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Brenda (Kaylor) Longstreth
1966 - 2014
Brenda (Kaylor) Longstreth
1966 - 2014
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BORN
1966
DIED
2014
Brenda (Kaylor) Longstreth Obituary
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Paul Rega
January 19, 2015
I knew her as 'Kay,' her pen name--but also as Brenda--she was a true friend--someone who gave for the sake of giving and never expected anything in return. May the people she touched through her rich life be enriched as I was from the time I knew her. RIP my sweet friend, and may your writing carry on--where ever you may be--your true love of life--writing.....
tobi Johnson
May 20, 2014
I will always cherish the friendship that we had miss and love you always
Phyllis Westerfield
May 18, 2014
Brenda was a dear friend of mine. Though we didn't see each other as often as we wanted - we would meet for coffee and have girl chat every few months. We would call each other "just to check in" every month or so. I hadn't been able to reach her for sometime. Tonight a mutual friend came into where I work and told me about her death. She was a cherished, loving person. I will miss her the rest of my life. I can't believe she's gone. Seth and I share the same birthday. Seth to you if you need to talk or want anything call Miss Phyllis. I'll end by saying what we always said - Goodbye, I love you.
Pam McCuistion
April 4, 2014
Brenda we celebrated your life at Seth's old school St Albert the Great during their Mass dedicated to you and your memory. It still doesn't seem possible you aren't going to breeze into the office with your trademark brisk walk, quick smile and great laugh any moment. You impacted so many people in your life...mine included, you are so missed. So very missed...
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T S
March 28, 2014
I just found out....I can't believe it. You were so sweet and encouraging and a woman who supported other women. I'll miss your cheery and encouraging texts.
Suzi Love
March 16, 2014
I miss your cheery messages every day in our writing group and I still can't believe you're not going to pop up on my screen and say hello.
Rest In Peace.
tobi johnson
March 16, 2014
thank you for your book I really enjoyed it and I will cherish it foreverlove you miss you
David Jackson
March 15, 2014
I knew Brenda and Seth during my time at Central Presbyterian Church. I am deeply saddened by the news of her tragic accident. May her light continue to shine through Seth and the rest of her family.
jane Barcelona
March 12, 2014
I miss my friend so much. Hope you rest in peace. Seth and family your in my prayers. God bless you always. Take care. Jane Barcelona
Harley Girl
March 9, 2014
Brenda and I worked well together when it came to writing. We worked even better as friends. Although we never met face to face we planned on it when our lives calmed down...but until then we just kept plugging away. She called me "Harley Girl" a nickname I'll keep forever and always be reminded of her. I miss ya chick. We miss you. Here's to the Unicorns...and rainbows. we even have a little site set up for you that we will do something special with. We kept your name. <3
Rena Koontz
March 8, 2014
My sincere condolences. Rena Koontz, Crimson Romance Sister
Stephanie Freeman
March 7, 2014
There are no words..... only prayers.
Stephanie Freeman
Lisa Weseman
March 7, 2014
I knew Brenda as Kay, a wonderfully supportive and fun writing buddy. Like everyone else, I am so saddened and shocked by her passing. I hope her sons know how loved she was by her fellow writers and how much we will miss her.
Terri Ponce
March 7, 2014
Though I knew Brenda only through writing, and as Kay, I can truly say she'll be missed. My thoughts and prayers to her family.
Irene Preston
March 7, 2014
My condolences to Brenda's family. It was my great honor to know her as Kay Rogal, a fellow author and romantic.
Tamara Gill
March 7, 2014
My deepest condolences to Brenda (Kay Rogal's) family. She was a lovely, giving soul taken too soon. My heart goes out to her boys and family. RIP my friend. We'll miss you always. X
Lisa White
March 6, 2014
So very sorry to hear of her loss. She was a wonderful writing spirit and support to her fellow writers.
Brenna Chase
March 6, 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss. Brenda was a lovely person and will be missed by all who had a chance to know her.
tessa Berkley
March 6, 2014
So sorry to hear of her passing. I know your hearts are heavy. Brenda was a joy to know through Crimson romance as the wonderful Kay Rogal. She will be missed.
Tessa Berkley.
Becky Lower
March 6, 2014
Such a lovely person whose candle was extinguished much too soon. So sorry to hear the news.
