Bradley Joseph Whalen-Strauss

1990 - 2016

Bradley Joseph Whalen-Strauss obituary, 1990-2016

Bradley Joseph Whalen-Strauss

1990 - 2016

BORN

1990

DIED

2016

Bradley Whalen-Strauss Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 9, 2016.
WHALEN-STRAUSS, Bradley Joseph
Passed away unexpectedly at his home on October 7th, 2016 at the age of 26. Loving son of Kathy Whalen and David Strauss (Linda). Adored brother of Alex and Meagan. Bradley will be missed by many aunts uncles, cousins, other relatives and friends. Bradley had a great love for fitness and sports, particularly soccer. His passion for music and teaching children will resonate in the hearts and minds of those whose lives will be forever changed by knowing this fine young man. Visitation will be held at OSHAWA FUNERAL HOME, 847 King Street West (905-721-1234) on Tuesday, October 11th, from 1:00 p.m. until time of Funeral Service / Celebration of Life in the Chapel at 3:00 p.m. Memorial donations to SickKids Foundation or Humane Society.

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February 7, 2018

Stephen Whalen posted to the memorial.

November 14, 2017

Steve Whalen posted to the memorial.

November 8, 2017

Kathy Whalen posted to the memorial.

107 Entries

Stephen Whalen

February 7, 2018

Your presence is strong.I have been thinking about you a lot as it has been 16 months since you have moved on, now yesterday.

I lit a candle in your honor, Brad.
I am praying and talking to you and thinking about you with the love and truth God gives us.
I know we will see each other again, and can hug each other there.
Love Uncle Steve xo

Steve Whalen

November 14, 2017

Dear Brad,
I love you very much.
Love Uncle Steve xo

Kathy Whalen

November 8, 2017

Bradley "Sweet Child of Mine "- I will love you forever...Mom XXOO

October 8, 2017

O God of all life, pour your consoling grace upon all who mourn the passing of their loved ones. Kathy, Alex and Meagan you are being thought of today as you mourn the passing of Bradley a year ago.Time will heal the pain but Bradley will be forever in your hearts. Hear our prayers for those we love dearly who have come before us into the life to come.Bradley, your family misses you dearly. Your kind heart and incredible smile will be remembered forever. We miss you and love you but know you are happy and at peace in heaven where we will be united again with you someday. Rest in Peace.Love your family in the US, Aunt Mary Beth, Uncle Craig, Erin, Devon and Brendan

Kelsey Slaney

October 7, 2017

A year ago today we had to say goodbye. Nothing I thought I would of had to do so early. You are greatly missed everyday. I think about you often and all the memories we have together. This weekend as it is Thanksgiving. I am more then beyond thankful for all the memories you have given me. I will cherish then forever! I hope you are resting in peace and happy on the other side! Love you always xoxo

Ron Beacom

February 10, 2017

Brad was a wonderful tenant. So sorry to hear about his passing

Cathy Hanlon

January 29, 2017

This message is for Bradley's twin brother who is my other Godson:

Dear Alex,

I will never understand the depth of your loss, but I do understand pain, and If I could take yours away I would.

I know you are struggling to find your place in the world, but I believe in you Alex and I believe that God will guide you. You are a remarkable young man with many fine attributes, and when you believe in yourself, you can do anything.

It's very hard to feel happy and hopeful during this difficult time, just try not to feel bad about feeling good, and always remember that "time does not heal all wounds . . . it's what we do with that time".

Sending you lots of love from your "Other Mother" xox

Thomas Petersen

November 23, 2016

I am very saddened to hear about Brad. He tutored me in grade 8 math last year. He was a very good teacher. He made math fun and I always looked forward to our sessions. Although we only met once a week I got to know him well since he was such an easy person to talk to. When I was looking for a tutor this year and found Brad had passed, I was shocked and deeply saddened. I would have liked him to help me again. He was a great guy and I know he would have been a great teacher. Many students have missed out on being taught by him. I am so sorry.

