Timothy Yee Mar
1964 - 2015
Timothy Yee Mar
1964 - 2015
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BORN
1964
DIED
2015
Timothy Mar Obituary
Tim was a star athlete on the high school basketball and golf team and graduated from Sacramento High School in 1982. He then continued at the University of California, Davis, and graduated in 1986. He worked as a Civil Engineer with the City of Sacramento for nearly 25 years. Tim's hard work and dedication inspired those around him. He cherished the lifelong friendships he formed throughout his career. Tim's loving nature and interest in helping others was boundless.
Tim enjoyed spending time with his family and friends, playing golf, coaching basketball and soccer, and organizing fundraisers. Tim's greatest achievement was being a wonderful father. He instilled a strong sense of family with his sons at an early age. He was always active in his sons' lives and never missed an opportunity to be with them. He also took great pride in being a mentor and coach for many children throughout the community while coaching his sons' basketball and soccer teams.
Tim's warm personality, compassion, and his love for sharing stories will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved him. Although Tim has left us, he will live eternally in our hearts, thoughts, and memories.
A wake will be held on Monday, 9/28/15, from 5:00-7:00 p.m. A funeral service will be held on Tuesday, 9/29/15, at Harry A. Nauman & Son, 4041 Freeport Blvd., at 1:00 p.m. Burial will be at East Lawn Cemetery on 4300 Folsom Blvd following the funeral service. Family and friends are invited to Hong Kong Islander, 5675 Freeport Blvd. In lieu of flowers, friends & family may make donations to Shane and Corey's Trust Fund by emailing [email protected].
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Michael Silva
April 8, 2016
Linda, I just heard about this from Eddie Fong. I'm so sorry for your lost.
Michael Silva
Jumbo Markets
Raelee Kingsley
January 26, 2016
As I sit here at your service waiting for you last respects I realize what a wonderful life you lived . Oh it was short and no one was ready for this day by no means but looking at your pictures of your life it was full . Your wife and boys are doing the best they can considering your lose . Just had to tell you it will be okay . There is lots of family love and support I am sure you knew that . Won't be the same with out you and I am so great full for those Bunco games it was so fun wasn't it . I know your golfing and eating chocolate chip cookies aren't you enjoy my sweet brother in law we will honor your life till we meet again . My heart felt sorrow to the Mar family and to my sweet , and loving sister life will get easier in time ..my love to you . Corey and Shane be the strong young men your daddy showed you how to be , live his legacy and make him proud . You both were is world he loved you so , as do your whole entire family . RIP Tim Mar love
Kingsley Family
Vicki and Austin Caldwell
October 20, 2015
Linda, Corey and Shane. I've been unable to find the words to truly express how I feel about your loss. Tim was a good man, giving so much to his community and to his family. He will remain an example to others about the importance of being a part of your children's lives, giving not only to them but others who need to see what a real dad looks like. He will be missed.
John Presleigh
October 17, 2015
I first met Tim in the late 1980's when he was a brand new engineer at the City of Sacramento. Tim was one of those special persons that is unforgettable. My heartfelt condolences go out to the Mar family.
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John and Kim Dickinson
October 12, 2015
Please accept our deepest condolences. We will miss Tim very much! We will continue to pray for you to have the strength to persevere during this very sad time. Unfortunately, we don't always understand why God allows tragic events to happen in our lives. The Bible says, " For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. ~Jeremiah 29:11. It might be difficult to believe right now, but God does have big plans for all of you. "Plans to give you hope and a future." We love you!
Julie Toscano
October 7, 2015
My deepest sympathies to all of Tim's family. He has left so very much to be proud of. Linda, you and Tim created such an incredible, strong love and gave that to each other and to Corey & Shane every single day. A love that strong makes you all stronger. These boys are going to grow into wonderful, caring, compassionate men with this amazing foundation. His love and spirit will be with you always. Hold each other very close. You are all so loved by all of us and we will honor Tim by giving all the love we can to those he held most precious.
Ofelia Avalos
October 4, 2015
Tim was a great human being and an example to all who knew him. He was intelligent, patient, compassionate, talented in sports and most of all he had a huge heart and respect for all people. I worked with him more than 20 years and he inspired me to work my best everyday just by being himself. To Linda, Corey, and Shane I hope and pray that you will find peace and happiness again soon. Always remember that he is watching over you and loves you very much. May his memories comfort you during the difficult times now and and in the future.
