Brian F. Igoe

Brian F. Igoe obituary, Belmont, MA

Brian F. Igoe

Brian Igoe Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 18, 2023.
Brian Francis Igoe, 70, peacefully passed away on December 16 after a brave battle with Alzheimer's disease. Born June 5, 1953, Brian grew up in Watertown, MA and was a graduate of Watertown High School and UMass Amherst. Brian had a successful business career and was an accomplished athlete, notably running his fastest marathon time of 2:20:20 in the 1983 Boston Marathon - and we know Brian is smiling down from above with this detail being in the first paragraph of his obituary.

Brian lived an active, adventurous life. After college, he traveled the world and passed his love of travel, appreciation of world cultures, and zest for life to all of his children. Brian was a champion runner, avid road and mountain biker and, as an adult, fell in love with skiing and snowboarding. Throughout his life, Brian coached countless youth sports including over 20 years coaching skiing and snowboarding at Stratton Mountain in Vermont, all while maintaining a successful marketing career. Never one to sit still, the bicycle was Brian's preferred mode of transportation. He was famous for biking seemingly impossible distances, including pedaling to the hospital for the birth of (at least) one of his children. Brian's passion for biking was only matched by his enthusiasm for biking attire. May we all have the same courage he displayed in fearlessly donning spandex, regardless of the venue or occasion.

Brian loved music, being outdoors, dogs, adventures with friends, and devouring a pint of ice cream in one sitting. With Brian's passing, we also mourn the loss of Brigham's Ice Cream, as Brian's patronage likely sustained it. Brian was a devoted father, shuttling his children around New England for various soccer games, ski races, and social events. During his final year of life, he reflected that his most cherished memories were mountain biking with Danny in Moab, UT, hiking with Colin in the Himalayas of Nepal, and skydiving with Tory - each combining his two great loves: adventure and his children.

In his later years, Brian's greatest joy was his grandchildren. He delighted in spending time with them, awestruck by every milestone from their first smile to learning to ride a bike. Despite the progression of Alzheimer's, he loved listening to them read and he never failed to leave them puzzled by his disappearing coin trick. He demonstrated patience, love, and admiration in every interaction. They will miss him dearly.

Brian is survived by his three children and their spouses: Daniel Igoe and Julia Ludwig of New York, NY; Colin and Molly Igoe of Dorset, VT; Victoria and George Barton of Canton, MA and his six beloved grandchildren: Madeline and William Igoe; MacQuarrie, Harry, and Angus Igoe; and Lucy Barton. He is also survived by his siblings Daniel Igoe, Kevin Igoe, Linda Dalaskey, and Stephen Igoe; and countless cousins, nieces, and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents Daniel and Marion Igoe, and his sister Mary Beth Milliken.

All are warmly invited to a remembrance and celebration of Brian's life on January 6, 2024 at 11:00am at St. Mary's Episcopal Church, 258 Concord Street, Newton Lower Falls, MA. Reception and celebration to follow at 12:30pm at Trillium Canton, 100 Royall Street, Canton, MA. Attire can be joyful and - of course - biking spandex is encouraged. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Association in Brian Igoe's name.

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January 10, 2024

Elissa Mulvey posted to the memorial.

January 6, 2024

Mitch Myers posted to the memorial.

January 6, 2024

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Elissa Mulvey

January 10, 2024

Brian "I go fast" Igoe was someone I will always remember. He was an amazing mentor and we shared many a tale of "life". Hugs and love to all that had that pleasure of knowing him. Xoxo Team Mulvey

Mitch Myers

January 6, 2024

It was a beautiful service. Brian would´ve been proud of you.

