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Brandi Valentine Obituary
Recently graduated from Pittsburgh Classical Academy with high honors, which exemplified her love for learning. While at The Academy, she was an outstanding student, a member of the National Junior Honor Society and a recipient of the President's Award for maintaining honor roll throughout her schooling. Quietly and courageously Brandi passed on January 21, 2008, beloved daughter of Donald C. and Gladys G. Valentine; loving sister of Jamal Valentine, granddaughter of Lillie Valentine; niece of Barbara (Larry) Johnson, Carol Wilson, Debbie (Larry) Valentine-Gray, Pamela Valentine and Alfred (Jill) Valentine. Also survived by a host of loving relatives and friends. Friends may call Friday, 4-9pm at Trinity AME Zion Church, 3548 Centralia Street, Pittsburgh, PA 15204, where the funeral ceremony will be held on Saturday, January 26, 2008 at 11:00am. Interment Chartiers Cemetery. Contributions can be made to the Make A Wish Foundation (Pittsburgh Chapter) and/or The Arthrits Foundation (Eastern PA Chapter), c/o JRA Camp, Bourse Building, 111 S. Independence Mall East, Suite 500, Philadelphia, PA 19106. Arrangements entrusted to WHITE MEMORIAL CHAPEL of Point Breeze.
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43 Entries
February 5, 2008
Valentine Family,
Please know that God is your stregnth. I will keep you all in my prayers
Mercedes Velasquez ( Brandi's Friend from Allegheny Middle)
Don & Marti Mott
February 5, 2008
Don, Gladys and Jamal,
I am still reeling from the devastating news Don gave me this morning when I say him in Market Square. You have our heartfelt sympathy in the loss of Brandi. We will keep your family in prayer and just know she is with GOD and is now at peace. If there is anything we can do, please do not hesitate to call.
Gary Hickman
January 30, 2008
I work with Debra Valentine Gray at JA in Los Angeles. She has kept all of here at JA aware and updated regularly on Brandi's condition. We feel like we knew her, though we never met her. We feel love for the family though we've never met them. We feel inspiration from her spirit though we were not there to witness. God does indeed work in mysterious ways. Glod Bless.
Latonya Patterson
January 30, 2008
Debra inducted Brandi into our lives last year at the beginning of her struggle. I feel like she was my neice. You are always in my prayers and I know that you will make it through this time. Brandi is at peace, so shall your hearts be one day. Know that you have extended family here in Los Angeles, praying and expecting the very best for you.
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Judy Hickey
January 29, 2008
Don and Family,
My thoughts are with you. You remain in my prayers.
Wanda Williams
January 28, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. I can not begin to imagine your grief. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. I'm so sorry that I could not make it home to be with you at this sorrowful time in your lives. Know that you are in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers. I love you all. Call me if you need anything or just want to talk. God Bless you all.
The Betts Family
January 28, 2008
The Valentine Family,
We are totally devastated by the loss of Brandi. May God keep and bless you during this most difficult time. Please rest assure that she is safe in our Saviours arms. Stay before him to carry you thru. Gladys we attempted to get to you- however, we were given some misinformation about the arrangements. Mrs. Betts would like for you to contact her when you are ready.412-704-5015. Also know that her Godmother is looking after her as well. We love you and we are praying for you .
Gail Michael
January 28, 2008
Gladys and family.
I am so sorry for your lost, You will be in my prayers.
I'll lend you for a little time a child of mine, He said ...
For you to love the while he lives ... and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two and three,
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you. And shall his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay, since all from Earth return.
But there are lessons, taught down there, I want this child to learn.
I've looked the wide world over in search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you.
Now ... will you give him all your love ... nor think the labor in vain?
Nor ... hate me when I come to call ... to take him back again?
I fancied that I heard you say ...
“Dear Lord, it will be done!
“For all the joy Your Child shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
“We'll shelter him with tenderness. We'll love him while we may,
“And for the happiness we've known ... forever grateful stay.
“But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes ... and try to understand.” *
God Bless you.
Gail Michael
January 28, 2008
I am sorry for your lost. God is faithful. Gladys you and your family are in my prayers. Ms. Gail, Lisa Meadows mother.
I'll lend you for a little time a child of mine, He said ...
