Christopher Montgomery "Monty" Hatchett

Christopher Montgomery "Monty" Hatchett

Christopher Hatchett Obituary

Published by Tulsa World from Nov. 29 to Dec. 2, 2006.
HATCHETT -- Christopher Montgomery "Monty", 36, was born January 14, 1970, and passed away Friday, November 24, 2006. Monty grew up in Tulsa and attended Jenks High School, where he played varsity soccer and football. He captained several state championship soccer teams throughout his youth, including a Tulsa club team that contended for the national championship. While he loved the game of soccer dearly, one of his other passions was airplanes. Shortly after high school, he enlisted in the U.S. Air Force, where he served four years active duty as a Flight Line Mechanic at several California Military Bases and re-enlisted as a Reservist for four more years. During this time, Monty married the love of his life, Melanie Scheer (also of Tulsa) and they had a son, Zachary in 1991, while stationed at Travis AFB. He also played semi-professional soccer in the Northern California area. After serving in the military, Monty again felt the tug of civic obligation and put himself through Gavilan Police Academy in Gilroy, CA. He served proudly as a Patrol Officer for the cities of Los Gatos and Watsonville, CA, for over five years and was honored for his courage under fire and enjoyed his work with K9 units. In 1998, the Hatchett family was blessed with the birth of their second son, Zane, in Santa Cruz, CA. But Monty's heart again, gravitated toward airplanes and he was afforded the opportunity to work for Reno Air (which later merged with American Airlines), where he was a Maintenance Supervisor in San Francisco. Shortly thereafter, Monty and his family moved from California to Keller, TX, where he continued to work for American Airlines, until 2005. In March of 2003, he volunteered to be a part of the CRAFT mission, which helped AA transport troops and equipment into Iraq. The move to Texas afforded Monty the opportunity to rekindle one of his other passions, playing and coaching soccer. There he coached several select youth soccer teams and served as an inspiration to all his players. Opportunity knocked on Monty's door once again, and he accepted a position with the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA). The job took Monty and his family from Texas to California once again, where they embarked on their most recent adventure until his untimely death last Friday afternoon, while scuba diving with his son, Zachary. Monty was an adoring husband and father; he was a beloved son and brother. He loved soccer, airplanes, motorcycles, golf, scuba diving, and camping. But more than anything, he loved life. He loved his family and friends. He is survived by his beloved family that includes his wife of almost 17 years Melanie Scheer Hatchett; his 2 sons Zachary (15) and Zane (8); his parents, Rod and Chris Hatchett of Tulsa; his brother, Derek's family of Brookline, MA; his wife, Melanie's parents, Jim and Christa Scheer of Soquel, CA; his grandmother, Emma Lee Wolfe of Tulsa; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. Memorial service will be held at Asbury Methodist Chapel at 1 p.m., Saturday, December 2.
This obituary was originally published in the Tulsa World.

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Charles townsend

November 23, 2024

One of the greatest friends, co worker i have ever had.

Christmas 2004

Chris Hatchett

January 8, 2011

My dear son, your birthday is less than a week away and you would be 41. You should be here watching your son graduate from AF basic training with the rest of the family. Remember when my sis and I came and we went to the Alamo and the River Walk and it was sooo cold! I hope I can make it through Zac's ceremonies without being sad that you're not there with us...with him. You would be so proud of him and I promise you we will all be so excited and proud for you! I miss you more than anyone can imagine. I will love you and think of you always. Mom

Carolyn Helm

January 19, 2009

Hello Hatchett Family,
You all have been on my heart lately and I just wanted to get word to you that you are in my prayers. I don't know if you remember me; I was Zane's teacher in second grade. You must miss Monty in your daily activities very much. I do hope everyone is well.
Many blessings,
Carolyn Helm

Chris Hatchett

November 24, 2007

I can't believe it's been a year and that I will never see you again. I miss you so much, more every single day. A year ago was the worst day of my life....everyone says it gets easier with time but I haven't found that to be true. I miss you more than ever. Your smile, your eyes and the way you always looked at me, like I was the most special person in the world. I miss being able to talk to you about anything. I miss the bond we had as mother and son. And your physical presence. I hope you are in a peaceful and happy place riding your Harley with the angels. I love you. Mom

Andrea Lawrence Gibson

August 13, 2007

Melanie - I new you and Monty as carefree kids and I'm filled with sorrow for the burden on your heart. Everything I want to write/say sounds trivial in the light of this, but please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Your Wife

August 11, 2007

Happy Anniversary, I miss you so much. I Love You Forever.

