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Carl J. Walker-Hoover
1997 - 2009
Carl J. Walker-Hoover
1997 - 2009
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1997
DIED
2009
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Keith A Ridley IV
May 7, 2009
I watched your story last night and I extend my prayers to you. May you find the inner strength to hold forth and hold your family under GOD.
Essence Denson
May 7, 2009
I'm so sorry what happen to your son Carl Walker. But he will always be with you.
T Cochran
May 7, 2009
I'm sending my prayers and thoughts to your family, for I don't know the pain of losing a child but I'm sure its extremely hard. There is someone who can ease your pain and that's the good Lord above. He never puts anything on us that we can't bear. So continue to put your trust and faith in him and lead not on your own understanding. For my prayers will be you, stand strong through the storm.
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May 6, 2009
Mrs.Walker, 5/6/2009
I can not imagine the burden you carry
in your heart.Just know the whole country
is praying for your family. I just hope
students learn from this. Thank You for
being on Oprah,lets hope parents are watching.
Sorry For Your Loss
D.M.LeBlanc
Poultney VT.05764
Karen Malley
May 5, 2009
We all grieve with you for your devastating loss. We will all work to make the necessary changes which Carl has so painfully brought to the forefront of everyone's minds. My prayers and love go out to you. May you feel some peace in spite of all the pain.
Lee Marie Sanchez
May 5, 2009
Dear ones ~ I cannot imagine the sense of grief
you are experiencing due to this terribly unfair
loss of your beloved young man. I will say his name,
Carl J. Walker-Hoover as I light my evening candles
to lift him up & to remind me to be ever vigilant to
do what I can to bring justice & fairness to our society.
Ma you feel the love & caring of many for you.
G. E. Gorfu
May 5, 2009
Your life was very short but I hope you will not have lived or died in vain!
Archeval
May 4, 2009
Hey little man just stoppin by to say hey and dat miss you aj does too... its just still hard to believe that your even gone but i guess your in a better place now.....
malik williams
April 25, 2009
this ma dude to yo carl u stay in ma friends foreva boi u my fam
Kathryn Ebinger-Zuk
April 24, 2009
So sad to read of your loss. Have 2 boys of my own, now, 21 and 25, can only imagine your grief. I moved to the mountains of New Hampshire 20 years ago, from Springfield, used to live on Crest St, still miss my house and neighbors. My condolences to you and your family. Can only keep the hope that people and their assorted cruelties and misunderstanding, will someday change
Lynn
April 24, 2009
Dearest Mrs.Walker,
A mutual friend of ours, Patricia Byrd, told me about the loss of your beloved son. It touched my heart so deeply that I wanted you to know that I am praying that the Lord will give you comfort and strength during this difficult time.
Andrea Gillylan-Ouellette
April 23, 2009
April 24,2009
Dear Sirdeaner, I am truly sorry to hear about your son. I know that words cannot help ease your pain. But know that you and your family are in my prayers and heart.
With Love and tears,
Andrea
Jean
April 23, 2009
Mrs. Walker, Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I cried. You did all you could to advocate for Carl at school, and know that all that was good about Carl came from your loving, nurturing home.
R. Zeke Fread
April 23, 2009
My Dear Ms. Walker
I wish to extend my sincere heartfelt condolences and sympathy for the loss of your beloved son. Dear Carl is now safe in Heaven and is now one of God's Young Angels.
I, and I'm sure people around the country share in your pain and loss of your dear son. I only wish I had some words that could bring you some comfort during this most terrible time. As I learned of Carl's death, I couldn't hold back my tears or great sadness that filled my heart. I can only imagine how difficult it was for you to speak about your beloved son.
You're an inspiration, courageous and brave woman, Carl would be so very proud of you, as we are. By sharing your heartbreaking story, your educating people to the epidemic of bullying that takes place in our schools on a daily basis. As well as opening hearts and minds to the pain and suffering our young children endure. You're doing much to motivate others to take action to end bullying. This will serve to save other families from suffering the same loss as you. As an anti-hate and anti-bullying activist, I, and fellow activists, fought and lobbied for 7 years to get Florida to finally pass an anti-bullying bill. You have inspired me to work even harder to get national anti-bullying legislation passed, to put an end to this horrific epidemic.