For you to love the while he lives ... and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two and three,
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you. And shall his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay, since all from Earth return.
But there are lessons, taught down there, I want this child to learn.
I've looked the wide world over in search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you.
Now ... will you give him all your love ... nor think the labor in vain?
Nor ... hate me when I come to call ... to take him back again?
I fancied that I heard you say ...
“Dear Lord, it will be done!
“For all the joy Your Child shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
“We'll shelter him with tenderness. We'll love him while we may,
“And for the happiness we've known ... forever grateful stay.
“But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we've planned,
Leah Taylor
January 28, 2008
Mrs Gladys, Mr. Don and Jamal,
I was so sorry to hear about Brandi. I'm praying for you and the family.
Rebekah Taylor Jenkins
January 28, 2008
To the Valentine Family,
I just wanted to express my utmost and sincere apologies on the loss of Brandi. My family and I will be praying for your continued strength now and in the weeks to come.
The Jenkins Family
"...weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning." Psalms 30:5
Lisa Meadows
January 28, 2008
Gladys, Donal and Jamal. Brandi was a very special little girl and one of a kind. I can honestly say I've never met anyone quite like her and she will be missed. Someone her age to be so thoughtful and caring of others needs above her own and never complaining was just a few of many things that made her so special. I will miss seeing her and talking to her. I love you all!
Lisa
Lisa Meadows
January 28, 2008
Gladys, Donald and Jamal. We will all miss Brandi very much. She was one of a kind and very special. I've never met anyone quite like her and she will be missed. I love all of you! My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Nicole McCarthy
January 27, 2008
To Brandi's Family-
I am so sorry for your loss! I knew Brandi from dance class and PCA. We were good friends. I heard from a friend that she had passed, and I didn't want to believe it was true! I had to find it out myself. Brandi was such a good person, she cared about everybody. Brandi was a terrific friend and always knew what to say if you were feeling upset. I can't believe she is gone! It's just not fair!!! I lived in Pittsburgh for most of my life, and we just moved to Florida 2 years ago. I wished I could of been up there to see Brandi one last time, to tell her that she was one of my best friends. God Bless you all!!! I hope you all can get through this. My family and I send our condolences. Brandi will be in our prayers!
Michelle Frantz
January 26, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. May God be with you and your family during this difficult time. My prayers are with you.
Bill Watkins
January 26, 2008
To Don and family members, I am sorry to hear of your lost and may God be with you through these times of sorrow. To be absent from the flesh is to be present with the LORD.
Kyle Lewis
January 25, 2008
Aunt Gladys, Uncle Donald, & Jamal
My heart and love goes out to you during this time of grief. God blessed you with an angel, she will always be with you.
Love,
Kyle
Tina McCorkle-Jackson
January 25, 2008
May God's Peace be with you and your family at this time and trust in the fact that Brandi is among Angels at Peace.
Dorothy Akrie
January 25, 2008
To the Valintine family, No matter what happens in this life...God is forever with you and your family. You are never without our thoughts and prayers of those who care about you. we are here to support you.
Harold and Dorothy Akrie
Joanne Parris
January 25, 2008
My prayers are with you. In deepest Sympathy and may God bless you.
Mrs. Joanne Grant Parris & Family
Connie M. Taylor
January 25, 2008
To Gladys & Family
May The lord BLESS your family with peace and comfort in the days ahead. Stay steadfast in prayer
Eugenia Kenney
January 25, 2008
The Valentine Family
My heart goes out to all of you in this time of grief.
Eugenia Kenney and Family
Josephine & Ralph Jr. Barnett
January 25, 2008
Dearest Valentine Family,
A lovely angel arrived at Brandi Bed and gave her wings to Fly, Brandi spoke so softly and sweetly that you listen to her with all your heart. I will always remember she offered me a cookie she made in home ecom. As I ate the cookie she explained how she made it not knowing I love to bake. We eat, talked and laughed about the cookies. Brani stated she would make more. Then helping her to design that beauiful house was a wonderful craft for me. Our friendship grew from that day on. Keep your hearts in the Faith of God, Keep your love as strong as Brandi heart, Keep your hope alive due to the fact lifes goes on. Share her memory with all that you love. Peace and understanding at this time.
I
Scarlet Howard
January 25, 2008
My prayers and thoughts our with you and your family. Allow the Lord to be your strength during your hour of grief.