Monty---six weeks old

Chris Hatchett

January 14, 2007

1-14-2007

I remember the morning of January 14, 1970 at 4am when we left for St. John's Hospital. There were 3 or 4 inches of ice on the ground, just like today. It took almost 12 hours for you to make an appearance and you were such a little guy that no one could have ever guessed then how much you would accomplish in your lifetime. You overcame so much and we are so proud of you. I can't see a motorcycle, a police car, a soccer game or even someone swinging a golf club without thinking about you. My heart breaks to know I cannot see or touch you even though I see so much of you in Zac and Zane. Please know, my sweet son, that I miss you in the sad way that only a mother can miss her child, and I will miss you and love you forever. Mom

Kathy Flanagan

January 10, 2007

My family and I are so very sorry for your loss. I work with Casey and it breaks our hearts that this had happened. Keeping you and your family in our prayers. May God Bless and watch over you and yours.

Monty - Truly the Best Man (Derek and Casey's Wedding - Aruba, Aug 2003)

January 7, 2007

Kristy and Alex Reeves

January 5, 2007

Mel, Zack, and Zane,
I cant believe that it has been so long since we have talked to or seen you guys. I was absolutely floored to hear what happened and wanted to offer our prayers and thoughts to you guys. I wanted to say thank you for allowing Alex the opportunity to share Monty's love of soccer and begin his career in sports. Monty taught the kids the value of teamwork and lesson of playing fair. He was a terrific individual and I appreciate all that he did for Alex. We would of loved to attend the services but I am just now hearing about them. Alex wants to say a few words. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys.
Alex: I am sorry to hear about Coach Monty. He was a great Coach and good friend and a really good teacher!! I loved playing soccer with him and he took good care of me when I was attacked by ants the 3rd practice we had! I have a sad story and know how you are feeling at this time. My grandpa and best friend had a severe heart attack and passed away this summer on July 12th. So if Zane needs someone to talk to he can call and talk to me! At least Coach Monty and my grandpa can be together and watch over us.
Again, Thank you for being good friends and lets try and keep in touch.. We can help each other through these difficult times.

Cousin Mike

January 4, 2007

Cousin Chris -
It is so apparent from these entries that Monty touched many lives in his too short time. I can't begin to understand why God takes some and leaves others, but it is obvious that Monty fulfilled his role well while he was here. Clearly, you and Rod fulfilled your role in raising a son who would be such an inspiration to so many. I know that can't begin to fill the emptiness that he leaves behind. You are in my prayers.

Chris Hatchett

January 3, 2007

My dear sweet son,
All of us were together over the holidays, Mom and Dad, Derek, Casey, Max and A.J., Melanie, Zac and Zane. We missed you terribly and kept talking about you every chance we got. We still can't believe you are gone but are trying very hard to cope. We needed your bright smile and fun-loving personality to make the holidays complete. We love you so much and miss you more than words can say. Mom

Todd Johnson

December 20, 2006

Melanie, Zachary and Zane - None of the memories and thoughts that have been shared here or at the service are new to me. As I have had time to really process what Monty's passing has meant to me, I can tell you that all those qualities and characteristics have been in him since we became friends in 1st grade. Monty at age 6 was the same as Monty at age 36 - an awesome individual.

Chris & Rod - I see you every week so you know how I feel. 'Nuf said there.

May God continue to bless all of you.

Bret Perkins

December 14, 2006

Chris, Rod, Melanie, Derek, Zachary and Zane -
Our thoughts and prayers go out to each of you concerning Monty's untimely passing. It has been so many years since I had seen Monty, but I have many great memories of our time together on and off the soccer field. My memories start with the Jenks Whitecaps, to Tulsa United '70, to our success at the Dallas Cup and a true pinnacle for us all at the National Championships in Connecticut. Monty anchored our soccer team at sweeper for many years and nobody knew how to come in strong for a clean (sometimes ;-))tackle like Monty! He was a great player and team mate.

From a fellow youth soccer coach now, I can only imagine the solid life leesons that he impressed on all his players. I would have been proud to have Monty coach my son!

The services the beginning of this month were beautiful. I can say that I was not one bit surprised of the life he had led, the family he had built and the people that he had positively influenced after our time spent together in high school.

Finally to Zachary and Zane, please know, that you will always have an extended family and support group with the people who knew Monty well. Please know that! I know that you are very aware of what a great Dad he was, but I also am here to let you know that he was truly a good person to all! He will always be there looking over you until you join again. God Bless you!

Fred Willgrow

December 14, 2006

I just found out from a coworker/friend the awfull news. I met Monty at the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) Academy in OKC. Monty was the leader of the group, we spent lots of time in lab together, and we all enjoyed his sparky personality. We all liked, enjoyed and respected him. He was a very sharp individual. He often spoke about his sons and was very proud of his family. I cannot find the right words to express to you my sympathy for his passing.
Frederick (Fred) W. Willgrow

Steve Mcclugh

December 14, 2006

Dear Monty's family, I met Monty a couple of yeas ago and he stricked me as a very honest, caring and sensitive man. I am sad for his passing and I hope his children will be forever guided by him.

