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Birgit Frederica Lenderink

1961 - 2024

Birgit Frederica Lenderink

1961 - 2024

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BORN

1961

DIED

2024

Birgit Lenderink Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 30, 2025.

In the early morning hours of November 3, 2024, beloved sister and friend, Birgit Frederica Lenderink, died of a sudden and unexpected heart attack. She was 63 years old. Her loyal friend and roommate Cecilia Perez Guardado was by her side. Born on February 2nd, 1961, in Willemstad, Curacao, to Jan and Angela Lenderink, she is survived by her three sisters, Cherry Lenderink, Amanda Burnyeat, and Annabelle Lenderink, and nieces and nephews Kiki Ansingh, Ollie Ansingh, Alastair Moir, and Max Moir.

Birgit led an amazing life. Having studied at Tulane in New Orleans and Naropa Institute in Boulder, Colorado, she was a life-long learner and Buddhist practitioner. Birgit was also a skilled photographer, having apprenticed with Walter Chappel before studying Book Arts at Naropa. A meditation student of Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche of the Kagyu Lineage of Tibetan Buddhism, her creativity and inventiveness were ever-present. A truly genuine human being, Birgit always spoke her truth and followed any dream she felt worthwhile. She was unafraid. After her time in Boulder, Birgit spent time in Halifax, Nova Scotia, Barnet Vermont, and Seattle Washington where she pursued a career as a journeyman carpenter. In 2009, Birgit moved to San Jose, Costa Rica, to care for her ailing mother for the next thirteen years, where she spent the remainder of her life. During this time, Birgit started a women's co-op to manufacture a passive cooking device and perform educational outreach. Having contributed to her community, family, and friends in ways that are difficult to fully describe, Birgit's generosity was immeasurable. She was a true humanitarian.

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November 2, 2025

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August 22, 2025

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August 21, 2025

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Jena Kathleen Evans

November 2, 2025

I never met Birgit. I've never met anyone who knew her either. I have a respectful interest in reading the obituaries in the Sunday paper. People tell me it's weird but I find it very inspiring. Throughout my time of reading short snippets of the lives of people written by their closest loved ones, there have only been a handful of which I have come online to read more about. Out of those I have only left words for one other, and that was for a very different reason.

Reading about Birgit has come to move me in a way that not much seems to be able to these days. The mischievousness, compassion, the boldness, the sense of justice, all of those are things that I feel are very valuable, at least in the way that I measure value. Reading about her has reminded me of aspects of myself that have become buried. Sometimes we tell ourselves that when we get the strength we will start to dig out, but without those pieces it makes it even harder and eventually we can forget.

I hope this doesn't offend anybody. But I'm grateful to have known of her. Being reminded that those pieces are there makes me remember the smell of determination, the physical sensation of it. Today is my birthday. I feel that reading about her on this of all days has made a significant impact. I wish all of you incredible love. Thank you for loving her.

Brian Hertzog

August 22, 2025

Ho Rain Forest with Birgit in the 1990´s

Kathy Sutton Gritz

August 21, 2025

I now remember Birgit from Karme Choling but since that was over 40 years ago all that surfaces in my mind is her bravado, her intelligence & even her voice. Wish I'd known she was in Boulder so that we could reconnect. What a good life she led. I'm so glad that this legacy obit appeared so I could remember her. With love to her family & friends.

Cherry and Annabelle Lenderink

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annabelle lenderink

August 16, 2025

I am posting this for our sister Cherry:

Birgit was my youngest sister, and arrived in our family when I was 16 and studying in the UK. So I could, technically, have been her mother. To have been able to be Annabelle´s mother (just 18 months older than Birgit) as well would have meant having a baby at the age of 14! Not impossible ... there was almost a generation between the two sets of children in our family. So, my parents had two bonus children while the two oldest `weren´t looking´ (away at boarding school), which was quite shocking for my (Victorian) grandmother and aunt! "Close your eyes and think of England" was how they dealt with the rather distasteful reproduction process!

I was not at home when Birgit set foot on this earth, but I would gradually get to know her during my summer vacations. She was cheeky, a bit of a tomboy and more interested in tools than dolls. She was mischievous, but somehow always got away with it! As she got older, she showed herself to be a determined little soul, never prepared to take NO for an answer! Injustices had to be dealt with, one example being the shocking underpayment of the guard at her condo. She could be stubborn, for all the right reasons; and in the end won her battle against the condo who were demanding her fingerprint be taken on entering, thus setting a precedent. She was daring and brave, and had a good sense of humour; hearing her boisterous laugh at something I had just said was the greatest reward. Oh, how I hate having to use the past tense.