Kelsey Slaney

November 14, 2016

I've known Brad for 25 years. I grew up with him and his brother. Lived on the same street up until a month ago. Brad was an amazing person and friend. He was family. I'll never forget our childhood memories. All the summer days singing and dancing to Abba by the pool. Which resulted in many home videos. Playing soccer In the street with your dad. Celebrating birthdays together. Our sherkston shore adventures. As we grew up the Whalen's became family. And am I ever so glad they did. I absolutely loved having brad apart of my life. Brad was a very kind hearted person. Always made sure you were okay. There was not mean bone in his body. Brad had a contagious smile, that when he smiled, you couldnt help but smile back. And when he laughed you knew it was Brad's. I can still hear him laughing. I have alot of amazing memories with Brad that I will forever get to cherish. Bradley, I miss you and I hope you are at peace. My dearest Kathy, my second mom, I love you. The Slaney's love you. Brad will forever be in our hearts. Xox

November 10, 2016

We were deeply saddened to learn of the passing of your beloved son. Our sincere condolences to you, Kathy, and your family
over such a painful loss. May your memories give you comfort and help you to heal.
Demetre and Elizabeth Papapetrou

October 25, 2016

Dear Kathy,

Words cannot adequately express my feelings of sorrow after just learning of the immeasurable loss of your son Bradley. I am so very deeply and sincerely sorry you and your family are going through this tragic and difficult time - my heart breaks for each and every one of you.

What a fantastic graduation picture of Brad - such a truly, magnificent smile! Always remember the smiles and laughter he brought to the world, and never forget the light in his eyes and the beauty of his soul - for he will never leave your hearts.

My family and I will continue to offer prayers for peace and healing for you and all of your family. Love from your cousin Joanne Gliddon (Casey), Paul, Jarrod, Megan, Nicholas & Michael xoxo

Chris Kmieciak

October 21, 2016

I went to high school with Brad. He was one of the nicest guys I've ever met. I never saw him act negatively towards anyone and he was always kind. A ray of light in an otherwise dark world. I'll miss you buddy.

Jared Hinde

October 21, 2016

Some of the things that myself and others would say about Brad might sound generic to those who never met him. "He was truly unique. He never said a mean thing." These might sound like the sort of compliments that people offer lightly, things that just describe some hypothetical ideal person, and so a reader might not pause to think of how remarkable it would be if they were true. So, to be clear: these sentiments, and others like them, describe Brad truly, and are truer of him than of anyone I've known.

How many people actually live up to a statement such as He never said a mean thing? Yet, I think back, even back to when we were children who might not have known better, and there was never a time that Brad instigated, never a time that he even joined in on anything that was cruel or even merely disrespectful. He was just kind, with absolute consistency.

In a word, besides kind, Brad could be described as distinct. So many things about him were uniquely his own. Everyone remembers his deep voice, his signature laugh. Regarding expression, I mostly remember a huge smile that touched his whole face, for he was always ready to have fun, to laugh, and where fun and laughter weren't, he'd create them but I also remember the particular expression of absolute determination which he'd sometimes wear: if we were playing a game of Super Smash Bros., and I noticed he had that expression of concentration, I knew I was going to lose. And there was no shame in that, because Brad excelled at games, and moreover he seemed to excel at anything he put his mind to. He was distinct in excellence as well, and that made it all the more impressive; it never seemed as though Brad had achieved his proficiency by watching what had been done, studying the accepted ways, but rather that it came from within him, somehow. He had his own style, always seemed to have his own way of doing even some mundane thing (I once saw him untangle a chaotic mass of wires in two seconds; I have no idea how he did this), and to say his ways worked well would be an understatement. He distinguished himself, in everything.

Because accepting that I won't get to see Brad or play a game with him again is so difficult, I find myself thinking instead of the fun we had together, happy memories of which there are many. And though memory often fades, even memories of things we know are important, I think that nobody who knew Brad will have to worry about that in his case; our memories of him will remain distinct, like he was, and clear in our minds, so that he'll live as long as we do, in a way. Forgetting Brad would be impossible, and not because he ever sought attention that's another thing I never knew him to do but simply because he managed to be unforgettable, just by being Brad.

Matthew

October 21, 2016

I knew Bradley from High School. I remember that we had food and nutrition and data management class together. Brad was a great student and friend. I discovered that we had mutual friends outside of high school and we'd hang out after school with our bigger group of friends.

I sat next to him in food and nutrition class and I remember him making that class a lot more enjoyable. I enjoyed his company in that class and it was one of my favorite classes of the semester. Brad was a kind human being who was always willing to help others. Brad will be greatly missed.

