go well past the expected time talking about them as well as other mutual interests. It was always good times to get on a call with Bernhard and simply talk. You will be missed, my friend!
Ayub Shafi
August 7, 2024
Bernhard was a co-worker. Once of the easiest people to work with. We had many many sessions just talking about tech. I am going to miss his insight and dry wit. My deepest condolences to his family.
Jeremy Ziegler
August 7, 2024
It was an absolute pleasure working more closely with Bernhard over these last few years. While we worked together in my previous role, he was super excited and very welcoming when I moved to his group. We had so many "war stories" around Windows and Office over the years, our 1x1s would always extend way over the expected time. We would venture into hobbies and mutual interests as well, but I think the laughing over our "war stories" always kept us going!
You will be missed, my friend!
Sabrina Sellers
August 7, 2024
Bernhard was a co-worker and a friend. I first met him when he came on board within our Services Organization to support one of our largest and most challenging vendors. He not only will be missed from his hard work and dedication, but also his friendship, sharing of his travel and experiences. It was a pleasure to know him and get the opportunity to work with him. My heart goes out to his family during this difficult time. Until we meet again. :(
TC Lim
August 7, 2024
Bernhard was a co-worker and a friend. Even though we never met in person, I knew he was a good person. He was kind, always ready to help and a great team player, someone who you can count on. I will miss the late-night con calls and engaging conversations we had. My heartfelt condolences to his family
Brett Roby
August 7, 2024
I will miss my friend. We talked a lot about work, but he would also share stories about his family who he loved and admired a great deal. His love for his family, his friends, and the passion to see others do well, will always stay with me.
Allan Davis
August 7, 2024
I will miss him. He always had a dry or sarcastic thing to say to break tension and make you laugh in situations where it was getting too serious. He was one of the smartest people I had the pleasure of working with.
Eric Brugnone
August 7, 2024
I remember him as a manager a manager first, and a friend after. When he was my manager, he always had my back and fought for me. I remember him playing disc golf with us on the weekends. Despite his handicap, he always seemed to enjoy just being with people and hanging out. He always enjoyed life. I will always remember him and hold him in my heart.
Rickey Hagan
August 7, 2024
Bernhard was a friend and mentor to me. I remember many a conversation in the Nashville office when I started at Dell. He was always teaching myself and others. Always excited to share the latest on Windows or any technology he had run across something on. He loved his work and loved to learn. We had tons of conversations with us talking tech, making jokes and just having fun sharing what was going on in our lives. Clearly he knew way more than I would ever know about Windows, but he never made you feel like you didn't have enough knowledge for the conversation. He always included everyone and valued everyone's opinions. I will miss him greatly.
Mark Lavender
August 7, 2024
I found in Bernhard a uniquely intelligent and personable colleague. I am truly honored to have counted him as a friend.
I will sorely miss our conversations.
Nick Mize
August 6, 2024
Bernhard was a brilliant guy. Always helpful, friendly, and happy to provide a witty remark to bring levity to a stressful situation. You're missed already.
Wendy
August 6, 2024
I knew Bernhard for a decade at Dell. He is dealing with the toughest partner with his intelligence and solid knowledge. Bernhard was a very kind man and was respected and appreciated by all that worked with him. I am shocked to hear this news. You will be missed!!!
Bruce Murphy
August 6, 2024
I am deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Bernhard. Over the past two years, I had the pleasure of working with Bernhard, and I can truly say he was an exceptional colleague.
Bernhard was always a team player, consistently considering everyone around him. His great sense of humor and ability to make any situation easier to deal with were qualities that made him stand out. He brought joy and positivity to our engagements and discussions, and his presence will be greatly missed.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. My thoughts are with the family and everyone who had the privilege of knowing Bernhard.
Vivien Wu
August 6, 2024
For over 15 years, I had the privilege of working with him and witnessing firsthand his exceptional dedication and professionalism. His expertise and genuine willingness to help others left a profound impact on everyone who had the pleasure of working with him. Bernhard´s remarkable work ethic and caring nature were truly inspiring.
His contributions extended beyond his professional role, and his presence will be greatly missed. My thoughts and heartfelt condolences go out to his family during this difficult time. Please know that Bernhard's legacy of kindness and support will be remembered with great admiration and respect.
Ryan Williamson
August 6, 2024
The world lost an incredibly bright mind and soul this month. I will miss our funny DM's and sarcastic banter, my friend. I am so grateful for you continually advocating for me and constantly being my #1 most trusted resource in this space. You will absolutely be missed
Ryan Williamson
August 6, 2024
The world lost an incredibly bright mind and soul this month. I'll miss our funny DM's and sarcastic banter, my friend. Thank you for always advocating for me and being my #1 trusted resource in this space. You will absolutely be missed <3
Debbie VanSickle
August 6, 2024
I worked with Bernhard for many years, and we were friends as well as coworkers! My memory of Bernhard will always be a happy memory. He leaves an amazing afterglow of smiles and is even now whispering softly down his ways of happy laughing times as bright as a sunny day. My tears will dry long before the happy memories ever will. I'll miss you Bernhard!
DAVE GLICKMAN
August 6, 2024
Bernhard was one of a kind. Over the years we became very good friends, and he was a mentor to me regarding Microsoft. Now whenever I am dealing with MS stuff I will hear his voice say "Glick" its MS that's the way of doing it :)
You will be missed both on the friendship and co worker
Randi Smith
August 6, 2024
I have worked with Bernhard for more than a couple decades at Dell. He was a very kind man, with a great sense of humor. His work ethic was solid like a hero. He was intelligent, knew his stuff, and was respected and appreciated by all that worked with him. I am so sad to hear this news, and I will miss him very much! Randi Smith
Jason Zardiackas
August 6, 2024
Bernhard was truly an exceptional person. He was always willing to help and step up and was often one of the first people I thought of when I needed assistance. He will be truly missed.
Donald Kempf
August 6, 2024
Bernhard was a trusted coworker and friend for the past twenty years. His mentorship helped me to become the technical expert I am today. Bernhard had a zest for life few people attain and his dedication to his work was unmatched.
Bernhard had likely forgotten more about Windows than most people ever learn in their lifetime. He was a true expert in his trade and a dedicated Dell employee. I miss his honest and forthright opinions on issues and his direct manner in addressing problems.
Cheers my friend, you will be missed.
Todd Thompson
August 6, 2024
What a great guy. I will miss him. He had to have been one of the hardest working individuals I know. Nothing stopped him. He knew data, and he knew people which made him an excellent person to work with and learn from. You will be missed sir !!!!
Kerry Loader
August 6, 2024
Bernhard was one of a kind! I had the pleasure of working with Bernhard, but the stories and experiences we shared were incredible. I will miss him! Please share your stories.
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