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Bryan J. Stevens
1944 - 2020
Bryan J. Stevens
1944 - 2020
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Bryan Stevens Obituary
York - Bryan J. Stevens, MD, age 75, of York, died at 12:30 PM Sunday, March 15, 2020, at York Hospital. He was the husband of Lucy K. (Miller) Stevens.
Born May 26, 1944 in Washington, DC, he was a son of Jean (Cochran) Stevens, of York, and the late Henry B. Stevens. He completed his under graduate studies at Drexel University, and his graduate studies in medicine at the University of Pittsburgh. He was retired as a Psychiatrist, having worked at York Hospital as well as in private practice as a specialist in the treatment of children and adolescents. He was a member of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of York.
In addition to his wife and mother, Dr. Stevens is survived by a daughter, Julia D. Stevens, of Saint Louis, Missouri; two sons, David C. Stevens and Peter J. Stevens, both of Brooklyn, New York; a grandson, James Stevens-Fitzhugh; and two brothers, Peter Stevens, of York, and Thomas Stevens, of Aurora, Oregon.
A renaissance man, Dr. Stevens pursued a wide range of interests with great enthusiasm. As a college and medical school student, he taught himself to play the banjo, fiddle, guitar, and (briefly) the sitar. During the 1980s, he devoted much of his time to singlehandedly restoring an 18th century log farmhouse in Hellam while also becoming an amateur tinsmith. No other hobby, however, captured his attention like the study of Mexican ceremonial masks, of which he amassed a sizeable collection. His research and travels in Mexico led him to write and publish a book on Mexican mask-making traditions in 2012. In more recent years, he became passionately engaged in promoting racial justice.
A memorial service will be held at a later date at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of York, 925 South George Street, with the Rev. Terry Cummings officiating. Kuhner Associates Funeral Directors, Inc., 863 South George Street, York, is in charge of arrangements.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Equal Justice Initiative, 122 Commerce St., Montgomery, AL 36104 or the American Indian College Fund, 8333 Greenwood Blvd, Denver, CO 80221.
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Christopher
May 30, 2024
Dr. Stevens saved my life when I was 16 years old.. I was being destroyed by Anorexia and he helped me. I was one of very few male patients that he had, since it is primarily known as a female disease. I will turn 56 this year and I have had a very happy and healthy life. Dr. Stevens I still think about you and I am still extremely grateful for what you did for me. Thank you for being so kind. No doubt you are missed very much by so many. Rest in peace!!!!
Amber Kahler (Myers)
August 23, 2022
I had doctor Stevens since I was 12 years old and we still kept in touch until my late 20's I'm now 40 and will never forget him! He was an awesome doctor and will be greatly missed!
Rick Martinson
November 25, 2020
i was just thinking about Brian a few days ago and was planning to see if he was on Facebook. Rest in Peace and may you play in an afterlife band, former roommate.
Corlyn Griggs
March 21, 2020
Bryan was my Our Daily Bread guide. He introduced me to the joy of serving and trusted me to carry on his commitment at UUCY to ODB. Thank you, Bryan.
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Barbara Cleaver
March 20, 2020
Dear Lucy and family, we are so sad and sorry for your great loss. Such a loveable and special man...
Bryan was dear to us, too...a brilliant, fascinating and incredibly kind friend.
Reading these tributes, we have learned even more about his contributions to your community, and the esteem in which he was held.
It was a privilage to have had his friendship.
Sending very much love from Mexico,
Barbara and Robin Cleaver
Susie Zuntini
March 20, 2020
Dearest Lucy and your children and grandchildren, I'm so sorry to hear of Bryan's passing. I feel so happy to have shared time with you and Bryan for our 50 th WT reunion, years ago. He was a delightful host and chevalier for our trio. All my loving thoughts to you and your family in this hard time.
Barbara Cleaver
March 20, 2020
Dear Lucy and family, we are so sad and sorry for your great loss. Such a loveable and special man...
Bryan was dear to us, too...a brilliant, fascinating and incredibly kind friend.
Reading these tributes, we have learned even more about his contributions to your community, and the esteem in which he was held.
It was a privilage to have had his friendship.
Sending very much love from Mexico,
Barbara and Robin Cleaver
Shelley Butcher MS support group leader
March 20, 2020
Bryan was a wonderful addition to our MS support group when he would bring his brother Peter . He offered insight to our group and also added humor at times !! He will be missed .