I wish you peace and love. Steve McClugh

Harley riding, 2006

December 14, 2006

FAA Office, San Jose, CA, 9/06

December 14, 2006

Heather Ratliff

December 14, 2006

I did not know Monty very well in High School, but I do remember him. I am so very sorry for your loss, and my prayers are with you & your family.
Sincerely, Heather Word Ratliff JHS '88

Ramona Rose

December 13, 2006

Melanie, Zach and Zane,
I will keep you and your family in my prayers through this difficult time. There are no answers as to why Creator works in his way. However, we miss Monty around the office and as I continue to work with your family through this difficult time I see where he got all that happiness and zest for his family. Take care always.

Jonathan, Melissa & Jasper Collins

December 12, 2006

Melanie, Zach and Zane,

We want to share with you our deep regret over the loss of Monty, your husband and father. Monty produced two wonderful children. Melaine, we know that you have the strength to carry on. We have warm and deep feelings for your family.

Cheri Duvie

December 11, 2006

Monty’s passion for life came from Living Life to the Fullest.
For a vibrant, fun-loving person like him, few things fuelled his inner fire like discovering new places, meeting great people, and having a fantastic time in all his doing. From vacations, sport activities and dinner parties, he was a pleasure-seeker who cherishes the memories and people that brought a smile to his face. After all he used to say; what's better than enjoying the moment?
When it came to new adventure, people looked to him for advice on where to go and what to see, and he invited his friends along for the ride. With his fun outlook and positive perspective, he realize living it up was truly the key to staying happy and being the person he wanted to be.

Pamela Bofinger

December 11, 2006

I am so sorry to hear about Monty's accident. My heart goes out to all of you. Monty was such as special soul -- he showed so much kindness and compassion to my son, Brett, when he played on the Clash for him. He knew just what to say to help Brett feel confident and secure on the team. Monty will be greatly missed...I know how incredible of a loss this is for you...my prayers and thoughts are will all of you.

Steve, Becky, Drew, Chelsea Temple

December 10, 2006

Melanie and family,
We were so saddened by the news, and please know that Monty will be greatly missed, even by those of us who were graced by his presence for only a short time. Our hearts and prayers are with you. Drew wants you to know that Monty was a great coach and he appreciates the lessons and skills he taught him.

Karen (Eberstein) Wiley

December 10, 2006

Dear Hatchett Family -
I went to Jenks from 1st grade through graduation. I accidentally came upon this tragic news on the Mustangs FC Soccer website, and was greatly saddened. He was definitely a man with so many accomplishments. Although my husband, Brad Wiley, and I have not seen Monty since High School, we know that he will be sorely missed. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Ross Cavanaugh

December 9, 2006

Dear Hatchett family,
I will always remember Monty, and his words of wisdom. My favorite phrase is "Get in their shorts." This is the saying I will always remember because one day when we were scrimmaging a girls soccer team, one of my team mates asked "Hey coach, can we get in their shorts?" This was one of my favorite memories with Monty because he just got that huge grin on his face. However, I won't just remember Monty because he was my coach, I will remember him as a friend and a role model.

Tracy Cannon-Smith

December 9, 2006

Melanie, Zak, and Zane,

Our hearts go out to you. I am sure you know how much Monty loved his family. I could see it in him. Carry this thought with you and know that the Lord is with you at well during this difficult time. Victor and I will be praying for your family. Like Knute, Reggie is playing soccer in honor of Monty.

Love Victor, Tracy, and Reggie

Sophia Schroth

December 9, 2006

Dear Melanie, Zac and Zane,

I was so shocked and sad when I heard. But I was so glad to come and see you all because it felt good to not talk on the phone but face to face with people who really knew what it ment.

I love you guys!

XXXOOO -Sophia

Lynne Underwood

December 9, 2006

Zac and Zane....I will truly miss your dad. He was a wonderful man whom I enjoyed talking to while checking off his rosters! His love for his boys was so apparent as we would swap stories about our kids. He was very proud of both of you. To Melanie.... my heart goes out to you in a very special way as you start to pull the pieces of your life together. Know that all of you are being upheld in prayer. Monty's not really that far away as we all hold a piece of him in our hearts. He will continue to watch over you until you are reunited once more.

In Him I will find my strength....

Brett, Elizabeth, Brendan and Brayden Merritt

December 9, 2006

Melanie, Zach and Zane,

Brett and I are so sorry. I know those are just words, but we are praying for you and all of your family. Brayden enjoyed having Monty as a coach and we as parents enjoyed the positive attitude Monty always had with the kids. He had a gift--working with children is not always easy or fun!! We have thought of you often and will continue to do so.

Tracy Chapman

December 7, 2006

To Monty's family; I am totally shocked about the sad news. I just found our about his death and it is just unreal. Monty an I were buddies when we worked together with Reno Airlines. I will miss him, he was an inspiration to me, when I felt insicure about my capabilities he always gave me the strength I needed. I have not told my wife yeat, but I know she'll be devasteted. God bless you all.