Love scarlet
Regina Coleman
January 25, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Victoria Wade Haynes
January 25, 2008
Donald and Family
You have my heartfelt sympathy at the loss of your daughter. Praying your comfort and strength during this difficult time.
Lynn Butler
January 24, 2008
Gladys and Family,
My Master has called me and my task on earth is done; He has come to tell me that my last great Victory's won.
Just in case your load gets heavy when I close my eyes to rest; Just remember Jesus loves you and He'll help you stand the test; Just in case you're sadly wondering why I left you all; I was somewhat tired and weary and I longed for Heaven, My Home.
Tell my friends that I was ready, Angels stood around my bed; They were there to bring me comfort and relayed each prayer I said.
Just in case your eyes are tear-filled and your heart-strings nearly break; Just hold on to each promise-hold on for Jusus' sake.
He has promised to be near you, to calm the grief with-in your heart.
Do not weep for me my loved ones, for I'm still here with you.
Gladys, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Matthews, Saddler Families
January 24, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult and sad time.
Sara Greenwell
January 24, 2008
Gladys and Family:
I was so shocked and saddend to hear of your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Andrea Ansell
January 24, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
PAMELA DIXON
January 24, 2008
TO VALENTINE FAMILY, YOUR IN MY PRAYERS AND HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY.
January 24, 2008
To everyone Brandi knew...I'm sure she lived by these words:
I’ll take your love with me
Everything’s okay, it’s alright
And when you go to sleep
See me on my way
I’m alright
Oh, please remember these
Words I say to you
It’s a far better place
I’m going to
I’ll take your smile with me
Everything’s okay, it’s alright
And when you think of me
See me laugh and play
I’m alright
Oh, please remember these
Words I say to you
It’s a far better place
I’m going to
I’ll take your love with me
Everything’s okay, it’s alright
Alright
Vanessa Callender
January 24, 2008
i am very sorry about your loss. Brandi was a very nice girl.I loved her and she was a really good friend.I will miss her.
Deana Nell
January 24, 2008
Dear Don, Gladys and Jamal,
Heaven has a new angel her name is Brandi.......
God Bless you during this very difficult time...
Our thoughts, prayers and much love are with you ...
Deana and Daniel Nell
Brit Thomas
January 24, 2008
Don,
This is Brit Thomas from Camp Soles. I know how you were there for me whenever I lost my mother. I just wanted to let you know that I am also here for you in your time of need. If there is every a time that you need to talk please feel free to contact me, this goes to your whole family also. I know that loss is hard, but you will see your little girl in heaven someday! Along with all your sorrow just try to remember the good times, because Im sure that with as special as she was to you that you have had many with her. You are in my thought and my prayers.
Kelley Benson
January 24, 2008
Gladys and Family,
Don't Cry ~
Don't cry any more tears for me.
I am at peace. I'm finally free.
Like the eagle in the sky,
I am soaring. So, please don't cry.
I know you love me. I love you, too.
But, my time was over;
was finally through.
I have ascended
to a better place,
which is not confined
by time or space.
To those that loved me,
I did not fall.
I only succumbed
to a higher call.
Do not mourn me.
I am with you still.
I'll be with you always,
from dawn ------until.
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Kelley Benson
Dawnell Dyer
January 24, 2008
To Gladys and Family.
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
God Bless you all,
Beverly Walker
January 24, 2008
My heart and prayers are with all of you during this heart breaking time.
Dawn Monteiro / Jackson
January 24, 2008
God planned the smallest detail of our lives on the day he formed the earth. He know the circumstance of our days, the lives we touch the love we share with others. He blessed your family with this wonderful unique gift who was a part of his plan . Know that there will be a day very soon that you will see that perfect gift called Brandi again. And together you all will praise God for his love and mercy.
Love you Dawn
Lauren Horne
January 24, 2008
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Jean Simcic (Schenley HS)
January 24, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of you loss. My heart goes out to all of you. If there is anything I can do for you please let me know.
Homewood 1 Staff
January 24, 2008
Dear Gladys & Family,
We, at Homewood 1, are thinking of you during this most difficult time. We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Danielle, Jerry, Mindy, Wendy, JoAnn, Jess, Janice, & Merlean
sharmane price
January 24, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
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