Wayne Wong
October 2, 2015
Dear Linda, I'm filled with sadness as I've just read of Tim's passing. We had just reconnected at the Elk Grove Animal Control Meeting a few weeks ago. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
Jeannie Lau Sumait
October 1, 2015
I had only met Tim a few times since meeting the family in 2006. He was a great man! My thoughts and prayers to the Mar family!
Tracy Bartlett and all of us at NCE
October 1, 2015
Tim was always so kind and such a nice person. He will be greatly missed. We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. We send our deepest condolences.
Pattie Woon ~ Anderson
September 30, 2015
When word was sent of your passing, from all of our childhood friends. My heart ached. You touched so many of our lives...even at a very young age.
May God be with you and watch over your family.
Pattie Woon - Anderson
September 30, 2015
No words can describe all the wonderful memories that we share together. From Wm Land, graduating Sac High together, all the way to College, and living catty corner to me.
You will always live in my heart, and everyone heart you touched forever.
Dave Parsh
September 29, 2015
Tim was my friend and teammate. As a teammate, he made all of us around him better. He studied seriously, played competitively, and made friends happily. He would work hard to beat you on the court and then be your best bud as soon as the contest ended. Tim will always have a special place in my heart. I would like to express my deepest condolences to all of the Mar family.
Carl Boyer. SAC HIGH FAMILY
September 29, 2015
I am sorry for everyone's loss...peace.
Edmund Lim
September 29, 2015
My deepest condolences and prayers to the Mar family for the loss of Tim. Rest in peace you are truely missed.
Victoria Castaneda - DCM Grp
September 29, 2015
Our Heartfelt Condolences to you and your whole family.
Christy and Daryl Lee
September 29, 2015
We will always remember Tim with a smile on his face. He was always ready to help with soccer and always with his boys. Our hearts go out to you Linda, Shane and Corey. We are so deeply sorry for you loss.
Peggy English
September 29, 2015
Tim was my brother-in-law's cousin. I only met Tim briefly years ago, but the kindness I received from his parents is unforgettable. From what my sister told me over the years, Tim was one of the most gentle children to his parents. While the loss of a beloved one is never easy, I couldn't begin to imagine the sorrow and pain Tim's parents are experiencing.
My sincere condolence and deepest sympathy to Tim's parents, also to Tim's wife and two sons.
Doug and Laurie Middleton
September 29, 2015
I will miss talking with Tim about family, kids, life, work, and sometimes politics. Our 'end of day' chats were always positive and up-lifting to me. Linda, Corey, Shane, and the extended Mar family, there are no words or deeds sufficient to comfort. Tim was a model--an exemplary man--who consistently put his family and community before himself, and inspired others toward that end. Your family remains in our hearts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
Robert Nguyen
September 29, 2015
I met Tim about 9 years ago while working at Caltrans Distrist 3. I called him a Gentle Giant, he is a nicest person you could work with and very generous with his time. I told him that my son interested in golf and since he is an excellent golfer, he offered to coach my son on his own time. Almost every weekend for months, he would drive out of his way to meet us at a golf course and teach my son how to play golf. My son is a very good golfer now thanks to Tim. It is sadden me to see unfortunate things happened to good people. We will miss you Tim !
Duane and Mary Wray
September 29, 2015
Tim lived a great life and left us with wonderful memories. We would have liked more, but he packed a lot into his 51 years here.
Bill Vanooyen
September 29, 2015
Tim was one of those people you meet in your life that you wish you were more like. His professionalism genuine concern for others and good nature are infectious. I am a better person after having the opportunity to work with Tim.
Del Grimm
September 29, 2015
My sincere condolences to you and the boys, and all of the Mar family. Rest in peace Tim .
Helena Allison
September 28, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Grief can be so hard but our special memories help us cope. May you have comfort in knowing how much Tim will be missed and what a great person he was.
