Carlos R. Aboytes Jr.

1938 - 2014

Carlos R. Aboytes Jr. obituary, 1938-2014

Carlos R. Aboytes Jr.

1938 - 2014

BORN

1938

DIED

2014

Carlos Aboytes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 18, 2014.
Carlos was a lover of music, dance, and the arts his entire life. Many of his high school friends of his youth loved to see him dance. He also shared his love of music, dance, and art with his family throughout his life. We would like to honor his memory and love of the arts through a scholarship fund at his alma mater; Colton High School. Any wishing to make a donation in lieu of flowers may send a check to:

Colton High School Business Office
777 West Valley Blvd
Colton
C.A., 92324-1995

Please make checks payable to : Colton High School Scholarship Fund
Be sure to write Carlos R. Aboytes Jr. Scholarship in the MEMO
(Note: Burial site will be the Riverside National Cemetery. They permit only 5 floral arrangements to be placed at time of burial)





Aboytes, Carlos R. Jr. "Palma"
On September 14, 2014 we lost Carlos R. Aboytes, Jr. Born on March 29, 1938. He is survived by his wife; Estella Aboytes, three children; Wanda Reihanabad, Sheila Fortunato, and Earl Aboytes, and six grand-children; Michael Fortunato, Nicholas Reihanabad, Lauren Aboytes, Zachary Carlos Aboytes, Nathan Reihanabad, and Alex Fortunato.
Carlos was born and raised in Colton and lived his adult life in the Redlands area. He was a hard worker from an early age beginning with working in the family Garage Service business as a mechanic. During his younger years he always enjoyed the arts. He frequently spoke of his youth being filled with varied types of music, dancing, and painting. Carlos began his six year service in the Army in 1956 which included time in Korea and three years in the reserves. After returning home from active duty he married his wife of 54 years and fathered three children.
Carlos worked many jobs before entering the Operating Engineer's Union and becoming a heavy equipment operator. He took great pride in this occupation and taught his children to always do a great job. He did this, not through words, but by example. He always put his family first and professed that education and hard work is the way to a better life.
On the weekends Carlos enjoyed visiting with family and friends, hunting, fishing, playing cards at his brother's house, and "resting his eyes" in front of the television. In 1998 he retired and finally got the rest and relaxation he always dreamed about. During his retirement he enjoyed traveling with his wife and family in his pickup truck and camper through the United States and Canada. At home he rediscovered his artistic side and started painting again.
Carlos was always a happy, friendly man who loved to laugh and talk with anyone. He is loved and will be missed by all of us.
A wake service will be held at 4pm on Sunday, October 5th at the Montecito Memorial Park and Mortuary in Colton. A memorial service will be held at 10am on October 6th at the Montecito Memorial Park and Mortuary in Colton. Carlos will be placed to rest at the Riverside National Cemetery at 12:45pm October 6th. A reception will be held the afternoon of October 6th at a separate location to be determined at a later date.

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October 5, 2014

Jeri Medina posted to the memorial.

October 5, 2014

Donna and the Lwin Family posted to the memorial.

October 4, 2014

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Jeri Medina

October 5, 2014

NiƱo it was an honor and privilege to be your goddaughter.I will cherish the times we had together.Im so glad that my girls got to spend time with you as well.I love you and will miss you dearly.

Donna and the Lwin Family

October 5, 2014

To my dear friend Wanda and the entire Aboytes Family,

As I sit here and think about all the wonderful memories I have of Mr. Aboytes, I sit back and say, his time here on earth was a job well done. May the legacy that he has left behind forever flourish in your heart and the hearts of everyone who was lucky enough to have him in their lives.

October 4, 2014

Our heartfelt condolences to you and all your family for your loss, of Carlos, I have wonderful memories of family get-together s at holidays, baby showers, Mother's Day and many of your family events over the years. Carlos was very personable loving person who shared many events of his life. He truly loved being around people, family and friends. He had a gift of storytelling and laughter. We appreciate that Carlos was a Veteran and served our Country. With loving thoughts and prayers,
Julie and Harry Colson
Phelan, Calif.

Arlene (Perez) Lopez

October 2, 2014

My sweet cousin.....Palma, and as we knew you growing up as "JUNIOR". You were a joy to us all, yes making us all laugh even when you were little. And you who comforted my mother for so many years, and always told her she was your "Favorite Auntie Toni" ....she really loved you so much you gave her so much comfort just talking over the phone. Now you can talk together. I will miss you dearly and may your beautiful family be comforted with all their beautiful memories of you. Your cousin Arlene Lopez

Pete Carrasco

October 1, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers to the family of our dear friend Carlos "La Palma" Aboytes. We will all miss his smile, his humor, and friendly and caring demeanor toward others. My Our Lord give the family the strength, perseverance, and, above all, increased faith during this most difficult time. God bless all of you! Rest in peace dear friend.
Pete and Molly Carrasco

Barbara Delgado

September 29, 2014

It was such a pleasure talking to Palma. We didn't see much of each other any more but everytime we met up again, it was laugh, laugh, laugh. Manuel and I will miss him. Estella and family, please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Our Love and sympathies go out to all of you.

Love,

Manuel and Barbara Delgado

Desiree Rodriguez

September 25, 2014

Uncle Palma I'm gonna miss all the stories you would tell me and my family. The last eight years was a Blessing to have you around me and my kids. I really learned alot about you and your life. You were more than a Uncle to me and my grandchildren and I thank you and Auntie Estella for that... Uncle Palma you always new the right things to say, and I will miss that.. You will always be in our thoughts.

Sharlene Olivas

September 24, 2014

Palma - my brother-in-law. I will always remember you telling, "peninase." I would respond, no I want to be grenuda today," you would laugh and laugh. You will be missed.
Sister sending love and prayers to you and your family.

Monica Boseman

September 23, 2014

I send prayers for strength and peace for each one of you. Uncle Junior is now with our Father, standing tall, strong and laughing that awesome laugh that he is known for.
Be comforted that our Lord will carry you as long as you need during this time. He is always with you.
I love you all.
Monica

Rose,Frank,Darlene,Jeffery Riddle

September 23, 2014

Junior "La Palma" the tallest and nicest palma I have ever known!!! Hola...until we meet again.

Love,
Auntie Rosie

Julie Aboytes King

September 23, 2014

My dearest big brother "Junior" you will always be in my heart and I will always cherish all the happy memories I have of you,especially your wonderful sense of humor & the sound of your laughter. Until we meet again.

Love,
your sister Julie

Jazlene Rodriguez

September 22, 2014

I will aways remember my Uncle Palma, he was the best.. Palma I Love You and Miss You alot...

Jason Aboytes~

September 19, 2014

My Favorite Tio will be missed very much. When Tio Palma, was around we always enjoyed his company cause you knew no matter what we would have the best of times laughing,joking and just having fun. Thank you for all of the great memories. Tia Stella and Family if there is anything I can do to help let me know.
~LOVE You~

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