Darren D. Fleck

1965 - 2019

Darren D. Fleck obituary, 1965-2019, Durham, CT

Darren D. Fleck

1965 - 2019

BORN

1965

DIED

2019

Darren Fleck Obituary

Published by Middletown Press on Aug. 27, 2019.
Fleck, Darren D.
Darren Denver Fleck, 54, of Durham, husband of Jerilyn (DeSantis) Fleck, passed unexpectedly on Sunday, August 25, 2019 at Middlesex Hospital. He was born in Baltimore, MD, son of Marlene (Denver) Fleck of Durham, to whom he was a devoted son and caretaker too, and the late Howard M. Fleck. Son-in-law to Frances and Joseph DeSantis of Richmond, RI. Darren, aka Double D, graduated Xavier High School Class of '83 and then earned his Bachelor's Degree at the University of Vermont. He was a talented baseball player playing both in high school and college. Darren retired after 20 years at Mount St. John School in Deep River. He coached local Ahern Whalen and American Legion Baseball. He was an avid Colts and Yankee fan. Darren cherished life and lived with no regrets. His biggest joy was to spend time with his sons. In addition to his wife and mother, Darren is survived by sons, Bryce D. Fleck and Drue D. Fleck of Durham; sister, Lorraine Ruck Renner and husband Karl Renner of Middletown; brother/sister-in-law Joseph and Sherry DeSantis of Pelham, AL; sister/brother-in-law Julienne and Michael Kelly of Narragansett, RI and nieces and nephews, Danielle and Rick Merrill, Nicolas DeSantis, Stuart DeSantis, Travis Kelly, Kyle Kelly, great-niece, Courtney Merrill, great-nephew Jordan Merrill and great-great-niece, Lilyanna White; along with many extended family and friends. Family and friends may gather at Carmella's on the Extension, 139 Main St. Extension, Middletown, on Saturday (Aug. 31st) from 2 to 5 p.m. with a Words of Remembrance Service at 4:30 p.m. In keeping with Darren's wishes, casual attire and no Patriot's clothing. "DRINK A BEER - SALUT! In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made for the benefit of his sons to the Fleck Brothers' College Fund, 14 Clementel Drive, Durham, CT 06422. Biega Funeral Home has care of the arrangements. To share memories or express condolences online, please visit
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September 15, 2019

Lulu W. F. Cortez posted to the memorial.

September 15, 2019

Amanda Amtmanis posted to the memorial.

September 14, 2019

Kathy Way posted to the memorial.

Lulu W. F. Cortez

September 15, 2019

Jerilyn and Fleck Family,
I am so sorry to hear about this unexpected loss.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
All my love and prayers to you, the boys, and Fleck Family.
❤Lulu W. F. Cortez

Amanda Amtmanis

September 15, 2019

I am so sorry for your devastating loss!

Kathy Way

September 14, 2019

Lori, Jerilyn and family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I enjoyed watching Darren play American Legion
baseball.

Lisa, Sam & Kasen Mehta

August 31, 2019

Jerilyn, Bryce, Drue and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Darren. Our heart breaks for you and all who knew Darren as a wonderful husband, father and friend. May wonderful memories comfort you during the difficult times. Distance prevents us from being with you today but know that we are thinking of you and sending hugs.

Robin Clark

August 30, 2019

My deepest condolences for Jeri, her boys, & everyone who loved Darren. May you find peace.

Kristin and John Palo

August 30, 2019

Jerilyn and boys,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved husband and father. Darren was so much fun to be around and was truly an awesome Dad. Cherish every wonderful memory because they will get you through the worst of times. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
Love and peace,
The Palos
John, Kristin, Johnny, Julia and Rylee. Xoxo

Jessica Johnson

August 28, 2019

Jerilyn and boys, so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. Prayers go out to you and your extended family. Jessica(Whitman)Johnson.

Lorraine Ruck-Renner

August 28, 2019

Baby Brother I love and adore you. I'll miss so much. I'll remember our childhood and all our laughs we had. How you bribed me so many times. You were hilarious. I'll miss that

Connie Raymond

August 27, 2019

Jerilyn, Bryce and Dru, I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your husband and Dad. Our prayers go out to all of you.

Connie & Raianne Raymond

Sue Ann Burgess

August 27, 2019

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Cheryl Daniels

August 27, 2019

Darren was a great friend to my son Jeffrey. He was so proud of his family and showed them so much love. Jeff and I are so very sorry for you loss, words cannot describe our sorrow. We hope wonderful memories will keep all of you strong knowing how much he loved you. Rest in peace dear Darren.

With Love,
Cheryl and Jeffrey Daniels

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