Charles E. Heffner

1939 - 2014

Charles E. Heffner obituary, 1939-2014, Deltona, FL

Charles E. Heffner

1939 - 2014

BORN

1939

DIED

2014

Charles Heffner Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 16, 2014.
Charles Ernest Heffner, 75, passed away on Tuesday, December 16, 2014. He was born in St. Mary's, Pennsylvania; the second of nine children born to his late parents, Charles F.and Dorothy Johnson Heffner.
Charles was retired from the US Navy and resided in Deltona, Florida for the last 16 years. He spent hours each day doing what he loved best-Genealogy.
He is survived by his wife, Kathleen; two daughters, Vicki Hill of Kingston, TN and Jill Heffner of Fort Worth, TX; grandson, Joseph McGuckin of Kingston TN; sister, Karen and her husband, John Shuey. He was preceded in death by his parents, brother, Bob, and sisters, Lois and Charlette.
A gathering of friends & family will take place Saturday, December 20, 2014 from 9:30 to 10:30 am in Delotna Memorial Funeral Home, 1295 Saxon Blvd., Orange City, FL. 32763. Funeral services begin at 10:30 am with Rev. Fernando Morales officiating. Military rites will be provided by the US Navy and DeBary VFW Post # 8093. The family requests no flowers be sent, rather donations may be made in Charles' honor to American Diabetes Assoc. P.O. Box 7023, Merrifield, VA. 22116.

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January 11, 2016

JIll Heffner posted to the memorial.

January 11, 2016

Kathleen Heffner posted to the memorial.

January 10, 2016

Vicki Heffner posted to the memorial.

JIll Heffner

January 11, 2016

Hi Dad, A lot has happened in the year you have been gone. You are always with me and in my thoughts. I find myself saying "what would dad do or say" and it helps me get through things. Mom is always supportive and we have stuck together. I think of the things you used to do when I was younger. No matter how young or old I was, you never stopped being there for support. Thank you dad. I can't ever say that enough. I can only hope you knew that. I love you and as always wish you were still here with us but of course know God has his plan. You will be with me in my heart wherever I go. I love you....miss you...
your little 'snot'.

Kathleen Heffner

January 11, 2016

A year has gone by, and I am managing to keep on keeping on. I just want to say that you are truly missed by your family and friends. You were a blessing to all who knew you, and we all hope to see you again when the time comes - in the meantime, I know you will be our guardian angel. Love, Kathleen

Vicki Heffner

January 10, 2016

Daddy, it's been over a year now since you went to heaven to be with God. I miss you everyday. But I know you are with me. I need you now more than ever thru these times. I know you will steer me in the right direction. Mom and Jill are ok and miss and love you very much. We all do. You are always here no matter what and we love you forever. Love always vicki

vicki heffner

September 12, 2015

Hi Daddy!! Just wanted to say how I love and miss you.We miss you soo much and its still hard everyday not being able to hear you laugh or tell a joke or just ask what are ya doing. I know your happy in heaven and not in any pain, but I would love to see you and give you a hug again. Love always, Vicki

Jill Heffner

June 21, 2015

Happy Father's Day dad. I know I am not alone because you are with me wherever I go. I love you.

Vicki Heffner Hill

June 21, 2015

Happy Father's Day Daddy. I just wanted to say how much I love and miss you. I am proud that you are my dad and all the things that you taught me in life. For being there through the good and the bad and never judging me no matter what. I know I was a disappointment but I am trying to be a better person. In life you never believe your parents are gonna pass away, your supposed to live forever and always be there. Well when we lost you it was like everything stopped. I am learning to cope with it. It's hard but I know you are in a much better place and not in pain anymore. Mom, Jill and I love and miss you everyday. Keep your wings around us and be there when we need you. Love you Vicki

jill heffner

May 25, 2015

Happy Memorial Day dad.. you are my hero! I am so proud of you! My father was a Chief Petty Officer in the US Navy. He served for the rights and dedication to the people and this country. It is an honor to be your daughter. In remembrance of you today and all of the days. My flag is for you. we love you!

