Betty Jo CUNNINGHAM

1926 - 2017

Betty Jo CUNNINGHAM obituary, 1926-2017, Paso Robles, CA

Betty Jo CUNNINGHAM

1926 - 2017

BORN

1926

DIED

2017

Betty CUNNINGHAM Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 18, 2017.

Betty Jo Patterson Cunningham came into this world on the eve of Christmas in 1926 in Santa Rita, New Mexico and entered her eternal rest at Paradise Valley Care in Atascadero, CA on October 16, 2017.



Betty was the fourth of eight daughters born to Blanche and James Patterson. She, along with her sisters, emerged from their humble depression-era childhoods to become effective women in their homes, workplaces, and communities. Betty spent the majority of her youth in in Yuma, AZ and graduated from Yuma Union High School in 1944, where she sang in the school’s choir and played on the tennis team. While in high school she worked at the Yuma Pharmacy as a “Soda Jerk”.



After High school Betty worked at the Army Air Corp Base in Yuma and at the local newspaper, the Yuma Daily Sun. she was also an avid softball player and played shortstop for the Cactus Club Cuties. During those war years, she and her sisters enjoyed going to dances at the army base.



In 1946, she met the love of her life, Curt Cunningham. She was smitten right away and declared to her sisters that, “He is better looking than William Holden.” After a short courtship, they married on February 8, 1947. The marriage continued for 64 years until Curt passed away in September of 2011. They settled in San Luis Obispo in 1957 where they raised their three children and resided until their passings.



Besides her chosen career as a homemaker, betty was an active member of Grace Church, wehre she taught Sunday School, participated in the women’s group, the Mary Marthas, and in the development of the church’s conference grounds at Lopez Lake. She tutored children when Grace Church hosted the homeless shelter. She also held Good News Club Bible time in her home, and was a Cub Scout Den Mother. Betty was a voracious reader of sports news and like her father, was a lifelong baseball fan.



Betty’s life was a reflection of her walk with God and she will be lovingly remembered for her love and devotion to her faith and her family, her compassion for the vulnerable, and her loyalty to friends.



Betty is survived by her children, Jim Cunningham (Marty), Christine Cunningham Triggs (Marshall); grandchildren Greg, Lyndsey, Carson, Casey, Katie Jo, and Cole; great-grandchildren Gavin, Jordan, Michael, Charley, and Jace; sisters Doris McColgan and Bobbye Trotter; sister-in-law Rebecca Terry, and numerous nieces and nephews.



She was preceded in death by her husband Curt; son Bobby; and sisters Helen, LaVerne, Virginia, Nancy, and June.



Services will be held at Los Osos Valley Mortuary at 11AM on October 23, 2017.



In lieu of flowers, please make donations to Child Evangelism, Box 1784, Atascadero, CA 93422, or Central Coast Hospice, 253 Granada Ave., Ste. D, San Luis Obispo, CA 93401.

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October 28, 2017

i knew Betty for years during the years that I attreded Grace Church, Chris, you were a friend to my niece, Pamela . So sorry to hear about your mom's passing. You have my condolence. God Bless all of you. God Bless you all. Mary Dorrough

Mike Terry

October 22, 2017

Uncle Curt and Aunt Betty were role models as parents and grandparents. They have touched so many in our families. Hugs to all my cousins.

My favorite picture of Betty and Carson.

Heidi Clausen

October 22, 2017

Your Montana family sends love, prayers, and condolences for all of you mourning the loss of Betty Jo. I only met her a few times, but remember her as sweet and soft spoken. Her life obviously touched so many people and she will surely be missed. May you find solace in your memories during this difficult time.

Cathi Graves Powers

October 21, 2017

Sorry for your loss, Jim.

Bill and Debbie Johnson

October 21, 2017

Bill and I send you our thoughts and support during this difficult time

Cindy Towle

October 21, 2017

Betty lived a great life during such memorable times. She was always so welcoming and chatty whenever I entered her home. The stories of her growing up with 7 sisters will always be a memory I will keep forever. Betty certainly touched many people throughout her life. May she rest in peace.

Judy McPhail

October 21, 2017

To Chris and Jimmy and your families - I am so very sorry for your loss. No matter the age, losing your mom or grandma is one of the hardest things in this life. I'll always remember Betty as a sweet, soft-spoken, loving mother and grandma. And Chris, even these last few years, when I would go with you to see your mom, the way her face lit up with happiness, and the sparkle came to her eyes when she saw you, spoke volumes. Family came first with her - she was a very special lady and my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult, sad time.

October 21, 2017

Betty's life is an inspiration to all.

Dr. Corey Melia

October 19, 2017

Curt and Betty directed the Junior Age (4th-6th grade) Sunday School class at Grace Church in the 1960's. They tutored me as a 16 yr. old to teach the 4th grade boys class. Forever grateful for their example of faith, hope and love. They continued to encourage and counsel me when I became a pastor. Love the Cunnigham family, thank you Betty for a life well lived for the Gospel of Christ.

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