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Brian Maher Obituary
Visitation will be 10:00 a.m. Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at St. Matthew Catholic Church with a Funeral Mass at 11:00 a.m. with Reverend Carmen Malacari, celebrant. There will also be a reception following the service in the Family Room at the Church.
Brian was born February 18, 1964 in Oakville, Ontario to Edward (Gerry) and Eileen Maher. He was a graduate of Seton Hall University and received a Masters of Business Administration from the Babcock School of Business atWake Forest University. Brian was a Vice President at Bank of America in Charlotte.
In addition to his wife and children, Brian is survived by his father and mother, Gerry and Eileen Maher of Cape Coral, Florida and Oakville, Ontario, his brothers, Kevin Maher of Chatham, New Jersey and Patrick Maher of Berkeley Heights, New Jersey; sisters, Phyllis Florian of Kalamazoo, Michigan, Diane Sarikas of Portland, Oregon, Clare Emery of Calgary, Alberta and Carol Murry of Chatham, New Jersey. He is also survived by a host of nieces, nephews and in-laws.
Brian will be sadly missed by many people whose lives he touched.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Brian's memory to St. Matthew Catholic Church Education and Building Fund, 8015 Ballantyne Commons Parkway, Charlotte, NC 28277.
Arrangements are in the care of Hankins & Whittington Dilworth Chapel, 1111 East Blvd., online at www.hankinsandwhittington.com.
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Holly and Jim Capobianco
December 10, 2002
Dear Barbara, Pat, and all the Mahers,
We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband, father, brother and son. Brian was such a wonderful and special person. Whenever he entered the room, it was like the sun was shining in and his cheerful personality warmed the room. He always seemd to be involved in some interesting thing and enjoying life. How difficult it must be to lose such a person. Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you.
john Gorzkiewicz
November 28, 2002
I was a teenager when I last visited the states and I was very keen to go out at night in New York City.
Brian kindly snuck me out of the house and took me down to some fantastic bars I'll never forget. I'll always remember his warmth, generosity and kindness.
Christina Gorzkiewicz
November 28, 2002
For all the Maher family - Some treasured memories of cousin Brian:
Summer 1975:
I was visiting Oakville from England when the Maher's summer project was to lay a patio. Pat, Brian and I were tasked with moving a large heap of pebbles for cement from the road to the back garden(yard). Brian surveyed my ham-fisted efforts with the spade with wonder; the eleven-year-old trying manfully to hide his laughter at the incompetance of his elder cousin, who was frankly more used to wielding a pen than a spade. His reassuring whisper " Come on, I'll show you how" was done with a such a mischievous grin but a quiet kindness too which spared my blushes. He then attacked the heap of stones with an energy and professionalism beyond his years. The sight would have made both grandfathers very proud.
Summer 2000-Maher Reunion:
The mischievous boy had matured into a warm and witty man. Shyly, he introduced me to his lovely wife then spoke with great pride of his children. The love between them all was so apparent at our happy party there in the sunny garden in Laherdane, where his grandparents had first met nearly 80 years before.
Brian was a lovely person who will live in all our hearts. Thank God, and those who made it possible, for the Maher Reunion which brought us together again.
Barbara, Clare, Liam, Aunt Eileen, Uncle Gerry and cousins be assured of the love and prayers of your English family. A warm welcome awaits you here whenever you want to come.
Fondly,
Christina,Robert,Gerard,Ceni and Aunt Julia, Bristol, England.
Peter Langlois
November 27, 2002
To the Maher Family,
Our thoughts are with you and your family during this very sad time.
Brian will be fondly remembered and sadly missed.
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Mark & Anna Gorzkiewicz
November 27, 2002
Barbara, Clare, Liam and all of Brian’s family
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
I have very happy memories of Brian as a lively young boy of ten during a family visit to the Guinness Brewery museum in Dublin. He took a great liking to the samples of wonderful dark beer which we were all given. After emptying his own glass, he cheerfully finished off several of the others when he thought nobody was looking. His happy expression would have made a great picture.
Love and prayers from
Mark & Anna Gorzkiewicz, London
Matthew Daly
November 13, 2002
My prayers and thoughts go out to the entire Maher family as well as all those that knew Brian. God Bless.
TD Waterhouse Chatham office
November 13, 2002
The Chatham team was saddened to hear of your loss. Our sympathies are with you and your family in this difficult time. Peter B., Joseph A., Michael G., Ralph W., Jason Z.
David Ramsey
November 12, 2002
I am a coworker of Brian's. The time that I got to spend with him was truly a blessing to me. He was a friend that I shared some good times with. My condolences to his family, and especially to Clare, Liam and Barbara.
Thomas Walsh
November 8, 2002
Patrick
I'm so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
God bless
Andy Lopez
November 8, 2002
We here at the Bank really cared about him, and we
will miss him tremendously. Our prayers are with your entire family.
As you know my family and I will be moving into Brian's neighborhood at the
end of November. We will be sure to stay in contact with Barbara and the
kids to offer help and support.