Tracy and Chris Chapman

Gail Fleming

December 6, 2006

December 6, 2006

Dear Chris and Rod,

Today I learned of Monty's death and my heart hurts for you. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gail Fleming

Mary Anderson Bartlett

December 6, 2006

Melanie, I recently received the news regarding Monty's passing. Please know you are in my prayers and may god give you strength and guidance through your time of difficulty. God Bless you and your family. Please contact me if you need anything.

Kevin Allen

December 6, 2006

Melanie, I have you and your family in my prayers. We have had our differences but Monty was a great Guy and I appreaciate all he did for me and he taught me allot about coaching and the game. I loved having you and Monty on my teams at the arena. I am here if you need anything. Please don't hesitate to contact me.

Keith Claybrook

December 5, 2006

My sincerest condolences for Melanie, Zachary, Zane and the rest of the family.

Joel, Amy, and Dakota Butler

December 5, 2006

Melanie, Zach, and Zane,

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that our thoughts, our prayers, and our love are with your entire family. Monty was truly an inspiration to everyone he encountered. Dakota loved playing soccer for him. He will be missed by all of us.
With lots of love,

Lela Sullivan

December 5, 2006

Dear Rod and Chris; I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. My heart and prayers are with you.

Maggie Pacin

December 5, 2006

Rod and Chris

I did not personnally know Monty, but I know you and Chris. If the son is any measure of the father and mother then you have the comfort to know that he was the best in sons.

Take comfort in the knowledge that he knew he was loved. My sympathies and prayers are with both of you and his family.

93 Tornados ~ Monty will forever be our coach & our friend!

December 5, 2006

Karen Beech

December 4, 2006

Mel,
I was shocked to hear of your tragic news....my thoughts and prayers are with you, your sons and your family

Lori Aki

December 4, 2006

Me ke aloha Melanie, Zach, and Zane,
I was stunned to hear the news about Monty. I haven't seen him, or you all for a very long time; nevertheless, you have always been in my heart and on my mind. I love you!

Kimberly & Kenneth Leal

December 3, 2006

To the Monty Family, I am so sad for all of you. Monty was a wonderful man and he will still be loking after you because he loved you so much.

William Hillson

December 3, 2006

Times like this is when someone can question its own existance. I certainly am questioning my own. I talked to Monty 2 weeks ago and now is is gone. Monty was telling me about his new job, he said he loved it. He told me he was going to coach a wonderful soccer team, and he was so happy. I dont know what else to say, I am just devasteted.

Bob Bofinger

December 3, 2006

Melanie --

Though we were unable to attend Monty's service, please know that our thoughts and our prayers are with you Zak, and Zane. Monty was an exceptional coach and a wonderful man. He was gifted teacher that was uniquely able to reach and to positively influence each of his players. It was Brett's privilege to spend time with Monty and the Clash '96.

Bob, Pamela, Bridget, and Brett Bofinger

Clash '96 boys (11/2004)

December 3, 2006

sammy keene

December 3, 2006

I will never forget the year that I played soccer on Monty's team. He always liked to win more than lose, but no matter what the outcome was he came out with a smile on his face. He played for the love of the game. Our prayers our with his family. I don't like to remember him as just a coach or just a father, but as an inspiration.
- Sammy keene

Vickie Petree

December 3, 2006

Dear Melanie,
I don't know if you will see this, I am so shocked and sorry for your loss. Eveyone at KSBW feels for you. You are a smart and strong and resiliant person, and I know you'll show those qualities to your sons. Let us know if you need anything.

Colleen (McDade)Garland

December 3, 2006

Melanie:
I am so sorry to hear of Monty's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your boys.

Trey Signorelli

December 3, 2006

Dear Melanie, Zak, & Zane,
Last year was the best soccer season. It wasn't because we were good or won alot of trophies. It was because of Monty. Monty was the coolest coach and was always there for me to talk to and ask questions on how to do things. He was a coach you could talk to and not just about soccer but we could joke with him. I could talk about anything with him. He also gave me the confidence in myself to score. Monty not only was a coach to me but a friend.

Phill Soveen

December 3, 2006

Dear Mrs. Hatchett and family, I only knew Monty for a few months but it does not feel that way. When I think of Monty it feels like I knew him all my life. He was so easy to talk to, he was a good listener, his life was so busy with activities that involved you and the kids YET he was always researching many other things he wanted to get involved with such as volunteering. What a guy! Life is just not fair is it. I wish you and your family strength and know that you are not alone. Many of us loved Monty and will be here for you too.

Jill (Reeves) Gagliardi

December 3, 2006

Melanie and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Monty's passing. I knew Monty from high school and soccer and he was such a great person on and off the field. I haven't seen Monty since high school and was so heartbroken when I heard of his untimely passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Gene & Lynn Fleming

December 3, 2006

Dear Rod & Chris: We are so saddened for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tristan Abbott

December 3, 2006

God bless you and the kids Mel. My heart and prayers go out to you.

