Blaine Letham Obituary

Happy Birthday my son!
Enjoy your day with all your family and pets.
As we will all be thinking of you and sending
Happy wishes from here. Love and miss you
every day.
Hugs & kisses
Love always Mom

Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year Blaine,

Another holiday that you spend watching over us,
And all of us remembering you in our own special way.
I know you can here our prayers, when we ask you to
Give Uncle Tony a helping hand up there, it's all new to him.
Show him how to keep everyone safe and ease the pain until we are with you again!
Kisses and squeezes to our Baby Burke.
Thanks for always being in our hearts.
Love you and forever in my heart,
Auntie Cindy

Merry Christmas Blaine
As I sit here missing your smile, your voice,
Your sense of humour, your charm, your wit,
Your way of making everything better. I realize
You are still here with me making me better.
Lots of hugs & kisses
Love always Mom

Blaine my son it is hard to believe that 5 long years have come and gone since I have spoken to you. I miss you more than ever. I finally took your boat out fishing with Lola, she loved it.

My heart has a hole that will never heal in it

Love you Buddy
Dad

Blaine thinking of you today as I do everyday. You are always in my thoughts and heart.
Love & miss you Nana

Well today it is 5 years since I lost my little brother. People say time flies, but it's been the longest 5 years of my life. Not a day, morning or evening goes by that I don't have a thought or memory about you buddy. They say time heals all wounds, well the piece of my heart that broke on. September 22 2012 will never heal.
Love you Blaine and miss you Cory

Gone is the face we loved so dear,
Silent is the voice we loved to hear,
Too far away for sight or speech,
But not too far for thought to reach,
We remember Blaine who once was here,
And who, though absent, is just as dear.

Always in our hearts,
Auntie Janice & Uncle Art

You've been gone for five years now
Sometimes it feels like yesterday
Those days are hard when your memory
Cause tears to well behind my eyes
I remember all we shared together
As they fall silently down my cheek

I've always heard time is supposed to heal
Make the pain a little easier to bare
I don't see how that will ever be the case
How missing you hurt any less
Especially when recently quite often
I find the rough days are more frequent

You being gone is overwhelming me
Sadness tends to surround my heart
So many moments I wish you were here
Spending time with loved ones left behind
All I hope is one day there will be a time
The hard days will come farther apart

Miss you everyday
Wish you were here
Love Amy

My heart is full of memories,
With pride I speak your name,
Though life goes on without you,
It will never be the same.
Love and miss you Mom

Blaine,
It's been 5 long years,
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God knows why.
Gone is the face we love so dear,
Silent is the voice we love to hear,
Too far away for sight or speech,
But not too far for my thoughts to reach,
Forever in my heart,
Love Auntie Cindy

Happy Birthday Blaine!

I am sending a dove to heaven,
With a parcel on its wings,
Be careful when you open it,
It's full of beautiful things,
Inside are a million kisses,
Wrapped up in a million hugs,
To say how much I miss you ,
And to send you all my love!

Always in my heart,
Love always Auntie Cindy

I wish. I wish upon a star
For my dreams to carry me
To where you are
To hear your voice. To sense your touch
To feel you near would mean so much
I know your never far away
And your with me every single day
So I'm wishing now with all my might
That you will come to me
In my dreams tonight

Happy Birthday Blaine
Miss and love you
Love always Mom

Happy 29th Birthday Blaine always in my heart I miss you love Nana

Blaine,you would have been 29 today we miss you so much,we keep you always in our hearts. Our memories of you are shared with each other & will be passed on down to the little ones you will never be far from our thoughts you are always and forever greatly loved, and always missed. Happy 29th Birthday love always Auntie Renee & Uncle Tony

We never need a special day
To bring you to our mind,
For days without a thought of you,
Are very hard to find.

Happy Birthday Blaine
Love Auntie Janice & Uncle Art

I thought of you today, but that is nothing new. I thought of you yesterday, and will tomorrow too. I think of you in silence, and make no outward show. For what it meant to lose you, only those who love you know. Remembering you is easy, I do it every day. It's just the heartache of losing you that will never go away.