I Pray Our Lord, God, Will Give You the Strength to Endure These Difficult Times. You and Carl Are in my Prayers and Thoughts, God Bless.
Jennifer
April 22, 2009
Dear Ms. Walker
i just wanted you to know that you touched my heart today when i saw you on Ellen. I am so sorry for your lose. Please stay strong. You and your family will be in my prayers. God bless
Racheal Little
April 22, 2009
My heart goes out to your family and I know that only time will heal you and your family. Your family is in my prayers.
April 21, 2009
Dear Ms. Walker, my heart goes out to you. My daughter committed suicide last year, although I don't know how you feel, I know how I feel. I can truly tell you that, with God's help, you can make it through. My God continue to strengthen you as He has strengthened me.
Penny L. Polk (Ooltewah, TN)
OLisa Holden
April 20, 2009
May God keep you surrounded by Angels to keep you lifted up on the days you feel you can not go on . My thoughts and prayers are with at this time of sorrow. Classical High 1984 (old friend)
Catrina Frost
April 20, 2009
My deepest sympathy for the lost of your son Carl. May he be at peace now. When I heard about his death I cried for 3 days. I never meet Carl but he touched my heart.
April 20, 2009
The heart is like a street filled with streetlights. At least this is what I believe. And every once in a while one of those streetlights gets blown out-- a random accident does it maybe or just pure intention--which way or the other.
But once a light is blown, it takes a long time for someone to climb up there and replace the bulb. A very long time. This news was like someone hit a whole row of those lights out. An entire section just darkened for all kinds of misery, pain, and frustration to blossom and seep in at the shadows, the intention, you see, spreading--one way or the other.
The light will go back on
someday,
but it's a whole lot of waiting while looking at the damage done.
April 19, 2009
I am completely devastated by your loss as if he was my own son. Although I never met him, my love pours out to him and your family. God bless you all!
Deborah Michalenka
April 19, 2009
To the Walker-Hoover Family
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your son Carl. This is such a tragedy of a beautiful young life. Our heart goes out to all of you. Bullying must be stopped.
Sincerely,
The Michalenka Family, Lincoln RI
Anna Moore
April 19, 2009
I'm devastated by the news of your loss. Please know that my husband and I are thinking of your family.
Denise Scott
April 19, 2009
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
tyrus gaynor
April 18, 2009
rip carl missin u
Hamer Family
April 18, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Patricia Lee
April 18, 2009
Sirdeana, My prayers are with you and your family. May the love of God and Carl give you strength.
Jamillah Harris
April 18, 2009
My heart goes out to the family during this trying time. I will keep you all in my prayers. May GOD bless you and may GOD keep you.
Regina Deally (Ali)
April 18, 2009
I am so sorry and sad to hear of the passing of your son, Carl.
May God's wonderful love help you through this very, very difficult time and may your wonderful memories of Carl bring a smile to you each time you think of him.
Westley Hosey Jr
April 17, 2009
I was truly sorry and heart broken to learn of the passing of son Carl. I am not a parent, but an uncle & God-father. I was would not know what do if a family member of mine were to die so young. At this time I can only hope and pray that the Walker & Hoover family can keep theirs heads and most importantly keep their faith in God. He is an angel now playing basketball with God.
Katy Kidder
April 17, 2009
Im Sorry About Your Loss. I Never Met Carl But I Bet He Was A Very Sweet Boy. My Heat Goes Out To You All.
April 17, 2009
I am deeply sorry for your loss of your son, Carl. May he rest in peace with his family above.
L Murphy, Westfield, Massachusetts
michelle hill
April 17, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss, what a beautiful little boy Carl was. I will keep your family in my prayers and hope you can find solitude in knowing your precious angel is at peace in Gods arms.
Alice Shipman
April 17, 2009
My condolences and best wishes to your family, and to Carl. He will be remembered by many, many people who never had the privelege of knowing him, but who have been touched by his life nevertheless.
S Pullum
April 17, 2009
I'm sorry for your lost. He was a beautiful & active young man.
