Brian Robert Gong

Brian Robert Gong obituary, Mountain View, CA

Brian Robert Gong

Brian Gong Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 16, 2024.
Brian Gong was the master of the selfie. Family, friends, competitors, co-workers and colleagues were captured in innumerable selfies. Often in front of landscapes or landmarks but also in conference rooms or outside the many restaurants Brian visited locally or in in his worldwide travels. These photos now bring comfort to the many who will miss him dearly.

Brian Robert Gong, age 52, of Mountain View, California, passed in his sleep on Wednesday, September 4, 2024.

Brian was born August 25, 1972 to Albert and Roberta Gong in Watsonville, California. He graduated from Salinas High school in 1991 and attended UCLA, graduating in 1995. Brian received his MBA from Santa Clara University in 2000.

Brian recently joined Pure Storage in Analysts Relations. In his short time there, he established himself as an integral member of that team; he was a supportive and dedicated co-worker and a seasoned professional who maintained lasting relationships with his industry colleagues. Brian had held similar positions at Cisco Systems, NetScout and other technology companies. Many will also remember a much younger Brian working at his family's Star Market in Salinas.

Brian was a competitive tennis player, reaching USTA level 4.0.; last fall he helped his Cisco team win the Division 2 BAITL championship. Brian usually recorded his matches, studying the videos to improve his game and sharing analyses and pointers with teammates and opponents alike.

Brian had a passion for travel, often with his mother by his side, visiting over 45 countries - with many more trips planned. He had recently reached Million-Miler status on United Airlines, finally achieved on a flight from Washington, D.C., to San Francisco. Many of us received postcards from exotic locations as Brian circled the globe.

Beyond these are so many other aspects of Brian to capture. Devoted and loving son and brother, generous uncle, awesome partner. Food connoisseur. Auto enthusiast. Knowledgeable and opinionated on music and art - he could never pass up a museum or concert. Lifelong friend to so many.

Everyone will miss his bright and infectious smile, droll wit and positive outlook on life.

The world has lost a truly beautiful human being.

Brian is survived by his parents Albert and Roberta Gong of Sacramento, brother Eric Gong, sister-in-law Kathy, niece Marissa and nephew Christian also of Sacramento, and his partner, Trent Hemmings, as well as many aunts, uncles and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his grand parents, Tom and Edna Gong, Robert and Hing Oi Din, and his uncle, Howard Din Gong.

A private family service will be held for Brian in Sacramento on Tuesday, September 17, 2024. The family will hold an invitation-only Celebration of Life for Brian in Sacramento on Sunday, October 27, 2024.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations in Brian's memory to The USTA Foundation (https://www.ustafoundation.com/) or The Trevor Project (https://www.thetrevorproject.org/)

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Liz Nakagawa

October 27, 2024

Brian was the nicest person. He was a great listener and loved to talk about traveling and cars. We would often times sit either in the stands or sidelines as his niece Marissa and my daughter Alyssa would play on the same teams together for over a decade. I thoroughly enjoyed catching up with Brian when I would see him. His kind gentle soul will be forever missed.

Harold M

October 26, 2024

Brian was my college roommate at UCLA for a time. He saved me from a predicament at the time and made the rest of the year a memorable one -- full of life and fun. His legacy has always been that of generosity - of time, resources, and kindness. My heartfelt condolences to his loved ones.

Janice Osugi

October 10, 2024

It´s hard to remember which classes I *didn´t* have with Brian in middle school. He was my date to more than a couple school dances and our interests overlapped in many ways in studies and love of tennis. Brian´s smile, joking, caring, and honesty will always hold a special place in my heart. Condolences to all his family and friends.

Michael Segal

September 23, 2024

When I joined NETSCOUT, Brian transferred to me the responsibility of partner management, and from the very beginning, he was incredibly supportive, patient, and always attentive to every detail. His kindness and dedication made a lasting impact on me and everyone around him. Brian will be deeply missed, and his legacy will remain with us always.

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Carolyn Schapper

September 22, 2024

Friends since Jr high Brian often let me know when he was in DC. One time he didn´t tell me but by chance we ran into each other after he was leaving a museum and I was returning from a Women´s March. We always chatted about our international travels- most recently we both went separately to the European Christmas markets last year at the same time. The last time I saw him was a year ago when he literally flew in and out of DC the same day to reach 950K frequent flyer miles. Per his obituary I´m so happy he finally hit the million. Rest in Peace friend.

Michele Hetland

September 21, 2024

I went to jr. High with Brian. I remember him being kind, smart, and helpful. My condolences to his family.

Anna Dorion

September 21, 2024

Brian and I attended Washington Junior High in Salinas, CA. We became close friends when we had journalism class together. I even saw my first ever concert with him: The Cover Girls during the summer of 1988, before our first year of high school. He went to Salinas High and I attended North High. We periodically kept in touched, and the last I saw him was when we had lunch in Mountain View at a Chinese restaurant in 2013.

Rest in Paradise sweet Brian...

Michelle Rhodes

September 20, 2024

I remember playing Brian and I playing with his Legos. His elaborate castles and my tall 2 Lego tower. We had fun. Haven't thought about that in a very long time. You are missed my friend

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Chhavi

September 17, 2024

Rest in peace dear dear Brian. You were one rare human being in your short life on earth, and even now you continue to bring so many people together and have helped to build so many new relationships- what an amazing soul you are!

I miss you every day as a friend, colleague, and team member at Pure Storage. But I also know that loving souls like you never die- you will stay on in the hearts, smiles, thoughts, and discussions of the thousands of lives you touched.

Christine Johansen

September 17, 2024

Brian took over my role at NetScout when I left for Cisco, and then eventually made his way to Cisco where we worked together over the years. He was kind and funny and I am stunned to hear of his death. He was so full of life. My condolences to his family.

Eduardo

September 16, 2024

One of my first tennis matches in the US was with Brian. Since then, we played countless times. He used to have low shots; I was the opposite: high balls with topspin. Games were always tough for him, and I found it challenging to play against his style. But in the end, we would always shake hands and have some fun. I will miss seeing him in the courts.

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