In our family, with sibling age differences and living on an island (Curaçao) while being educated in Europe, we four sisters never lived together for any length of time. Summer holidays were the time to catch up, until the two older sisters left school.Of the flour sisters, Birgit was the most spiritual; I think this came through our paternal grandmother who, born in Indonesia, was also a buddhist. She was wise, too, and often talked me through situations that needed to be solved, but first I wanted her take on them. I remember the day I told her my husband and I were getting divorced. She had been very fond of him, too. This was in 1979, when Birgit was in England and I was in the Netherlands. Without my knowing she immediately booked the ferry from Harwich, UK and arrived in Holland the next day. She had brought along some pot (I think that´s what it was). We puffed at it a bit. I had never been exposed to anything of that nature before, still being a beginner at smoking ordinary cigarettes without inhaling, but I remember we both fell asleep laughing and joking about my soon-to-be ex-husband.

Birgit looked after our mother brilliantly, and the last four years until she died at 102 can´t have been easy and will have taken its toll on her. We used to speak on skype every Sunday, and she was always the one to initiate the call. I´m more of a letter writer and often avoid phones when I can, but I came to love our catch-ups and discussions. Our last call was on a Saturday, which turned out to be only a few hours before she died. She never rang on a Saturday ... I pointed that out, but it was to tell me she had had a pain in her right shoulder and arm, had been seen by a paramedic and told it was muscular and not to worry. Had I known then what I later found out - that women experience heart attacks in a very different way from the way men do - I would have insisted she return to the hospital, which was close by the condo. If only ... I had ... known that.

Annabelle Lenderink

August 11, 2025

Birgit was really a lifelong learner as I found out when trying to sort through her papers a few months ago.
Not only did she complete an apprenticeship with Walter Chappell, the photographer, before her Book Arts degree from Naropa, she also did her apprenticeship as a carpenter and became a fully accredited union member working in that profession. She studied medieval carpentry on Vashon Island and then went on to get her surveying license.
She spent many years living in Buddhist communities in Vermont and Nova Scotia.
In 2009 she moved to San Jose, Costa Rica to take care of our mother who had had a cerebral accident, as it was termed, at age 89.
For the next 13 years Birgit looked after Angela.
The last 3 or 4 years were very hard indeed as Angela became a quadriplegic and had to have a feeding tube.
All the while, B was still studying, becoming interested in sustainable living and growing practices. She got a food safety certificate and started a women´s co-op to manufacture a passive cooking device as well as do educational outreach.
As well as doing a lot of work on the house in which she and Angela lived, putting in a fully accessible bathroom once Angela was no longer mobile.
She also replaced the ceilings which had termite damage and roof joists, redid the kitchen, put in an elevator and converted the upstairs master bedroom into a production kitchen with dumbwaiter. You cannot look anywhere in that house and not see B´s hand at work!
She was my closest sister, only a year and a half younger.
We saw the world differently for the most part but shared our early years in Curacao and boarding school in the Netherlands and were bonded for life.
No matter our differences.
I am forever grateful for the amazing care and dedication Birgit gave to our mother, giving up her life in Seattle to do so.
They had 13 great years together and Mummy´s life was so much the better for it.
Birgit knew how to improve her wellbeing, spirits, quality of life even at the end. When Mummy could hardly even utter a syllable they would sing together and there would be a smile on her face.
Birgit is terribly missed!

Brian Hertzog

July 30, 2025

With Birgit it always felt like anything was possible. Having met Brigit in the 1980s while she was taking book arts classes at Naropa Institute, she immediately believed in me as a person and an artist. Barely knowing me, she took it upon herself to sign me up for one of her bookmaking classes, and it truly changed my life. In fact, Birgit was life-changing in so many ways. Having studied photography with Walter Chappelle before I met her, she taught me everything she knew about the art form and even years later when I moved to San Francisco, visited me and set up an entire dark room for me in my walk-in closet. Birgit introduced me to Buddhism while we were in Boulder and that too was life-changing. Her generosity was far reaching...in more ways than I can count. Birgit knew how to laugh and I will carry that sound with me always.