Bonnie Kay Harkness

Bonnie Kay Harkness obituary, Bethesda, MD

Bonnie Kay Harkness

Bonnie Harkness Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 28, 2025.
Bethesda - Bonnie Kay Harkness died on April 24, 2025, at her home in Bethesda, Maryland. She was predeceased by her parents, James and Georgia Harkness. She is survived by her children, Katherine Harkness Rogers (husband Ash Raghavan), Elizabeth Harkness Rogers (husband Luke Coulson), David Harkness Rogers, pups, Zoe and Scout, her sister, C. Joy Harkness, and her brother, Scott Lane Harkness.

Bonnie was born and raised in Mississippi. She graduated from the University of Mississippi in 1976 with a B.A. in psychology, sociology, and philosophy. While at Ole Miss she served as Chapter President of Delta Gamma sorority, served in the Campus Senate, was President of Mortar Board, was a Campus favorite, and was in the Ole Miss Hall of Fame. She graduated from the University of Mississippi School of Law in 1979. She practiced as a Trust and Estate Lawyer in Jackson, Mississippi before moving to Washington, D.C. in 1981 where she worked as a staff attorney for Mississippi Senator Thad Cochran, even though he was a Republican. Bonnie worked on the Hill managing banking, taxes, housing, and Indian Affairs until the birth of her daughter, Katie.

The following 25 years were spent being an incredible mother to Katie, Betsy and Davy while continuing her lifetime of community service. She was a Girl Scout leader and volunteered in the schools leading the Book Fair, the Sock Hop, and other events, and at "So Others Might Eat." Once her children left the nest, she began working at Crossway Community, a skill building and residential living program for economically disadvantaged single mothers and their children. While at Crossway Community, she wrote the application for the first charter school in Montgomery County. Bonnie also served on the Board of Hope for Children, a non-profit dedicated to supporting the education and welfare of children whose parents were affected by AIDS and poverty.

In 2012, while living in Chicago, Bonnie served on the Board of "Save Abandoned Babies," a non-profit dedicated to raising awareness of the safe, legal options under the Abandoned Newborn Infant Protection Act. Upon her return to Bethesda, Bonnie began working with Impact 100 DC, serving as Chair of the Family Focus Area Committee for two years leading the committee that reviewed grants in that category. Thereafter Bonnie served as the Grantee Liaison, building strong relationships between Impact 100 DC and its grantee organizations. She was currently serving as president of Wednesday Morning Group, a weekly program of lectures on a wide array of topics from current events and literature to science and health, to arts and education.

In her spare time, Bonnie was an avid reader, an accomplished pianist, a crossworder extraordinaire, and a player of Mahjong. She will be remembered for her beautiful smile, her generous compassion, and her devotion to her family and to her many friends.

A memorial service will be held on May 1, 2025 at 4:00 p.m. at Joseph Gawler's Sons Funeral Home, 5130 Wisconsin Avenue NW, Washington, D.C. 20016.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Impact 100 DC, Post Office Box, 40121, Washington, D.C. 20016 or [email protected].

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October 7, 2025

Carol McKenzie posted to the memorial.

May 2, 2025

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May 1, 2025

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Carol McKenzie

October 7, 2025

I am sorry to learn the Bonnie passed away. We worked together back in the 1980s at what was then First National Bank in Jackson, Mississippi. She was the dearest woman, I'm sad to say I lost track of her.

Margaret Pastor

May 2, 2025

Bonnie lived fully with loving kindness, accompanied with compassion,
activism, persistence and resilience, she invested in those in need.
She lived her brilliance with wisdom. She offered her heart and her hand.
We cherish the memories she leaves for us.

She is in our hearts with a smile that meets the day.

Margy Pastor

Lisa Stark

May 1, 2025

I am so sorry about your sudden and tragic loss. I know Bonnie only from her smile and good cheer and welcoming attitude at Wednesday Morning Group. She will be missed there - and obviously her loss leaves a huge hole in your hearts. In reading her obituary it was clear she was an extraordinary woman who made a difference in the world. I hope memories help bring you comfort at this time. Please take care. Lisa Stark

Linda F. Garry

May 1, 2025

Bonnie was a kind and beautiful human being; she will be royally missed by everyone with whom she came in contact.

Peter Botes

April 30, 2025

I went to school with Bonnie at Caldwell in Columbus MS

She was a very good friend of mine and many many other.
We were in many classes together

Bonnie's smile and sweet personality graced many people.

Although I have not seen her in many years she has been fondly remembered by me in my school years.

I am so saddened by her passing
Quite a shock.

It is fantastic to see several Caldwell classmates comment on Bonnie.

Malka and Kamlesh Vakil

April 30, 2025

Extremely saddened our prayers are for entire family and friends
May her soul rest in peace.

Faithful Blessings Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

Marsha Page Ward

Sent Flowers

Grove of 100 Memorial Trees

Margy Pastor

Planted Trees

Peaceful Reflections

Robert Milner

Sent Flowers

Dawn Geras

April 28, 2025

I am so very sorry for her loving family and friends for this terrible loss. She was such a special person. I got to know Bonnie when she lived in Chicago. She became a dear friend. We enjoyed working together on the Save Abandoned Babies Foundation, sharing Book Club, Happy Hours, ... and in so many other ways. She will be missed by many for so many reasons.

Dale Clayton-Morrison

April 28, 2025

Bonnie had such a big and giving heart that when I heard the very sad
news I just figured she just wore it out. She was always so loving and
caring. Also, Bonnie was just beautiful inside and out.

Joy Rector Townsend

April 28, 2025

Bonnie was my best friend during senior year of high school and was my roommate at Ole Miss in Room 232 New Dorm. We shared many good times, problems, giggles, and a few escapades. Life happened and we grew apart but I always have loved her. In fact, I still have a musical figurine that she gave me on a shelf in my house. I kept it for 50 years because she gave it to me. Not knowing anything was wrong, I stood and looked at it last week with sweet thoughts of Bonnie. This will not end now.
Your hearts must be shattered and I feel so deeply for you.All of you are in my thoughts. Grief is hard but your mom loved you so and you were her greatest work.
Joy Rector Townsend

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