Betty Kupczak

Betty Kupczak

Betty Kupczak Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 27 to Aug. 28, 2008.
KUPCZAK _ Betty Lou It is with deep sorrow that we announce the sudden passing of our Mother, Betty Lou Kupczak. Mom provided warmth, guidance, and was always willing to listen to us throughout her life. Mom's six grandchildren were the love of her life. She was well known for her continual picture taking. The walls of her home were covered with pictures surpassing those of a small library. Mom said goodbye to life on the morning of August 24, 2008 with her family at her side. Mom was a diabetic for nearly fifty years but it was complications arising from surgery that took her from us. Mom was predeceased by her parents, Bill and Helen Kabaroff; sisters Polly, Helen, Francis, Emma, and Mary; brothers Nick and Mike and her husband Joe. Her memory remains with her children, Jim, Michele, Samantha and Nathan (Edmonton), Debbie, Micheal and Steven (Calgary), Jan, Todd, Kristine and Victoria (Cochrane) and her sister Marge (Calgary). Our heartfelt thanks go out to Dr. Kieser, Dr. Ferland and Unit 94 Foothills Hospital. A special thank you to Steve and the crew who made Mom's last hours comfortable and peaceful. Celebration of Mom's life will be held in the Chapel of MOUNTAIN VIEW FUNERAL HOME on Saturday, August 30, 2008 at 2:00 p.m. Interment to follow. Mom's wishes were that in lieu of flowers, a donation may be made directly to the Canadian Diabetes Association (204, 2323 - 32 Avenue N.E., Calgary, AB, T2E 6Z3). Arrangements entrusted to MOUNTAIN VIEW FUNERAL HOME and CEMETERY, 1605 - 100 Street S.E. (17 Avenue S.E. and Garden Road), Calgary, AB. Telephone: 403-272-5555.

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September 5, 2010

To Dear Aunt Betty's Family: Years pass, but the kindness and the inner beauty of one human being still stands, continues to light the path with her loving kindness, her non-judgmental ways. To her family again my condolences on the loss of one of earth's finest treasures, God's gift, a wonderful mother, a very proud grandmother, a loyal and loving wife, a terrific aunt, and an inspiring friend to all friend and family. When you live a lot of years and look back there are few people who aspire to the inner beauty of Betty Kupczuk, she was just a natural, warm, kind, beautiful human being. Knowing Betty rests in peace, with a giggle and warm spot for all she meets; no greater lessons on earth could be taught by example but by this grand and beautiful woman. Aunt Betty, miss you always and forever.

Donna

Jackie Howard

September 4, 2010

Dear Betty, you are so still in my thoughts. Miss your wonderful personality. Till we meet again, may God watch over you.
Jackie Howard

March 3, 2010

Debbie Bloch

September 13, 2009

Mom: My mother, my friend, how I miss you. I feel so priviledge to be your daughter - all the things you taught not just by words but by your actions. It's hard to believe one year has passed when it still feels like yesterday. I still remember our last conversation "George Clooney" and your laughter as they wheeled you down the hall. Little did I know that would be our last chat. I'm so glad I got the chance to tell you "I love you". You always were involved in our lives and I still reach for the phone to call you. I know you are in a better place and you're keeping an eye on all of us. I love you.

Jan, Todd, Kristine and Victoria Thue

September 9, 2009

Mom: A year has passed, and still I find it hard to believe that your gone. You occupied such a large part of our daily lives, and your love and presence are missed so much. I wish we could have had more time together, but one day I know we will meet up again. I know you are watching over us, you are the perfect Guardian Angel. We love you and miss you.

Jim Kupczak

September 9, 2009

Mom; Michele, Sam, Nate and I were by the cemetery on August 21, just 3 days before your 1 year anniversary. It was a very sad moment. Your passing was so unexpected and we didn't get to say a proper goodbye. It was unfair. We miss you so much. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. Sammi made an attempt at making Pineapple Dream Bars, but they were not the same. There were so many things that I wished I had told you; things that I wished we had done. I love you; we love you so very much and will never stop remembering all of the good and not so good times that we spent together.

Jackie Howard

August 22, 2009

Dear Betty, nearly a year has gone by since you left us. We miss you as much as ever. You are in our thoughts when we gather for our Wed. morning coffee. God be with you.
Jackie & Tom

Donna Dewaard

August 22, 2009

Dear Family: It has been a year since mom is gone, and I am certain it has been a trying year, with much sorrow, loss and a great wonderment of why? May you know I keep your mom's picture near me, I miss her as well, as she was indeed one of the most precious people who walked this earth. May God be keep you all well, and may there be some comfort in knowing how loved your mother truly was, and is still so fondly remembered.

Clara Ross

August 29, 2008

We are very sorry to here of your Mom's sudden passing.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
God Bless
Clara & Charlie Ross

Donna, Bruce, Krystal & Trevor Dewaard - Chaytor

August 29, 2008

For Jim, Michelle, Samantha and Nathon, Debbie, Michael and Steven, Jan, Todd, Kristine and Victoria; may the memories, the teachings, the kindness, and the grace and true heart of your mother guide you through this sad loss. Her strength is within each and everyone of you, celebrate her life as she would do for everyone else, with the greatest love in the world.