ERIN TREADWELL
September 28, 2015
I met Tim for the first time at a City meeting on September 11, this year. We were at the same table for a day-long training. Between workshops we chatted at length about our kids. It was the first thing he mentioned when he introduced himself. I learned in a brief time that he loved his family, his kids, coaching and his job. And he was funny. I left with a feeling I was lucky to have met him and had a new colleague in the City. I can only imagine how heartbreaking this loss is for those who knew and loved him longer. He made such a strong, positive, impression. I trust that it will linger in the hearts of all who had to pleasure to meet Tim.
Sompol Chatusripitak
September 28, 2015
Tim was always generous with his time, kindness, and knowledge. He made time for all his direct reports and coworkers, no matter when and where. We frequently were the last people on the floor late in the evening and we would chat about work, our families, and the NBA. I am a newcomer at the City, but I have learned so much from Tim. While most engineers hate paperworks, Tim excelled in it and was always the go-to guy for others who found themselves lost in the paperwork maze. Tim always had a kind word for everyone, never a bad word for any. He had a keen sense of humor. His roast of Mehrdad Nazeri on the occasion of Mehrdad's retirement was a classic. I would not only miss him and his wisdom daily, but also am commited to supporting his family in every possible way.
Raquel Rich
September 28, 2015
There are no words to express the loss we all feel, without Tim. He was a very special person who has gone much too soon. He touched many lives with his caring and positive attitude.
My deepest sympathy to the Mar family for your great loss.
M Wilson
September 28, 2015
Please accept my condolences to your family on the loss of your loved one. May your memories and Jesus' words at John 11:32-44 bring your family comfort during this time of sorrow.
Ricky Chuck
September 27, 2015
It was an honor to have known and worked with Tim. Sincerity, humbleness, gentleness, optimism, considerateness, integrity, dedication, and professionalism will always be in our hearts and memories. Tim's legacy will love on through all of us whom he inspired.
Kelly Kingsley
September 27, 2015
Linda, Corey and Shane I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Tim will be missed. I respect and admired Tim. If you need anything from us please do not hesitate to call, we are here for you all. Love and Respect
Pat Clark
September 27, 2015
My deepest condolences to the Mar Family. At work, Tim was extremely professional, kind, highly skilled in his field of work and was very highly regarded by his colleagues at the City and beyond. I am very sorry for your loss.
Nader Kamal
September 27, 2015
Dear Tim,
I don't know how to say goodbye. Together we shared a long journey and developed a unique relationship based on trust and respect. We listened to, understood, relied on and supported each other. We agreed and disagreed on matters but it made our relationship stronger. You had my back and I had yours. We had a lot of fun years together and I will miss them. I don't know how the office is going to be without you.
I know you are in a better place and in God's hands. I will miss you my friend.
To Linda and Family I would like to extend my sincere condolences on the loss of a wonderful husband, father and son.
Nader Kamal.
Corita Henderson
September 27, 2015
I am so very sorry for the Mar family's loss. I am praying that God's Peace will surround the family through this incredibly difficult time.
Wendi Yee
September 27, 2015
My friend, Linda...I cannot tell you how sad I am to learn of Tim's passing. I think back to our Jumbo Market days (where it all began so many years ago), & still recall how kind & thoughtful he was to you... My heart aches for you. Please know that you are in my every thought. With Affection ~ Wendi Nomura-Yee
Jason & Cecilia
September 27, 2015
With deepest sympathy for loss of a wonderful son, a husband, a father, a friend and neighbor. We will miss him always.
Bonnie Kong
September 26, 2015
My condolence to the Mar family and the many cousins. May you all find peace from within... Blessings...
Diane Peloso
September 26, 2015
I was so sorry to hear of your enormous loss, Linda. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Carrie Farrimond
September 26, 2015
My sweet friend Linda. I am so very sorry for the loss of the love of your life, Tim. It was you who invited me into the scrapbook group one Friday night and I was so grateful to have made so many friends all at once, especially you. I remember all of the wonderful stories you would tell about Tim and the boys, and the happiness in your family always radiated from those stories. I cannot imagine how Corey and Shane must be feeling having lost their father at such a young age. But I am thankful you all have many family members close by to be there when you need them. Please let me know if I can help you or the boys in any way.
Ann Puig
September 26, 2015
We met Coach Mar at Sims Elem. Coach Mar was a very nice and kind hearted person. My prayers are with the entire Mar family. I'm so sorry for your loss. May he Rest In Paradise!
