Bruce H. Detwiler

Bruce H. Detwiler obituary, New York, NY

Bruce H. Detwiler

Bruce Detwiler Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 16, 2024.


Bruce Harmon Detwiler, a long-time summer resident of Mount Washington, MA, Nietzsche scholar and civil rights activist died at his home in New York City on January 10, 2024 after a prolonged illness. He was 79 years old.

Bruce received an undergraduate degree from Yale as well as a law degree and PhD from Cornell University. As he was pondering his choice of college, a conversation with Robert Frost encouraged him to pursue an English major at Yale instead of Engineering as his family had urged. Bruce recalled that the poet suggested English would make him a man while Engineering would make him a tool. He chose the former.

During his undergraduate years, he became involved in the civil rights movement and was co-chair of the Civil Rights Council at Yale. He joined the Mississippi Summer Project (also known as Freedom Summer) and worked in that state during the summers of 1963-65, a time when young voting rights advocates were targeted and murdered. He advocated for Black empowerment in a piece, "A Time To Be Black", published in The New Republic. He was a staff writer for the Village Voice and contributed to The Atlantic and other journals.

After graduation from Yale, Bruce taught science in Zambia to students that included refugees from apartheid Rhodesia. He traveled to South Africa where he interviewed activists involved in resistance to the apartheid regime in that country. These experiences moved him to write, "Thaw in South Africa?" published in Commonweal magazine (1968, 87:527), in which he observed how the regime had become adept at giving lip service to racial tolerance while intensifying apartheid repression. Bruce often discussed how important these experiences were and how they changed his life.

Bruce received a law degree from Cornell in 1975. Midway through law school he took a 5-year leave of absence to study and work on a manuscript, ultimately unfinished, critiquing and analyzing philosophers including Nietzsche and organizing his own world view. His drive to extend his work on political philosophy led him to pursue a PhD in Political Science, given by Cornell in 1984. His thesis was meticulously refined and published in 1990 ("Nietzsche and the Politics of Aristocratic Radicalism", University of Chicago Press), recognized as a definitive analysis of the philosophy and politics of Friedrich Nietzsche. He then taught civil liberties, constitutional law and political theory as a tenured professor at Florida International University and later as a visiting professor at Cornell.

Bruce met his wife, Sandra (Sandy) Winters in Cambridge, MA. His continuous support of her and her art career led to his early retirement from teaching. Together, they resigned positions at FIU and moved to New York City in 1998. He became interested in the philosopher John Rawls and was asked to provide his analysis of Rawls' writings at Columbia University. In recent years, he dedicated time in support of Oxfam International with particular interest in their work in Africa.

Bruce was the son of Benjamin H. and Louise A. (Schneider) Detwiler. He was born on Independence Day in 1944, and grew up in Port Washington and Cutchogue, NY. His father died when he was 11. His mother subsequently married Walter Uhl, a noted home builder and developer on Long Island.

Bruce first discovered the Berkshires as a freshman at Hotchkiss School, visiting Mount Washington with Morgan Bulkeley who would become his lifelong best friend. He continued visiting the area while a student at Yale. He and Sandy married at Morgan's home in Mount Washington in 1975. Later, they built a house nearby and divided their time between New York City and Mount Washington. Bruce loved hiking and observing wildlife around their mountain home. Until shortly before his death, he continued the distance running he had practiced as a founding member of the cross-country team at Hotchkiss and later at Yale.

Bruce's personal philosophy of kindness and empathy resonated with family, friends and students. In conversation, he had the ability to make one feel to be the most important person in the room. He had a deep desire to understand others' perspectives. His expressed desire at the end of life was that his friends and colleagues would know his appreciation for what each contributed to his life.

He is survived by his wife, Sandy, a brother John Detwiler and his family, stepbrothers William and Thomas Uhl, and extended members of the Lanning, Wilson and Wintersieck families. Bruce was buried at the Cross Road Cemetery in Mount Washington. A memorial service will be held in late spring. In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to Oxfam, www.oxfamamerica.org.

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Phil

June 3, 2024

Bruce was an instantly likable person. Warm and gentle. Smart and quick to laugh. He will be missed in this world but remembered by all he touched.