My condolences to all his family and loved ones.

Nicholas Ormond

October 21, 2016

Well Brad Whalen-Strauss was one of the most genuine, intelligent, and virtuous persons I had met in my life. From the first day we met and I invited him in to my home (that had a spare room with his name on it) to our final conversation on the lake shore near the colourful "pollution" sculpture (how funny in retrospect) -- there was a deep connection that was reformed, kindled, and sustained. With one of the sharpest minds I knew, we would leave riddles of the day on the fridge for each to contemplate. He was the only friend that was really interested in the garden outback. I loved his high regard for the earth and every living being that inhabited it. There are only few friends who truly make you uncontrollably laugh from heart, and Brad was one of them. I will miss him dearly in the years to come and similar to Lydia, would like to plant some trees in honor of his bright soul. Perhaps on Queen's West Campus. May Brad and his family/friends be free from suffering and his future seeds free of suffering. May he be happy and free to the causes of happiness. Wishing you all love, clarity, and compassion in this difficult time.

"Kindness and compassion toward all living things is the mark of a civilized society."

-- Cesar Chavez

Tess Parks

October 18, 2016

To Brad's family and friends, I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't believe this news. I went to Camp Northland with Brad for two summers, and Brad was the only person who was nice to me. Everyone else bullied me. Brad was always my friend and I only have the nicest memories of him. I'll always love you, Brad. What a beautiful soul.

October 17, 2016

The first time I met my nephew Bradley was when I came up from Florida where I was living to help Kathy out when her twins, Alex and Bradley, were born. Kathy was very busy, needless to say, and it seemed whenever she got one twin fed and back to sleep, the other would wake up crying and hungry. Not much sleep for the mom of twins! I remember laying on the bed with Bradley after he had been fed, patting his back and watching as he fell fast asleep. He was so peaceful.
Over the years, my husband Craig and I would bring our 3 children, Erin , Devon and Brendan up to Canada for Christmas and summer visits. The cousins would have such a good time playing together. Bradley was a soft spoken young man who played piano for us at Papa's at Christmas and played patiently for hours with his younger cousins.Eventually we were not able to bring our whole family up every year for Christmas but when we talked to Bradley on the phone, he would always ask questions and be sincerely interested in his family far away. He would share news with us of his time at Trent University where he graduated with a degree in the Environmental Science Program.
The last time I saw Brad was on a trip by myself to Canada. Brad was attending Queens University to obtain his Education degree and had planned on taking a teaching position abroad.I came back and told my family how impressed I was that Brad had grown into such a good looking, confident, kind, amazing young man with an incredible smile.
We will never know why God called him home so soon but he will live on forever in the hearts of those who loved him dearly. We will miss you Bradley. Rest in peace.
Mary Beth, Craig, Erin, Devon and Brendan

October 16, 2016

Please accept our condolences at this difficult time. We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. May you find peace with the memories you have shared.
-Belinda and Peter Titanic

October 15, 2016

Mine and my family's
deepest condolence's go out to the Strauss family. I am very sorry Dave.

Maureen & Dick Lynch

October 15, 2016

We send heartfelt sympathy and love to family, friends and all who loved Bradley.
May God bless you and grant you peace at this sad time.
Sincerely
Aunt Maureen & Uncle Dick

T Skerratt

October 15, 2016

So sorry for your loss Dave.

October 14, 2016

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Bradley. It is such a great tragedy for all those who knew him. Kathy, our thoughts are with you and all your family. Love from the Catt family.

Catalina Herrera

October 14, 2016

My sincere condolences go to Brad's family and friends. Very saddened by the news. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. He was very kind and sweet boy.

Aynne Johnston

October 14, 2016

Brad's passion, energy and enthusiasm made him a remarkable presence in my Q drama education room at Queen's. His joy was infectious and brought others out of their shell. He loved the arts and believed in their importance for children to express feeling and learning. His commitment to providing the best experience for children was so apparent last April when I got to see him outside my drama classroom, outside the Faculty musical and in an intense course in Verbal Judo, where he was awarded one of the first certificates in this critical communication tool. Brad challenged himself and gave of himself... a rich legacy of example and gifts... may those close to him hold those qualities dear and continue to share them as he would want. My condolences to all.

