Carl Stanford Forsythe III

Carl Stanford Forsythe III

Carl Forsythe Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 15, 2009.
CARL STANFORD FORSYTHE III Esquire, an attorney, philanthropist and accomplished athlete, passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on July 12, 2009 after a brief illness. He was a lifelong resident of the Town of Greenwich. Carl was born to Virginia Dae Cluff Forsythe and Carl Stanford Forsythe, Esquire. Carl, known to his friends as Mouse, lived a successful and happy life. He graduated from Greenwich Country Day School and Phillips Academy at Andover. He went on to attend Yale University. After finishing his undergraduate studies at Yale, he went to both Columbia Business School and Columbia Law School, graduating with an LLB and MBA. Carl ran a successful law firm as the lead partner. Carl belonged to Greenwich Country Club his entire life as well as the Belle Haven Club and the Racquet and Tennis Club of New York City. He also belonged to the Yale Club of New York, Columbia University Club of New York, and the Harpoon and Horseneck Clubs in Greenwich. He was a member of the Bath and Tennis Club and The Beach Club in Palm Beach. Carl served on the boards of numerous organizations. He enjoyed sharing his expertise in many areas with others. These organizations included the Bruce Museum, the Historical Society of the Town of Greenwich, the International Tennis Hall of Fame, and the Yale Alumni Association. He also served on boards at both Greenwich Country Club and the Belle Haven Club. Carl was the president of the Northeast Greenwich Association for many years. Carl S. Forsythe III was a devoted member of the Board of The Historical Society of the Town of Greenwich for the past seven years and was elected Secretary of the Board in 2006. He chaired the by-laws and nominating committees and co-chaired the development committee. As chair of the Host Committee for the 75th Anniversary, he helped raise over $1.6 million dollars to expand the exhibition and education programs and to provide environmental upgrades to the museum gallery and archive building. Carl was a totally committed and accomplished athlete. His greatest passion was racquet sports, including squash and paddle tennis. He was a nationally ranked tennis player and has the honor of winning the Club Championships at Greenwich Country Club and the Belle Haven Club for more years than any other man. He was also an avid skier and loved to swim. Carl was a very generous man and gave much to organizations such as the Bruce Museum, the Historical Society of the Town of Greenwich, and the New York Botanical Garden. His numerous civic and professional accomplishments are eclipsed only by his achievements as a father, faithful friend and man of great integrity. He was loved by all who knew him. Carl is survived by his loving family, wife Sabrina, daughter Lindsay Forsythe and her husband Jason Good, daughter Robin Forsythe and her husband Adam Toht, step-daughters Courtney and Nicole Fischer, and two grandsons, Silas Forsythe Good and Elias Toht. A memorial service will be held on Thursday, July 23, at Christ Church at two o'clock in the afternoon. In lieu of flowers, City Squash, Post Office Box 619 Fordham Station, Bronx, New York 10458 will gratefully receive donations in Carl's memory.

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July 29, 2009

Margaret (Peggy) Mazer Ogdon posted to the memorial.

July 26, 2009

Camilla Hellman posted to the memorial.

July 26, 2009

Dennis Johnson posted to the memorial.

Margaret (Peggy) Mazer Ogdon

July 29, 2009

Dear Sabrina,
I was shocked to hear the news. I know he made you very happy. Please know that my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Love always,
Peggy Mazer Ogdon

Camilla Hellman

July 26, 2009

Sabrina - My deepest sympathies to you on the passing of Carl.. I was so shocked to hear the news..

As I write this it is with a smile as I remember all those wonderful times - his love of life, his style - but also with a great sadness for the loss of a friend...

Dennis Johnson

July 26, 2009

Sabrina,
Carl will be dearly missed as President of Warden House Assoc. Inc.
Condo/Historic Building in Palm Beach,Florida. A man of great integrity and was a pleasure to serve under his direction.
Dennis Johnson, Prop. Manager

July 24, 2009

Mouse was my attorney for over 30 years-I first met him at a party in the 60's and we were good pals thereafter. Mouse helped me with many personal and business matters over the years. He was a remarkable athlete and a warm and pleasant person. My deepest sympathies to his family
Robert F. Boggs
Beverly Hills, CA

Claire Simonelli

July 20, 2009

Carl Forsythe III This Guest Book will remain online until 8/15/2009

Dear Sabrina and family,

It was truly a great shock to all of us to hear of Carl's passing. Those of us who knew and loved him as Mouse, will dearly miss him, especially his generosity, bon vivant nature, utmost manners and presence on the tennis court, sense of humor and caring spirit.

I sincerely hope that your fond, uplifting memories will eventually outweigh the sting of this truly great loss.
My deepest sympathy to you and the girls.

Warm regards,

Ken Wasserman

July 20, 2009

To the Forsythe family,

I was saddened to hear the news about Carl's passing just today. Carl was widely known in the tennis community and I knew him as Mouse on the tennis court. I will never forget those great moments on the court that we shared at the Country Club. Mouse will certainly be missed.

Jonathan and Evelyn Ochsner

July 18, 2009

Sabrina,

Evelyn and I are deeply saddened by Carl’s passing.

Hopefully, your wonderful memories of him will bring you comfort and peace at this difficult time.

While Carl’s brightness of heart is so enduring, his 'bon vivant' spirit and dashing presence will be well- remembered and conspicuously missed.