Han´s Bergmann

May 20, 2024

Here´s one Bruce - the man who chainsawed down a bunch of dead and dangerous trees at the turn of our driveway. Generously. He offered. Wouldn´t think of payment. Lots of work. He was a gift 0f a human being

Nancy E Smith

May 17, 2024

About ten years ago I went with Bruce to observe an Oxfam Leadership Council meeting in Boston. The people on the council were in a circle, about 12 people. They acted as a think-tank reviewing current Oxfam projects and considering new ones. I remember the criteria seemed to be: effectiveness, how to accomplish a goal without setting up an unwieldy and expensive organization and getting bogged down. Stay nimble to respond as needed. Most of the projects under consideration had to do with economic justice and equal rights. There were several that needed a humanitarian response to a crisis. Many were women´s issues.

When Bruce spoke that day it was from his heart, with sincerity, with gravitas. More than anyone else in the room including Oxfam leadership he had an intellectual rigor which came from a lifetime of fighting for justice and equality.

He was the most sincere person I ever met.

Single Memorial Tree

John and Patricia Verones

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Sandra L Winters

May 8, 2024

Patricia Verones

May 6, 2024

I feel blessed to have known such a kind and gentle soul. You always cared so much for everyone around you. May you rest in peace knowing that the love of your life will be well taken care of by those who love you both so much. Your life was filled with so much compassion for others and you have left a beautiful legacy that has impacted so many people - friends, colleagues, children and even strangers. Lost but never forgotten.

Sandra L Winters

April 22, 2024

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Susan Clare

April 22, 2024

Bruce and Sandy with in Amazon Basin Rainforest in Bolivia with Oxfam America, 2004

Lenore Malen

April 16, 2024

My first memory goes back decades when I met Bruce and Sandy in Florida where they were teaching. And later we formed a friendship in NYC. Bruce was he kindest and most generous person and a patient teacher. He taught me everything I needed to know about "investing" and much more. A lovely person. He will be greatly missed.

Sandra L Winters

April 15, 2024

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Ben Van Dyk

March 4, 2024

So sorry to hear of Bruce's passing. I entered Hotchkiss in my lower mid year where we met. He was wonderful and friendly making our time there so much more enjoyable.

Sandy Winters

February 20, 2024

Glacier National Park with Jeanne and Larry

Sandy Winters

February 20, 2024

Trip to Glacier National Park

Sandra Winters

February 19, 2024

Sandra Winters

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Sandra Winters

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Sandy Winters

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Sandy Winters

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Sandy Winters

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Louise with her two sons on John´s wedding day

Olivia Henry

February 18, 2024

I am so sorry to learn of Bruce's death. I remember meeting you 2 and Morgan Bulkeley in c. 1972-73, my first year after college graduation, a time of trying to explore and find my path, ultimately deciding to teach, then focus on counseling people for 30 years. We met in the Boston Cambridge area. I recall being in a class in figure drawing, taught by Ed McCluney, who let me in free. I loved visiting in beautiful Mount Washington MA, with you 2 and Morgan, such a caring, committed, creative group, all of you living out your values, making your mark in the world. Bruce was studying and writing, developing his ideas and. values. I was so moved to learn about all the ways he contributed, helping, throughout the world. I always felt so welcomed. I agree with a comment left, that Bruce made you feel like he really wanted to reach out and get to know you. So true! Then, on to reconnecting in NYC , with your huge powerful paintings, hung at George Adams' Gallery Your art insisted I look closely at humans' impact, on our earth, replacing forest and jungle with gigantic earth eating and destroying technology. Bruce always seemed so loving, proud of you and supportive of your artistic, thought provoking creations. He lived his values and made a true difference. You 2 seemed to have such a deep, lasting loving bond
I send you big hugs. I am so sorry . I hope we can talk soon.
Love,
Oey

Sandy Winters

February 10, 2024

Spring trip after grading papers and portfolios. Nantahala River Rafting

Macyn Bolt

February 8, 2024

So sorry Sandy. Bruce was a remarkable man and a pleasure to have met. Carolyn and my
heart go out to you.