Donna Dewaard

August 29, 2008

Dear Jim, Deb, Jan and entire family:

First of all Jan, I can not thank you enough for calling me and telling me of your mother.

Many years ago, when your mother was to marry Uncle Joe, was when my life began. I was able to come to Calgary and babysit Jimmy and Debbie, and albeit by the time the wedding was over; I believe Uncle John had introduced me to alchohol and Jimmy and Debbie looked after me that first night. I was from a small town, and your wonderful mother told me, don't worry Donna, you will always find the place when you are looking after the kids, because I tied a red sock on the clothesline. At that time, your mom was living in a large complex, very scary to a small town girl. Over the years, as I got to know your mother more and more, I realized how beautiful your mother was, how absolutely beautiful her heart was. Over the years, she gained the undeniable greatest of respect from Aunt Staffie, who was the guardian of Uncle Joe, your father Jan. Your beautiful mother's heart loved every person, and was always the one person who "actually knew what unconditional love was all about" before people started to talk about it.

I was your mother's niece, because she had married my Uncle Joe. However, over the years, as much as I adored my Uncle Joe, I truly grew to love your mother.

We shared many good times, we shared a lot of special thoughts, we shared many tears, and we shared many memories and the most wonderful aspect that shone above all things about your mother was:

When Debbie first had her boys, your mother their grandmother not only loved them but she cherished them, then Jimmy you had your children, and even tho; I met them only once, I always knew everything about them, and Jan, your life and your marriage and family, including "Shawdow" were always talked about. We did not have to meet with you, your beautiful mother told us always about her beautiful children and beautiful grandchildren, and all the good things that happened. When not such good things happened she worried, and she fretted, and she prayed, and finally things would work out.

In a nutshell, you three children had the most marvellous mother, any one could ever have.

Your mom, had such a perfect loving heart, she was always trying to make things right between people. A quest often impossible, with impossible people.

Suffering from diabetis as badly as she did, and worrying as much as she did, after Uncle passed away, I spent a lot of time with her; but eventually I moved away; but brought my precious partner to meet her. Of all the people I wanted him to meet, it was my "Auntie Betty"; simply because she had the most beautiful heart in the world.

I learned much from your mother, she had so much to give. She loved children, she loved people, and she loved peace. I am sad she is gone; however; I know that she is in peace for when God made Angels that were to walk on this earth, your mother was one of them. A special angel indeed.

Ray & Jolayne Vermette Vermette

August 28, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of your family at this sad time. Love Jolayne and Ray , Rod and Shane Vermette.May God bless and keep you all.

Ray & Jolayne Vermette

August 28, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of your family at this sad time. Love Jolayne and Ray , Rod and Shane Vermette.May God bless and keep you all.

Fred & Sylvia Roach

August 28, 2008

We were saddened to hear of Betty's passing and she will be missed by her family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this difficult time. God bless.

Chantelle Geres

August 28, 2008

I was so happy to be able to visit with Betty recently when mom was in the hospital. I was even lucky enough to sample some of her head cheese that day that she had made. It was delicious. There are so many memories that I have of Betty and those I will cherish forever. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Barb Breitenbucher

August 28, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of Betty's passing. We hope everyone in the family is doing well, and please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

Barb, Audrey and Helmut Breitenbucher

Dianne Molnar

August 27, 2008

I'll miss you dearly even though I have not seen you for a long time. You were definitely one of my favourite Aunties. I hope you fnd peace and your family as well. Love you.

Di

Marlene Steele

August 27, 2008

So sorry to hear of Betty's passing. Was a dear friend that I worked with at Kmart for twenty years.
Two years ago she had a gathering of Kmart people in for coffee for me when came to visit from Moose Jaw.
Thoughts are with you all.
She was a lovely person.

Audrey and Gerry Michayluk

August 27, 2008

We will miss Aunty Betty, she was a very special person in our lives. Russ immediately remembered her delicious lasagna and Angie remembered the time we went shopping and Aunty Betty worn her nylons clear through because we made so many miles that day. Gerry and I and the children spent a lot of time in Aunty Betty's house and it was second home to us many weekends.She has left us many wonderful memories and through her picture taking, she will never be forgotten in our minds and hearts.

Jackie Howard

August 27, 2008

Betty, you were so much a caring, considerate and lovable lady. So much laughter and so much fun to be around. We will miss you so much, especially at our Wed.morning coffee. To your family we offer our deepest condolences. P.S. Charlie will miss his Hallowe'en costume.
Tom & Jackie

A Bardai

August 27, 2008

We are very sorry for your loss and we pray that may God give you all strenght and courage through this difficult time. May God rest her soul in internal peace ameen

Joe & Gloria Griffin

August 27, 2008

We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Betty,she will be missed by anyone who knew her,always happy and laughing.Our deepest sympathy go out to all of Betty's family in this time of sorrow.

Terrie Luchka

August 27, 2008

We are very sorry to hear of the passing of a wonderful lady. Betty was the kindest person we could have known. She was alway's there for my Dad when times got tough. We will miss her very much, we are greatful we had her in our lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family during this hard time of sorrow.

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