Simone Eddy

October 13, 2016

To the Whalen and Strauss Families,

Thinking of you at this very difficult time and remembering fondly what an amazing young man Bradley was when I taught him so many years ago. I can still see his huge smile, remember his generous spirit and kind heart as well as his love of music and drama. Bradley definitely left his mark on the world through all of his passions and friendships. Heaven has gained a true angel. My deepest sympathy.

Jesse McRae

October 13, 2016

I never imagined that my first eulogy would be for someone as near and dear to my heart as Bradley. While trying to figure out how to put this together, I looked up advice online and read things like don't mention anything negative and use specific examples of good things. But since this is about Brad, this wasn't much help because of what a truly remarkable person he is; in all my time knowing him, he was never anything less than amazing, and talking specifically about how he's great would fill a book. So instead, I'll try to summarize that book.

I'm fortunate to be able to say I have known Brad for seven years. I'll never forget him singing The Beastie Boys' Sabotage when we met at the start of our university career. During that first year I mainly knew him as the quirky guy with a big smile, deep voice and a knack for suddenly appearing and disappearing, but I was lucky enough to wind up in a house with him in our second year. There, we soon started talking about our interests, passions and pursuits, but it was one all-nighter in our third year when we truly connected and I realized I had made a friend like no other.

In our time together, Brad and I have had an ocean's worth of beautiful experiences. Our long conversations about everything and nothing, wandering the city streets, going for ill-prepared nature walks, working on his aunt's garden, late nights at the Trent University newspaper, playing video games, having him as a radio guest and the hilarious facial expressions he would make when brushing his teeth are just a drop in that ocean.

Brad has helped me through some of the hardest things I've been through in my life. He was always there to listen to my problems and provide company, and never made me feel like a burden or nuisance. I knew that if I ever needed someone to be there, I could count on him. No matter what he was dealing with in his own life, he would make the effort, and he was like this with practically everyone he knew.

His love of various forms of art music, acting, writing, to name a few is the mark of a gentle and introspective soul. His choice to study environmental science and applied it to teaching children so that future generations could know the value of the natural world, and do what it takes to preserve it, shows a desire to make the world a better place for others. There aren't enough words to name all of the things that make him fantastic. I'm beyond thankful that in this wide, wide world, Brad and my paths happened to cross and our lives become part of one another's.

I've avoided using the past tense because I believe that despite Brad's passing, he is not gone. Before, he gave us all the gift of the wonderful time we each could share with him. Now, it's all of our duty to keep him alive by cherishing the memories of those times and honoring his legacy.

Ben Hedley

October 13, 2016

For the last few days, I have found myself praying and hoping that this entire thing was just a horrible dream and none of this ever happened.

Brad was one of my closest friends. It's really rare to find someone like Brad. People say and do mean things. Brad was not one of those people. Since the day that I met him in grade 9 science, I never witnessed Brad say anything negative about anyone, or do anything malicious. This is 12 years we're talking about here. I know people who can't go more than 12 seconds without doing something malicious. To meet someone like Brad was truly an honour.

Brad inspired others to succeed in all aspects of their life. Back in university, Brad lead a boot camp to help get others in shape. It was a grueling, excruciating, and you had to be a little masochistic to go through it, but there were few things more rewarding than doing it. When you would struggle, Brad would be there to motivate you to continue. This element of Brad's personality was not exclusive to just fitness, but in all facets of life. No matter who you were, if you needed help, Brad would be the first to offer assistance. He was the antithesis to the fair-weather friend. Even when times were dark, Brad would always be by your side.

The last day that I saw Brad alive still plays in the back of my head (and I think it will for the rest of my life). We spent the day in Pickering with a friend of ours. Brad was always a quiet guy, but on this day he was particularly silent. You could tell that something was troubling him. We had gone to the beach, went for dinner, and ended up going to see a movie (Finding Dory). I still remember him breaking out into laughter during the movie at the site of Becky, the kooky loon. Brad always had a child like innocence to him, and it was definitely shown here. It was amazing to see Brad smile after seemingly being down that entire day. And his laughter, well anyone that knew Brad, knew that his laugh was legendary - loud, deep, and resonant. It's a laugh that will stick with us all forever. It was a great final memory to have with Brad.