Love Grandma

I laid awake tonight and thought about you. As I was shedding some tears, thinking about memories past, how much I miss you and how I wish you were here, my little man walked into my room, "mommy? ... cuddles???" Yeah Max ! I'd love some. Made me remember, you're never really gone. And you'll always be here for me and my babies!

Love and miss you always!

Well my boy another Christmas come and gone. Still feels like yesterday. Will hold you in my heart until I can hold you in my arms again. Love and miss you so very much. Love always Mom

Dear Blaine, another Christmas here without you, still hard not having you with us, you are always in our hearts miss you so much love you always

Blaine,
I'll remember you....
In the colors of a sunset,
In the comfort of my dreams,
In the memory of a song.
In the pages of a scrapbook
Filled with pictures of your life,
And always more than anything,
I'll remember you in your love that still lives within my heart.
Love Always and forever in my heart!
Auntie Cindy

I sat with you today you know,
I sat right in your chair,
I know I could not see you,
But I knew that you were there.

I couldn't here your voice at all,
But I heard every word that was spoken,
I sat with you today you know,
Calm, but yet so heart broken.

I know you follow me around,
I have known it from the start,
But sometimes I am afraid to look,
So heavy is my heart.

I love more and more each day,
And beg for you to know,
I find it harder every day,
Just to let you go.

I'll sit with you tomorrow,
If that's okay with you,
Sometimes it feels the only thing
I still know what to do.

Miss and love you
Love always Mom

Another year has past. We still think about you and miss you every day and cherish the memories we have of you. Always in our hearts, love you forever. Auntie Renee Uncle Tony and cousin Connor

Blaine I still miss you, I carry you always in my heart.
Love Nana

Dearest Blaine, the years go by, but you're always in my heart and thoughts. Love Grandma Letham

There is a special Angel in Heaven
that is part of me.
It is not where I wanted him
but where God wanted him to be.
He was here just a short time
like a night time shooting star.
And though he is in Heaven
he isn't very far.
He touched the heart of many
like only an Angel can do.
So I send this special message
to the Heaven up above.
Please take care of my Angel
and send him all my love. Love always Mom

Blaine
As time has passed our hearts still sore
As time rolls on we miss you more
A loving son, tender and kind
What beautiful memories you left behind
Merry Christmas
Love and miss you all
Give your grandpa's a kiss for me
Love Always Mom

Thinking of you today, as we do each and every day. Miss you deeply and wish we could share more laughs with you.

Blaine,
Three years have past, they say time lessens the pain.
Memories are what I find lessen the pain.
We have been scrapbooking, and your pictures are plenty.
We relive each moment, one of my favorite memories,
Although there are many, is the one of the water pail at Maple Beach. It always brings joy to my heart. Thank you for my memories, thank you for watching over us, Miss you!
Love Always and Forever In My Heart, Auntie Cindy

Blaine A special smile
A special face
In my heart a special place
Memories are a gift to treasure,
Mine of you will last forever
Love and miss you always Mom

A sadness still comes over us, Tears in silence often flow, Memories keep you ever near us, Though you died 3 years ago. We miss you. Auntie Renee and Uncle Tony (Gillam).

Unfortunately the miles have kept us out of touch. Just catching up to the sad news about Blaine. Sending our heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. Diane, Sid and family.

Another year past, another birthday has arrived. I think about you everyday and miss you more and more every year. I wish you where.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
-

Although today marks another birthday past,
Frozen in time at 24 you'll always be.
Know that I think of you each and every day,
You're smiling face I wish I could see.
The sound of your voice, your laughter
Is something I'll forever miss.
Wishing you a heartfelt happy birthday.
*hugs & kisses* love your big Sis.

