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Brian Conrad Kwong
1965 - 2017
Brian Conrad Kwong
1965 - 2017
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BORN
1965
DIED
2017
Brian Kwong Obituary
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Sean Rosario
November 1, 2017
I am deeply saddened to hear of Brian's passing. I will continue to pray him and for the Kwong family during this difficult time.
Michael Brookman
October 30, 2017
Brian! I am so sorry to read this. I miss you dearly and will treasure the things we shared. You and your family are in my prayers.
Lisa F
October 27, 2017
I'm so glad I was able to hug you on Tuesday and see your beautiful smile...rest in peace...May God continue to be with your family during this difficult time... Much Love
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October 27, 2017
Honor, loyalty, teamwork, dedication, humor and kindness were the colorful threads woven into the life tapestry of Brian Kwong, and he will be so sorely missed. From one former soldier to another, may you rest in consummate peace, battle-buddy. "Friends are there, waiting now, He is waiting too. See His smile! See His hand! He will lead you through."
-Sandra
Roger
October 26, 2017
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Jennifer Monga
October 26, 2017
Brian was a beautiful soul, with a magnetic smile and an authentic kindness. I looked up to him as a big brother and will forever honor the gifts he gave so automatically-respect, integrity, honesty and commitment. It is a searing loss. I love you, big brother.
S & M Bharadwaj
October 26, 2017
Our deepest Condolences to Kwong family. You are in our thoughts & prayers!
Minh Le
October 26, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
J K
October 26, 2017
Thank you Brian for being a kind soul and gracing us with your companionship. You will be missed dearly by your probation family.
S Palleti
October 26, 2017
Our deepest condolences to the family!
Bob Garcia
October 26, 2017
I will always remember Brian's huge smile and kind spirit. I first met Brian in August of 2016 when I started my employment with adult probation. I was starting a new job full of uncertainty and dealing with the loss of my mother just two months earlier. I was very sad and depressed. Brian from day one made me feel welcomed and treated me with respect while never looking down at me for being a clerical coworker. He was always willing to offer assistance when he noticed I was busy at the reception desk. He treated his probationers the same as his fellow coworkers, with human kindness and respect. I will miss Brian dearly but please know that I am a better person today because of him. To the Kwong family I offer my deepest condolences and my thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Your friend , Bob Garcia
Or as Brian would call me Robert
Rest In Peace Brian
Greg Charles
October 25, 2017
BK you will be missed by many! You were so comforting in your demeanor and always there to listen to someone. I always felt like you cared when we talked. I remember the last time we talked and how positive and complimentary you were with me. I will miss that smile dearly!
Michelle Zall-Recoder
October 25, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with the Kwong Family at this very difficult time. Brian was loved and respected throughout the probation department, adult and juvenile division. He will be missed. I don't know how or even when it started, but many years ago, Brian and I would greet each other with a whisper. Each time we saw one another, I would whisper loudly "Brian" and he would return whisper "Michelle" to me, followed by a conversation in a normal tone. When I went to his visitation today, I had to get in one last "Brian" whisper. How sad it was to not hear the return response of "Michelle..." I know that we all have our "Brian" stories, and as long as we share them, we will continue to honor him for he man we all knew. Rest in Paradise my friend, until we meet again.
Jessica Arellano
October 25, 2017
Brian was a good man. When he worked in our juvenile division he often provided words of support and kindness. He took the time to ask about my family and expressed his love for his own. His smile was so bright. He will be missed greatly.
Chris Knowlton
October 25, 2017
I've worked for the Probation Department for many years doing word processing. My earliest memory of Brian was about 10 years ago at the Youth Services Center when I worked on his court reports. He was so appreciative and thankful to us clerical staff and cared a great deal about his work. When I got to know him better, I found him to be a very positive, caring, humble guy with a great sense of humor and infectious
laugh. I would say Probation Officer was his calling. It takes a special person to be in this line of work, and he was one of those people. You could tell he loved what he was doing, and that's a real blessing. I was very happy when Brian transferred to the Adult Division as I had done and I was able to work with him again. We will miss Brian greatly and keep him close in our memory always. To the Kwong family, please accept my deepest condolences and take care of each other. I hope you find comfort in the knowledge Brian is in a beautiful place and protected, and always with you. God bless you.