Take and cut him into little stars,
And he will make the face of heaven so fine
That all the world will be in love with night
And pay no worship to the garrish sun.
(III.ii.23-6 Romeo and Juliet, William Shakespeare).
We will never forget you Brian....
Tom Fenig
November 7, 2002
To Brian's family and friends:
On behalf of the entire Charlotte-based OLP cycling team, we are sorry for your tragic loss. I am certain many of us have ridden with him in and around the Charlotte area. Hopefully you gain some level of peace knowing he is in good hands now.
Please don't hestitate to call on us if we can help now or in the future in any way. From I what I have read about Brian, he would have done the same thing for any of us.
Respectfully,
Tom Fenig
Lisa Duquette
November 7, 2002
Barbara, I worked with Brian for a few years when Bank of America was NationsBank. I had the pleasure of meeting you, Clare, and Liam one time at the home of a mutual friend. I was very saddened to hear about Brian's accident. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Charlene Hutton (nee Ebert)
November 6, 2002
My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Brian.
Victoria Martino
November 6, 2002
To the Maher Family
Our prayers and thoughts are with everyone through this difficult time. We are all truly sorry for such a terrible loss. God Bless each and everyone of you. Your strong faith in Jesus will help heal everyone's sorrow. Lots of love from everyone here in Toronto.
From Aunt Vicky Uncle Joe and family
Marnie Hoecherl
November 6, 2002
To the Maher family-
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Catherine Trott
November 6, 2002
I mistakenly called Brian a few weeks ago, but maybe it wasn't a mistake after all..
I enjoyed working with and knowing Brian.
My deepest sympathies.
Glenn DePalma
November 6, 2002
My deepest sympathies go out to you in this difficult time.
Marvin Anthony
November 5, 2002
To the Maher Family:
My deepest sympathy to you as family and may God's strength be with you during these difficult days.
A colleague of Kim Maher - Marvin Anthony
Tiffany Rogers
November 5, 2002
To the Maher family,
My deepest condolences for your lost. My God bless your family with strength in this time of bereavement.
Sincerely,Tiffany
Maria Nowak
November 5, 2002
Patrick - My deepest condolences to you and your family. With love and support, Maria
Jackie Haldeman
November 5, 2002
My prayers and my thoughts are with you and your family during this very sad time.
May God Bless you and your family.
Jackie
Peg Beaumont
November 5, 2002
May your fond memories of Brian ease your grief during this difficult time.
Mark and Catherine Lavecchia
November 5, 2002
We are deeply saddened for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jennifer Lee
November 5, 2002
My deepest condolences to your family. I'm sorry for your loss and hope that the love and support of friends and family will provide some comfort during this very difficult time.
(From Jen Lee, a friend of Kim Maher)
Beverly Hammett-Kiel
November 5, 2002
Although I didn't know Brian, I wish to extend my sympathy to all of his family. You will all be included in my prayers. God bless you all.
Rosemary Young
November 5, 2002
To the Maher Family,
Our deepest condolences on the loss of one so dear. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Rosemary & Elien Young
(Kim's co-worker at HLR/NJ)
Stacy Scardefield
November 5, 2002
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Maher family.
Andrew Witkoff
November 5, 2002
Brian was one of my first mentors who taught me so much about the business world I find myself in. From the first day I was involved with Brian he made me feel special, included, and proud to be a part of banking.
Your demeanor and special gift to include, involve, and bring smiles to those around you will be sorely missed.
My condolences to your family and friends. I will not forget you.
Vicky Martino-Orlando
November 5, 2002
The Maher Family
I was truly saddened to hear the news, it is so difficult to express my feelings to such a awful tradegy. My prayers and thoughts are with the whole family. God will give strength to all of you, and I know that everyone's prayers will help with the loss of such a wonderful person. There is now another Angel in heaven watching over the Maher family. God Bless you all. With love, Vicky, Domenica, & Matthew Orlando
Thomas Franko
November 4, 2002
I was saddened to hear of your loss.
Kevin Sullivan
November 4, 2002
My deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.
Ronald V. Saputo
November 4, 2002
Patrick - Maria & I extend our deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your brother.
Leonard C. Walczyk
November 4, 2002
On behalf of Parcells Council of the Knights of Columbus, No. 2086, of Chatham, New Jersey, I extend to you our deepest sympathies for your tragic loss. May perpetual light shine upon him and may he rest in peace.
Leonard C. Walczyk, Grand Knight.
Michael Battaglino (PGK--Parcells Council, Chatham, NJ)
November 4, 2002
To the Maher Family,
My deepest sympathies and condolences for your loss. We will keep Brian, and each of you, in our prayers.
God Bless You.
Ed Pittenger, PGK
November 3, 2002
Sorry for your lost.
Pam Shriver Watson
November 2, 2002
Barbara, Clare and Liam,
I have never met any of you but feel like you've been a part of our family for ever. Brian and I had not seen each other for many years, but spoke often via email about his life and you. He was very proud to be your husband and father and I know that he loved you very much. I am so very sorry for your loss and that our family has lost such a special person. We love you and will always be here for you! Your WV cousin...