October 13, 2016

I have learned more about my godson since his passing than I even knew while he was here, and it reaffirms my belief that Bradley was born with a halo on his head. He was always an angel on earth, and now he is an angel in heaven.

Love you forever Brad . . . Cathy with a "C"

Shirley and Liam Whalen Baker

October 13, 2016

I am writing this on behalf of my son, Liam Baker, who is Brad's cousin. Having experienced the deaths of three of his closest friends within the past few years, and now the passing of his cousin Brad, has rendered him speachless and devastated so I am passing along what he has told me about what Brad meant to him. He says he felt he could relate to Brad when he sensed Brad sometimes felt lonely or different, sometimes isolated. He was the cousin who Liam had a lot in common with as in a passion for music and often the same favorite bands. He told me Brad liked to tease him when they were younger, but in a kind way, just kidding around. Brad, Liam loved you very much. One final memory of mine is when Liam was one day old, Kathy and the twins came to see us. Bradley was so excited, at age five, when Liam wrapped his finger tightly around Brad's. Brad said "He likes me" and I told him "He loves you Brad. You and Alex are his big cousins.

Sabrina Silva-Pereira

October 13, 2016

I am so incredibly sad and sorry. I have nothing but good memories growing up with Brad and his brother at St Pauls Elementary School. He was a cheerful, polite and smart kid with the best laugh. Gone much too soon. I hope your family finds comfort in knowing how many people truly enjoyed your friendship, Brad. Sending my love.

Bryce McDonald

October 13, 2016

Dave I'm so sorry for your tragic loss. My condolences to you and your family.

Olivia Teixeira

October 12, 2016

Bradley was truly one of a kind. I have known Brad for almost my entire life - we had met early on in kindergarten & soon after that first meeting, Brad, Alex, and myself became a three sum & were rarely seen anywhere without one another. We lived on the same street - and still do. My childhood memories with Brad are filled with countless adventures - summers spent in the pool, taking piano lessons together, Sherkston Shores, Six Flags, Pioneer Camp, searching the neighbourhood for his brother's missing Guinea Pig, tag at the park around the corner, Reid's dairy treats after school, crazy hammock rides in the backyard... the list goes on and on. As we got older, we saw each other less and less. However, I have always had a place in my heart for Brad and always enjoyed seeing him around the neighbourhood (usually on his bike or walking Teddy). My heart goes out to Kathy, David, Meagan, Alex & other family and friends that all knew and loved Brad. He was such a wonderful person, inside and out and he will truly be missed by so many.

October 12, 2016

So truly saddened for your loss. Mispah.

Kurtis Donnelly

October 12, 2016

To the Whalen-Strauss family. I am very saddened to hear the news of the passing of such a wonderful kind hearted man. I can not believe he is gone at such a young age. Brad was such a great friend to everyone that knew him from St.Pauls and Father Leo Austin. I remember playing soccer with Brad he was such a fast runner that no one could catch. He will certainly be missed by all. Rest in Peace good buddy. My family and I are sending our prayers to all his family at this time.

Carrie Penner

October 12, 2016

We had the pleasure of having Bradley and Alex join our Holiday dinner table... both fine, young gentlemen. There are few words of comfort during this very difficult time, but hold on to the memories - they will help you thru. May you and your family know no more sorrow. Alex: there will always be a place for you at our table - we will remember your brother, along with the others who have left us too early. Cousins and friends, Carrie and David

Pat Reddick

October 12, 2016

My deepest condolences go out to all who knew Brad, and especially his family, at this time. I met Brad in our first year of university. He was such a wonderful human being, kind to everyone, always smiling, and always a delight to be around. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him.

Manon van Mil

October 12, 2016

My deepest condolences to your family and all of Brad's friends. I met Brad in the Faculty of Education at Queen's, and I cannot imagine the B.Ed. year without him. He was one of the first friends I made because he was up for any adventure. I loved sitting beside him in class because he had an incredible sense of humour. When we auditioned for the B.Ed. musical, Brad helped me feel comfortable enough to sing solo in front of others for the first time ever. I know he gifted the same confidence to students in his care. He was already an incredible teacher, inspiring students whom he worked with and teacher candidates alike. He brightened every practice we had for the Seeing Place (the B.Ed. musical) either by playing the piano or leading our warm-ups. Brad's boot-camp was both loved and feared by our entire cast. I am so, so sorry that Brad has passed away. His care for other people and the planet was so stunningly apparent and affecting. He is deeply missed.

