Charles Robert Dancer

Charles Robert Dancer

Charles Dancer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 6 to Jan. 13, 2009.
Charles Robert Dancer Charles Robert (Bob) Dancer, died at home on January 4 after an extended illness with cancer. Bob was born on April 5, 1934, in Allentown, NJ, the son of Charles and Mary Dancer of New Egypt, NJ. He grew up in New Egypt and graduated from the University of New Jersey at Trenton with a BS Degree in Chemical Engineering. Bob went on to achieve many advanced certifications from Harvard University, Wharton School of Business and other institutes of higher learning, including a certification of Professional Engineering, the highest certification in his profession. Shortly thereafter on November 27, 1958, he married his childhood sweetheart, June Gale, of New Egypt. They recently celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary here in Hilton Head Island, SC. Bob served in the US Army reserves artillery division, retiring as a highly decorated Colonel after 29 years of service. Bob began a career with Allied Signal Corporation (now Honeywell) in 1973 where he rose to the office of Senior Vice President. He traveled extensively throughout the world in this capacity. Bob spent 25 years with Allied, then moved to Hilton Head Island in 1998 with his wife, June, when he retired. Bob was mentor to many young professionals who have advanced in their careers to positions as Vice President, Director and Manager of major fortune 100 companies. He was so respected by his peers that in 1987 he was elected President of the American Society of Safety Engineers and later that year became a Fellow of that organization. The Fellow Honor is the highest anyone can achieve in the organization. Bob was the second Safety Professional to be awarded the "Safety Professional of the Year Award in 1979. He spent his entire career working for others. Their will be moment of silence for our friend "Charlie" at the National Convention to be held in San Antonio, Texas in June. He will remain to be the bench mark for us all to aspire to. Bob's interests after retirement always included his many friends. Before he became seriously ill, he was an avid runner, finishing a daily five miles before most of us had even thought about getting up. He also loved playing golf despite his inability to "conquer" the game, as he often jokingly put it, and he loved to travel. His chief love, however, was gardening. Bob was always the "go to" guy when there was a question about how to make things grow. In addition to his wife, June, Bob is survived by his son Daryl, and his wife, Karen and grand-children, Claire and Brent of Marlton, New Jersey, son Douglas and grand-daughter, Samantha of Navarre, Florida and son Craig , and his wife Helina and grand-children Cullen and Emma of Leesburg, Virginia, also his sisters Shirley and husband Walter Spengler of Naples, Florida, Phyllis and husband Russell Foulks of New Egypt, New Jersey, Carol and husband Lester Johnson of New Egypt, New Jersey, and his brothers David, and wife Barbara of Gloucester, Massachusetts and James of Sunset Beach, North Carolina. Bob is also survived by his three adoptive grandchildren, Tara and Danielle Williams and Scott Brown. A celebration of Bob's life will take place at St. Francis By-The-Sea Catholic Church in Hilton Head Island, SC, with Military Honors on January 8, 2009, with Mass at 10:30 AM. Contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to: The Army Emergency Relief Fund, Attention: Donations, 200 Stovall Street, Room 5-N-13, Alexandria, VA 22332-0600, in memory of Colonel Charles R. Dancer, US Army Retired. The Island Funeral Home and Crematory is in charge of arrangements.

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February 2, 2009

June Dancer posted to the memorial.

January 10, 2009

Michael Gale posted to the memorial.

January 8, 2009

Mike and Shirley Riordan posted to the memorial.

June Dancer

February 2, 2009

To my Sweetheat,
You are the love of my life and I miss you terribly. You were the most terrific husband and father anyone could have ever wished for . I thank God that you are now pain-free and in his divine care. I look forward to the day when we'll once again be together. I LOVE YOU.

Michael Gale

January 10, 2009

As I was growing up, I always thought of Uncle Bob as strict, tough, regimented and business-like - not particularly appealing qualities from the perspective of a boy growing into and through his teens. I surmised that this was the product of his military service, his leadership qualities and his professional status and that this was simply who Uncle Bob was.