Winnie Ng
September 26, 2015
Missed a great role model for kids who is always encouraging kids to challenge themselves and buy them treats. Missed a great father who might not love soccer but will coach soccer because his kids want to play soccer. Missed a coach who had stepped up to the plate when he does not need another thing to keep him busy. I am sure your kids will grow up to be just like you because you have taught them with your actions.
Tony, Winnie, Matthew, Andrew Ng
Estelle Jones
September 26, 2015
My thoughts go out to you Linda and the Twins. Tim was a compassionate and kind man. I will never forget the conversations we had about our childhood days. He will be missed by many. My prayers are with you.
September 25, 2015
I was so saddened to learn of Tim's passing. He was always so kind, professional and stood out among the outstanding City employees. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Deborah Ortiz
Nicole, Scott, Ben, Jacob, & Rachel Ichimaru
September 25, 2015
We are so sorry for the loss of your precious husband and father. Tim was a joy, that smile of his light up every room he came into. We are praying that the Lord's unexplainable peace come over you and that God continue to watch over Linda, Shane, & Corey as they carry on his legacy. xoxo
Neal Albritton
September 25, 2015
Rest in peace my friend... you will be dearly missed.
Robin McCord-Harina
September 25, 2015
So very sorry your wonderful husband's life was cut short. God must have had a very special need for him. It was very easy to see by your FB posts and pictures that he was a good man, a loving father and your family was blessed to know him and share his life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sons Linda. His gifts will be with you always.
Colleen Carollo Laubinger
September 25, 2015
My deepest sympathy to the Mar Family. I worked with Tim for many years at the City of Sacramento. He was always smiling and always a pleasure to work with. Such a kind person and so young to have passed away. May you have comfort in knowing how much Tim was admired and how much he will be missed.
RuthAnn Mandella
September 25, 2015
Linda and family, I only met Tim one time at your home, but even as a long distance friend I know he was a wonderful man, father and husband. My family's prayers for God's peace and comfort are with you all.
Kristy Fischer
September 25, 2015
I have so many great memories of Tim as a child. He accepted me into his home and was always very kind and generous. I know he was an amazing father to his boys and a good husband. I am so sorry for your loss, my condolences to the entire Mar Family. Your all in my thoughts and prayers.
September 25, 2015
Our deepest sympathies to the entire Mar Family...
Donielle, David, Andrew & Ryan
Ann Burkhart
September 25, 2015
My heart goes out to the Mar family. I am very sorry for your loss.
Mrs. May Wong & Families
September 25, 2015
Our deepest sympathy to the family. We are so sorry for your loss.
Kelly O'Brien
September 25, 2015
I'm so sorry for your deep loss Linda, when I think of your husband Tim, I think of your boys too.
The three of them helping us with our doggie adoption days and Tim always having a smile on his face.
I can only imagine your heart ache,
Please know you are loved and many of us are here for you and the boys, whatever the need.
May the lord comfort, bless and keep you on this new journey.
You have an amazing heart Linda and you can do this, I believe it with all my heart.
September 25, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. Life goes by so fast but your memories will be with you always. God bless you.
Cynthia Corne (Roseville, CA)
Zuhair Amawi
September 25, 2015
It was a great honor to work with Tim for 15 years. He was bigger than life. He touched my heart and my life in many different ways. May the Lord be with you and your family. God Bless.
Eddie Kho
September 25, 2015
Our deepest condolences to the Mar Family. His brothers and sisters in the engineering profession will miss Tim's positive attitude and community spirit. May he rest in peace and may God watch over his family.
Sean Wong
September 25, 2015
I have known Tim since high school. Going to a rival school, we had much respect for how tough he was on the basketball court. I later got to know Tim better by playing in various city basketball leagues in our 20s and 30s and on the golf course. While being a great athlete was his gift, his talent was just being a nice and friendly guy. That pretty much summed up how anyone that got to know him well. Just such a nice guy. My prayers and thoughts are with his family.
Ann Burkhart
September 25, 2015
My heart goes out to the Mar family. I am so sorry your loss.