Lola Karns
March 6, 2014
I only knew Brenda as Kay Rogal but I will miss her kindness and support. My heart goes out to her family.
Susie Piatt
March 6, 2014
To Seth and Family and to all who are hurting and missing Brenda. You are in my prayers and know I am thinking of you.
She was a blessing and a gift to all who knew her. I will never forget her. I remember the smile on her face and how much fun she had when she was dancing and spending time with friends.
Dance with the angels my beautiful friend...
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. Matthew 5:4
Ken Owens
February 24, 2014
I just heard today of Brenda's accident and am very sorry for the loss to her family, friends, and coworkers. I only knew her somewhat in passing because of professional connections, but it was obvious that she cared about helping those whom we served in similar agency programs. She seemed to be a sweetheart. May God overwhelm her loved ones with his grace.
Lisa Muhlenkamp
February 24, 2014
Brenda is my cousin. We played together as children when we lived close to each other. It had been 6 years since I last saw her and I wish we had kept in touch. As adults, I connected with her lively and generous spirit and was deeply saddened to find out about her passing. Condolences to John & Pat, Chris & Seth.
Until we met again, little cousin, RIP.
Karen Kincaid
February 22, 2014
Please accept my sympathy. It was a very sad day when I heard of Brenda's accident. I met her while a client of Capabilities and enjoyed talking with her, she was always friendly and upbeat.
February 22, 2014
I met Brenda two years ago through Capabilities. She was a warm and caring person. We talked about religion and life challenges. She has truly touched my heart. I will always remember her smile. May your family be protected by God's loving arms.
Louise Plant
Cindy Wagner
February 21, 2014
Brenda was a sweet, kind, caring person. I knew Brenda and Seth when they attended Central Presbyterian Church. Such a sweet family. Praying God's love will bring healing and strength to her family and friends.
February 21, 2014
Seth,my deepest sympathy in the loss of your mother. Mothers are so special. I remember your first days at Mulberry Bush.She always wanted what was best for you. She was a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Carol Humenansky
Mary Arnett
February 20, 2014
Seth, your mother and I were friends at Central Presbyterian Church several years ago. She came to some parties at my house, and I always enjoyed and respected her. You and your family have been in my prayers each day. Please know that many people care about you.
Bertha Buttner
February 20, 2014
I am so saddened for the loss. She will be deeply missed by many. She helped so many people (including me)! My Deepest Condolences to her family, friends, and co-workers. R.I.P. Brenda - BeBe
James Stricker
February 20, 2014
Brenda was a great person as a friend and a co-worker. She will be greatly missed and my condolences to the family. Brenda always had a big smile and friendly to everyone she met with. Prayers are with her and the family.
February 20, 2014
My sincere condolences to the family:
She sounds like she was a very caring person. As you and the family try to go on with your lives just keep talking to God in prayer for he hears all who call on him. Romans 15:4.
Julie Burt
February 20, 2014
To Brenda's family, thank you for sharing the gift of Brenda with us. Brenda and Seth go all the way back to my days at the Mulberry Bush Child Center but in recent years we have shared God's love and acceptance at St. Albert Parish. We are so deeply sorry for your loss (and ours.) Our prayers are with you at this shocking, difficult time. Our community at St. Albert would like to celebrate Brenda's life in Christ and help to bring closure to her time with us here on earth. There is a strong need for us, at the church and the school, to honor her legacy. Please contact the Church at 293-1191, ask for Katie or Julie B to help us make arrangements for this to happen. Again we pray that all of you will find peace through these very troubled waters.
Nikki Green
February 19, 2014
Huge prayers for Brenda's sons, family, & friends. Brenda invested time, energy, kindness, and encouragement into the life of my son - with Asperger's syndrome. What a huge blessing she has been in my life & his. She helped him get a job he enjoys. She helped him with social skills and with the job skills he needed. She helped me so much as a mom. She sat with me & encouraged me. She left me inspiring messages & texts about my son. She said she knew how important it was (as a mom) to know someone understands & appreciates your child. What a gift from The Lord. I thank God for her.