Cynthia Powell-Cobb
October 25, 2017
I didn't know Brian, but have heard nothing but good about him. I want to extend my condolences to your family. I hope that whatever sorrow you are feeling now will in time be replaced by the good times you shared as a family.
LaShonda McDuffie
October 25, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss. Brian (B.K.) was hands down one of the kindest individuals that I have encountered while working for the probation department. His infectious smile would bring light to the darkest room. I feel blessed to have known Brian.
Hannah K
October 25, 2017
Brian's smile. His calming disposition. How authentically kind and compassionate he was. His willingness to help you if he could. For these reasons and many more he will be missed. My heart breaks for his family and they're in my thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace Brian.
Paul Brindle
October 24, 2017
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Kwong Family. I knew Brian from high school, but lost touch over the years. Reading the kind words written by those who knew him reminded me of the funny, happy person Brian was, and made me wish I had done better about staying in touch so that I could have seen the wonderful man he grew to be. I pray the Lord keeps Brian close, and grants peace upon his family.
Bernadette Marcias
October 24, 2017
Mr. Kwong, thank you for always being such a supportive parent in the classroom. You will be missed by your Caroyln Clark Family.
Ghazi Wossne
October 24, 2017
I do not have words that can adequately express my thoughts and feelings of loss regarding Brian. He always would greet you with a smile and a salutation. Brian was a very conscientious person and truly strived to be the best Probation Officer he could be. I will miss him greatly.
Tess V
October 24, 2017
My condolences to Brian's family, especially to his wife and his kids. I'll surely miss your smiling face and the hugs whenever you come and visit me at my cube. So long and rest in peace my friend.
Jeanne H
October 24, 2017
Rest in Peace, my friend... You were the kindest person I have ever known. Continued prayers for Brian's family.
Jeanne Hamel
October 24, 2017
Brian was a wonderful person, always kind and never had a negative thing to say about anyone or anything. I admired that about him. He is already greatly missed. I pray that his family finds peace...
Maléne Latu
October 24, 2017
My condolences go out to Brian's Family and loved ones. I first met Brian during classes we had together at work (San Mateo County Probation). Brian was always smiling and was so knowledgeable about not only Probation, but life in general. His willingness to reach out a hand to others was a quality of his that I will try to emulate in my life. He will truly be missed. Families are forever. Until we meet again, Brother.
Nora H.
October 24, 2017
Brian- You were a sweet, caring, and happy person. Always smiling whenever I saw you. Your personality shined whenever I saw you, and you would light up the room. A shining ray of sun; that's who you were Brian. You will be deeply missed. May you rest in peace.
Joe Blacksher
October 24, 2017
Brian your friendship was appreciated and you will be greatly and deeply missed. Take care and rest in peace
Ken Lee
October 24, 2017
Brian,
Where do I begin? Our family enjoyed your presence during the holiday family gatherings. I will miss our conversations together about life, career, children and just joking around. I deeply appreciate your guidance that you have given my cousins and myself when we faced turbulent times. To Brian's family, our deepest condolences during this difficult time and please let us know if we could be of any assistance. You will be missed brotha.
Love Always,
Ken and Christy Lee + kiddos...
Joyce F.
October 24, 2017
Brian worked in the same unit as I did when he first became a probation officer. He was always enthusiastic about learning the job, and doing above and beyond. Soon after, it was obvious he had a strong work ethic, as he took every task and assignment from the beginning to end with such proficiency and detail. Even when times were stressful, he had a calm and caring manner about him. He would still manage a smile on his face. After that assignment, I would see Brian from time to time and he always had a pleasant manner about him, and that wonderful smile. My heart goes out to the family. Rest in Peace, Brian
Julie Honda
October 24, 2017
My deepest condolences to Brian's family and close friends. I always enjoyed Brian's smile, laugh and friendly personality at work. He will be missed. He was an excellent Probation Officer but most importantly a wonderful man.
Until we see each other again...
