Brookley Jan Cross

Brookley Jan Cross obituary, La Quinta, CA

Brookley Jan Cross

Brookley Cross Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 30, 2025.
La Quinta, CA - August 1, 1950 - April 21, 2025

Brookley "Brook" Jan Cross passed away on April 21, 2025, at the age of 74, with his brother Larry and niece Chelsea by his side. A Stanford alumnus, lifelong learner, and deeply social soul, Brook lived a life full of conversation, curiosity, and connection.

Born on August 1, 1950, in Chicago, Illinois, Brook was a man of eclectic interests. He was especially passionate about music-he loved the Rolling Stones and Neil Young-and was well-read in subjects ranging from anthropology and sociology to history and literature. A voracious reader with a sharp intellect, he could talk to anyone and often did, forming lasting friendships in every corner of his life.

Brook enjoyed a 30+ year career in business consulting, working with companies such as Performex, American Honda, and Litton Industry. His talent for communication and genuine interest in people made him a natural in his field. He was a gifted speaker-witty, thoughtful, and warm-and he proudly officiated the wedding of his niece Chelsea, a moment that meant a great deal to both of them.

He is survived by his brothers Bradley and Larry Cross, and his nieces Chelsea Cross Wilson and Paulina Cross Griffis. He was preceded in death by his mother, Marilyn Hess Cross, and his father, Myrle Vivian Cross, Jr.

A private service will be held for immediate family.

Brook will be remembered for his depth, charm, and the unmistakable warmth he brought into every room. He will be deeply missed.

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May 15, 2025

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May 12, 2025

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Bradley Cross

May 15, 2025

I remembered something recently and that is that my group and I played at Brooks and Genies wedding. I sang the first dance. Something I had forgotten . Also that should be noted is that Brook
Live the majority of his life in Newport Beach and Irvine

Angel Sacco

May 12, 2025

I remember Brook quite distinctly
Primarily because he was Unique....Intelligent and so much More!!. Definitely one of A kind... the best possible kind. !!! So many memories with him 30 years ago.
Spent a lot of good times with Brook and Friends in Orange County. He definitely "Stood out."
RIP

Angel Sacco

May 12, 2025

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Kirsten Fleming

May 4, 2025

Brook was indeed a unique and shining light. So enjoyed his honest, insightful and sometimes provocative discussions. He will be dearly missed

Bradley Cross

May 3, 2025

That's great to hear Larry music was one of the main connection between Brooke and me his brother Brad we played music together many times over many years

Larry Maurer

May 1, 2025

Brook was an inspiration to many people, including myself. His history of rock `n´ roll at the Inside Edgecbreakfast group inspired me to create my own music foundation and now that´s the work of my life. Larry Maurer

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