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Constant O. Maffey
February 03, 1923- January 05, 2021
Constant O. Maffey died peacefully on January 5th, 2021 at nearly 98 years of age. He left this life in the same way in which he lived it: uncomplaining, in love with his family, worshipping God, and having expended all his energy working to make each phase of his life the best it could be for those that depended on him. He was born in Elizabeth NJ on February 3, 1923, a first-generation son of immigrants from northern Italy. With his brother and sisters, he grew up working in his family's locksmith shop. He had three lifelong passions: playing trumpet, riding motorcycles, and aircraft. He was a member of the NJ State High School Band Competition champions as the First Chair Trumpet. He bought his first Harley Davidson in 1940 and rode it until drafted into the Army. When the last of his children left the house in 1984, he bought his second Harley and rode it until he could no longer ride, at age 83. His fascination with aircraft led him to attend night school where he received his Aeronautics and Engineering license. Upon graduating high school, he broke with family expectations and went to work as an Army Civilian employee, as an aircraft mechanic at Langley Field VA. Like many of his generation, he was drafted in 1942, and went on to serve in the Army Air Corps as a flight engineer on B24s during WWII. He flew missions out of southern Italy and was awarded the Distinguished Flying Cross for valor in 2005, since the original paperwork was lost for 60 years. Upon his discharge from the service, he returned to Elizabeth NJ and the locksmith shop where he and his brother continued to work in the family business. The day he met the love of his life, Afra, he told his parents "don't be surprised if I marry that girl." As with everything he did in life, once he put his mind to it, it happened. They were married February 9, 1947. In addition to raising their 8 children as productive members of society, he mastered his profession. He left the family business and started his own specialty locksmithing business, receiving at least one patent and creating innovative security solutions for his clients. He was elected President of his professional association, the Associated Locksmiths of America - a testament to his expertise and the regard his peers held for him. He earned the Certified Protection Professional Certification through ASIS. He finally retired at age 75, and moved to Carlisle PA (lower taxes and car insurance) where he and Afra enjoyed life and family for another 23 years. He continued his deep love and devotion to his family, faith, and his country. He is survived by his wife of 74 years Afra Polli Maffey, their 8 children - Linda Garofalo (Joseph), Paul Maffey (Andra), Gene Maffey (Joan), Susan Rakfal, Daniel Maffey (Emily), Thomas Maffey (Alice), Marie Buonforte (Thomas) and John Maffey (Christine), their 33 grandchildren and 48 great-grandchildren. The funeral will be on Friday, January 8, 2021, arranged by Malpezzi Funeral Home, Mechanicsburg PA. The viewing will be held at noon at St. Katharine Drexel Church, Mechanicsburg, with the Funeral Mass at 1 PM, followed by the burial at St. Patrick's Cemetery, Carlisle PA. Mass will also be livestreamed at https://youtu.be/uo8gO_FfHE0 In lieu of flowers, please feel free to donate in his name to the veteran's organization of your choice.
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Kevin Farrell
June 4, 2023
I remember Mr. Maffey from when I was a locksmith in NJ. I was amazed at how he could just make a part he needed if not available. It was a pleasure to know him. My condolences to his family and he will be remembered.
Afra and Connie with Joe Horling in 2010
January 10, 2021
Joe Horling, Connie and Charlie at Joe's 90th birthday party in 2010
January 10, 2021
Meg Horling Bieloski
January 9, 2021
Locksmith picnics and hanging out with the Maffeys are part of my childhood memories. May Connie rest in peace, and prayers for Afra and all the family. My parents, your dear friends Joe and Marge Horling, were waiting for you in heaven.
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Tina Horling Cushing
January 9, 2021
My sincere condolences go to my godfather's family during this time. His dear old friend, my Dad, passed away the day before! As members of the Greatest Generation, we will miss their strong faith in God and country. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tina Horling Cushing
https://www.pettitdavisfuneralhome.com/obituary/Joseph-Horling/Rahway-NJ/1883772
Kurt Minnich
January 8, 2021
Rest in peace my friend. Your service to this nation has inspired so many others to serve, especially your family. God speed.
Marie Maffey
January 8, 2021
I'm enriched by having known Connie and grateful for the strength he passed on to his children.
Bob & Pam Brantley
January 8, 2021
I always remember visiting the Maffey house after Emily (or John's?) baptism party. Mr. Maffey was proudly showing the house and telling me about thirty years of working on the old fixer-up. Said "there are only two things left - the back step is loose and this (lifting the ball on the top of the stair post in the front hall). And can you believe she wants to move!!". It was a beautiful home that raised a beautiful family. He will be missed. Love to the whole family.
Leon and Marena Cuthie
January 7, 2021
Our sincerest sympathy,Afra to you and your family. What a special husband and father. May he Rest In Peace .
elaine kiamie
January 6, 2021
MR.MAFFEY WAS OUR NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR WHO BECAME FAMILY TO THE KIAMIES ON BURCHFIELD AVENUE IN CRANFORD, N.J. WHAT WONDERFUL MEMORIES I HAVE OF THE INFAMOUS MAFFEY BARBEQUE CELEBRATIONS GALORE!...I AM SURE MR. MAFFEY IS UP IN HEAVEN GRILLING HIS WONDERFUL HOMEMADE ITALIAN SQUARE SAUSAGES....I AM ALSO SURE THAT MY FATHER WHO ENTERED HEAVEN ON 1-6-90 IS SAMPLING THOSE GOURMET DELECTIBLES!...MR. MAFFEY LOVED GOD, HIS FAMILY AND OUR COUNTRY.....UNTIL WE SEE YOU AGAIN DEAR FRIEND....REST IN PEACE...YOU HAVE EARNED IT!...
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