Love Always and Forever

Vicki Heffner

May 8, 2015

Daddy, it's been almost 5 months now and it still hurts so very bad.I kept telling you I got ya and I feel like I let you down cause you still left us. I feel like part of you leaving was my fault and I wish I could fix it.The guilt is killing me and I so wish I could make it right. I wish you had never gotten sick and wish it was me who left instead of you. There a lot more people out there who love you, much more than there is that do me. Please forgive me daddy. I love and miss you more than anyone will ever know. You were my rock when I needed you and now your not here anymore. I feel lost and so alone. Mom and Jill miss you so very much also. Mother's day and Father's day is almost here and I know it will be so hard for Mom. I know I don't sleep much anymore cause all I see is you laying there in that bed and knowing I could not help you. I really wish I could have made you better daddy. It just breaks my heart everyday. I really need you and miss you. Love You, Vicki Lynn

Daddy always smiling

Vicki Heffner

April 5, 2015

I just wanted to say Happy Easter in Heaven and I Love and Miss you Lots!!! It's still very hard daddy not being able to call you or see you. My little mare and I won second place last night for you. Ya know I call her Sonny maybe that's why. She is a good girl and I believe in my heart you knew she was the right one. Well I Love you and I will never ever stop. Love Always, Vicki

Vicki Heffner

March 8, 2015

Hi Daddy. Well its been a little over 3 months now and it's still as hard now as it was when you had to go. It breaks my heart everyday knowing your not here to call or see or anything. I miss hearing you even when your mad at me I MISS YOU!!. I Love you sooo much daddy.

Vicki Heffner

February 23, 2015

I love and miss you Lots!!!!!! I want you back with us. It's so hard with you not here.

vicki heffner hill

February 15, 2015

I love you Daddy!!!!!!!!!!!

Vicki Heffner Hill

February 15, 2015

Just wanted to say hi. I sure do miss you. Well we all do and I know especially mom. We all wish you were still here with us. It's so hard daddy to get through the day knowing that we cannot call or see you. It hurts so very much. My friends horse got put down today cause he was really sick. Take care if him in heaven his name is Jasper. He belonged to the 6 yr old little boy where I keep my horse. I miss and love you and I send all my love to heaven.

Vicki Hill

February 14, 2015

Happy Valentine's Day Daddy. Lots of love and kisses. Miss you Always

jill heffner

February 14, 2015

Hi dad. . Happy Valentine's day. I miss you so much. Days like these my heart is so heavy. I know you would have called me just to hope I have a good day. I miss you for mom too. Nothing is the same without you. I love you dad and you're my Valentine..

Vicki Heffner Hill

February 11, 2015

Daddy I really wanted to call you today and hear you say heyyyyyy like you always do. I miss that soo very much and hearing mom say it's daughter #1 on the phone. You are so missed daddy. I cry everyday all the time. A lot of my heart is missing and it hurts so bad. I love you so much and just want you here. I am lost daddy and feel like I can't find my way back anymore. I tell you good morning and good night everyday but I am sure you already know that. I love you lots and miss you always. Love you, Vicki

ill heffner

February 6, 2015

Hi dad. . Happy anniversary. .I know you are with mom. I love you and miss you.

Vicki Heffner Hill

February 4, 2015

Hello again daddy. Joey and I went to see mom last weekend. It is still very difficult with you not here. I got the mower and your computer and Joey got some of your tools like you wanted. I really miss you. I cry all the time for you. It still hurts so very much. Mom is hanging in there and so is jill. Well I am always thinking of you and your forever in my heart. Love you always, vicki

Vicki Heffner Hill

January 27, 2015

Hello daddy. Just checking in. I miss ya lots and thinking of you often. Hope you are taking care of Jenna. Mom sure loves you both. Keep your wings around us daddy. I love you forever.