Gord Baker

October 12, 2016

A fine young man with a kind heart. My sincerest condolences. Many great memories of a pure heart.

Lucas Giddings

October 12, 2016

Bradley was a good friend of mine. We grew up together at St. Paul's Elementary School. But it was only after graduating that we became closer - more than just classmates - we were good friends. He would ride his bike over to my house or one of our friends houses to play soccer, video games, or more recently, a variety of board games. Our group of friends gave him the nickname, "The Ultimate Warrior" because he was good at everything. Soccer, school, games, and most importantly - at being a great friend. There was never a time I remember where he wasn't respectful, supportive, or friendly. He had the most unique laugh, the deepest voice of anyone I knew, not to mention the biggest smile. In the past few years we only had the summer and winter vacations between post-secondary and our jobs to get together. It always seemed like no matter how much time had passed, that our friendship continued exactly where it left off the last time we had seen each other. Our close group of friends can attest to that same feeling - for Brad and the rest of us. We weren't the trouble maker types or the street kids. We didn't seem to fit in to the mainstream cliques at school, and they never interested us anyway - but rather, we fit perfectly in our own. Just a bunch of good friends talking about life, games, silly inside jokes that only we understood, and making each other feel like we didn't need anything else. The last time I saw Brad, it was at one of our best friends houses in the summer time of last year. We had been taking turns playing a horror game on the computer. You should have seen Brad as he switched quickly from being startled to bellowing genuine bunches of laughs. I am saddened that I will never get to see that again. Bradley and I communicated early in the year about how much we looked forward to seeing each other in the summer. Unfortunately, it never came to be.

My condolences to your family. To your sister and brother. To your parents and all those who loved you, cared about you, and knew you. I was one of the countless many. Life always gives us challenges, great memories, and sometimes sadness. But I will try to not let it be one of those times. You were always full of life, energy, passion, and eagerness - and we only ever shared happiness together with the rest of our close group of friends. I know you would want us to keep it that way. I'll do my best not to be sad - but I will ALWAYS remember you: and whenever I start to feel down about it again, I will just remind myself that Heaven needed its Ultimate Warrior. Love you, Brad. Rest well, my friend.

Emily Miceli

October 11, 2016

My condolences and prayers are with Brad's entire family at this difficult time. I was so saddened by the news of your passing Brad! I only have fond memories from our good old St Paul days... you will be greatly missed! Gone too soon! Rest in Paradise xox

Dan & Syl D'Aloisio

October 11, 2016

I cannot even begin to understand what you are going through right now, but We would like to offer our prayers and condolences to you and your family.

Pauline Hussain

October 11, 2016

My sincere sympathies go out to Brad's family and friends. I did not know him nor did I ever meet him. My daughter was in the Faculty of Education program with him at Queens and considered him a good friend and an exceptional human being. We attended his funeral today and was very moved by the outpouring of love for him. We are deeply saddened by his passing and our hearts go out to everyone that he touched.

Carmelina Micieli

October 11, 2016

My deepest condolences to your entire family. I only have the fondest memories of Brad from our days at St. Paul's together. He was such a sweet and kind person, with the most contagious laugh. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this time.

Tammy O'Neil

October 11, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. Brad was a very kind and caring individual.

Beth Pogmore

October 11, 2016

So very saddened to hear of your great loss Kathy...my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family..so very, very sorry...

Jasmine Cabanaw

October 11, 2016

Brad was one of the most kindhearted people I've ever known. He was just a genuinely kind and authentic human being and I'm so glad he was in my life and in the lives of many of my dear friends and family.

I have so many great memories of Brad, but what I keep remembering is his laugh. He was almost always smiling and found delight in even the smallest things.

He certainly will not be forgotten. He's in my heart and in the hearts of so many others. May he rest in peace.

Jonathan Drumm

October 11, 2016

Kathy, David and family.

