David Anthony Avitabile

David Anthony Avitabile, 86, of Cos Cob, Connecticut, passed away peacefully of old age on August 2, 2024.

David, affectionately known as "The Shirl" to some, was born in Paterson, New Jersey, to Guido and Lucy Avitabile. He grew up in Port Chester, New York and built a vast and strong network of lifelong friends who remained with him until the end. His Aunt, Clara Acunto, was the CEO of The Atlantic Bottling Works, on Bush Ave. in Port Chester, NY and as a child he would often deliver bottles of soda to the local shops. He later attended Iona Prep in New Rochelle, NY Class of 1956, though he was, according to his friends, an adopted member of Port Chester High School's Class of 1957, even attending class reunions for many years. After serving his country honorably in the U.S. Army as a member of the 82nd Airborne Division, Dave returned to Port Chester, where he continued to cultivate these enduring friendships that were a source of great joy and support throughout his life.

Dave was a man of many roles and talents. A veteran who proudly served his country, Dave continued to give back to his community as a dedicated member of the Cos Cob Fire Police Patrol for 28 years. He joined the Patrol in 1996 and remained active until his health prevented him from responding any longer. During his time with the Patrol, Dave became known for his dedication, bravery, and the positive influence he had on those around him. He was a sound ear to listen to problems at the firehouse, personal issues, or simply share his wisdom on body building, nutrition, and life, always accompanied by a few good-witted jokes. The Patrol remembers him fondly: "Dave will be missed by all of us. We could all use a few more Daves in our lives."

Dave played an active role in the fabric of the Greenwich Country Day School community serving in many capacities as a weightlifting coach, a Lower School Science Lab caretaker, among others. Over the years, Dave could be found at the faculty lunch tables sharing stories with faculty and staff alike and always had time and energy to give to his colleagues and the students.

His faith was a guiding force in his life, and he was a devoted member of his church. He was a man who loved unconditionally, both people and animals, always showing kindness and generosity to all.

Dave was the kind of person who would brighten your day with a reliable Sunday conversation, lending a listening ear or a comforting word when needed. His warmth and wisdom made him a cherished confidant and a loyal friend. Those who knew him describe him as a steadfast presence in their lives, someone who could always be counted on for support and a good laugh.

Dave is survived by his brother, Paul, and his niece, Rena, and an immense extended family of friends and loved ones who will deeply miss him.

A memorial service will be held at 10:40 AM on Saturday, September 7, 2024, at St. Timothy's Chapel, 1034 North Street, Greenwich, CT 06830, where family and friends will gather to celebrate his life. Following the service, there will be a celebration of Dave's life from 12:00 PM to 3:00 PM at the Greenwich Water Club, 49 River Rd, Cos Cob, CT 06807, open to all friends and family who wish to honor his memory and share in the joy of his remarkable life.

In lieu of flowers, donations to the Cos Cob Fire Police Patrol would be greatly appreciated, honoring Dave's spirit of service and commitment to his community.

Dave's passing leaves a void that will be felt by all who knew him, but his legacy of kindness, service, and love will continue to inspire. He will be remembered as a father figure, a brother, an uncle, a man of faith, and above all, a true friend to many.

Donations may be made at http://www.ccfpp.org or mailed to Cos Cob Fire Police Patrol, PO Box 202, Cos Cob, CT 06807.