Vicki Heffner Hill

January 21, 2015

Hi daddy. Just wanted to say how much I miss and love you. Things are still really hard with you not here. I guess I am not dealing with it well. I call mom all the time as I told you I would. Joey and I are going down to see here at the end of the month. I feel you around me when I cry. Can't help it because its really difficult with not being able to call you and hear your voice. I love you lots and sure do miss you. Love always, vicki

jill heffner

January 20, 2015

Hi dad, there's been so many times I have wanted to hear your voice and talk to you. I have a new job now. Things are ok but I miss you so much. I know you've been by to visit me, I wish you would visit everyday. I miss your laugh, I miss your advice. .. most of all I miss you. mom says Homer is sleeping in the house now. He keeps her company. I think you were a part of that happening. I love you dad and how I miss you. . Continue to watch over all of us. All my love, Jill

Vicki Heffner Hill

January 16, 2015

Hi daddy. Hope your watching over us. I am sure you are over mom. She really misses you. We all love and miss you lots. Love you forever

vicki Heffner Hill

January 13, 2015

Hi Daddy. I miss you soo very much and my heart really hurts. I wish you were here with us. I know you are no longer in pain but I guess I am selfish. I miss my daddy. You were my rock when things got bad or I was sad or anything. Now your gone and I am soo lost. I need you! I miss you and I love you so much. I know I will see you again. It just hurts so bad. I didn't get to tell you how sorry I was for not being the best daughter and I apologize for that. I hope you will forgive me. I am trying to be better it would just be easier if you were here. Well I love and miss you lots and lots. Love always your daughter, Vicki

Vicki Heffner Hill

January 4, 2015

Its been 19 days and its hurts just as much. Daddy I feel so alone. I want to hear you or see you. I cry all the time and my heart misses you soo much. I miss my daddy and I just don't know how to function knowing your not here to talk to. I so wanted to call you today. I love you lots. Love forever, Vicki

Vicki Heffner Hill

January 3, 2015

I miss you lots and it hurts real bad. I am so sad all the time. Wish you didn't leave. I love you soo much. But I understand and I am glad your not hurting anymore. Your always on my mind and forever in my heart. Love you Daddy. Vicki

Chuck & Linda Cable

January 3, 2015

Charlie, I served with you in Argentia NFLD 1966-1970 Time period. You were always a dedicated Navy man and a outstanding professional Ocean Systems Technician. Was very proud to serve with you and thank you for the knowledge you shared. RIP Shipmate, you are now sailing on a ship in peace.

January 2, 2015

I recall Charlie well from my time with him on Adak Island, Alaska. I am not sure of the exact times, but it would have been between January of 1970 and May of 1971. He was dedicated to his job and the Navy. All of those who knew Charlie would describe him as a true friend and shipmate. Our concolences to all those in his family. Irv and Linda DeMatties

Jill Heffner

December 31, 2014

Hi dad..today we are going to celebrate mom's birthday. I know you will be here with us. I wish you could really be here. I miss you and I know you hear my prayers. I love you so much dad. I hope you visit me soon.
All of my love, Jill

Vicki Heffner Hill

December 30, 2014

I had a few moments today at work daddy. People were asking me if I was ok. Well I am not. I miss you a hell of a lot. Still trying to deal with the fact that I can't see you or hold you anymore. How do I live with that? I need your strength daddy. Gosh I miss you.

Vicki Heffner Hill

December 29, 2014

Mom sent me a beautiful book that had cards and such signed from.all the people who love and care for you so much. It is beautiful and I cried so much when I opened it. She also sent me some of your shirts which I will treasure forever. Moms birthday is tomorrow and the next day too. Its gonna be hard with you not there but you are in spirit and I am sure she will know your there. We all love and miss you very much. Love always, Vicki

Vicki Heffner Hill

December 28, 2014

Went riding today and felt like you were there watching me. I miss you. I thank you for all the things you taught me and I just wish we had more time. But daddy I would never be more grateful than the last month we had together. I love you with all my heart and soul and you are so very missed.

David Williams

December 27, 2014

I am saddened to hear of Charlie's passing. He was a friend and a mentor in our days together in Argentia Newfoundland. My condolences to his family; I know he will be greatly missed.

Jill Heffner

December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas dad..I love and miss you.
Love always,
Jill

Vicki Heffner Hill

December 25, 2014

Its Christmas today and I wanted you to know that you are soo very missed and loved. Its supposed to be a happy day but its really hard. Please put your wings around mom tonight she misses you soo much. We love you daddy.