Mary King Austin

February 8, 2024

I have known Bruce since he was at Hotchkiss with Emby Bulkeley (aka Morgan) I am grateful for the decades and decades of friendship. A great laugh, a wonderful conversationalist and a dear friend. Mary King Austin

Verlaine Boyd

February 6, 2024

Great friend
Brilliant mind
Wonderful memories

Sandy Winters

February 5, 2024

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Sandy Winters

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Sandy Winters

February 3, 2024

Here is the photo that I believe reflects that time in Oakland.

Mike McConnell

February 1, 2024

I´ve known Bruce more than 60 years and he is one of the kindest, most thoughtful, sincere, genuine people I´ve ever met. Even in getting ready to leave this world, he thought of what he wanted to say to people and to make sure they heard it. Fun story you may not have heard: in the early 1970s, I had a new baby and was living in a starter home North Oakland. Bruce visited and enjoyed staying with us, but didn´t enjoy sleeping on the couch. So he asked if he built a bedroom in the basement, could he stay there. Talk about an offer we couldn´t refuse! Going to miss you, my friend.

Mie Kurahara

February 1, 2024

We didn´t get to know Bruce well, but we were impressed by how engaging, and interesting he was. It´s sad to think we won´t have a chance to know him better. Sending Steve and my deepest sympathies Sandy.

Anne A Makepeace

January 28, 2024

Dear Sandy, so sad to read this. Bruce was a lovely sweet smart man. I sent love and deep condolences to you and all your family.

Trish Marx

January 27, 2024

i KNEW Hi knre him conversation with him through Sandy, and friends; He is one of the kindest people I have met in my 77 years; My last conversation with him was about a rattlesnake

Kumi Korf

January 25, 2024

Sandy and Bruce lived near from Cornell campus those days of graduate students time. I was in the same program with Sandy. We had many occasions to get together with other students at their home. I remember, each time I walk into their home with or without my husband, Bruce greeted us with warm smile on his handsome face. He made us feel so welcome, and he could do anything to please us. Now so many years later, the memory of his smile warm me up.

Margot Boyd

January 22, 2024

Margot Boyd

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Margot Boyd

January 22, 2024

I have many lovely memories of get-togethers over the years with Bruce, Sandy, and my parents. Bruce was a wonderful, caring, and very smart person, who was always so interesting to talk with, and he was always extremely kind to me. He was a very special person, and I was lucky to know him.
First photo is Bruce at my late father's gallery show, 5/2017.
Second photo is from one of many of of our many family Christmases together, at Bruce & Sandy's loft, 12/2006.

Margot Boyd

January 22, 2024

I have many lovely memories of times spent with Bruce and Sandy together with my parents over the years. Bruce was an admirable, wonderful, and caring person, always interesting to talk with, and always so very kind with me. He will be greatly missed, and I am lucky to have known him. (Photo of Bruce at my late father's gallery opening - 5/2017.)

Diana (Detwiler) Knickrehm

January 20, 2024

Bruce and Sandy are such bright lights! They were such fun with my kids, their great-niece and great-nephews.

Judy

January 20, 2024

Bruce...my neighbor, close friend, political guru; a person of great depth, courage and strength. He was analytical, focused, determined, intense and kind. Ready with a smile, a quip, praise and humor. My, but I do miss my friend. Judy Whitbeck, Mt. Washington

Diana Knickrehm

January 20, 2024

Diana Knickrehm

January 20, 2024

I remember being a flower girl at Bruce and Sandy´s wedding. It was such a beautiful day there on Mt. Washington, which was always such a special place.

Diana Knickrehm

January 20, 2024

Here´s young Bruce (left) and his brother John (right) in their father´s fancy Jaguar convertible in the early 1950s.

Mother Ivory Ann Black

January 19, 2024

My dear friend Bruce. I will miss our outdoor walks through the mountainous hills of Mt. Washington. I appreciate your kindness towards nature as you carefully stepped making sure there were no red lizards underfoot. Your zeal to keep moving even through rough days, always inspired me to do the same. A mind so vast you had while it seemed as I could bring up any topic in the world, you would have something to share about it. From Sagittarius A, the black hole in the middle of our galaxy, all the way to mullen plants and bob cats.......you had a beautiful mind that explored far and near. I will never forget there are many types of burch trees, how you single handily doug the ditch along your driveway, and your ultimate life goal to help others. Thank you for sharing a piece of your life with me and the world.