Craig and
March 20, 2020
Deepest sympathies to Lucy and her family. Bryan was a rock in the York community and UUCY. His wide-ranging interests in anthropology, crafts and music were an inspiration to those who knew him. His deep love and care for his wife and family were a model for many of us.
Russ McKnight
March 19, 2020
Bryan would say yes to do the difficult. He was generous and upbeat. He was honorable and humble. He could not abide injustice. We were blessed to be with him and his influence upon us.
March 19, 2020
Dear Lucy and family,
Our deepest sympathy. We were all heartbroken to learn that Bryan had died. I have a few specific memories of the unique and special gifts he could bring to a conversation - whether it was a discussion of White Fragility or working on the PAC committee. He could articulate the most compassionate and reasonable viewpoint of all. We will miss you Bryan - Sleep in heavenly peace!
Deb Gogniat
Steve Snell
March 19, 2020
Bryan was a pillar at UUCY. Over the years he wore many hats from Board chair to coordinator of the mowing teams - and everything in between. But most of all he was a friendly face, a friend and a warm greeter who showed compassion in everything he did. He will be missed terribly.
Joan & John Seville
March 19, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Holly Beatty
March 19, 2020
He was such a nice person the whole family. remember when they moved into springdale neighbor when i was younger.
my thought and prayers are with the family during this difficult time.
Peggy Baker
March 19, 2020
I was so sorry and shocked to hear about Bryan's death. He will really be missed at UUCY and in the greater community. My sincere condolences to Lucy and all of the family.
Jackie and Gary SweItzer
March 18, 2020
So very, very sorry and shocked, Lucy and family, to hear of Bryan's passing. We will keep you close in thought and prayer. If Gary or I can be of any help, please just let us know.
Cindy Terlazzo
March 18, 2020
Bryan was everywhere at UUCY - He organized the mowing team. He took over our Daily Bread and made sure UUCY continued this service to the community. He brought music whenever he could. He was a stalwart force on the worship team. He was the center point for the care committee. He jump started the Racial Justice Team and initiated the Black Lives Matters banner. He worked to create community partnerships - all of this in just the past few years. He was pivotal in securing the land for the new building. He was active on the board...and the list goes on. Wherever there was a need, wherever he could offer a hand he was there. He will be greatly missed.
Winnie McDdonagh
March 18, 2020
Bryan was incredible person. I feel so privileged to have known him as a friend, member of my church an d a fellow journey man in our efforts for racial justice.
He was committed to caring for people. visited with an elderly neighbor of mine faithfully every Wednesday morning till the gentleman passed.
Served more positions within the UU Congregation of York than i can remember.
Faithfully walked outside every morning.
Was thrilled to represent UUCY at the Black Ministers Association when we were between ministers.
I am just shocked and saddened by his passing. He will be so missed.
Deepest condolences to Lucy and family. So sorry not to be there in person to express condolences. Winnie McDonagh
Kimberley
March 18, 2020
I am sorry to hear of his passing. I appreciated his friendliness and insightful personality.
Michael Robinson
March 18, 2020
Bryan, in his working career, provided an much-needed and often hard-to-access medical service for our youth. In addition, he extended himself for the Unitarian Universalist congregation repeatedly. Bryan will be remembered with fondness and love by many of us.
March 18, 2020
Dr. Stevens will be sorely missed. Our deepest condolences to Lucy, Julia, David, and Peter during this very difficult time. Dr. Stevens will be fondly remembered for his sharp wit, endless curiosity and compassion for all.
With love,
Ian, Kirsi and Elisa
Myra Toms
March 18, 2020
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Susan Craver
March 18, 2020
Bryan, the most gentle of human beings. Loved his laugh & quiet ways. He & Lucy & I took a memorable trip to Turkey a few years back. Love you Lucy.
Terry Cummings
March 18, 2020
All of us at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of York are deeply saddened by Bryan's passing. Lucy and Bryan have been pillars of our congregation for many, many years. They are deeply loved.
Our heartfelt condolences go out to everyone who knew Bryan, and we are holding Lucy, Julia, David and Peter in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time.
Rev. Terry Cummings
Leann D
March 18, 2020
Bryan was a pillar of our church - he was calm and kind, warm and thoughtful and very wise. And he had a lovely sense of humor. He volunteered in many facets and showed me what it means to be generous with one's time and talents to benefit a church family we all love. He is a role model for those who remember him, showing us how to build bridges, how to advocate for those whose voices are muted, how to be tenacious in aligning with one's values. He lived his values! I will remember him as an inspiring person. When the going gets tough, I will think of Bryan, his quiet yet strong way of being in the world, and know he is guiding us, as he lives always in our hearts. Thank you Bryan, for your gifts to our community.