My dear Blaine

What once was such a happy day
brings many painful sorrows
a day when silent tears are shed
for all your lost tomorrows

No special birthday cards or gifts
just a message full of love
to say that not a day goes by
without precious thoughts of you

And as time goes by, it seems
that your missed more and more
but I know your with our loved ones
and you are being loved and cared for by the angels


Hugs and Kisses,
Miss and Love you so very very much
Mom

Miss you so much, Blaine wish you were here to celebrate your 27th birthday, we know you are with the angels and we hope you are showing them how to party! Always in our hearts and thoughts love you always Auntie Renee, & Uncle Tony

Taking Max to visit your grave side tomorrow for the first time. Wish you were here to meet him. Can't believe how long it's been. To think - Haleigh was Max's age when you left us. I have only finally started to be able to talk about you aloud. Still not in front of everyone - mostly Haleigh and Max. And it still brings me to tears sometimes. I know you come and visit them - so that helps a lot. Anyways, as always, love and miss you every single day.

Sometimes we take things for granted until there gone. Always take the time to show the people you love and care for.

Merry Christmas Blaine! The photographs I cherish. That surround me every day. Help to keep you close to me, although you're far away. Now Christmas time is here again, and although you're in my heart. It's just one of the hardest times, for us to be apart. But memories will bring me strength. And love will see me through. My tears will all be fleeting, and I will smile again for you. Love and miss you always Mom

Christmas is here once again, and once again I find myself with a heavy heart. We celebrate the birth of Christ with our family and the little ones are excited to open the presents they receive. I will honour your memory by lighting a candle along with all those who join me. I am sure we will reminisce of Christmas's past. I know you will be watching over us, as you know you are forever in our hearts. If it's at all possible please try and lift the heaviness from our hearts with fond memories. Merry Christmas my dear Blaine. Love Always and forever in my heart Auntie Cindy

Another year has come and gone, since the day you passed away. Your memory has crossed my mind, at least once every day. I cannot begin to count, how many tears I've shed. Or the things I meant to say. All those words I left unsaid. Always you are in my thoughts. I love you so very dearly. More often I wish I'd told you. How much you mean to me. It breaks my heart in two. That your passing had to happen. You are the best little brother, A big sister could imagine.

Missing you tons around this time, can't wait to visit you in the next couple days - its hard to imagine its been two years without you, but your energy and spirit has encouraged me in nothing but positive ways since you left. Watch over us man. Love ya tons.

2 years has come and gone much too fast. Know we think of you often and I envision you giving Burke the hugs we cannot and being his hero. My heart aches for those you left behind and although time marches on, you are loved and missed every day.

Another year come and gone. Holidays, birthdays, special events just aren't the same without you.

We are having another baby in a few weeks! Wish you could be here to meet him, we are naming him Max Robert Blaine Jordan. Hope that flies alright with you! :)

As always, miss and love you.

My Dear Blaine,
The words I am writing are not words you haven't heard me say to you in my prayers.
I write them to let family and friends know how I feel, and it's ok to feel happy when we see someone or something that reminds us of the joy you shared with each of us. May it be a boy on a skateboard, a young man with his dog, or the kindness we see in others. It is ok to feel sad, shed a tear, or even have a good cry, because you are not with us in body, but to remember you are forever in our hearts and therefore you are always with us. They say years are just numbers, but for me two years ago is a memory when my Granddaughter received her very special angel, as we all did. For that reason I will celebrate by remembering, all you have meant to me, the child you were and the man you became. Not a day goes by that I don't feel your presence. I love you forever and always in my heart. Auntie Cindy

For you & all who love&miss you! Carmen

Blaine,
I spent my morning looking back on things I had written after you passed. All the fun things we did, the cute and sweet things you did for me, and all the characteristics and silly querks that made you you. It makes me sad but at the same time it makes me happy. Happy that we had so many fun stories and good times. I am happy that I can look back on them and smile. You were absolutely hilarious. Made me laugh countless times. But at the same time you were so sweet and considerate and had such a good heart. You were so hardworking and you taught me a lot about life and I will never forget the things I learned from you. I would like to try and not be sad today, instead think of all the good memories I have, that can never be taken away. I would like to do something for you today so I am going fishing. As you know I probably wont catch one but that okay, I know you'll be with me and that's all I need.
I love you.