February 19, 2014
Brenda, I will miss your smile and our friendly conversations. You were always kind and I loved running into you about town. I remember most sitting at St Alberts playground after school watching the kids play and visiting. Rest in peace, Brenda. Prayers for your family, esp. Seth. Penny Timmer
Terry Bauer
February 19, 2014
I remember Brenda as my job coach at Capabilities, Inc. she was a sweet, kind person who helped me as an individual. I haven't seen her in a long time, then when I heard it was her in the accident I was saddened by the news. My condolences go out to the family, co-workers and friends. God Bless!
Shawna Parris-McKee
February 18, 2014
Brenda and I were in the MAC program at Sinclair. We shared a lot of laughs and cries during our studies together. She was a beautiful person inside and out with a strong faith. I thank God that our paths met. May God give you all comfort.
Mary Stein
February 18, 2014
To the family of Brenda...
Jim and I were, along with our daughter, Laurie, shocked to hear about Brenda's passing, especially in such a tragic way. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Brenda was in many respects like a member of our family. Along with our daughter, Laurie, we have shared in her times of happiness, sadness, and trials. We were blessed to know her and her two sons, Chris and Seth. She loved her sons very much and fought like a soldier in battle when it came to their welfare. She may have gotten knocked down, and bruised at times, but she was no coward. She got up, brushed herself off, and got back into the battle.
We will remember Brenda for her quick smile, her spirit of fun, as a loving mother, and a working woman who devoted the last seven years on Earth helping those who were in need.
Farewell Brenda! See you in Heaven.
Love Jim and Mary Stein
February 18, 2014
May God give you and your family comfort during your time of grief.
Life, like a mist, appears for just a day, then disappears tomorrow.
All that we are can quickly fade away,
Replaced with tears and sorrow.
If a man should die, can he live again?
Hear the promise God has made:
He will call; The dead will answer.
They shall live at his command.
For he will have a longing
For the work of his own hand.
So have faith, and do not wonder,
For our God can make us stand.
And we shall live forever,
As the work of his own hand.
Henry Butler
February 18, 2014
Seth, I will leave a message here and hope that you read it since I don't have your address or phone number. I wanted you to know that I am praying for you and wishing that that never would have happened to your Mom. My Mom liked your Mom a lot and always said nice things about her. I didn't know her that well, but I know your Mom helped people where she worked and I know that kind of job takes a good person. I also know that every time I saw your Mom, she had a smile on her face and she would smile and wave at me. I am really really sorry this happened. I know it doesn't make any sense at all. I hope you are ok. I wish I could do something that could help, but I don't think anything can help this situation except for you to know that other kids can imagine the pain and sadness you feel.
Lisa Becker
February 18, 2014
My heart goes out to Seth and his family at the loss of his dear mother. Brenda was a kind and gentle soul who did an excellent job in raising her son, Seth. I had the pleasure of teaching Seth art for several years at St. Albert the Great. The two of them were so kind to me when my own family suffered a tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you Seth. Remember that God walks this journey with us. With much love, Mrs. Becker
February 18, 2014
I will always remember Brenda as a bubbly individual who would always have a smile when she came into the MAC office at Sinclair College. I am so blessed to have had many conversations with Brenda while she was studying to become an interpreter. My thoughts and prayers are with her family....Jana Deeter
jane Barcelona
February 17, 2014
Seth and family. Brenda was a very sweet and awesome women mom and friend with a heart of gold. She were surely be missed. I so very sorry for your families loss. God bless you all now and always. Take care love. Jane Barcelona.
TJ Beams Underhill
February 17, 2014
Brenda was my childhood babysitter who I loved dearly and I know how much she loved me and my brother and sisters as well. Although I havent seen or spoken to Brenda since I was 12yrs old, now 41, sounds like she was an amazing woman. I am deeply saddened by her loss. I remember so much about her and our times spent together. Not really sure how we lost contact. I was just a kid but I am so so sorry I never got a chance to speak to her or see her again. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends. May God give you strength through this difficult time. RIP Brenda. You were loved by so many
Brenda and Seth 2011
Lauie Stein
February 17, 2014
Laurie and Brenda in Mendon
Laurie Stein
February 17, 2014
Laurie and Brenda in High School
Laurie Stein
February 17, 2014
Brenda and Seth
Laurie Stein
February 17, 2014
Brenda and Chris
Laurie Stein
February 17, 2014
tobi johnson
February 17, 2014
I miss you with all my heart I remember the night that we set laughed and cried we talk about the good times bad timewe were neighbors and we were friends rest in peace I love you
Marcia Griffin
February 17, 2014
Very sad to hear. I only got to meet her briefly, but knew she was a warm, kind person. I pray for her family and Co - workers.
