Brendan Keith Barker obituary, Alameda, CA

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Brendan Keith Barker

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Elaine Willis

August 25, 2025

I just saw that Brendan has passed away. I would like to share some photos of him. These are from 2017-2018.

Ted Boet

July 28, 2025

I kind and gentle person who noticed the big picture! He will be missed, especially by the kids lives he enriched.

Kate Meade

July 24, 2025

I just learned of Brendan's passing. He was so well-loved in the Little League community. My family and I will remember his infectious smile, positive approach, and kind words to all he encountered.

Jim Quilici

July 23, 2025

No one I knew had both more talents and less inadequacies than Brendan. No one remembered names and faces better, or cared about them all more, than he did. He was the best at life. He was entirely unique. He was not just my umpire colleague - he was my dear friend.

Beverly Woo

July 19, 2025

I met Brendan a couple of years ago thru his partner Jessica. My interactions with him has always been enjoyable! He's kind, loves to help out anyway he can. He loves Jessica, Declan, Cormac but also ADORES & LOVES Trini to the fullest like I do! Every now & then I would see him around town & I know it's him by the sound of the massive amounts of keys he would have on his keychain :) :)
R.I.P Brendan we will all miss you.

Merideth Mehlberg

July 14, 2025

I have a specific memory of Brendan helping my kids set up a lemonade stand one time during elementary school. They were so excited to have the stand, and he was so encouraging helping out and being a good customer. What a wonderful human! And what a strong role model he has been for Alameda baseball youth. Sending love and light to Laura, Megan, Ally, and family.

Ahroon (Tooney Henderson) Yoch

July 14, 2025

To the Barker Family - I am so sorry to hear of Brendan's passing. While I did not know him as an adult. I do remember him on the many times I hung out at your house. He was always so friendly and had a huge smile on his face. What a beautiful tribute to him, I enjoyed reading about his accomplishments and what he gave to the Alameda Baseball Community. I know he will be missed by family, friends and the community.

Kirk Humbles Jr

July 11, 2025

Fly high Brendan and you better have the same strike zone in heaven as you did on earth Love you bro.

The Humbles Family

Javier Dalida

July 11, 2025

I remember hitting dingers in little league and him always cheering me on and giving me props. Thank you for being a good ump and such a great genuine person.
God bless you, I will pray for you and your family.

Carrie Minault

July 10, 2025

You´re gone too soon Brendan. You were the kindest person I´ve ever met and always had something thoughtful to say. You´re reunited with your dad and brother now. My thoughts are with your wonderful family, partner, and Alameda baseball.

Corey Tillman

July 10, 2025

Rest easy, Brendan. What started as a landlord-tenant relationship turned into a real friendship, and I´m grateful for that. You were always kind, real, and easy to talk to. You´ll be missed more than words can say. Thank you for the laughs, the talks, and the good energy you always brought around.

Til we meet again, my friend.

Corey.T

Harry DeCourcy

July 10, 2025

Brendan Barker was one of the most genuine people I have ever known, and was a true friend to the DeCourcy family for many years. I always looked forward to seeing his smile and engaging in banter with him out on the ball fields. He umpired and mentored all 4 of our sons, who each admired him very much. Brendan would always text me when he saw our kids around Alameda, making sure that they were not getting into too much mischief :) - He also came by our house to check on them one time when we were out of town pretending to be a police officer. I hope Brendan knew how much impact he had on so many. He was one of a kind and will be sorely missed. RIP, Blue!
-Harry, Natasha, Owen, Preston, Emerson & Cameron DeCourcy

Nae

July 10, 2025

We love you Brendan ! Thank you for spreading your positivity, love and showing that there are still good people in the world through all the chaos. Your energy, smile & spirit will be greatly missed. Thankful to have had the chance to experience you ! Your light will live on, Never goodbye but until we meet again !
-Nae

Veronica C

July 10, 2025

So very sorry to hear about Brendan´s passing. He was such a great person and I´m glad I got to know him. He was always so happy to be umping at the ballfields!

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