Dear Blaine, sad are the hearts that love you. Silent the tears that fall. Living our lives without you is the hardest part of all. Those special years will not return, when we were all together. But the love we hold within our hearts, will be with us forever.
Loving and missing you always Mom

We miss you so much, hard to believe it has been 2 years, since you left us. You are always in our thoughts and prayers, we love you . Love always auntie Renee, uncle Tony, and Connor.

Blaine; I visited you on your birthday and left roses from me and Chels. Hope you had a blast..... Thanks for watching over us; won't let you down bud!

Happy Birthday Blaine ? missing you so much.. listening to some of your music with the kids this morning.. so many songs make me think of you every time they come on the radio. Jade says she misses playing with because you were so goofy, lol.. & Jeff is still waiting for that big buck you wanted, maybe this year. We love you Blaine & you're forever in our hearts

I though of you today,but that is nothing new,
I thought of you yesterday,and the days before that too.
I think of you in silence, I often speak your name,
All I have are memories, and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is a keepsake, from which I will never part,
God has you in his hands, I have you in my heart.
Happy Birthday Blaine,
Love You, Always In My Heart,
Auntie Cindy

Today would have been your 26th birthday. I feel a warmth around me
like your presence is so near,
And I close my eyes to visualize
your face when you were here,
I endure the times we spent together
and they are locked inside my heart,
For as long as I have those memories
we will never be apart,
Even though we cannot speak anymore
my voice is always there,
Because every night before I sleep
I have you in my prayer. Hugs and kisses my son. Love Mom

Blaine, you will always be my valentine. You are forever in my heart and in my thoughts.
Love you always,
Chelsey

Blaine,
To believe is knowing we have our own Angels watching over us.
To believe is knowing our strength to get through each day without you is a gift.
To believe is having you in our daily thoughts and prayers.
To believe is knowing you are always by our sides.
To believe is our smiles when we feel your presence.
To believe is knowing we will be together again.
Love you, Always in my Heart, Auntie Cindy

Our dear Blaine another Christmas has come and you should be here with us it is so hard not talking to you or seeing you. We have Georgia and Colt now, and I wish I had had pictures of you with them like Jade, I know you are watching over all the little one's. You are always in our hearts and greatly missed .You would be so very proud of you're mom and dad they are doing so great with Lola. Love you always dear nephew ....Auntie Renee and Uncle Tony

Although we never actually met, I feel like I know your spirit through all the memories I have been told by your amazing family. They talk alot about you and what a great person you were. It makes me very sad that I never got to know you but please know that just because we didn't meet in person, doesn't mean that I can't have the deepest of sadness because you're gone. Your family is incredibly special to me and therefore, so are you! Your picture hangs in Kemery's room because when she's old enough, we want her to feel like she knew you too!

A year has come and gone. It isn't getting any easier. But I am finding myself hanging out with your friends more and I like that. Haleigh is getting so big and smart, and I don't know if it's just me wanting to believe it or if it's real, but I find her pointing to your picture an awful lot as if she were telling me that you're here. I guess if I choose to believe it then that's all that matters. Sometimes when she wakes up she stands up and points to your picture on her dresser as if to tell me you were there in her dream, I ask her if Uncle Blaine visited her in her dream again and she just smiles. I find myself laughing a lot lately though just thinking about things you did, or we did or said. I try putting it into words out loud - even just to Haleigh, but I guess I'm still not ready to talk about you - cause every time I think about opening my mouth I start to tear up. I hope one day comes that it will be easier, until then- you are always in my thoughts and always on my mind. Love you always.

well brother the first year was hard and I don't think its going to get any easier as the years go on. always in my thoughts and my heart blaine. love you CORY

Never more than a thought away
Quietly remembered every day.
In our hearts, your memory is kept
To love, to cherish, to never forget.
Forever remembered and loved
Mom and Dad

To My Nephew,
I believe the worst thing in life is losing your child.
And when your Sister and Brother lose their son it is no less devastating.
It's been a year since I received that unforgettable phone call.
It's been a year since our lives changed forever.
It's been a year since I heard your voice speak to your loved ones.
It's been a year since I have seen your smile light up the room.
It's been a year since I have heard your laughter, and those laughing with you.
It's been a year since I was able to tease you about little things.
It's been a year since I realized I never told you how proud I was of you.
It's been a year since God took you from us.
And it's been a year since Heaven became an even better place.
Forever and Always in my Heart.
Love you Auntie Cindy