Nancy Hankey
February 17, 2014
To Seth and the rest of the family - my sincere condolences to you at this time. Your mom was such a gift to others in this world and always was there to lend a helping hand. Seth - you have so many of yours mom's qualities - kindness, compassion and a willingness to help others. Please know that the entire St. Albert community is praying for you and are here if you need anything. Love Mrs. Hankey.
February 17, 2014
Brenda and I were next door neighbors on Belle Isle for nearly six years. Brenda was a wonderful person and great MOM to Seth. She was kind and caring more of others than of herself. We had many an occasion to talk out back of our where we lived and I enjoyed every one of them. We might talk about how the day went, we might just plain throw some good ole gossip in there. No matter what the conversation was about we both knew we could be "ourselves". Many times we laughed, many times we cried.
Right now I cry! I can feel the hole that you filled in my life.
I SHALL NEVER FORGET YOU!
And one day if I've been real good, maybe I'll just see you again!
I LOVE YOU BRENDA LONGSTRETH
LARRY WM. ANDERSON
February 17, 2014
To the family of Brenda Longstreth. Please accept my condolences. She will always be remembered because of her kind acts and the lives she touched. May the "God of all comfort, comfort you in your time of sorrow.
Michelle Hollensteiner
February 17, 2014
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Michelle Hollensteiner
February 17, 2014
I was so sorry to hear about Brenda. I remember she took me to a concert back in 2004 or 2007. We went to see Rebecca St. James. She attended the same church as me several years ago. She gave great hugs. Brenda's death was a real shock to me. I am deeply saddened.
Michelle Hollensteiner Dayton, Ohio
February 17, 2014
I am still feeling numb from the loss.
I have been friends with Brenda since kindergarten. We had continued that friendship all through the years. I had even talked with her the night before she died. I am thankful to have been able to say "I love you" to her one last time.
I find comfort in the fact she is in Heaven, and I will see her again.
My love and prayers are sent to her boys, Chris and Seth. My sympathies go out to her parents and her brother.
Laurie Stein
A-D
February 17, 2014
Not sure how to phrase the loss projected by Brenda's death. Already miss her friendship and her "mentoring". Will never forget the time she and her boys spent with me in my small apartment. Thanking God for the bringing Brenda into my life and for her willingness to extend friendship, encouragement, and advice to another interpreter and ASL teacher. May Brenda's influence continue to ripple through the lives of those who knew her.
Dan Bledsoe
February 17, 2014
While I did not know Brenda personally, I know the Lord called a special person home to be with him. My prayers go out to her close friends and family in this time of sorrow.
Carolyn Garrison
February 16, 2014
My heart aches for the loss of Brenda. Brenda was such a beautiful and talented individual and will be missed by many. As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens. Cherish your memories.
Carolyn Garrison (St. Marys, Ohio)
Terry
February 16, 2014
Saddened to hear on the loss of Brenda; she was such a warm and nice person, I had her as a job coach, she taught me how to send applications and resumes to different companies, something I never did before. I'm so glad I met her, my condolences go out to her family, co-workers and friends.
John Spencer
February 16, 2014
Words cannot express the sorrow and shock we feel at your suffering. Please know that we hold you constantly in our thoughts and prayers as you grieve this deep loss.
Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.
In deep sympathy,
A Friend who was touched by her kindness to others.
Brenda
Pam McCuistion
February 16, 2014
My heart is broken for the loss of this beautiful person. Brenda was so many things to so many people, a devoted, loving mother, a published author, a dedicated employee advocating for those who couldn't advocate for themselves, and a dear dear friend. Heaven has grown sweeter, and our hearts heavier, I will miss you dear friend, and every time I go barefoot I will think of you...
Kathy Rutschilling
February 16, 2014
I knew Brenda when she taught a beginner sign language class at St. Marys Hospital. There were several of us who became friends and continued getting together when the class was finished. Seth may remember us coming to the house in Mendon. Brenda and I shared the same birthday. Heard about the accident and am heart broken for her family.
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