Owen Woodard
April 17, 2009
My heart goes out to your entire family.
I will pray for all of you!
Shawanda
April 17, 2009
To the Walker-Hoover family, Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thourghts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Althought it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.
Heather
April 17, 2009
I can't imagine how this must feel. I am a single mother of a 7.5 year old daughter who gets bullied for not having her dad around, being a vegetarian and religious beliefs. This made me re-think that situation. We mentioned him in the Day of Silence today and I am so saddened by this. I hope he rests in peace and I will have you in my thoughts forever. Much love.
Kath Halloran
April 17, 2009
My deepest condolences on your loss.
Kristen
April 17, 2009
It saddens me greatly to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you in these tough times.
Leo
April 17, 2009
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sarah Boyd
April 17, 2009
I was heart broken to read this today. No one should ever have to go through what Carl had to go through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Carl will always be with you.
karen whyte
April 17, 2009
my thoughts are with your family for love, light, and comfort during this difficult time.
Sonya Dagovitz
April 16, 2009
To Dear Ms. Sirdeaner Walker -and to every member of her family,
It is beyond reason, to lose those we love so dearly, so soon, without justification. I write to you on behalf of my Aunt Sandra Dagovitz Torrence and our family. My Auntie knew your little Carl quite well -and spoke of him with utmost regard. She simply adored him. His Spirit, as he travels now onto G-d, is in our prayers, and his beautiful smile is in our hearts. May his memory truly be for a blessing.
~with our deepest sympathy,
Sonya Dagovitz Kugler
Stephan Dagovitz
Sandra Dagovitz Torrence
E Vaughn
April 16, 2009
I am saddened to hear of your loss.
National Cuncil On Islamic Scouting
April 16, 2009
May the light enfold him.
That his path is marked clearly.
The path that lies ahead.
Let his heart be at peace
That he may recognize
The signposts along the way.
G'd's Blessing to each of you
Casey Johnson
April 16, 2009
I printed an article about Carl for my husband to read. Our 11 year old son has been bullied at school and we have encouraged him to hold his head up and ignore the comments. Your loss has prompted me to reconsider how we handle his daily hurt. I am praying that you have peace about how hard you tried to defend your little man. He knows you love him so much.
Patricia Byrd
April 16, 2009
Sirdeaner,
I was sadden to hear the news of the great loss for you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. (CHS Class of '82)
Christine Gay
April 16, 2009
I am deeply sorry for the lost of your son. I hope you are able to find peace.
Kathy
April 15, 2009
Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.
Amy Booker
April 15, 2009
Although I only had the privilege of knowing Carl for a short time, I will always remember his bright and cheerful smile! I was a student teacher from UMass in his second grade classroom. I remember Carl as a bright, intelligent, and sweet child. I’ll never forget our field trip around Springfield, and our visit with the mayor. Carl got right up close to the mayor’s desk and was full of questions for him. Although it’s been a few years since I last saw Carl, I have thought of him many times since those second grade days. The world has lost an amazing boy. My thoughts are with your family at this very sad time.
Donna
April 15, 2009
Carl- you seemed to be an exceptional young man. Committed to your faith, family, and community. You are an angel
Renee Griffin
April 15, 2009
I have two kids and when I heard about your son it saddened me. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Heaven will take good care of him.
Jay Conley
April 15, 2009
As someone who was similarly pursued in school, I offer my understanding and sincere sympathies.
Matthew Jaquith
April 15, 2009
Dear Carl: You were not alone in suffering, and it's tragic that you felt that you were. May your family find peace, and may others like you never feel such hopeless.
National Council On Islamic Scouting,
April 15, 2009
Peace!
May the light enfold him.
That his path is marked clearly.
The path that lies ahead.
Let his heart be at peace
That he may recognize
The sign posts along the way.
G'd's Blessing To Each Of You.
Karley Meabrod
April 15, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Natalie
April 15, 2009
As a veteran teacher in the Springfield school system, I'd like to offer my prayers to you and your family. May you find peace in the shadow of the Almighty.
