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Roberta Reimann
June 19, 2003
To Cara's Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Cara's death. She was a true angel. Her heart led her and made her the incredible person she was, full of love and devotion. What a blessing she was!! I am so glad she was in my life.
I guess one of my more recent contacts with Cara was an e-mail called, "Keep your fork." In the story, a young woman is about to die and she really does not have anything special that she wants other than to keep her fork. She told her priest that her mother/grandmother, after every meal, would remind her to keep her fork as something better is coming. I loved this e-mail and believe that Cara can expect better in her heavenly life.
My prayers are with you.
Sincerely, Roberta Reimann
John Sardella
June 18, 2003
Cara was a friend, mentor, and was loved by those lives who she touched. Cara's patience, understanding, compassion, leadership abilities, and friendship were among her strongest characteristics. Despite whatever might be going on, Cara seemed able to put it all aside, and not only wear a smile on her face, but be there for her friends. Cara was so young, so loved, such a beautiful person inside and out, she will be missed, but she will go on touching lives through those who knew her. She instilled a lot of values, morals, and ethics in me, as i'm sure she did to other people who she has touched. Cara, you will be missed, and you will always have our love.
Linda (Walczynski)
June 17, 2003
I am so saddened and shocked to hear of Cara's death. My heart goes out to all of her family; my prayers will be for you as well as for Cara. I remember how sweet she always was to me. When Kerry and I were dating, and Cara was dating my little brother, Scott, I was blessed to have Cara ask me to be her confirmation sponsor; she asked my confirmation name and why I chose it. After I explained how fond I was of St. Bernadette of Lourdes, Cara also chose this saint as her confirmation namesake. From what I read of the guestbook, it is apparent that Cara sweetly touched so many lives in her brief time on earth, not unlike Bernadette. God will surely let her continue to help look after her friends and loved ones from heaven. Kerry, my heart breaks for your loss of your "baby sister." I know how much she meant to you. I always knew she and your Mom were angels here on earth; their love for you will not diminish now that they are angels in heaven. I am sorry I only found out about your loss just now. But as I said, my prayers will continue. Bless all of you.
Jen & Ann
June 15, 2003
Jen and I have known Cara for about 10 years. I worked with Cara through my past job and Jen met Cara through the caregiver business. We thought of Cara as one of our extended family. Her smile and giving way was a sure sign of a real friend.
Today we planted a Pink Flower Carpet Rose bush in our yard in memory of Cara.
We find comfort in knowing Cara is one of Gods Angels helping to watch over someone in need of an Angel.
Gods comfort to all who have been blessed to know Cara.
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Kelly (Forse) Roden
June 14, 2003
My Sympathy to the Family and Friends of Cara Lynn Kolosky. We all too often take for granted how people like Cara affect our lives until something tragic happens. Many of my favorite times in Moose Lake were spent with Cara and I will never forget her.
Melissa and Roxanne
June 13, 2003
To the Kolosky Family:
We were so sorry to hear about Cara. We both work at the Star Gazette, and it was so hard to receive the fax on Cara, then type her obituary. We should not have had to do this, for someone so young, so full of life...It was only 17 years ago we were at Graduation and at our graduation party at the Pits, and saying goodbye to many years of memories of recess in Kettle River, then in Moose Lake, birthday parties, dances, proms, etc. These memories as classmates and friends shall always remain in our hearts. Cara always had a smile to brighten up a room ... someone you could always tell a secret to and know only the people you wanted to know would know...she never spoke a bad word about the Class of '86 ... everyone was always welcome as a friend. She will be greatly missed.
Melissa and Roxanne
Fellow Classmates of '86
Sheryl Lilya (Stone)
June 13, 2003
I grew up with Cara and graduated from high school with her. She was a wonderful person and all who knew her were lucky to have had that opportunity. My sympathy and prayers go out to her family.
Nancy Gamache
June 12, 2003
My sympathy to Cara's family. I am going to miss her so terribly much. Though I only knew her for a short time, she had become a close and valued friend, and I will miss those joke emails and long talks. In 2001, she worked at the speed of light, maintaining control of multi-dimensional issues in her steady and capable hands to set my brother up in an assisted-living home…-- always eager to listen, open to suggestions -- giving of herself completely to the tasks at hand. I recall her saying to me whenever we hit snags in the process: “I will MAKE it happen.” And she did. That was Cara.
Todd Erickson
June 12, 2003
I wish to offer my deepest sympathy to Cara's Family and friends. Although I did not know Cara well I did find that she was highly motivated, well organized and had a deep sense of caring for the people she worked with. I was honored to have my son as a client in the group home she managed. She was truly committed to her clients. Please know that she is with God now and all the loved ones that have passed before her. Take care.
Todd Erickson (Chad Erickson's Dad)
Stacie Kaiser
June 12, 2003
I am so sorry to hear about Cara. I lived next to her our freshmen year in college and have a lot of happy memories of her. My deepest sympathy goes out to her family and freinds. The world has lost a wonderful person.
Pam Erickson
June 12, 2003
What a shock this must be. We are so sorry for your loss. Our son was a client in one of the assisted living homes that Cara established. She was so kind and such a caring individual. She took the time to get to know our son. Always offering help and creative ideas when dealing with situations. We will all miss her dearly. We are happy to have known her. Please know that she is in God's Loving Hands now. Take care.
Fr. John Fleischhacker, OSC
June 12, 2003
My sincerest condolences to your family at this time. My blessings, prayers and peace are with you now and always.