Deanne Moskowitz and Al Koren

January 19, 2024

Al and I will remember Bruce as a gentle, thoughtful, and compassionate man. In fact, I experienced his compassion personally last summer when, while walking from Town Hall to the Blueberry Farm, I got caught in a fierce rainstorm complete with thunder and lightning. Not only was I drenched but I was frightened, when a car stopped and the driver (whom I didn't recognize) invited me to get in. It turned out that Bruce, in the passenger seat, had instructed his driver to rescue me and deliver me directly to my door. We were both grateful for that kindness! Al Koren and Deanne Moskowitz

Ben Green

January 19, 2024

I felt privileged to be invited to join Bruce and Emby for a number of their summer lunches on Mt. Washington. Bruce and I took a number of hikes together on the mountain; I was absorbed thinking about the wonderful stories he would tell about his adventures in Mississippi and Zambia, but Bruce kept a sharp eye on the natural world around us. He explained what was going on when a vulture, high up in a tree, vomited down on us. While we were walking on the road one time after a rainstorm, Bruce would tirelessly stop to pick up efts (newts) and gently place them out of harm's way off the road. With his humble, unassuming nature, you would never have guessed all his political, academic, and journalistic accomplishments. I will miss him deeply, Ben Green

Jay Wilson

January 18, 2024

It was a great privilege to know Bruce since our Yale days. We had great conversations whenever we bumped into each other at scholarly conferences. I think his deepest instinct was compassion...for everyone.

Ingrid Schneider

January 17, 2024

May Bruce forever live in our hearts.

Dana Crowell

January 17, 2024

I always enjoyed talking with Bruce because he was so interested in ideas and so widely traveled. What a fascinating and kind man! I will miss him.

Diana Knickrehm

January 17, 2024

As my father's brother, Bruce and his beloved Sandy have been adored by our family (including my 2 sisters) forever. His genuine goodwill abounded, and his welcoming embrace, great stories, and hearty laughter was dependable and comforting. His personal insight was profound and crossed generations. He gave generously of himself. His compassion and his understanding made him a family treasure. His accomplishments were a source of pride. We are so sad at his passing. We want to hold Sandy close and will remember Bruce always with hearts full of love.
Blessings and peace,
Diana (Detwiler) Knickrehm and family

Stephen Lapointe

January 17, 2024

Jennifer VanAlstine

January 17, 2024

I´ve know Bruce and Sandy since their time at Cornell. Our paths and time together have been sporadic over the years, but always deep and treasured and delightful.
Bruce devoured information and was interested in everything. A huge mind. A huge heart. Jennifer VanAlstine

Melinda Fine

January 17, 2024

I remember meeting Bruce soon after we moved to Mt. Washington 25 years ago, being glad to learn someone with his commitments was among our new neighbors, and talking with our (then) children about Mississippi summer and its place in the civil rights movement soon afterward, having learned of his role. We send our warmest thoughts and deepest condolences to Sandy and all who loved Bruce at this time. Melinda (Fine) and Zach (Lockman)

Rebecca Garrett Brown

January 17, 2024

I always enjoyed talking with Bruce and Sandy on my morning walks down to the CT state line. They were often walking in the early mornings on East Street when I would be up on Mt Washington for my summer vacation.
I had no idea of all the amazing accomplishments of his life. He was such a humble kind person and will be missed on the mountain.
Sincerely,
Rebecca C. Garrett-Brown

Kathleen Cahill

January 16, 2024

I have a distinct memory of Bruce although I never met him. He and Sandy had already left the communal house where they met, when I moved into it. But I never stopped hearing about him. He was a profound soul.
Kathleen Cahill

Morgan Bulkeley

January 16, 2024

When I arrived at Hotchkiss in 1958 Bruce was one of the first persons I met. When I found that he loved turtles, we became fast friends. From then on our lives were constantly intersecting paths, much like having a brother. I´ll miss him always..........Morgan Bulkeley

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