Pratt
April 15, 2009
Carl i did not know you but i am truly sorry for the loss of your life and the pain and suffering that your family is dealing with. May the lord hold you tight and keep you near for he is the one who would give you all the pleasures in heaven that you had on earth. May your family get through this tough time and keep the lord in the hearts for you are now safe.
April 15, 2009
Though I never met your wonderful son, Carl, I have wept over your loss. I believe this handsome, bright, kind-hearted boy is now in God's eternal, loving care, lighting his own special corner of heaven. You will be in our thoughts and prayers..."and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever...." I wish I could have known Carl, but will never forget him. Let's all do our own part to make the world a better place and help his dream live on! Sincerest sympathy, Carol and Peter Stewart of Redmond, Washington
Jackie Snow
April 15, 2009
Only God can give you peace and strength to endure this. Trust him to soothe your broken hearts. Shocked, hurt and sadden about Carl, this did not have to happen.
What does it take to open our hearts and minds treating each other right with love?
marci griffiths
April 15, 2009
my heart broke when i heard of this desperate tragedy. i am so sorry for your loss. my thoughts are with you.
Izzy
April 15, 2009
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Kristi LaPrairie
April 15, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with him, his friends, his family.
April 15, 2009
As my family sleeps, I just learned of the tragic loss on CNN and am so saddened and heartbroken that words cannot truly express my sympathy for your family. I have been searching for the past hour on how I could reach our to you, how I could share a message to you and your family. As a mother of a four year old son, I pray for you to keep your faith and have comfort during this time. GOD BLESS YOU and yours and may the blood of Jesus protect you and your family.
Tammy Davis, Washington, DC
Gary McCabe
April 14, 2009
Such a tragic loss. My heart goes out to his family.
Karen
April 14, 2009
May God take your son into his loving arms and give him the peace and joy he is sure to have. God bless you and your family and comfort you in your loss. I did not know Carl, I heard about this tragic incident on CNN. I just want you to know that I care.
Emilie Miller
April 14, 2009
May Carl's soul rest in peace.
Harvey Benbow
April 14, 2009
I was so saddened to hear of this tragic loss of life. May God comfort you through this difficult time.
Sil Bruinsma
April 14, 2009
Dear Carl,
We've never met, I didn't know you. But looking at your picture and reading about all the activities you were involved in you come across as a wonderful, caring, active and engaged young man. All week you've been in my thoughts and although you may not be here anymore your light shines on...brightly. You touched many.
God bless you Carl.
John Anderson
April 14, 2009
May God be with him and his family.
Sandra Green
April 14, 2009
My prayers are with you and your family. May God continue to bless & comfort you and your family during these hours.
Sandra Green, Virginia Beach, VA
Jowal-Lisa Walden
April 14, 2009
I remember when I first met Carl. He was the most hyper kid I knew. He was like a little brother to me. Just one year younger. So I know something close to what your feeling. I offer my condolences to you, your family, and friends.
Jon
April 14, 2009
I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like he made the world a nicer place while he lived in it.
Shannon
April 14, 2009
I am sorry for the pain you are in and so sorry for the pain your son went through. Wishing you peace.
eva carter
April 14, 2009
i pray that his family will find a way to come together and relax. carl was a friend of mine and i pray for his family.
Renee'
April 14, 2009
My heart and prayers go out to the family! Have faith and God will see you through.
Patricia Guillaume
April 14, 2009
May God be with you at your time of need and always.
Andrea
April 14, 2009
My deepest thoughts and sympathy goes out to you and your family.
Daniel Verastegui
April 14, 2009
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My prayers go out for Carl and your family. Your son sounds like a wonderful child.
keanu kaiwa
April 14, 2009
May the Lord embrace you and your family in this time of sorrow. Our prayers are sent with this.
Vivian Hines
April 14, 2009
Sirdeana and family,
Please know...
Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.
Psalm 30:5
This is the promise we have from God, that JOY WILL COME IN THE MORNING!!!
So patiently endure the night, and wait for the Joy to Come.