Please call on us for any reason and know you have our love and heartfelt sympathies.

michael seely

July 18, 2009

sabrina--
as you may recall, I owned the condo next to carl' s at stratton.
I was shocked to hear this sad news. Mouse was such an extraordinarily robust guy. And a nice man.
My thoughts are with you.
Mike Seely
Dorset, VT

Robin

July 17, 2009

To The Forsythe Family,
I am sorry about your loss. Often I read the obituaries on line. My purpose in life is to comfort people with God’s word. I try to think of words of comfort and hope to share, that will ease the pain in your hearts. GOD is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves. Remember our strength comes from God because he cares. 1 Peter 5:7.

Bob Bell

July 16, 2009

"Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened."

Mouse you brought a lot of love and joy to a lot of people for a long, long, time and many, many, people were better off having known you and being counted as one of your friends.

So I won't mourn your passing but rather celebrate your life & what you gave to others which was much. And as we had known each other since we were both about 15, I can think back on many shared times with happiness.

My condolences to Sabrina, his daughters and step daughters and those who were almost as close.

So if I hear some racket up in the sky sometime, I'll just think your playing some tennis and winning as usual.

Rest in Peace old friend.

Toots

Alan McDonald

July 16, 2009

If Flannery O'Connor was right when she wrote, "A Good Man Is Hard To Find", then our task has just gotten harder, much harder. Mouse truly was a Good Man, and a good friend since 1956.

My sincerest condolences to his family,

Georgia Fleming

July 16, 2009

Dear Sabrina and family,

This is, indeed, a very sad day to learn of Carl's passing. My deepest sympathy to you in this time of great loss.

All of us who loved and knew him as Mouse, will dearly miss him, especially his greatness of spirit and giving.

With warmest regards,
Georgia Fleming

Daryl Fleuren

July 16, 2009

Dear Sabrina and family
May God's love and the memories of the good times you and Mouse shared together comfort you.
Please accept my deepest sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
In peace and love. Daryl

Patrice, Chris & Carly Sobecki

July 16, 2009

Dear Sabrina, Courtney, and Nicole,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of deep sadness.

Scott Bartlett,III

July 15, 2009

Mouse was someone we younger guys always looked up to, in the 1950's-at the greenwich Country Club--he was slightly older..graceful on the tennis court...the best player...steady and untiring and magnificent. He just was the gold standard in that "Leave it to beaver" halcyon period...loving son to his kindly and adoring parents Ginny and Karl Sr...disciplined and obviosuly preparing for a life of achievement and excellentce/ It seemed that almost everything Mouse touched he turned to gold...Andover,Yale, Columbia,law practice, marriage to fine partners, quality children and grandkids...

Mouse had a mischievous sense of humor and low-key nature in a way....friend to all, it seemed--regardless of race or class.

I remember him with cashmere sweater wrapped around his shoulders at festivities--handsome and understated and destined for a full life...it's been more than 40 years since I've spoken to him...but my Greenwich friends still ask about him and we mention having seen his foto with wife and friends in the paper or wherever...making this or that community contribution....contributions that were
meqaningful and substantive to him---to the town, his home town, he loved and remained loyal to his whole life..and giving of his time, talent and wherewithal to enrich its key organizations.

God Bless Mouse and thank God for such a stellar role model...a life well lived and well loved. He set the gold standard and lived it and got even better with time.

Scott Bartlett,III

July 15, 2009

Mouse was someone we younger guys always looked up to, at the Country Club in the 1950's..always graceful and and naturally talented...superb on the clay courts...the gold standard. he'd drive us to Forest Hills to Watch the U.S. Open when it was played on grass.

It seemed that everything Mouse did, he did well..Andover, Yale, Columbia, law practice, wonderful life partners and children/grandchildren.

His love for his home town and life-long loyalty to it and the organizations that enrich it was bountiful.

I remember the love and adoration his folks Ginny and Carl,Sr had for Mouse- a close and private family bond, it seemed..with both parents also loving the Greenwich Country Club...Ginny diving off the board and Carl Sr playing sports and being kindly and accessible.

God Bless Mouse and thank God for such a stellar human being...mischievous sense of humor and generous of spirit to folks from all walks of life.

July 15, 2009

Dear Sabrina--Using words to express how sorry we are doesn't come close to expressing the depth of our sadness over this news.
We have known Mouse since the 70's, and you and I have volunteered together over the years. We were so happy when the two of you were married.
We will hold you close in our daily prayers. With Love, Barbara and John Kavanagh

marge fink

July 15, 2009

My heartfelt sympathy to Sabrina and the girls on the loss of their beloved Mouse. He will always be remembered in the most wonderful ways.
With love, Marge Fink

Ronnie Riker

July 15, 2009

,Our deepest sympathy to Sabrina and family for the loss of Carl.

We will greatly miss his wonderful spirit and joie de vivre.

With love, Richard and Ronnie Riker

Deborah Weir

July 15, 2009

Dear Malcome, Natalie and Sabrina,

We are so sorry; we know you will miss him! We enjoyed seeing him at GCC and at the Beach Club.

Fondly,
Mike & Deb Weir

Michael Kovner

July 15, 2009

Mouse was a great friend to us, a good man, a wonderful husband and father to Sabrina and their girls. We shall miss him tremendously.
Our deepest and most sincere sympathy to Sabrina and the entire family.
Much love,
Michael and Jean

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