As Kari's Special Day is getting closer I know it is hard on her not having you here.Do me a favor, and give her a little extra touch in your own way. Continue to give us strength.
Forever and always in my Heart,
Love You Auntie Cindy,

Today is my and Blaine's 3 year anniversary. I remember the day he asked me to be his girlfriend like it was last week. I couldn't believe how lucky I was that Blaine Letham wanted to be my boyfriend. From the moment I met him I liked everything about him, we had so much in common.
In the first year of our relationship I learned that Blaine was an honest, caring and hardworking person. He loved his family and friends and never took them for granted, he knew what was important in life. By our first anniversary I knew I wanted to marry him someday. He was the most amazing person I had ever met, and I still always considered myself super lucky that I had Blaine as a boyfriend, my partner in crime. On our first anniversary he took me to celebrations, we saw the Buddy Holly show, although neither of us actually knew who Buddy Holly was, we thought it must have been fate that he was a rock and roll legend, (because we both liked rock music).
On our second anniversary Blaine was settled into his house, he cooked me dinner after I got home from school. Blaine loved to cook and there was something about his food that was always extra delicious, I don't know whether it was the spices he used, or if it was because it was made with love, :) anything he cooked was always amazing.
Blaine taught me alot about life. 3 years ago on this day I had no idea how much Blaine would enrich my life, and now on this day of our 3 year anniversary, I know that I am still just as lucky as ever to have been able to fall in love with such an amazing person.

I'll always love you Blaine, Happy 3 years sweety

My sincerest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you

Had a great birthday celebration for you blainer!!! You would have been proud!! Miss you tons and think of you every day dude <3

So many heavy hearts thinking of you today as they do every day honey! Everyone is so lucky to have you as their ANGEL watching over them. I didn't know you well, but, feel I know alot from all who love YOU! Carmen

miss you blaine, love nana

Well blaine we shared some graet times and some not so great times, but you were always my little brother and will remain in my heart and my thoughts. LOVE YOU.

Be It With
a Prayer or a Thought,
a Drink or a Smoke,
a Smile or a Tear,
a Hoot or a Joke.
Know that you are giving us the courage,
to Celebrate this Day of your Birth, 25 years ago.
Happy Birthday Nephew
Always in my Heart Auntie Cindy

As I opened my eyes this morning
I looked to the heavens above
I whispered "Happy Birthday Son"
And sent you all my Love
Love you and miss you so very very much Mom

To our dear Blaine, we think of you every day we miss you so much,our hearts are heavy. We cherish our memories,and the times we spent together,You were taken away far to soon. We are blessed to have had you in our lives. Love you always auntie Renee,and uncleTony.

miss you a lot buddy...

Not a day goes by when I don't think of you. I tell Haleigh stories of you often, she laughs every time she sees your picture. I am happy you are here watching over her.

Blaine, as your birthday approaches, may you continue to give us,the strength and the courage to share the wonderful memories that are cherished in our hearts.
Always in My Heart Auntie Cindy

Blaine was a positive person. He helped our daughter Kayleigh move last year. He helped us with our tropical fish questions when he worked at Petland. He will be missed by many people whose lives he touched. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family at this sad time.

Blaine, this planet will not be the same without you. Rest In Peace my friend.

Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of Blaine. My thoughts are with the Letham family during this tragic time.

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you must all be going through. I only met Blaine a few times at work, but I knew he was a solid, stand-up guy, just like his Dad. He will be greatly missed.

Our deepest sympathies, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bill, Sheena, Meghan and Senan Kavanagh

Blaine, You are sadly missed by all, but will be remembered forever. You have left a great void for family & friends, but you've also left some very special memories for each of us to cherish. I'll miss your cheeky smile.

Blaine you will be missed, I will always remember your happy smiling face when you came to visit, Alex will always cherish her friendship him and I will remember how handsome he looked at their graduation. My deepest sympathies to his family.
Sincerely
Marsha Graham