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Brian is survived by his loving wife, Peggy O'Donnell (Bishop); his children, Holly McNamara and her husband, Jonathan, Kelly O'Donnell, Jared O'Donnell and his partner Mitzi Mendiola; and his cherished grandchildren, Emma McNamara and Katie, Keagan, and Colby Szklarz. He is also survived by his mother, Mildred O'Donnell (Jacques) of Largo, FL; his brother, William O'Donnell; sisters-in-law, Lisa Bishop and Joanne O'Donnell; and his nieces and nephews: William, Charles, Patrick, Beth, Brittany, and Shanelle O'Donnell, Amber Lorden, and Nolan and Ally Bishop.
He was predeceased by his father, Thomas C. O'Donnell; his brother, Bruce O'Donnell; his niece, Brooke O'Donnell; and the beloved family dog, Troy.
Born in Lowell, Massachusetts, on April 19, 1955, Brian was the son of Thomas and Mildred O'Donnell. He graduated from Dracut High School in 1973 and earned his degree from Thomas Edison University in 1979. He obtained his pilot's license and flew for Eastern Airlines before venturing into business as a gas station and convenient store owner.
Brian and Peggy raised their family on the shores of Lake Winnipesaukee-a place close to Brian's heart since childhood.
Brian was the life of every party. His infectious sense of humor, booming laugh, and quick wit made everyone feel at ease. He was always the first to crack a joke and had an uncanny ability to make everyone feel seen and valued. He loved others unconditionally and without question. Brian never hesitated to help others, always looked on the bright side, and had a remarkable gift for seeing the best in everyone and every circumstance.
Brian's life will be celebrated publicly on Sunday, June 8th, at 2 p.m., at the Brewster Academy Boathouse in Wolfeboro, NH.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Brian's memory to his daughter's pediatric cancer charity, Designing Dreams USA at www.designingdreamsusa.org
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Paul and Deb Chrysafidis
June 8, 2025
Dear Peggy, Jared, and Family,
We were deeply saddened to hear of Brian´s passing. You all are in our thoughts and prayers as you journey through the grief. May you feel strength and inner peace as you reflect on the beautiful memories and wonderful years you enjoyed as a family. We will always remember sharing the love of Lake Winnipesaukee and soccer. Paul will never forget the times that they met in the aisles of Market Basket, shopping lists in hand, comparing notes.
With love,
Paul and Deb Chrysafidis and Family
Kathleen Hill
June 6, 2025
Dear Peggy, Jared & family,
Keeping you all close to heart right now with Brian´s passing too soon. How we remember our young boys´ SUSC soccer trips together and how funny, friendly & kind Brian was. Our deepest condolences with love, Mark, Kathy & Keith Hill
Sean C
June 5, 2025
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember your dad being a very happy soul, that took care of his family and his children´s friends. When I picture him in my mind, he´s laughing about something. I am grateful for the time Mr. O´Donnell spent creating an amazing life for his family, directly benefiting close friends of the family. Wishing you peace in this time of profound sadness. <3
Dan and Marianne Moody
June 3, 2025
Dan and I were blessed to know Brian, even for a very short time here at the beach house. We enjoyed our nightly hot tub conversations and loved Brian`s quick wit and sense of humor. Our kids, Danny, Amanda, Jeff and Michele were also touched by his kindness and smile. We miss you very much, Brian!
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Arlene Quinonez
May 31, 2025
God bless you my brother. You are home with our Father. To Brian's Family and Friends please don't cry you will see him again God bless you all. You will be in my prayers
Arlene Quinonez
Joel West
May 29, 2025
Brian was a new friend to me over the last couple of years. We spent many hours in the hot tub at their beach condo solving all the world´s problems. Rest in Peace my brother!
Jim Bastis
May 27, 2025
I enjoyed being in his company. He had a handle on things. He was inquisitive. Even in senior years, I learned a few things about dealings with people by watching him in action. I´m glad I knew him. Jim Bastis.
Michael Marchand
May 22, 2025
Peggy, thinking of you and your family with love and prayers.
Steven Piekarski
May 21, 2025
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Laura Cronin
May 21, 2025
Dear Kelly, Peggy, Holly, Jared, and family. It is not often in life we get to meet a one of a kind genuinely happy, caring and kind person like Brian. We were blessed to have met Brian and wish we had lived closer over the years. May the Lord comfort you all in the days ahead. Our deepest condolences for the loss of your beloved father and husband. Love Laura, Derek, Carly and Alexander Cronin
Joanne Amidon
May 21, 2025
Brain, thanks for all the good laughs and fond memories! N& J
N&J
May 21, 2025
Joanne O´Donnell
May 21, 2025
Some of the best years of my life were spent with Brian. He will forever be in my heart. When I close my eyes and think of him all I can hear is him laughing. I love you Brian and you will be missed terribly by your family and friends.
Jana Upshaw
May 21, 2025
Dear Peggy, I´m so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.
Jill Meade
May 21, 2025
Peggy, Kelly, Holly, Jared & Aunt Millie, May love and memories surround and comfort you during this difficult time. Brian was such an amazing guy who loved his family so much. My heart, love and prayers are with you. Love Jill
Candace Tordonato
May 21, 2025
Our most sincere condolences, Peggy, to you and your family.
Sherri Cole
May 20, 2025
I am so sorry to hear this. Brian was a great guy with a huge heart. He will surely be missed by so many. He was a great boss for the past 28 years. I am thankful to have so many great memories of him. My heart goes out to his family. Sending prayers to each and every one of you.
Rachel Turner & Staff at Morrissey´s´ Porch & Pub
May 20, 2025
The staff at Morrisseys´ will miss Brian very much. He was always a fun time and brought so much humor. Not to mention a classy bottle of red for our "wine nights". Until we meet agaain, Brian. Fly high and mighty. All of his family and friends are in our thoughts.
Alicia W
May 20, 2025
What I admired most about Brian was the way he loved his grandkids. What I will always most appreciate about Brian is how kind he was to my son every time we were with your family.
Benjamin & Marta
May 20, 2025
Brian has forever changed how I order my vodka martinis and where my son and I get our shrimp! Enjoyed every experience with Brian.
Donna
May 20, 2025
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers
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