George Rivera

December 2, 2006

Melanie, Zach, & Zane
How sad I was to hear of Monty's sudden death, know that you and your family will be in my prayers. I was one of Monty's FTOs at WPD. I admired Monty very much, both personally and professionally. I know that Monty had many admiring friends, and I'm proud to have been one of them.

Melissa, Trevor, Bill, Linda and Steve

December 2, 2006

We cannot believe it. We were just remembering the good times we had with Monty. Our hearts are aching and we pray for all his family. God bless you all.

Hunter Johnson-Haggart

December 2, 2006

You are in my thoughts and prayers

Sara and Darren Barker

December 2, 2006

Dear Hatchett family you are in our hearts during this very sad time. My wife and I met Monty in an hanger working on aircrafts for Ameican Airlines. We just found out about Monty accident and we want you to know that we loved working with him and will miss him dearly.

Ellen Smith

December 2, 2006

Dear Hatchett family, I cannot believe what happened to Monty. I am so out of words and so sad for his wife and children. Monty was all about life and living. It is going to be very difficult not having him around with his laughs and charm. I hope you all find strenght to continue to live the way he did. I am sure that is what he would want. I know Monty and Melanie both have very strong loving families, together you can raise, love and help Zac and Zane become the beautiful human beings that Monty wanted them to be.
Please take care.

Steve & Sandi Manuszak

December 2, 2006

Dear Hatchett Family

We are so very sad to hear about your loss. Monty was a wonderful coach to our son, Trey, first with the Clash and later with the Tornados. Trey really loved the game and much of that love came from all the "cool tricks" Monty taught him over the years. Look at all the lives he touched in such a positive way!!! What a special memory to hold in your hearts forever. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Steve, Sandi, Trey, Lauren & Bo Manuszak

Bryan & Esther Parton

December 2, 2006

Dear Melanie,

We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Esther and I enjoyed your and Monty’s friendship and camaraderie while he coached the Tornados, and he was a coach Cole thoroughly respected. Some of our best memories include how Monty somehow ‘obtained’ an English accent when stressing out during a game, and I find myself still using his ‘Git in his shorts, son!’ catchphrase during games today. It’s amazing how someone can impact you when you take the time to reflect on the times and experiences you shared. We will always be fond of the memories and experiences we had with Monty. Our prayers are with you, Zack, and Zane.

The Parton Family – Bryan, Esther, Cole & Caitlin

Todd, Marnie, Kate & Mack DeVries

December 2, 2006

To the Hatchett Family,
I am greatly saddened by this news. Growing up with Derek, I have many fond memories of Monty as well. We looked up to him as a tremendous soccer player. I remember hitching rides with Monty to practice and just horsing around with Derek and I at the Hatchett household. He certainly lived his life to the fullest. The entire Hatchett family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Mark "Big Dawg" Luitwieler

December 2, 2006

Dear Hatchett Family,

As you all know, I played on the JHS team with Monty. Even though I didnt play often, Monty was always one of my biggest supporters. He always said that he admired my drive, determination and heart. When I did play, he always was my "wall", both defensively and "emotionally". He always gave me confidence back there in the goal and was a true friend and "Team Player". He loved being part of a team, nomatter what part of it he filled. (notice the pictures that are posted?) We will all miss Monty and his "zest" for life and I am sure he is already "putting together a TEAM" in heaven as we speak! My thoughts, prayers and love go out to all of you as we celebrate his life and mourn his passing.

Danny, Rhonda, Brendan and Breanna McGranahan

December 2, 2006

Dear Melanie, Zack and Zane,
We only met Monty last spring when Brendan joined his team. It was immediately evident to us he possessed a great love for his family, a zest for life and a passion for helping kids. God is with you, may He help you through this difficult time.

Charles Townsend

December 2, 2006

Melanie and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Monty was a such a great person. He made such a great impression on my life. He was one of the best friends I could have every asked for. My prays go with you and your family.

Asia, Ismael and Marcel Hamad

December 2, 2006

Dear Melanie, Zane and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Monty was a wonderful coach. For the short time we knew him and your family on and off the soccer fields, we admired him as a father and a friend. We still remember him, when we watched Zane and Marcel plying with the Raptors and you playing at Blue Sky. God bless you during this difficult time, he will be in our thoughts and prayers. He is in a better place now.

Pheena Shadow

December 1, 2006

Dear Hatchett family,
I am so sad about your tragedy, I cannot make any sense of it. Monty was such a wonderful human being, he loved his family so much and had so many friends. He engulfed life as if it was not big enough for him and had so much positive energy. Monty was like a warm sun ray in a stormy day and you could always count on his warmth when he was around you. He had so many dreams and so many plans, expecially when it came to his family expecially the boys. He could never stop talking about his boys, he wanted the best for them. He wanted them to feel loved, happy and most of all enjoy life as much as he did. Zac keep up with your home work, you know how important it was to your father. Zane you too keep doing good in school because your father will be looking after you. Monty was loved by many people and his love will continue to live for as long as we cherish him.