Janelle Holowaty
October 24, 2017
Brian, words cannot express what a tremendous loss the world has experienced by your departure. You will be deeply missed and my heart goes out to your family and children. May they find strength and hope in this dark moment. Stay gold Brian...forever in our hearts
Much love and respect
Cindy Crowe-Urgo
October 23, 2017
I worked with Brian at Camp Glenwood. He was a joy to be around. He had a perfect style for working with the Glenwood Boys and garnered so much respect from staff and kids alike. I am so saddened by this news. My heart goes out to his family and close friends. Rest in Peace dear Brian.
Sheree Calhoun
October 23, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Deadra Lampkin
October 23, 2017
Brian was just a breath of fresh air. Whenever we crossed paths or had clients in common he was ALWAYS professional, kind and welcoming. I can not begin to express how much this saddens me and could not imagine how heartbreaking this is for your family. What I can do is continue to pray for your strength at a time when you need it the most. Brian will ALWAY be remembered for just who he was, an outstanding person, father, husband and friend. May God continue to bless your entire family.
Renee Yegor
October 23, 2017
Prayers to the Kwong family. My sincerest sympathy to all of you.
Jill Marks
October 23, 2017
I remember Brian from high school at Lawrence Academy. He was always kind and had a great smile. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends. Praying for you all and Brian.
Thao Pham
October 23, 2017
To the Kwong's family,
My sympathy for your great lost. Although I have never met Mr. Kwong, but from Mr. Bagatelos' revelation of his personal experiences with Mr. Kwong and from knowing Chad Kwong from scouting, I have a deep respect for the man. I have been involved in Boy Scouts for less than a year but I already saw a great boy in Chad. I'm sure Mr. Kwong has a lot to do with his son fine characters development. I can see the kind heart, the good nature, the helpfulness, the self-determination, the self-disciple, and the physical prowess Chad has inherited. For Mr. Kwong's legacy will continue to live within his son and through all the good Chad has done and continue to do for this world. Mr. Kwong should be a very proud father. Rest in peace.
Armando Gomes
October 23, 2017
My sincerest, most heart-felt condolences to the Kwong family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Anthony
October 23, 2017
To Brian's Family,
My name is Anthony. Brian was my probation officer for the last year and a half of a three year term. I just wanted to share a couple things about Brian. I finished in June and was still in contact with Brian as he was trying to get me a refund for over charges the county billed me. I wasn't even concerned about it however Brian felt it was the right thing to do. That's how he was all the time. Concerned about more than if I was staying clean. He always cared enough to go the extra mile. My dad had a heart attack while visiting family in St. Louis. After contacting Brian, he immediately made it a priority to fill out a travel permit and I was on a plane the same day. 2 days later on a telephone call he asked to speak with my father. He took an interest and the time to remind him to get a medical card to keep in his wallet . This is who Brian was. Another time probation showed up at my parents home, Brian included, and when my mother answered the door she fainted. He immediately switched gears from a work capacity to a caring human being to help my mom. His first question was are you diabetic and then sat her down and got a banana from the kitchen. He stayed wth her until my father returned home. He followed up with me a few days later and was more concerned about my moms well being and how sorry he was for the incident. Never in my life have I encountered someone in his position who attached such a level of compassion that's unheard of anywhere in the probation sphere. This is who he was. I know my relationship with him was limited and more or less one sided because of the circumstances . But it never felt that way. In our conversations about all the various aspects of my life he brought his personal experience and knowledge to the table. He always took copious notes of all finite details reguarding my life. Then the conversation would go on and sometimes we would touch back on an issue in a future meeting. Funny thing was he would always remember without having to look back. This is Someone who deals with so many faces day to day and cares enough to remember the little things that anyone else would forget. I can't even say that for members of my own family. Sometimes our conversations went on much longer than probably nessary to fulfill his obligation as my probation officer. Because of this I looked at him as a friend. This is partly why I have such a heavy heart about this whole thing. I have been meaning to write a letter thanking him for the role he played and how much of an impact he had on my life. How he helped steer me in the right direction. I thought he would appreciate knowing the difference he made. I'm sure he didnt get to hear that often enough. Since I missed my opportunity to thank him directly I thought I would share this with his family. If I had met him somewhere other than probation I'm sure we would have been friends. I know he has touched the lives of everyone around him. He will be missed by all and that I am certain. I can't even imagine what your family is going through. I Made a donation to the go fund me page in honor of Brian. I wish that all of you find strength to get through this hard time. I hope that you will find peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Anthony
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