Our deepest condolences on your tragic loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jonathan Drumm and family

Megan Leonard

October 11, 2016

I can't begin to express how shocked and heartbroken I am after hearing this news, or how lucky I consider myself to have known Brad, even for a short time. He was a warm, funny, wonderful person with an incredibly positive energy and an infectious smile. Thank you so much, Brad, for being so kind to me, and everyone else you came into contact with. You have added so many happy memories to my time at Queen's, and I am so grateful to have met you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

Evan MacDonald

October 11, 2016

I was friends with Brad at Trent. I remember him as a quiet but very kind and intelligent young man. He performed at a World Wildlife Fundraiser we hosted and his talent blew me away. My last email exchange with Brad was talking employment prospects and discussing his hopes of landing a job in the environmental field. I'm very saddened to hear of his passing & my thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

Pat Acton

October 11, 2016

Hey David & Kathy so sorry for your terrible loss. I for one can appreciate your pain at this time. As our family loss my younger brother at the age of 27 almost 30 years ago. Hang in there & be there for each other. Much Love & Take care of each other at this time of need.

Rob Goodman

October 11, 2016

Condolences to the whole family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mackenzie La Rue

October 11, 2016

I was a student at both Trent and Queen's with Brad and we taught together as student teachers at Robert Munsch Public School. I will fondly remember Brad for being a great, fun-loving teacher. One of my favourite memories took place in our gym class at Queen's during a dance workshop. Everyone was pretty nervous and embarrassed to be dancing in front of everyone but not Brad! He busted a move and had us all laughing, what a fun guy! Brad will be missed by his fellow teachers. My condolences and thoughts are with his family.

Joe/Carol Dane

October 11, 2016

David...Our sincere condolences to you...such a horrific loss
Thinking of you always
Carol and Joe Dane

Amanda Giorgi

October 11, 2016

I am so truly sorry to hear of Brad's passing. I will always remember his kindness above all else. What a wonderful life cut far too short. Brad, I hope you rest peacefully. To Brad's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you in this unimaginable time.

Joan McDuff

October 11, 2016

My deepest sympathy in the loss of your loved one. I have such fond memories of Brad from my math curriculum course and from enjoying his musical talent in the school musical at Queen's. He was gentle and kind and so conscientious. Please know that we all share in your loss.

Valery & Mike Welsh

October 11, 2016

We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss Kathy. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Ted Goldberg

October 11, 2016

Dear Dave,
My deepest condolences to you and the entire family on your most tragic loss. May his memory be a comfort to all of you.

Ben Lackey

October 11, 2016

During my time a Trent I had a few classes with Brad, and our paths crossed often. He was an amazing guy, and always made time to stop and chat. Brad will be missed.

Andrew Wakefield

October 11, 2016

Dave,
Very sorry to hear this news, condolences to you and your family at this time from all your TFOA family.

Henry Chiu

October 11, 2016

Dave,

Deeply saddended to hear about this tragic news. Our deepest condolences.

Karen Steel

October 11, 2016

Dave I am so sorry to hear of you son's passing. Our condolences to you and your family xoxoxo
Karen Steel

JoAnne Sheridan

October 11, 2016

Dear Kathy, my heart aches for you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. He is now at peace.

Nicole Gibson

October 11, 2016

Kathy and family, My hope is that your great memories of Bradley will help you through this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts.

Kent Brown

October 11, 2016

Kathy, I am so sorry to hear of your son's passing, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers...

Shaun Braslis

October 11, 2016

So sorry for your loss.

Kelly Letford

October 11, 2016

Kathy, there are no words that are good enough. Please know I'm thinking of you and wishing you strength and love to make it through these days.

Kate White

October 11, 2016

Kathy,
So sorry to hear this sad news. Will be thinking of you and your family.

Sal Caggiula

October 11, 2016

Dave, I'm deeply saddened to hear of your son's passing. Please accept my sincere condolences and know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kelly Cooper

October 11, 2016

Kathy, I am so sorry to hear about your son Bradley's passing. I will have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Catherine Howorth

October 11, 2016

Dear Kathy,
I am truly sorry for your tragic loss. Please know that you and your family are in my heart and prayers always. Sending lots of love and hugs your way.