Ayesha Burns

December 1, 2006

Dear Melanie and family,
My thoughts are with you everyday. Mel I remember how much fun you two were having when I first saw you back in California. My heart breaks to know you have lost the person you always refered to as your best friend. I hope it comforts you to know how happy he was with you, and your boys. I know your incredible strength and love will help you through this time, but please know that I am always, always here for you. All my love to you and your family.

Monty: The consumate competitor (before our 87 State Championship)

December 1, 2006

Diane (Seals) Alderson

December 1, 2006

To the Hatchett Family,
I was in the same grade as Monty's brother, Derek. I never knew Derek or Monty personally, but I am sorry to hear of Monty's passing. I am glad that Monty got to do a lot of things that he wanted to do. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

In Christ,

Lisa Wilson Sever

December 1, 2006

Chris, Rod and Derek
What can I say....I have such fond memories of Monty and Soccer and so much laughter. From the beginning of his life having you all as a devoted, loving, family unit to the end with his love Melanie and boys Zach and Zane, Monty had an amazingly blessed life. He always had a smile to brighten any room and a charm about him that could win anyone over. And he knew it!! I haven't seen Monty in years and I am heartbroken... for everyone who knew, loved and was inspired by Monty. May God hold each of you in the palm of his hand. God bless all of you.

Danny, Rhonda, Brendan and Breanna McGranahan

December 1, 2006

Melanie, Zach and Zane,

We only had the pleasure of knowing Monty for a short time last spring, but it was immediately evident he was a man who enjoyed life, loved his family and loved to help kids. May God be with you all through this trying time.

A Friend

December 1, 2006

“Monty”
I’m not looking for the sunset,
As the swift years come and go;
I am looking for the sunrise,
And the golden morning glow,
Where the light of heaven’s glory
Will break forth upon my sight,
In the land that knows no sunset,
Nor the darkness of the night.
I’m not going down the pathway
Toward the setting of the sun,
Where the shadows ever deepen
When the day at last is done;
I am walking up the hillside
Where the sunshine lights the way,

I’m not going down, but upward,
And the path is never dim,
For the day grows ever brighter
As I journey on.
So my eyes are on the hilltops,
Waiting for the sun to rise,
Waiting for an invitation
To the home beyond the skies.
I'll never forget you Monty, I miss your cheerful personality and your family will always be in my heart.

Tricia DeWitt

December 1, 2006

Melanie and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Monty was a wonderful man. He made a dramatic impact on Trenton as a coach and mentor. Our son will carry the lessons that Monty taught him for the rest of his life, both on and off the field. God bless you during this difficult time.
Jeff and Tricia DeWitt and family

Joe Abramski

December 1, 2006

To Melanie and Family,
I had the pleasure of interviewing Monty for the FAA Flight Standards Aviation Safety Inspector position at the San Jose Flight Standards District Office. I also had the pleasure of knowing Monty and working with him. He was a fine man professionally and personally. We will certainly miss him.

December 1, 2006

Melanie and family:

We all here at the San Jose Flight Standards District Office wish to extend to you our most heart-felt sympathy for your loss. Monty was one that we will always remember here at San Jose. He was destined to become one of our best Aviation Inspectors as he appeared to have found something he really enjoyed. In our short time with him, he has left us with an indelible mark of his professionalism and dedication to duty and friends. Monty was always helping folks here in the office, and so very eager to learn as much as he could.

Some of us were fortunate to spend a day on the golf course with Monty. What an enjoyable experience. Monty knew his game of golf.

Please do not hesitate to call upon us at any time. We will be very pleased to help you in anyway we can. Monty was truly a caring individual whose love for life made a difference for all who worked with him. He will be missed tremendously!

John R. Howard, Manager
Flight Standards Service

Stacey Carter

December 1, 2006

Dear Melanie, Zach and Zane,
We just wanted to express how deeply sorry we are for your loss!! Monty will forever be our favorite soccer coach, and we will always remember him with a smile. Jason and I credit him with helping to instill so much confidence in Chandler, both on and off the soccer field! And for that we will always be grateful. He truly touched our family in such a positive way.
Our hearts ache for you and the boys, but please know that you are all in our thoughts and continuos prayers!
All our Love,
Jason, Stacey, Chandler & Carson Carter

Paula Sogaro

December 1, 2006

Dear Melanie, Zachary and Zane. I am still shocked and very sad for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Monty for the past 4 months and I cannot express to you the emptiness he left behind. Monty was so full of life, always talking about his family and friends. He never complained and was always willing to help. He was like a “breath of fresh air”. My co-workers and I will miss him very much.