Robert Felton
March 18, 2020
Bryan was an incredibly powerful force in the UUCY church community. For many years he offered guidance in all aspects of church activity. We looked up to him for a broader view of various perspectives. He was, without a doubt, a beautiful treasure. Love and comfort to everyone missing him now and in the days to come.
Tesla Taliaferro
March 18, 2020
Bryan's life and deeds exemplified what it meant to be a a good man and Unitarian Universalist. His love and compassion for every person met, his patience for every question posed, and his dedication to every task he could take on for the community's benefit... He was and continues to be an inspiration to many. He will be sorely missed, and his example followed. Lifting up his family and friends, and especially his darling wife Lucy, in this time of grief.
Dianne Creagh
March 18, 2020
To Lucy and Bryan's Family, my sincere sympathies and support. Bryan was a very special person, a passionate advocate for justice, and a loving friend. He will live on in our hearts and in his example for us all.
Merry & Bob Barnas
March 18, 2020
Lucy :Bryan was the heart and soul of UUCY. Our love goes out to you and your family. He will be greatly missed
Fernanda BritoMunoz
March 18, 2020
Bryan was those kkinds of people that every time you talk to him you ccould feel his honesty, kindness and compassion. Bryan is going to be missed. All my hugs and blessings to Lucy. Hugs!!!
Emily Miller
March 18, 2020
Bryan was a warm and kindhearted person, who was such a gentle and reassuring presence. He once complimented me on a parenting decision, and while he may not have known it, it meant a lot to me and gave me the courage to keep charting the course. He will be missed.
Kathy Smith
March 18, 2020
Bryan was a wonderful, kind man and a very active member of UUCY. He was a true gentleman and someone who could be counted on in good times and bad. Bryan was a great listener and he spoke his truth. He will be missed!
Susan Cashman
March 18, 2020
So sorry for your loss, Jean and family. He was an interesting person and will be missed.
Gary and Sue, Pan World Travel
Joan Fulton
March 18, 2020
Our hearts go out to the family and friends of dear Bryan. This kind, gentle man was a care giver to so many. He was there to support whoever might be suffering. His shoes will be very hard to fill. Our condolences to all who grieve this very unique human being.
Joan and Tim Fulton
Fernanda BritoMunoz
March 18, 2020
Bryan was those kinds of people that you see and talk to them I could have access to was in his heart, he was so nice and friendly. I am so sorry he sorry, he had to leave us. My big hugs and blessings to Lucy, a wonderful woman. FeFernanda Brito-Munoz
Fran Baumgartner
March 18, 2020
Lucy,
My thoughts are with you and your children. Bryan was such a special person. I will miss him as will all of UUCY. I'll see you soon.
Fran Baumgartner
Michael Robinson
March 18, 2020
A gentle soul, his professional work brought comfort and guidance to families of troubled youth. He extended himself in many ways to support the strong congregational life of the Unitarian Universalist church here in York, Pennsylvania.
Molly and Stephen March
March 18, 2020
A kind, generous, caring gentleman is how we will remember Bryan. He was always helping others and was always very generous with his time, support and love. His presence will be missed by so many but especially the UUCY community and his friends. May he rest in peace and know his life was well lived and that he brought comfort to so many.
Christa (Mrs. Leonard) Klein
March 18, 2020
May God bless and keep you as you bear this great loss and ponder your father's, husband's, and son's generous love.
Meda Higa
March 18, 2020
Bryan and Lucy are such a beloved members of our UUCY community; Bryan will be greatly missed. I will always remember his warm, friendly smile and his fiery passion for racial justice. He was and will continue to be a role model for me.
March 18, 2020
What a sad time this is for the family and friends of dear Bryan. This wise, gentle man was a caregiver to so many. He sensitively reached out to so many who were struggling. His compassion knew no limits. We are all grieving the loss of this very unique human being. Condolences to all those who were blessed to have known him.
Richard Sponseller
March 18, 2020
I recall Dr. Stevens' pleasant manner, keen sense of humor, and excellent insight into the children and adolescent clients we shared during staff reviews. Rest in Peace, Dr. Stevens.
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