Sue Villanova

January 6, 2024

My husband Jeff Villanova introduced me to Brian and Anne in 2009. Jeff had rented a room in the "Ney House" at the bottom of Stratton Mt. with the Igoe family for several years. Brian and Anne welcomed me (and my chocolate lab, Inis) with such warmth, kindness and love. I remember hearing many stories of their adventures together, family times at Stratton and endless snowboarding tales -- many TALL ones I may add :) . I also was a "student" of Brian's as he shared many tips and suggestions as I started my snowboarding career in my late 30s!
I have many fond memories of Happy Hours at the old Grizzly's, dinners and roaring fires at the Ney House and the yummy Wilcox ice cream from Windhall Market that he introduced me too!
One special memory was Brian meeting our son Declan for the first time. We brought him to VT when he was about 7 weeks old. Brian was a natural with all babies and kids. I recall him holding and rocking Declan in front of the fireplace, so sweet.
Danny, Colin and Tori and families - I hope you find peace in the coming months and continue to feel your dad's presence even in the smallest of ways. Know that he'll always be watching over you and cheering the loudest from up above!
Love, Sue Villanova

Sue Villanova

January 6, 2024

Cheers to you Igoe!
Jeff & Sue Villanova's Wedding
Laurita Winery, NJ 4/8/2011

Jeff Villanova

January 5, 2024

Jeff Villanova

January 5, 2024

Jeff Villanova

January 5, 2024

Jeff Villanova

January 5, 2024

Jeff Villanova

January 5, 2024

Brian and I met at Stratton and ended up sharing a Snowboard house for many winter seasons. We had some great times from pow days in the trees, trips to Jay, snowshoeing off piste and many happy hours. Brian some how motivated those around him to be more fit or challenge themselves. Maybe it was all those morning pushups and Yoga he did. Once he baked us cookies and when I asked for more he said I only baked 4 cookies, I was like who does that? He inspired his Mtn Riders group to ride harder and challenge them to eat like an athlete. "When Brian came to visit us at the beach his bike was in the car and did he want a ride, No, he says I will bike there, "Whats the longest route? Brian will be missed and I give me sincerest condolences to his family. But I know he has made all those who he as touch a bit wiser and fitter.

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Bob Jenney

January 5, 2024

My heart aches. Brian was a such big part of my cycling life and beyond. I was fortunate to have spent so much saddle time with Brian where we shared our lives and laughs. I´m honored to have the picture I took of him adorning this loving memorial. We were of course, readying ourselves for a long day in the on the roads of Vermont. So long, my friend.

Scott Whitney

January 2, 2024

Scott Whitney

January 2, 2024

Brian and I first met in San Diego,CA in the summer of 1979. As two native New Englanders and competitive runners who found themselves in Southern California, we formed an instant bond. From mid 1979 early 1980 Brian and I trained together in San Diego for the 1980 Boston Marathon. We were side-by-side on the starting line in Hopkinton that day but eventually, Brian's superior athleticism kicked in and he finished a couple of minutes ahead of me that day.
During our time together in San Diego we also entered a five person team in the Tecate to Ensenada Mexico 75 mile relay race in the spring of 1980. At the time, Brian was working semi unofficially for the fledgling running division of the Etonic shoe company. he managed to get us complementary Running singlets and shorts from Etonic for the event but the Etonic shoes arrive too late for us to wear them in the relay race. So "Team Etonic" ran in Adidas and Nike racing shoes. That's why the attached team photo was taken from the ankles up
I was a "Never Facebooker" until 2013 when Brian convinced me to open an account so I could read his thoughts regarding the April 15, 2013 Boston Marathon bombing after I texted him and "RU OK?" message. So Brian was my first official Facebook friend. I will miss his infectious, upbeat personality and his glass always half full perspective.

Bob McManus

December 27, 2023

Hills Beach in Maine with Brian, Linda, Steve and Mary Beth. We took many swims around Basket Island together with the group

Gene Higgins

December 24, 2023

Brian and I worked at Reebok in the Running and Cycling Division. Brian was very passionate about these sports and lead our team successfully...peace Brian and happy cycling!
Gene Higgins

Peter Pomponi

December 22, 2023

Went to the Cuniff Elementry School with Brian and has kept friendly with him till this day. Will miss him!!!

