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1926
DIED
2018
Carl Cote Obituary
Waterville – Carl Philip Cote, 91, of Waterville, formerly of Fairfield, died in Augusta on Wednesday April 25, 2018 with family at his side. He was born on June 25, 1926 in Waterville, one of nine children of Stella (Proulx) and Onesime Cote. Shortly after graduating from Waterville High School in 1944 he entered the US Navy and served as an Electrician's Mate in Okinawa. He was honorably discharged as a Third Class Petty Officer and was a lifelong member of the American Legion and VFW.
Upon returning to Waterville he worked at Hathaway Shirts for ten years. He then worked for the Fairfield Post Office before transferring to the Waterville Post Office and retired in 1986. He was active in the Catholic Church and served on the parish council, a Eucharistic Minister and any number of other roles when needed. Carl married Ruth Cuthbertson Ferland in 1978 and he was always proud of his four children and five stepchildren. He greatly enjoyed family time and reunions at the family camp in Belgrade.
Carl is survived by his children: Thomas Cote, Angela Cote, Emily McDonald (Charles), and Beth Ferland (Peter); his stepchildren: Elizabeth Ferland, Virginia Allen (James), Sarah Cunningham (Lloyd), Peter Ferland (Beth) and Paul Ferland (Sherry); many grandchildren, great-grandchildren and two great-great-granddaughters; his brother Everett Cote; his sister Dorothy Bernier as well as a large extended family. He was predeceased by his wife of 40 years, Ruth, his grandsons Nathan Davis and Joshua Moss, three sisters and three brothers.
The family wishes to express their appreciation to the staff of Lakewood Continuing Care and the staff of 3 West at MaineGeneral Medical Center for their compassion in caring for Carl and his family.
Visiting hours will be on Tuesday May 1, 2018 from 5 – 7 pm at Veilleux Funeral Home, 8 Elm Street, Waterville. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday May 2 at 11:00 am at Notre Dame Catholic Church, 112 Silver Street, Waterville with burial following in Pine Grove Cemetery, 88 Grove Street, Waterville. Please visit www.veilleuxfuneralhome.com to view a video collage of Carl's life and to share condolences, memories and tributes with his family.
Please consider making a donation in Carl's memory to: National Kidney Foundation, 470 Forest Avenue, Suite 302, Portland, ME 04101.
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Jim Piscatori
May 1, 2018
I am so sorry to hear the sad news of Carl's passing. He and Ruth were the best neighbors anyone could want, and I will always remember Carl's laugh and helping hand. He was generous to a fault and one of life's great gentlemen.
Love,
Jim
Janet Delile
April 30, 2018
My deepest sympathy to your family. I always loved Uncle Carl.
susan white
April 30, 2018
To Carl's Family, We are so sorry for your loss. I am sure he is happy to be reunited with Ruth. He was a kind man. Thinking of you all. Carrol and Susan White
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Stephanie Thibodeau
April 30, 2018
Your dad was such a kind soul with a beautiful smile. He will always have a special place in my heart. Peace be with you.
Terry Thompson
April 29, 2018
Sending prayers and warm thoughts to Emily and all the family! I remember seeing Mr. Cote at the Immaculate Heart of Mary church and thought he was a wonderful man to volunteer his time to the parrish.
Sincerely,
Terry Holt Thompson
Sherie Cote
April 29, 2018
You will be missed uncle Carl and always in our hearts. Rest in peace. Love and support to all the family. Love you all.
Fr. Claude R. Gendreau
April 29, 2018
My most sincere sympathies to Carl's family. You all remain in my thoughts and prayers. Carl served at many funerals when I was assigned in Waterville. He certainly was a good and faithful servant. May he now rest in peace.
JEROME LOISEL
April 29, 2018
SORRY TO HEAR THAT CARL PASS AWAY GOD WILL TAKE GOOD CARE OF HIM HE WAS A GOOD MAN
April 29, 2018
My deepest sympathy to The Cote family. I met Mr. Cote years ago when I worked at a local credit union. He always had a smile on his face and always had a kind word. RIP Mr. Cote
Gisele (Loubier) Clifford
Rita Bujold, c.s.j.l.
April 29, 2018
My deepest sympathy to the family. When I worked at Notre Dame Parish, he and Ruth were very involved in the Church. They were a wonderful and generous couple. May you find peace and comfort in knowing that your father lives on in God's love.
April 26, 2018
My condolences to the family. May God give you strength to endure at this difficult time. Isaiah 40:29
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