Claire Demery

Claire Demery obituary, Clinton, CT

Claire Demery

Claire Demery Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 28, 2025.
Claire Demery, 81, passed away peacefully on July 26, 2025, surrounded by loved ones.

Claire was a beloved mother, grandmother, sister and friend. She was known for her warmth, kindness and unwavering strength. Throughout her life, she touched the hearts of many with her generosity, grace and wisdom.

A gifted soul, Claire had a deep love for music, painting and sewing. Whether she was listening to her favorite local singers, painting beautiful works of art or hand stitching clothes for her grandchildren, Claire found joy in expressing herself through her talents. Her creativity brought beauty into the world and comfort to those around her. She also cherished the times she spent at two of her favorite places- Strong House and Gator Creek Farms- where she felt most at peace and connected to the people and memories she loved.

She is preceded in death by her parents, William and Elsie Cawley; her brothers, Walter Cawley, Richard Cawley, and Raymond Cawley.

Claire is survived by her daughter Elizabeth Cook, (Rick Cook), her son Damon Demery (Dawn Demery); her stepson Steven Demery (Lori Demery), stepdaughter Brenda Goglia; her grandchildren Amanda Cook, Alicia Cook, Ricky Cook, Angie Pastuszak, Paul Demery, Joshua Demery and many dear friends.

Claire will be deeply missed, but her legacy of love, creativity and kindness will live on in the hearts of those she touched.

Private services will be held.

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