Love, fr. John F.
Shelly Arnold
June 12, 2003
I've known Cara since we were 5 years old. I remember all of the fun times we had in school and later, in college... our walks, living in the dorms and later in the on-campus and off-campus apartments, and all of those great late-night talks. She was a special person who would do anything for a friend and I know she will be missed. My heart goes out to her family and friends.
Ron Fischer
June 11, 2003
I met Cara in 1998 when I started working for her part-time, in one of the assisted living homes that she supervised. I have many treasured memories of times spent with her, learning from her, and being lucky enough to have gotten to know her.
Her boundless energy, dedication, compassion, honesty and love for everyone made her so beautiful. She has touched the lives of of so many people, I feel fortunate to be amung them.
I will miss her dearly.
Janelle Langdon
June 10, 2003
My deepest sympathies go out to Cara's family and friends. I had the privelege of knowing Cara for the past 7 years. I worked with her for over 4 and what a wonderful teacher and friend she was to me. Cara had so many wonderful qualities that it is impossible to list all. Most importantly she was giving, kind-hearted and would sacrifice anything for her friends and family. She gave all that she had to the people that she served in her work and this showed in so many ways. I will miss my teacher and friend dearly.
Jody (Roche) Fischer
June 10, 2003
I have great memories of Cara from our freshman year in college. She was always so mature. She would always have a smile on her face and a friendly thing to say to me. I was lucky to have known her.
Dawn Quantrell (Jubera)
June 10, 2003
To Cara's family:
I am so sorry for your loss. Cara lived across the hall from me freshman year at UMD. We all were pretty good friend with both her and Shelly. I can't believe she is gone. I haven't talked to her in along time however, I feel very sad to hear she is gone. She was always fun to be with. I will not forget her. On our last day that year we all listened to Michael W. Smith's - Friends. Whenever I hear this song I think of that day. Now it will have more meaning to it.
Laurie and Peter Callies
June 10, 2003
Dearest Kolosky Family,
Our deepest sympathies go out to you and all those who loved Cara. May you find comfort in the love of family and friends that surround you, in your memories, and in God.
We have known Cara for the past 13 years and not only considered her a close friend, but loved her dearly. We will miss her deeply.
Debra Matuseski
June 10, 2003
My thoughts and sympathy are with Cara's family at this sad time. The last time I saw Cara was at my sister Lisa's wedding many years ago, she was a beautiful maid of honor, whose wonderful smile and kind spirit remains a memory of mine, as I know will remain alive in the hearts of everyone who had the priveledge to meet and know her. To my old classmate Bob, my deepest sympathy to you and all of your family on this very sad occasion.
With Love, Deb
Sue Arnold
June 10, 2003
To Cara's Siblings: Even though we hadn't kept in touch, throughout her school years and college years and even now, Cara held a special place in our hearts. She and Shelly were roommates all through college and Cara was a good friend. Our deepest sympathy to you in this time of terrible sadness and God Bless all of you.
Dennis and Sue Arnold
Jon Tolo
June 9, 2003
I've had the privilage of knowing Cara for the last 7 years. The warmth of her smile, her wisdom, kindness, courage, and sacrifice for others will be immeasurably missed.
Amy Butani
June 9, 2003
Comfort, Peace, Hope... May they be yours in this time of sadness.
Cara and I were Ground Round co-workers and neighbors/roommates in Duluth.
We had some good walks and talks, if I could keep up, she was always on the move.
I remember envying her sense of organization and work ethic - her energy. Like her car, the detail she took in recording her speedometer reading with every fill-up.
Cara was amazing… really a wonderful person, with a great heart. I am truly sorry for your loss.
With Sympathy,
Mary Aery
June 9, 2003
To Mary and the Kolosky family:
My deepest sympathy to each of you with the loss of Cara. I haven't seen Cara in a few years, but I have very fond memories of her as a beautiful, young girl. Mary Aery (Biberg)
Liz (Olson) Marihart
June 9, 2003
Cara was a good friend and I will always remember the fun we all had together during our school years. Her classmates are really going to miss her.
Chris Whorton
June 9, 2003
Please accept my deepest sympathy in this time of need. I got to know Cara while she was working at the Ground Round, and considered her a good friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to her entire family.
Nevin Johnson
June 9, 2003
Mary, Tammy, & Family:
Please accept my Deepest Sympathy at this very tough time. I learned of your sister's passing thru the Duluth paper. You will be in my thoughts during this time of loss. Should you need any type of assistance, feel free to call any time.
Cathy Nummela
June 9, 2003
"Sudden Unexpected Loss"
Little did you know that morning, What sorrow the day would bring.
Your loss is so great, the shock severe, To part with one you loved so dear. You could not say your last farewell, Or even say good-bye
For she was gone before you knew, And only God knows why.
I hadn't seen Cara for a while now. But, I will always remember the good times we had growing up, walking the railroad tracks, going to the park and just hanging out together. Good memories. She will be missed.
Cheryl (Piippo/VanHeel)Curtis
June 9, 2003
My deepest sympathies to the family of Cara, I attended school with Cara at Kettle River and Moose Lake, played against her in Volleyball while I attended Barnum HS. She was a wonderful person with a lot of zest for life and always smiling, even though its been many years since I've seen her, I will always remember her kindness. I will keep her family in my thoughts and prayers at this time of sorrow and loss, she has left a memory in the hearts of all whom she has known.
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