Bill Berner

1926 - 2014

Bill Berner

1926 - 2014

Bill Berner Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 16 to Feb. 13, 2014.
Bill Berner, longtime history teacher, coach and tennis player, died on January 3, 2014, after a long illness. He passed away peacefully at Pomerado Hospital with loved ones by his side, including his wife Ellie and children Gary and Carolyn. He was 87. He was born May 26, 1926, in Brooklyn, New York, to Nathan and Pauline Berner.
Bill served in the U.S. Navy during World War II and graduated as a history major from the University of Virginia, where he was an all-star catcher for the baseball team. Bill earned his Master's degree in physical education from New York University and went on to pursue a career as a public school teacher and coach. He taught history and coached basketball for 35 years in the Lakeland School District in New York and coached tennis at Pace University in Pleasantville, New York. Bill and Ellie raised their family in Briarcliff Manor, NY, where they lived for 25 years before retiring to San Diego in 1983.
After moving west, Bill continued to pursue his love of tennis, playing senior matches at the Rancho Bernardo Swim and Tennis Club. He also coached women's basketball at Mesa College in San Diego. Throughout his long athletic and teaching career, Bill instilled in his family and students a love of sports and the subject of history and current events. His children were his favorite tennis partners. Bill won many doubles matches and tournaments with Ellie, Gary and Carolyn. He was regarded with great respect not only for his tennis prowess but also for his demeanor both on and off the court.
His survivors include his immediate family, wife, Ellie (whom he proposed to after the Brooklyn Dodgers won the World Series in 1955); his son, Gary and daughter-in-law, Anne, and their children, Claire and Jack; daughter, Carolyn Berner and son-in-law, Dan Tobin and their children, Julia and Nathan; his brother, Bob in Florida; and sister-in-law, Shirley Harrison and her children, Janice, Richard, Kenny and Dee, and their families. He will be missed by his family and friends and students who knew and learned from him.
A donation in Bill Berner's name may be made to the international medical humanitarian organization Doctors Without Borders, www.doctorswithoutborders.org, or call 888-392-0392.

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January 10, 2022

Joan Macholl posted to the memorial.

January 10, 2020

Joan and John Macholl posted to the memorial.

September 2, 2015

Someone posted to the memorial.

Joan Macholl

January 10, 2022

Now that John has joined you you could teach him basketball. You were a wonderful colleague.

Joan and John Macholl

January 10, 2020

Loved coaching basketball and had winning teams,

September 2, 2015

Am just finding this record regarding Mr Berner's passing. To the family I am so sorry for your loss. My father's sister was employed by the Nathan Berner family as a housekeeper and child care provider. Her name was Alberta Gordon from Spotsylvania, Virginia. You have my prayers. Barbara Gordon Barbour

Lorna Glassman

February 20, 2014

Ellie, Carolyn and Gary-
Please accept my condolences! Such a wonderful husband and father and such a beautiful legacy of touching and enhancing the lives of all those around him! I hope that you find comfort in the love and prayers of friends and family. I am thinking of all of you in your sorry. Much love always-

February 18, 2014

My heart goes out to you for the deep loss you must be feeling for your beloved Bill. How sad to lose someone so loved and so needed. May you find comfort in prayer and in one another. (Jeremiah 29:12,13)

annie horne

February 17, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Phil

February 15, 2014

Please except my condolences. I am very sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort be with you during this difficult time. Lean on Him for support through prayer and reading his word the Bible daily.

February 9, 2014

Ellie, so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband, Bill. I was on Coach Berner's basketball team at LHS when he first starting coaching there in 1956. He was a wonderful person and I still often think of him, even after all these years. I remember receiving the "Con Edison Athlete of the Week" award while on his team. He and I use to shoot around during practice seeing who could outdo the other. This was 58 yrs ago and I still remember the comradeship we had with each other. I remember first meeting you at his home in Lake Peekskill. He was so proud of you. Coach Berner remembered me around 1990 when he retired, as I read a newspaper article about his retirement and he mentioned me (Bob Jewell '56) as one of his all-time best. May he rest in peace. Bob Email at: [email protected]

Joan and John Macholl

February 9, 2014

We worked with Bill at Lakeland, Joan from 65 and John from 69. John was Prinicpal at Panas at the time of Bill's retirement. He was a magnificent Basketball coach. We were honored to have worked with him. Our sympathies to all the family members.

January 31, 2014

My condolences to the family during this sad time. (Psalm 18:2) ~ Nicky

Carol Deering

January 23, 2014

My Dearest Elliebean, I am so sorry that you had to say goodbye to your best friend and life partner. It hurts my heart, I wish I could be there to hug you...let you cry on my shoulder. I love you both with all my heart, your friend forever,
Carol

January 21, 2014

My heart goes out to you for the deep loss you must be feeling for your beloved Bill. How sad to lose someone so loved and so needed. May you find comfort in prayer and in one another. (Jeremiah 29:12,13)

Jerry and Kae Pugh

January 18, 2014

Ellie,may God give you peace in this time of your sorrow. Bill was a true gentleman and will be missed by many.

Wayne Klusmeier

January 17, 2014

Dear Ellie, Everyone here at RB Swim & Tennis is sorry to hear of your loss. Bill is very fondly remember by many. We have posted a notice of his passing at the Tennis courts and made a contribution to Doctors without Borders in Bill's name. May God give you His great peace at this time.

January 17, 2014

Dear Ellie, we going to miss Bill ,great guy good tennis player Love Vita and Victor Sorrentino

Shirley & Norman Cooper

January 17, 2014

Dear Ellie, Our sincerest condolences on the passing of Bill.

Jack & Janet Fleming

January 16, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Bill was real inspiration to me in the gym.

January 16, 2014

With love and condolences to Ellie and the family. Chris and Michael Ward

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