Dinah Fischer Gothmann
September 25, 2015
It was my honor to have known Tim when I worked for the City of Sacramento. He had an amazing smile and he was always kind and pleasant to be around. Tim was a true gentleman. He was professional, sincere and thoughtful of others. Tim left this life far too soon and will be greatly missed. My heartfelt condolences go out to Tim's family.
Gary Grunwald
September 25, 2015
Tim was one of those people that just thinking about him and the way he treated people brings a smile to your face. He had a very positive impact to everyone that knew him. I feel extremely fortunate to have known and worked with Tim. He will be deeply missed by the community. My deepest condolences to Tim's family.
ruiz daniel
September 25, 2015
May the lord be with you and your family you would be miss friend from work god bless
Salonga Family
September 24, 2015
We were saddened to hear the news of Tim. Our condolences go out to the Mar family and their close friends. Viewing the pics, I can see he was very involved with his family especially his kids. The pics are a reminder to cherish time spent with family and friends.
Otanis
September 24, 2015
Our deepest condolences to the family, prayers to family as well....
Teresa Lopes
September 24, 2015
My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to the Mar family. Tim was such an amazing person. The engineering community has experienced a great loss.
Brian Gallucci
September 24, 2015
Tim was one of the most amazing people that I have ever met. Caring, positive, genuine, wise.. he was both a mentor and a friend to me. He would have something uplifting and constructive to say at all of the right moments. I am a better man today for having known him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. God bless you all.
June Kashiwada & David Clendenen
September 24, 2015
Everyone who has met Tim has experienced the same...he was the nicest, sweetest, most caring man and he genuinely wanted to know how you are doing when he asked you. Our hearts are broken with his passing. Condolences to Linda, Corey, Shane, and the entire Mar family and extended families.
Dennis Haglan
September 24, 2015
Tim touched many people through his gift of instantly making you feel special and important with every encounter. He is truly one of the nicest people I have ever met and I was deeply saddened by the news of his passing. I feel fortunate to have known him for the time I did and I hope your family finds solace in knowing how many people he inspired.
September 24, 2015
Tim always greeted people with a smile and a moment of his time, no matter how busy he might have been. He was a positive influence, and made our days a little brighter for knowing him. Our condolences to the family for your loss.
Tom Buford and Family (Sacramento CA)
Dawn Bullwinkel
September 24, 2015
Condolences to the Mar family. The world and the City of Sacramento have lost a bright light and a kindness that we will miss.
Angelina Resurreccion
September 24, 2015
You always stood out of all people by your character, infectious smile and your big heart, those of us who got to know you were very lucky for having crossed paths with you, you now have God by your side.
Angelina Resurreccion
September 24, 2015
You always stood out of all people by your character, your big heart. and your infectious smile. Those of us who got to know you were very lucky for having crossed paths with you, you now have God by your side. ----Lina Resurreccion- City Clerks Office
Angie Louie
September 24, 2015
It was an honor to have known and worked with such a great man. Tim's legacy will live on through all the lives he has touched. Condolences and prayers to the Mar family.
September 23, 2015
Kim and family - our deepest condolences on the unexpected loss of Tim - your brother/son/husband/father. We cannot begin to know your grief, but know that we share your sadness. We are thinking of you -- Kevin and Melinda Hatano
Dan and Cooper Edwards
September 23, 2015
We knew him as Coach Tim, and loved him for his spirit, passion, and kindness. So happy to have had so much time playing basketball with Tim and his boys, where he said, "let's have fun and play some hoops," and "I love the sound of sneakers squeekin' on the hardwood."
Theron Roschen
September 23, 2015
A kinder man I have never met. May your family find comfort.
Eric Bost
September 23, 2015
I worked with Tim on the Federal Highway Bridge Advisory Committee. I'm shocked to hear of his passing. I really enjoyed working with him. So sorry for your loss.
Cheryl DiVittorio
September 23, 2015
My heart breaks for you all. You are heavy on it and in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord be your strength, comfort and peace, and may He hold your hand through your grief.
Brandy Prather-Payne
September 23, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Paige Johnson
September 22, 2015
Rest in peace
Geri Keskeys
September 22, 2015
My heart is heavy for the Mar family. It is so hard to understand why things happen, but I do know their faith will continue to strengthen each one of them. Praying without ceasing for all of you. Love you
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