Todd, Sami, Skyler and Raleigh Simmonds

December 1, 2006

The Lord must have been needing a really good man to coach a team of little soccer playing angels in Heaven.
We love you Monty.

In our hearts, you will always be with us. Mustangs FC 95, Your Team.

December 1, 2006

Our Coach, Our Friend, a Good Man: Monty Hatchett

December 1, 2006

Marilyn Getas-Byrne

December 1, 2006

To Melanie and the entire family:
Our hearts are breaking for all of you during this difficult time. We are here for you -- no matter what you need, no matter when you need it, you can count on us. We love and miss Monty, but will always remember him as a devoted husband, loving father and good friend. He was so precious holding our baby girl a little more than a week ago. He was so comfortable with her in his arms and wasn't going to give her up for anything. That sweetness has left an indelible impression, Mel. We will never forget him. Please know that we will keep you all in our prayers each and every day. We love you and will keep honoring Monty's life by holding our loved ones a little tighter. All our love, Marilyn, Tom, Jackson and Caroline

Henry Robles

December 1, 2006

Dear Melanie and Family:
News of Monty's passing hit us all here at the Watsonville Police Department with shock. My heart hurts for your loss and I'm very sorry you're having to go through this difficult time. I pray you find the love in each other, and the wonderful memories you have of Monty to comfort you.

Your Friend, Henry Robles
(831) 239-5275

Tobie Gosdin

December 1, 2006

Melanie and family,
Monty was such an amazing person who made a positive impact on everyone he touched. We are all thinking of you and your beautiful sons during this tragic time. It was always a joy to play soccer with ya'll and all of your friends in TX are thinking of you. His smile and sense of humor will always be with me. We love you!

Jennifer Campbell

December 1, 2006

Mel,

What can I say to confort you? I am at a loss for words for once.
I realized it has been 6 months since we saw you both, seems like yesterday. All I remember was Monty's smile, and how happy he always was until you and I would talk forever and he would beg us to stop! Monty was SO full of life and he brought so much happiness to all of us who knew him. I spoke to Dylan at school this morning and he was very upset. He said was a great coach and good person, as my 15 year old said the same. He left this world contributing so many wonderful things to so many people. He touched our hearts so much by having faith in our kids and seeing so much more than anyone else saw. Always remember what I told you the last time I talked to you about how out of all the married friends I had, you two were the only ones I knew who looked at each other like you were still so much in love. It always showed, even when you disagreed. You were true soul mates. I could see that. Please have no regrets, you always gave all you had, all the time to him, he loved life and that was obvious. We didn'f find out about his death until yesterday and with the weather in Tulsa we can't get there. Cliff is snowed in Chicago, but this has upset us more than we can say, we spent a whole day trying to find some way to get to you, and finally had to give up. We are thinking of you and the boys and when you are ready to take a trip back here, please come stay with us. Monty left us with wonderful memories and lots of smiles. We will miss him more than ever. My heart is so broke for you all. Monty's life was a celebration and no one lived it more than he did. You are in our thoughts and prayers and we are so sorry for your loss. Please remember we are here. We love you and may God bless you and ease your pain. This world will not be the same without him here. We share your sorrow. Much love, Jennifer

December 1, 2006

Due to inclimate weather

The service has been changed to Sat Dec. 2 at 1pm

Thank you.

Diana Neby

December 1, 2006

Dearest Melanie, Zac and Zane,
Our hearts are filled with sorrow this season. We have such fond memories of Monty and your family. Our little Knute will carry Monty's memory in his heart always. He expressed that Coach Monty taught him everything he knows about soccer. Knute is playing for Monty this season he told us. We know he is up in heaven cheering us on. "Take the corner kick Knute". We will miss that along with so much more. May you take comfort in knowing there is one more angel above watching over us all.
We miss you coach.
Love, Mark, Diana, Gunnar and Knute

Debbie Oxley

December 1, 2006

Dearest Jim, Christa, Melanie, Zac & Zane:

We were so sad to hear of Monty's passing. He will be kept alive in the heart's of so many people. We send you our love, support and sympathy. May God bless and watch over you all.

Much Love,
Dennis & Debbie Oxley

Andi & Shane Taylor

December 1, 2006

We were greatly saddened to hear of Monty's passing. He was a great coach. May God be with his family and help with the sorrow. We will pray for all of his family and friends.

Todd Johnson

December 1, 2006

Dear Melanie,

I am so very saddened by Monty's passing. We shared so many wonderful times together here in Texas... playing soccer on the adult teams and riding Harleys. He was a "Bigger than Life" guy, and he will be truly missed. My thoughts will be with you and your family.

Sylvan Rothschild

December 1, 2006

To the Hatchett family,

Jake and I were saddend to hear of your loss. Monty will always be remembered by our family as he inspired kids by example to excel with class. "No man stands as tall as one who stoops to help a child". That was Monty !!