Jill Heffner

December 24, 2014

Love and miss you
Luv Homer

Jill Heffner

December 24, 2014

Hi dad..today is Christmas Eve and we brought you home this morning. It's still today and quiet. I am hoping you will visit us now that you are home. I have been missing you so much and this will be a tough Christmas without you. I know you are celebrating in heaven and we should be happy this time of year...but we do miss you. I love you dad...and I miss you..love Jill

Jill Heffner

December 24, 2014

Hi dad..today is Christmas Eve and we brought you home this morning. It's still today and quiet. I am hoping you will visit us now that you are home. I have been missing you so much and this will be a tough Christmas without you. I know you are celebrating in heaven and we should be happy this time of year...but we do miss you. I love you dad...and I miss you..love Jill

Vicki Heffner Hill

December 21, 2014

Daddy I was missing you soo much today. I had to go back home and while I was flying in the clouds I could.feel you all around.me. I know you told.me.not to cry but I just can't help that. But I am so glad that you are no longer in pain and your with your mom sister and brother. Its their turn to see what an awsome man you are. I promise to take care of Mom, Jill and Joey. We love and.miss you dearly but we will see you again. But until then watch over us and when we get sad, you let us know you are still there. With all our love daddy you are in our hearts FOREVER.

Rob & Ali

December 20, 2014

Mum and dad told me of Uncle Charlie's passing, and I just wanted to say that both Ali and I are thinking of you. It must be very difficult for you right now, losing someone you've been with for so long. It must be very hard. You must try to be strong though Aunt Kathleen, and in time the sun will shine through again and it will make us smile, it always does :-)

For me Uncle Charlie was always the fun Uncle, I will always have good memories of him. You know Andy and I both still have the fishing rods and reels that he helped us buy when Andy and I visited in 1986! We took them back to Barbados as prized possessions! Uncle Charlie taught us to cast on your front lawn. To his credit we have both caught many fish with those rods and reels, and will catch many more yet I'm sure!

Anyway we just wanted you to know we are very sorry for your loss, and to send these words to let you know that you are in our thoughts.

Sending love,

Rob and Ali

Ray Heffner

December 20, 2014

I am sorry to hear about the passing of Charley. My first connection with him was when he called me shortly after my mother's passing in 2009. He wanted to verify some info due to our common surname. We spoke a few times on the phone, and then communicated some by email and on FB. Earlier this year I mailed him some genealogy info that my uncle in Sunbury, PA had shared with my dad. He was familiar with much of it, but said that he very much enjoyed the letters between my uncle and my father. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Charley face to face, I always sensed that he was a wonderful guy. I will miss him, and wish to pass along my sincere condolences.

Marsha McCaig

December 20, 2014

I have memories of spending nights with Jill when they lived in Mission Hills. Getting up earlier than Jill, I got to spend time with Dad, Mr. Heffner. I will miss him. May the family have peace in Jesus name. I love you guys!

Cassandra JohnasMeyer Stoops

December 19, 2014

How you will be missed Charley. I will never forget our repoing days or our FISHING adventures. Hug Jeff for me and tell him much I love and miss him. RIP my friend

Kerry Toner

December 19, 2014

Such a wonderful man. I am so lucky to have gotten the opportunity to get know him. He will be missed.

Kevin Pardue

December 19, 2014

This morning my family lost my uncle Charley Heffner. Some of my favorite childhood memories were the fishing trips and the magic tricks he would do for my sister Adrienne Pardue-Tillis and I when we were kids. Rest in peace Uncle Charley and keep an eye on us from up there. Sometimes we can use all the help we can get. —

December 19, 2014

To the Heffner family. I am a neighbor you have never met on Embasy Dr. but Mr. Charlie never met a stranger such as myself since the day I moved in 18-19 years ago. I will truely miss his trips up & down my street in his electric chair, always with plenty of time to stop & talk as well as watch out for me & all of us on Embassy Dr. I worried about him & speeders as much as he worried about us. My loss is not as great as your families but it is yet another reminder to me that God feels the need to be surrounded by greatness & that is why he called Mr. Charlie to his side.
Jacquelyn Jones

Elizabeth George

December 19, 2014

Charley Heffner was a Great man and I will miss him so. He always made me laugh and watched over all of us.. Rest in peace my dear friend. We all love you.