It wasn't until many years had passed that I came to realize that there was a completely different side to Uncle Bob that I had never imagined. Maybe it the fact that his retirement allowed him to put aside those qualities that I didn't appreciate as a boy and to become more relaxed. Maybe it the fact that I was older and wiser and had attained a position of improved perspective that only comes with age and experience. Perhaps it was both.

I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to get get to know Uncle Bob better over the last several years. What I learned was that we had much more in common than I ever thought. Our communications were as equals and our respect for one another was also equal. What I also learned was that I really truly loved this man and very much enjoyed the times we shared.

Uncle Bob was up-front and honest - even blunt - I loved that quality! I always knew where I stood with him and always knew where he stood on any subject we discussed because he told it like it was. He was intelligent, funny and surprisingly sensitive and an overall pleasure to be around.

Above anything else, however, I admired his dedication to his family. Daryl, Doug & Craig - he was so proud of all of you. I could hear it in his voice and in his words as easily as I could see it in his eyes and on his face every time he talked about you. Aunt June - his love and respect for you were equally evident - I truly believe that you were Uncle Bob's soul mate.

I can also speak for my wife and daughter when I talk about how much love, admiration and respect we will always have for Uncle Bob. We will miss him. Our trips to Hilton Head Island will never be the same without him there to give us all a big hug when we saw him. We will miss our breakfasts at the pancake house and our dinners at his home.

We love you, Uncle Bob.

Mike, Sandy & Casey Gale

Mike and Shirley Riordan

January 8, 2009

Stars come and go, but Bob's star will forever shine in the heaven's above, and in the hearts of his beloved wife June, his sons and grandchildren and friends. God bless!
MIKE and SHIRLEY RIORDAN

Danielle Williams

January 7, 2009

God truly has blessed us all by giving us so many years of happiness with Pop-pop. I am truly saddened that he is no longer with us. He was a wonderful man who always thought of others before himself. We all loved him so and he will be missed.

Alexes Dancer

January 7, 2009

A great soul was taken from us, too soon, too soon. A greater man never lived, laughed, and loved, the way Bob did. He left an impression with everyone he met. We will always have our memories of his professionalism, patriotism, compassion and strength. We wont forget his smile or kindness. May he now be free of pain, and stand as close to GOD as possible. A truely great man, will be sadly missed, and remain in our hearts always. My wish to the family, that you all find strength and peace thru this trying time. With Love, may GOD be with you.

Cathee Stegall

January 6, 2009

We extend our prayers and love to June and the family.From all of your friends at AR&R.

Rosemary Fortunato Winfield

January 6, 2009

Charlie was great to work for..Our HS&ES Department was one big family at Allied and he was surely a part of it..He'll be remembered by all of us..To all his family, our hearts go out to you.

John Bresland

January 6, 2009

My sympathy to Charlie's family. I worked with him for several years at Honeywell and he was always a true professional and a respected expert in his field.

Tara Williams

January 6, 2009

I loved pop-pop so much. I am just thankful he went quickly and the suffering finally ended.

Tony Ashdown, CSP

January 6, 2009

So sorry to hear about Charlie. Early in my career with Allied he served as not just "the boss" but as a mentor to all us Safety professionals. He made Allied-Signal's Safety & Health Program a benchmark effort to be envied by other companies. He pushed all of us (and scolded some of us) to "Strive for Excellence;" it not just a theme or slogan but to live it. And, to be effective we must always believe that "Safety Is Caring!" He made us believe our work and efforts really meant something. He made our organizations and people the better and safer for it.
We'll miss you and your leadership Charlie.
And, Thank you for being our teacher.

Bob Strang-Wolf

January 6, 2009

I was so saddened to learn of Bob's passing. There will always be a special place in my heart for him, I have so many great memories of time spent with the Dancers. You are in my thoughts.

Tish Zink Lascelle

January 6, 2009

So very sorry to hear that the bone cancer finally won. Charlie (as his Allied colleagues knew him) was a great safety professional who made lasting contributions.

Matthew Boell and Family

January 6, 2009

The Colonel will always be in our Thoughts and in our Hearts.

paula poat

January 6, 2009

So sorry June....he was a great man, so strong....fought hard....

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