Wendy DeSousa

October 11, 2016

Kathy: So sorry to hear about your son. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Michelle Wilson (nee Casey)

October 11, 2016

Dear Kathy, I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your son Bradley. You and your family are in my thoughts and my prayers at this most heartbreaking of times. With love from your cousin Michelle

Brenda Paul

October 11, 2016

Kathy: There are no words to express my sadness
to hear of Bradley's passing. Please know that you and your family are in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers.

Cathy Svetec

October 11, 2016

Kathy, we all share in our deep sorrow with respect to the loss of your son Bradley. We are thinking of you and your family.
RBC -Durham Kawartha Lakeshore Financial Planning Team

Michele Aplin

October 10, 2016

Kath,

My heart goes out to you. No parent should ever have to bury one of their children.

Bradley was an amazingly brilliant young man and so musically gifted. He was a very kind and thoughtful individual. He will be sadly missed by many.

Love You! Xoxo
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Laura Grenon

October 10, 2016

I am so sorry to hear of Brad's passing. As a teacher at Robert Munsch PS, I got to know him as a very warm, caring, and conscientious person. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

October 10, 2016

Kathy, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your son. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Heather Dunn

Michael Wolfman

October 10, 2016

Thinking of you. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Tiffany Bond

October 10, 2016

So very sorry for your loss. Absolutely gut wrenching to read. Though I don't know you, I know your brother Stephen and I can tell he loved your son to the moon and back. No words
Tiffany and Tom

Sheila Fry

October 10, 2016

Kathy, my deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Rosemary Smith

October 10, 2016

Kathy I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your loving son Bradley. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sarah Langer

October 10, 2016

I am shocked and saddened to hear the news of Brad's passing. I have fond memories of Brad being silly and hearing his wonderful laugh. My sincerest condolences to Brad's family and friends.

Linda McIntyre

October 10, 2016

Kathy, thinking of you and your family during this very difficult time. Sending you my love and prayers.

Ziad Hocheimy

October 10, 2016

My heart aches for you and your family during this difficult time. I hope you find strength in God and in the loved ones around you. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

Suzanne Gray

October 10, 2016

Kathy ,there are no words to express my heartfelt sympathy. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kathy Savas

October 10, 2016

My heart is breaking for you Kathy... no parent should ever lose a child. Sending you my thoughts, prayers and love to you and your family xo

Julian Tennent-Riddell

October 10, 2016

I am very saddened to hear of Brad's passing. I was part of the same environmental group at Trent University with Brad. He was always very kind and friendly and happy to talk to me. I would like to send my deepest condolences.

Fulvia Leek

October 10, 2016

Kathy, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Fulvia Leek

Julia Wegiel

October 10, 2016

I am a fellow Queen's teacher and was extremely saddened to hear about this news - Brad always had a big smile on his face and said hello in the hallways. He will be missed. My condolences to his family.

Robbie Cooper

October 10, 2016

My thoughts are with you and your family. Your strength will give your family comfort. Sending you love.

Diana Hogan

October 10, 2016

I was a student at Queen's with Brad. We are all so shocked and saddened to hear of this tragic news. I went to the B. Ed. musical this past winter and saw Brad perform on stage. He did such a wonderful job. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. May he rest in peace.

Alison Keane

October 10, 2016

Sending our warmest thoughts and heartfelt prayers at this most difficult time. Love your cousin Alison (Lynch) and husband Chris Keane

Lynda & Yvonne Foston

October 10, 2016

Kathy you are in our thoughts and prayers, we are so truly sorry for your loss. Yvonne & Lynda

Sylvie Neill

October 10, 2016

No words can express how sorry I am for your loss. I work at Robert Munsch PS and I had the pleasure of knowing him and of having great conversations with Bradley. He loved the kids and they loved him too.I am shocked and saddened by his passing. Please know that I will be praying for you and your family.

Jane Gilbert

October 10, 2016

Kathy, so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Wendy Pulito

October 10, 2016

Kathy I am so sorry to hear this tragic news. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this unbearable time ... xoxo

Liz Heath-Siple

October 10, 2016

No words can express to you, Kathy, how sorry we are for your loss. Know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Robyn Merrett (Hatch)

October 10, 2016

My condolences to the Whalen-Strauss's families and friends

Betty Lou Mroki

October 10, 2016

Kathy I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you .

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