Andie and Jack DeVries

December 1, 2006

Chris,Rod,Derek and Family,
Your loss is beyond words. We hope that because Monty lived his life to the fullest you will have the greatest of memories. We will always remember his smile, talent, and leadership on the soccer field. Your family will be in our prayers, and know that it is well with his soul.

With heartfelt sympathy,

Carolyn Helm

November 30, 2006

Dearest Zane,
I miss you very much and I wish I was there with you and your family to give you lots of hugs and support. You are in my thoughts and all of my prayers; I am only a phone call or email away! I hope you will check your mailbox when you return home because I have written to you about a special memory that I have of your father. He will always be proud of you and love you. I know you must miss him terribly and I am so, so sorry.
Much love from your Second Grade Teacher,
Mrs. Helm

Carolyn Helm

November 30, 2006

My Dear, Sweet, Wonderful Hatchett Family,
The inspiration that each of you have left on my heart is so great and I feel such a sadness for you that it hurts deeply. I know you are faithful people, but I also realize that you will miss Monty immensely. I am so very sorry to hear the news of his untimely passing. I love you dearly and my family and I are praying for you daily by name and will be for a very long time.
Hopefully you will eventually be able to find some comfort in all of your beautiful memories. You were the perfect family and with Monty as your angel, you always will be.
Much love and many, many blessings to you Monty, Melanie, Zac, and Zane; Monty was so proud of his family and I am certain that he still is as he is watching over you now.
Most Sincerely,
Carolyn Helm

Bobby Griffith

November 30, 2006

To the Hatchett Family,

I too worked with Monty in Watsonville. I am sadden from the news of Monty's death. May God bless you and your boys as you go through this horrible time.

Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God's love and keep you strong. Ephesians 3:17

Paul Barrows

November 30, 2006

Melanie,
Kristi, Cody, and I were very sadened to hear about Monty. Although I have only known Monty for a short time, it didn't take long to recognize that he was a special person. After talking to him and learning that we both wore a badge and shared a passion for
coaching, I realized that we were very alike. As federal employees, Kristi and I were very happy for him when he got on with the FAA. The only visable passion greater was that for his family. His coaching has made Cody a better player and person. Cody said that he remembers "...Monty's happy attitude, and him getting on to us when we deserved it". We join you in celebrating his life, and know that he will be missed by all. May God comfort you and your family.

Peter Brody

November 30, 2006

Mel,

Monty loved life and lived it every day with such great passion. It was always so obvious to Jane and I how much he loved you and the boys and how much you all love him. Allthough our time knowing you all was short, it was long enough to know what special people you are. Monty's passion and spirit is in each of us he touched. Jane and I are so sorry for your loss and we are thinking of you and the familiy all the time. May God Bless you and hold you tight.

Love Jane and Peter

Jean Wilson

November 30, 2006

Dearest Melanie,
We are so very shocked and sorry to hear of Monty's passing. Monty brought many laughs and smiles to the 93 Tornado boys. He has a special place in our hearts, always.
We're sending our love and comfort in this difficult time.
May God bless you and your sons.
Jean, Blake ,and Everett Wilson

Manny Solano

November 30, 2006

Dear Melanie, Zach and Zane,

My sincerest thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and long into the future. My heart sank when I heard the news about Monty. I am so grateful we stayed in touch after you guys moved away and will cheerish the memories I have of your husband and father. He was a friend, a great man and a highly skilled police officer. Please know that I am here for you and would like to be of help in the days ahead. Please don't hesitate to contact me. My email is: [email protected]
Much love,

Terri Russell

November 30, 2006

Dear Melanie, Zach and Zane,
Words are not strong enough to express the loss we all feel and our sadness for your loss. I can only say that we are all so priviliged and blessed to have crossed paths with Monty and your family. Taylor has lost a mentor and someone who shared his enthusiasm and love for soccer and we have lost a friend and leader. Melanie I know your best friend is still in your heart and will be there forever and the boys have wonderful memories of a compassionate father. I know your family is grieving and hope you can find peace and comfort through prayer and find strength through our Lord and Savior. Monty should be beaming over the great impact he had on so many people and so many of our kids. He has left behind a legacy for his involvement with youth and teaching his great compassion and love,soccer. I am awed by his involvement and committment and the relationship you two shared. We are praying for you and your family and always here for you as well. Please know we love you both we will be at the service on Saturday. I am bringing lots of hugs from your friends in Keller.
Love, Terri Garry Taylor Zach and Garrett Russell.

November 30, 2006

Dear Hatchett family, My husband and I were stranded with you in Salt Lake City on Tuesday night. I was truly touched by your story and can only imagin the depth of your pain, as a parent, spouse and child. We are praying for your coming peace and comfort.May God be with each of you.Also the class that your family displayed left us in awe. Very Sincerely Mona and Peter Prudden, Tulsa

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