David Field
November 2, 2002
Bill and I saw Brian 2 weeks ago on Canadian Thanksgiving weekend. I almost didn't stop to see him because I was late for dinner at my mom's. But I did, only 10 minutes at Bill's house, but I'm thankful I saw him. As usual it was great to see him, if only briefly. I can't imagine how much more awful I'd feel right now if I had missed the opportunity.
We haven't seen him so much since he moved to North Carolina, but we always kept in touch in some way. I've been thinking back to the times we spent together. They were always good. Always. Good memories of living our lives, of growing up. New York, Jersey, Toronto. Memories of his wedding (quite a wedding for those in the know), of driving to Peterborough to hang out with Bill, of being taken care of by him and his family after returning from many trips to Asia, of him giving me his Orange Porsche 914 to drive for a day in Toronto :-), of being met at J.F.K. with him proclaiming us 'Ambassadors of the Free World', of exploring New York City together and having a lot of fun doing it, and other memories that I shouldn't mention here.
He was one of the truly good ones. He was one of the most selfless and generous people I've ever know. I will miss him dearly.
Tim Mahoney
November 2, 2002
Sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Our prayers are with you, Carol & Tim Mahoney
Jerry and Barbara Medina
November 1, 2002
Barbara, Clare and Liam, our heartfelt prayers are with you.
We are friends of Kevin from Parcells Council, Knights of Columbus.
Vivat Jesus!
Bill Sims
November 1, 2002
An unimaginable accident. I will miss him. My deepest sympathy to Barb, Clare, Liam, and the family.
We are all thinking of him here in Toronto.
Brian English
November 1, 2002
With deepest sympathy from all at Marmullane in Cork.
Ann, Brian, Tom, Barry, Grace and Kate English
The Dineen Family
October 31, 2002
To The Maher Family,
We are all deeply saddened by your loss.
Many of our family will hold onto the fond memories of summers long past, when Brian shared his time with us sailing day after day on Lake Ontario.
Brian was truely a special person.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Dineen Family
Ontario Canada
Xuemei Wang
October 31, 2002
I am so sorry to hear the tragic news. I have such fun memory of working with/for Brian for more than seven years. I learned so much from him. He was a mentor to me in my effort to establish a successful career. My deepest sympathy to Barbara, Clare and Liam.
Sherry Fowler
October 30, 2002
Our son, Mark knows Clare from school and our oldest daughter Victoria knows both children from the days when she worked at Cranfield.
From our family to yours---
there are no words that are just right. We all saw a loving father whose devotion to his children was beautiful to witness.
Our prayers are with you.
Sherry, Greg, Victoria and Mark Fowler
Judy Clayton
October 30, 2002
So sorry to hear of your tragic lost. Jim and I remember Brain and met him when he worked with my daughter's husband, Elias Nammour. Our prayers are with all of you.
MARIE DAVIS
October 30, 2002
BARBARA AND FAMILY,
WE AT CHARLOTTE CARDIOLOGY LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH AND WE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU AND THE CHILDREN
BECAUSE WE ARE YOUR FAMILY ALSO. WHAT EVER YOU NEED JUST KNOCK AND THE DOOR SHALL BE OPEN BECAUSE IN GOD WE DO TRUST. WE LOVE YOU!
Rowenna Cock
October 30, 2002
To Barbara, Clare and Liam
To let you know that all of your family in England are thinking and praying for you all at this difficult time,
With much Love
The Cock Family, (Grace, Jim, Fred, Alex, Jeremy and Rowenna) xxx
Shannon & Sean Girard, Kaitlin Ausman (Butterflies Soccer Team)
October 30, 2002
Our prayers are with you all.
jim,jackie,jonathan mcdaid
October 29, 2002
we wish to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. our son goes to preschool with liam at cranfield. please let us know if there is anything we can assist you with.
the mcdaids
Bettie, Danny, Madison, and Jordan Pleasant
October 29, 2002
Dear Barbara,Clare and Liam -- we are so sorry to hear of your tragic news. We are praying for strength and guidance for your whole family.
Suzanne & Jim Taylor
October 29, 2002
Barbara,
You, Clare and Liam are in our thoughts and prayers during this time.
Jim and Suzanne Taylor
Peter Braun
October 29, 2002
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.
Marti Stegall
October 29, 2002
Barbara, Clare and Liam,
I am so glad I got to meet your dad and got to know him through this past soccer season. Clare, I'm sure that every time he sees you on the field he will be the angel watching over you allowing you to block kicks, and score big. We are so sorry that this has happened and want to help in any way we can. Just let us know what we can do to support you.
The Stegalls
Marti, Wayne, Elizabeth and Jaimee
Michael Timoney
October 29, 2002
Brian, you were a true friend. I'll miss you more than I can possibly express. You will always be my friend and in my thoughts, Mike
Ryan Orehek
October 29, 2002
I did not know John but I am a fellow cyclist and passed the accident on my bike moments after it happened. It could have easily been myself in his place. I am truly sorry for your loss.
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