Andrew Seale

December 19, 2014

Its a sad day and my condolences to all. Uncle Charlie was such an amazing person. I too remember his magic tricks and our fishing trips. My first big adventure in Florida was with my brother and Uncle Charlie. Firstly the trips to the mall to buy our first proper fishing rod and reel (we still have those from 1983). All the time learning from him what lure to use and how to cast without loosing an eye. Most importantly not getting eaten by a Gater! to this day I still ask...."Hey, pull my finger!".........it was our best joke. Mum still hates that joke by the way . So sorry for your loss Aunt Kathleen, Jilly, Vicky and all the family. He will be missed.

Susan Knittle Hunter

December 19, 2014

So sorry for your loss....I am so sorry to hear this......Charlie was the first "Genealogy Cousin" who contacted me over the internet many years ago when I first began to to search on the computer...I am his nephew's, Tommy Heffner's, first cousin on the Knittle side. Charie and I shared much information over the years....I am greatly saddened for the loss of both of them.....

Sandy Cox

December 19, 2014

Charley will be missed, I am so sorry for everyone's loss. Both Charley and Kathleen and your Mother were so kind to us when we were visiting with Mother.

Sandy Fashano

December 19, 2014

Rest in peace Charley. You were a wonderful friend and father and husband to Kathleen. As long as Vic and I knew you there was always laughter ,good times sitting in the driveway. You always were there for everyone including many cranes and kitties.

Patricia Redman

December 19, 2014

Kathleen you are in our thoughts and prayers. Charley will be missed.

Jerry Heffner

December 19, 2014

A tire gentle man, would give you all the time he had and he has no time left. The Lord now has him in his arms. I love you Charley and miss you forever. Till we meet again.

Carl Calkins

December 19, 2014

My condolences to his family and all who will miss him. He was a good friend from years past. It was a real pleasure to remake his acquaintance these last few years.

Margaret Kreynus

December 19, 2014

RIP Charley, our love and deepest sympathy to your family.

Audrey Heffner

December 19, 2014

Charlie an I met IRL only once, but he was part of my soul. Ask his wife...we were in a restaurant joking around, we couldn't determine how we were connected (but of course he dug and found out.) We were acting our foolish selves and laughing and talking about our geneological disconnect, and I asked her "so, do you think we're related?" and she bout fell off her chair laughing. We were peas in a pod. We talked and talked on the phone, he was such a great historian. There will never be anyone take his place. I feel I've lost part of my family.My sympathy to you all.

Colleen Murray-Heffner

December 19, 2014

I never met Charley IRL. He was my father in law's cousin. Charley found me thru ancestry dot com and reached out. We chatted a few times he told me a bit about the Heffners and I told him about my boys so he could add to the lineage. I enjoyed my chats with him and will miss him greatly.

George Widenor

December 19, 2014

Fifty years ago I arrived on a remote island in the "out islands" of the Bahamas reporting for duty. The man who met me and made me feel welcome was Charley Heffner. In the days to come, he also extended a warm island welcome to my wife and baby girl. Charley became an instant friend, and through our years in the navy, he also stood out as an outstanding member of the nations undersea surveillance team. Fair winds and following seas my friend....you are one of a kind.
George Widenor

Debbie Brehm

December 18, 2014

Charlie,You are a wonderful Man and a lot of people are really going to miss you.Until We meet again,May You Rest In Peace.I pray that Your Family finds comfort in the Memories You Left Behind and I send them My Condolences.Your Friend,Debbie Brehm (Good Eats Diner)

Rosalind Bell

December 18, 2014

May God strengthen you in this time. Hold on to your precious memories as those are the things that will bring you through.

John Curci

December 18, 2014

Sonny,
You were the older brother I did not have. I always looked up to you. Thanks for great early memories!
Much love,
John

Bettie Frick-Stebich

December 18, 2014

To a swell guy RIP and know that you will be in peoples thoughts and prayers forever. We have not seen each other in years, but good times were had.
Your 1958 classmate Bettie Frick-Stebich~

Vicki Hill

December 18, 2014

I miss you sooo much!! You were my rock and you were always there when I needed you no matter what. Don't worry daddy cause I got ya always in my heart. You are the best and I love you dearly. Hugs and kisses forever. My dearest daddy now my dearest angel keep watch over me and keep holding me tight. Love always your daughter Vicki

gisele dewitz

December 18, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Bruce Lester Long OTMCS USN Ret.

