Clyde R. Gruver Jr.

1943 - 2019

Clyde R. Gruver Jr. obituary, 1943-2019, Binghamton, NY

Clyde R. Gruver Jr.

1943 - 2019

Clyde Gruver Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 21 to May 22, 2019.
Clyde R. Gruver, Jr.

Binghamton - Clyde R. Gruver, Jr., age 75, passed away peacefully on a sunny Saturday morning, May 18, 2019 at Wilson Hospital surrounded by his loving family. Born on August 16, 1943 in Kingston, PA, the youngest of two children; his family moved to Binghamton in 1952. Clyde was the son of Clyde R. Gruver Sr. and Jessie (Walters) Gruver. He graduated from Chenango Valley High School, Valley Forge Military Junior College, Bryant College, and completed his education with a Master's Degree from Binghamton University. He also served in the US Army Reserves for 6 years; 1966-1971.

In 1963, Clyde and his dad began building phase 1 of Bryn Mawr Heights in the Town of Chenango. The first road was Van Kuren Drive (named after Alfred and Kate Van Kuren) whom the Gruver family bought 35 acres from in the early 1960's. He and his dad went on to build phase 2, Clyde Gruver Road and Jessie Drive in 1974 (named after his mother). He then, along with his wife Virginia (Ginny) completed the final building phase with Ginny Lane in 1994.

Clyde was a realtor and tax accountant for 40 years. His career started as an accountant at Singer Link. His next position was Comptroller at the newly built Treadway Inn. He then joined his parents in the family's real estate business, Gruver Realty. He was also Judge in the Town of Chenango for 32 years; retiring in 2014. He always believed that good government begins with good justice. Judge Gruver was always known by his son-in-laws and their families as "The Judge". Anyone who knew Clyde knew he had many stories to share, many proud boasts of his family, and had a sense of humor and wit about him that was very distinct to the Gruver family.

Clyde is predeceased by his parents Clyde (1989) and Jessie (1990), his in-laws Archie (2007) and Florence (2009), and his brother-in-law Stephen (2019). He is survived by his loving wife Virginia of 51 years, daughters Melissa Gruver-LaPolt (Glenn), Claudine Lamanna (Jason), and his granddaughters Josie, Tessa, Sophia, Ella, Sierra, and Eliza, his sister Elizabeth Mary Ingraham (Brenton), sister-in-law Priscilla (Alan), and sister-in-law Carol, several nieces, nephews and grand-nieces and nephews. Rest in peace Judge, we will always remember you and love you.

Clyde's family would like to express special thanks to the staff at UHS Wilson Hospital for the excellent care and attention they gave Clyde during his stay. The family will receive friends at Wm. R. Chase Funeral Home, 737 Chenango Street, Port Dickinson on Thursday, May 23rd, from 4-7 pm. A funeral service will be held Friday, May 24th at 10am at St. Marks's Church in Chenango Bridge. Burial will be at Chenango Valley Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Chenango Ambulance Services (83 Chenango Bridge Road, Binghamton, NY 13901) or St. Mark's Church (PO Box 458, Chenango Bridge, NY 13745).

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June 9, 2024

It´s been awhile, however I want to express my sincere condolences. I am not sure if you will receive this but I thought l would try. Michele (Brandwene) Weissbratten. E-mail [email protected]

Pamela Sellitto

May 23, 2019

Ginny and family,
Our prayers are with your family. Clyde always had a story to tell when I stopped in and he always welcomed my children and later grandchildren at Halloween. He's now walking the streets of "gold" .

Pam and Mike

Mary Jane Cunningham Sedlack

May 23, 2019

Dear Ginny, i was sorry to read of your loss, I remember our trips home from Bryant University back in the 60's , I'm glad you were able to enjoy so many years together. I'm sure you have many memories of your life together. Please know I'm thinking of you at this time. May Clyde rest in peace.

Kim & Sal Vona

May 23, 2019

Dear Melissa, Glenn and family,

So sorry to hear of your dad's passing. May you find solace in each other during this difficult time.

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Donald Bigelow

May 22, 2019

I am sorry to hear of another fellow CV graduate passing on. Makes one appreciate more the delicate line of life at this age. My sincere condolences to all of Clyde's loved ones and close friends.

Kathy Goodwin

May 22, 2019

How well I remember the rides in your corvette. Also being pregnant same time as Ginny with our first daughters ,Kimberly and Melissa. Many other fond memories with our family

Bill & Kathy Goodwin

May 22, 2019

The journey continues.... we share our hopes and prayers that Clyde's family find comfort in his passing.

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Fred and Donna Burr

May 22, 2019

We read of Clyde's passing with sorrow. As one of his colleagues in the Broome County Magistrates' Association, I always enjoyed working with Clyde when putting together programs for the annual training sessions, and socializing with him at NY State Magistrates annual conventions. Our deepest sympathies.

Marilyn (Pam's Mom} Hand

May 21, 2019

Dear Ginny: So sorry for your loss. I pray that God will give you and your family the strength you need now. Memories are wonderful, until you meet again.

Bill Burtis

May 21, 2019

Dear Ginny and Family,
I am very sorry to read of Clyde's passing. While I haven't seen Clyde in many years I can't help but remember with a great deal of fondness and gratitude the years we did a lot of business together and how important that association was to me at the time. He was always honest, straight forward and dependable. A great friend and good person.

My thoughts and prayers are with Clyde, you Ginny, and your whole family at this most difficult time.

Stephanie Busch-Westervelt

May 21, 2019

Mrs. Gruver, Melissa, and Claudine,

Our deepest condolences. Judge Gruver provided Chenango Forks Swimming, Chenango Aquatics, and our family vast support and friendship. We are forever grateful. May peace and comfort find you during this difficult time.

Love,

The Busch/Westervelt Family

Bill and Rosie Hartman

May 21, 2019

Dear Mrs. Gruver and family,
We are deeply saddened to hear of Clyde's passing. Please accept our sincerest sympathies and know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Brenda Ross

May 21, 2019

Mrs. Gruver,
I am very sorry for your loss.

May 21, 2019

Ginny & family,

Your hearts must be broken.....so sorry for your loss...prayers.....

Sheila Jackson

Terry Kellogg

May 21, 2019

Please accept my most sincere condolences on Clyde's passing.

He made significant contributions to the Town of Chenango and he will be missed by all who knew him.

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