L Marks
April 14, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
shon anthony
April 14, 2009
No word can express how saddened I feel for the loss of your handsome son. In his photos you can see that he was full of life. My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to you
crystal jarrell-harrison
April 14, 2009
Life must go on...although you're here no more,
You left friends and loved ones to walk through Heavens door
Life must go on...although I'll never see your smile,
Your memory lives on in my heart all the while
Life must go on...although Im short one-a friend,
In time my broken heart will mend
So much pain so much sorrow,
Because for you there is no tomorrow
Life must go on...although I ask myself why?
Why for you do I have to cry
So young so healthy so very strong,
I guess with the angels is where you belong
Life must go on...I picture your face,
Up in Heaven a more beautiful place
Than here on earth where you left me behind,
One day God will call, it will be my time
To hold your hand, see you again,
Until then Carl, you're my unforgotten friend
Crystal Jarrell (parent) and son Justin Harrison (friend at school)
Christina Rogers & Family
April 14, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. I know it's not going to be easy, but I pray you will find comfort in knowing that your beloved Carl is in a better place.
C. Daughtry
April 14, 2009
There are not enough words to comfort you in this time of sorrow. Know that many people share your pain; give their support to you and your family. Many of us remember childhood bullying and not getting much comfort or support. I hope that your ordeal will change many lives for the better.
April 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
T W
April 14, 2009
Words cannot express the depths of grief I feel over this whole situation. Carl's story really touched me deeply. My prays and sincerest condolences to the family and loved he leaves to cherish his memory. God's glory will be reveaed in all of this. His life did and will continue to have a greater purpose.
jarita lyons-andrews
April 13, 2009
to the walker family; God will supply all your needs..keep the faith and lean on him for the strength you need...he is just a whisper away...God bless each of you..jarita lyons-andrews
Stacey Dill
April 13, 2009
To Carls Family, I am tearfully sorry about what happened to your sweet boy. I will work harder with my own children in his honor. God bless and keep you and Carl safe.
Marianne Wolfson-Milton
April 13, 2009
To the family of Carl Walker-Hoover, please know that I and many other mothers living nearby in Northampton are tremendously saddened by the loss of your beautiful and talented son, even though we did not know him. I am sorry that we don't have better schools for all our children, I am sorry that your son suffered the way he did, I am sorry that this tragedy has been visited upon you. May you and all of Carl's friends find all the love and support you need in the days and years to come. My thoughts are with you now, and will be with you and Carl for the rest of my life---whenever I think of bullying in the schools and of what I can do as a parent to help stop it. I pray that bullying will end, and I will continue to work in schools, on your son's behalf, to see that it does.
Ashleigh (Bass) Thomas
April 13, 2009
My brother played against The MLK Basketball many times... I remember Carl to always have a great smile...and may I add some great skills on the court... and his mother having conversations with my mom about the players... It saddens me to know that this had to be the result of a striving active young mans life... my prayers go out to the Walker and Hoover families.
Tevin Giles
April 13, 2009
My heart and soul is with your family. I pray your days will one day become easier. I pray your life will someday be filled with peace. Know that Carl lives on.
"Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die."
Mary E. Frye
Marissa McKinney
April 13, 2009
I wanted to express my condolences to the Walker - Hoover family. I only knew Carl for a short time. He was an intelligent and sweet child when I met him as a second grader; I was one of the student teachers from UMass who was in his class. He will be greatly missed. I will keep Carl and your family in my prayers.
AJ Archeval
April 13, 2009
I cant believe that your gone you were a great teamate and also a good friend. Miss you dude, your in a better place now 4.17.96-4.6.09
AJ Archeval #3 MLK BROTHERS FOR LIFE
aj archeval
April 13, 2009
To me carl was great teamate and also a good friend what happened to him was so messed up... Miss you dude you will never be forgotten and you will all ways be a good ball player from your firend aj number 3 you will allways be family to me
harris family
April 13, 2009
I just want to say sorry for your loss. I know how it is to lose a child so young i feel your pain but one thing is he is in a better place now and away from the hurting. But you will be reunited again when the time comes. Just remember the good times you shared and everything that made you smile when he was growing up from a infant to a beautiful young man. I will keep you in my prayers.
April 13, 2009
MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY AND MAY GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU.
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