Chad Barry Obituary
He was born Jan. 9, 1972, in Exeter, N.H., the son of Charles Tobey and Sandra (Stone) Barry. Chad graduated from Phillips Academy of Andover, Mass., in 1990 and received his Bachelor of Science in computer science from Cornell University in 1994. He worked consulting as a computer programmer for Capsaican Company. Chad enjoyed photography, hiking and traveling.
Members of his family include his parents, C. Tobey and Sandra Barry of Rochester; aunts and uncles, Wayne and Teresa Stone of Washington State; Donna and Tom Gelinas of Florida, Margaret and Wayne McCarthy of Rochester, and many cousins.
Family and friends may visit Sunday 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. at the R.M. Edgerly & Son Funeral Home, 86 South Main St., Rochester.
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated Monday at 11 a.m. at St. Mary Church,71 Lowell St., Rochester, with Fr. Dan Sinibaldi, pastor, as celebrant. Burial will be In Mt. Calvary Cemetery, Somersworth.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the American Heart Association, NH Affiliate, 20 Merrimack St., Suite 1, Manchester, NH 03101-2244.
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Michelle Zaydon
December 23, 2010
Mr. and Mrs. Barry, Just found out today about Chad. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your entire family. Chad was a very kind person and a great classmate. He will be missed.
Michelle (Higgins) Zaydon
McClelland School & SHS 1990
Our Chad
Sandi & Tobey Barry
December 22, 2010
Thank you for all your kind words. We will miss him so much
Sandi & Tobey Barry
December 22, 2010
Linda LaChance
December 21, 2010
Sandi&Tobey,
Hold on to your memories,and let them guide you during this time of sadness.I have many fond memories of Chad--green candy at the beach.I am wishing you and your family strength and peace.
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Cindy Parrish
December 21, 2010
Chad was a wonderful person. I remember his kindness in elementary school and beyond. He will be missed. I am sorry for your loss.
December 18, 2010
Sandi and Tobey,
We are so saddened to see this terrible news. Our hearts, prayers and thoughts are with you during this time - Diane and Steve Crosby
Sam Saufley
December 17, 2010
So sorry. Chad will be missed. He was a great guy and his passing is a loss.
susan white
December 17, 2010
So very sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in others, knowing you are in the thoughts and prayers of many. susan SHS '89
Darren & Patty Duggins
December 17, 2010
Sandi and Tobey, you are in our hearts and prayers.. Know that we are with you in heart and spirit even though we can't be there in body. Love you, Darren, Patty, John & Maddy
December 17, 2010
We were so saddened to hear of yout loss.
please know how very sorry we are.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love You Both,
Debbie & Frank
Steven and Monica Sirois
December 17, 2010
Tobey and Sandi, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are just so sorry for your loss.
Chad with the McClelland School Gang
Tiffany (Berry) Person
December 17, 2010
Chad was truly one of a kind. Such a genuine man with a kind soul. So bright and full of smiles. He will be missed by us all. Mr. and Mrs. Barry my deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.
Dan Pageotte
December 17, 2010
Sandi and Tobey,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you both. There is truly no words to express our sincere condolences.
With all Our Love,
Dan, Elizabeth, Alex and Haley from VA
December 17, 2010
Sandi and Tobey,
There are no words that I can say that can comfort you at this time. I know your heartache is enormous and for that I am truly sorry. Please know I am thinking of you and you are in my prayers. Much love.
Liz Dunnells
Carmen & Mike Davis
December 17, 2010
Dear Sandi and Tobey, our sincere and deepest sympathy to you over your sudden loss. I can not even find the words so say how we feel for you. Chad was one of a kind and a fine young man and he will be sadly missed by all who know him.
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