Jen Mercaldi Ramella

December 22, 2023

What a wonderful tribute to Brian. I worked with Brian and Tom many years ago and will always remember the time I dog sat Brian´s enormous, and very sweet, Rhodesian. My condolences to family and friends.

Jeff Sorrento

December 21, 2023

Even as a young kid my memories of Brian were of a positive, adventurous and selfless spirit that made everyone in the room smile whenever he walked in. My thoughts are with you all during this clearly difficult time.

George Barton

December 19, 2023

Brian was the best grandpa to Lucy, father to Tory, and father-in-law to me. My fondest memory was the day he met Lucy. Although his 5th grandchild, Brian showered Lucy in love and was quick to proclaim her as an athlete. He always wanted to be there for Lucy. Brian would jump in to help feed Lucy even when he himself needed assistance eating. Prior to Lucy, Brian opened me up to the world of biking and running. He gifted me an old road bike of his and told countless stories of his biking and running adventures. I loved our weekend hikes in Vermont and Massachusetts with Tory, Hudson (our dog) and Brian. Many described Brian as a leader in athletics, business, and family. I was lucky enough to experience this quality when he would jump to the front to guide us on new hiking trails, provide directions to Vermont, warn us about speed traps, and teach Hudson new tricks. Brian's smile, energy, and enthusiasm is what i'll remember and cherish the most.

Kate Martin

December 19, 2023

Brian will be so dearly missed by our family. He traveled in and out of our lives since our childhood: his kids were all similar ages + trips to the Cape + growing up with our dad in Watertown. My fondest memories I have of Brian involve staying with him and his family at Stratton, where he got me a job for a season at the resort. I remember drinking my coffee in the morning and watching him do every kind of crunch imaginable, always working on his abs. Throughout my life I've thought, "I need to be more like Brian Igoe". His zest for life was so infectious. He was the kind of person you wanted to associate yourself with: kindhearted, super dad and man, what an athlete! His kids and family were his reason for being (+ sports), that was always very obvious to anyone that knew him. I will carry his joie de vivre and his beautiful smile in my memories forever. Please accept our deepest condolences. He was a wonderful person that we were all so lucky to have known.

George Barton

December 19, 2023

George Barton

December 19, 2023

George Barton

December 19, 2023

George Barton

December 19, 2023

George Barton

December 19, 2023

Brian was a great father-in-law to me, father to Tory, and grandpa to Lucy. My fondest memory of him was the day he met Lucy. Although the 5th grandchild, Brian showed her so much love and was quick to call her a "future athlete." Towards the end, as Tory helped him eat...he still insisted on helping Lucy eat. Prior to Lucy's birth, I loved the hikes Brian, Tory, Hudson (our dog), and I would take. It was fun hearing all about Brian's outdoor adventures while hiking through the woods in Vermont or Massachusetts. He gifted me one of his old road bikes and helped open me up to the world of biking and running. Often described as a leader in sports, business, and family, I witnessed it first hand when he insisted on being the guide on new hiking trails, giving directions to VT, warning us about speed traps, and teaching Hudson new tricks. His contagious smile, energy, and enthusiasm will be what I remember most about Brian.

Don Watson

December 19, 2023

The 7 Watson boys grew up next door to the Igoe family. We all had a similar age friend in the Igoe clan. We often thumbed to the high school with an Igoe and went to track practice together with an Igoe.
I had a particular fondness for Brian as I thought he was one of the nicest kids in the neighborhood! He was 8 years my junior so I didn´t hang out with him and don´t have a lot of memories of times with him just that he stood out for his smile and kind demeanor.
My condolences to Brian´s siblings.
Don Watson

Steven Branfman

December 19, 2023

I'll never forget Brian and I serving together many years ago as bike mechanics checking out bikes at the start of an MS Ride. Some of the bikes needed quick and easy gear adjustments. But many of them had tape hanging from the bars, rusted chains, even cob webs tangled in the spokes. They looked like they hadn't eel ridden in 100 years! We kept looking at each other in disbelief. You ca imaging the good laugh we had afterwards.

May Brian's memory live for a blessing,,,,Steven Branfman

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