December 18, 2014

You were a good friend Charley, our time together on that sunny isle was short, and though we both made the Navy our career we never had the good fortune to serve together again. Still I count you as a old friend. I still remember the time you and Carl Calkins swam out to the edge of the continental shelf, which was just a few hundred yards from the shore line of the north point of Barbados. When you got back you said that once was enough. Rest in peace my dear friend and I hope to see you on the other side.

Carl Calkins

December 18, 2014

Charley, you were a good buddy in times long passed. I enjoyed your renewed friendship these last few years. Rest in peace knowing that you are a loved and treasured man who will be remembered.

Doug & Sue Pratt

December 18, 2014

our deepest sympathy to Kathleen and family. It was an honor to have known "Charlie" as part of our restaurant family. May he now have peace

Sylvia Nunamaker

December 18, 2014

I really can't say more then I already have, he will be missed but not forgotten. Love to his family near and far.

Charley

Jenna

December 18, 2014

I will love you for ever

Lea Martenis

December 18, 2014

Vicki,
We are so sorry for your loss. We love you & will be here for you. When it seems like the world is passing you by, because of all the hurt in your heart, I will still be here for you. I know that it's going to be very hard for you in the coming months, but I will be here for you to talk, laugh & cry. I have a good shoulder for you to cry on my friend. I will be praying for you each & every day that God will give you the strength to go on. I love you girlfriend!!! Lea & Jake

Cassandra Stoops

December 17, 2014

You were one of a kind Charlie. You will be missed more than you will ever know.

December 17, 2014

You were the brother I never had.We laugh together told jokes to each other and solved a lot of the worlds problems during our conversations. I will forever miss those talks. Keep and eye on me brother and I'll see you again for some more talking and laughing. Love ya brother

John Shuey (Ridgway,Pa)

Jill Heffner

December 17, 2014

My loving father. How I adore and treasure you. You will always be my gift from God. I have learned many lessons from you. Your kindness and gentle heart and giving nature have always taken care of us. My father, you protected my heart to the very end. To know how much you loved my mother and your children is truly a sign of a good man...and that you will always be. In my heart you will remain until I see you in heaven and I know that you will watch over me and guide me everyday. To simply say I love you doesn't explain how I feel and knowing how much you loved me, I was truly blessed God hand picked you to be my father. I love you dad with all of my heart....
Love Always,
Jill Heffner

Vicki Hill

December 17, 2014

Daddy, I am so very thankful that you were my dad. You were always understanding no matter what. I will miss you more than you ever know. You will be in my thoughts and heart Forever. I love and miss you and please keep your wings around me when I cry. Heaven got a good one when they got you. Love You Always Daddy!!!

James Franklin

December 17, 2014

I know you will be missed but not forgotten. You live on in the hearts of those you touched. Please watch over loved ones and speak through memories. Rest in peace Mr. Heffner.

Shannon Beaver

December 17, 2014

Love ya Uncle Sonny - I'm soo glad you got to meet Parker - a memory I will treasure forever! Awesome Uncle who I looked forward to his & Aunt Kathleen's visits in the summer! May you rest in peace, watch over all of us, & give hugs to all up in Heaven for us! <3 <3 <3 You will be sadly missed but never forgotten! ~Til we meet again!~

Shannon Beaver

December 17, 2014

Love ya Uncle Sonny - I'm soo glad you got to meet Parker - a memory I will treasure forever! Awesome Uncle who I looked forward to his & Aunt Kathleen's visits in the summer! May you rest in peace, watch over all of us, & give hugs to all up in Heaven for us! <3 <3 <3 You will be sadly missed but never forgotten! ~Til we meet again!~

Karen Shuey

December 17, 2014

You were the best brother anyone could have ever asked for. You always saw to everyones needs and were always there for anyone. Keep your wings over us now. We will miss you dearly and think of you so often.

Kathleen Heffner

December 17, 2014

We will miss you, but you are now our guardian angel.
Love. Kathleen

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