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David Bickham Obituary
David Lawrence Bickham, 79, died June 25, 2011, after a long illness. He was a loving and compassionate man, a friend to all and a mentor to many.
Multi-talented, he liked to say he had at least four professions in his lifetime. The 1st started at the age of 14 on Indian Lake at Orchard Island, Ohio, when he was lured into outboard motor racing by his "big" brother, Ira. He was active in racing for more than 50 years and that was largely responsible for his being in the marine industry for many years as a mechanic and, later as co-owner of Brevard Marine Service, Inc.
"Bones", as he was known by friends in Ohio, graduated from Washington Township Rural School in Lewistown, Ohio, in 1950. He enlisted and served a 4 year stint in the USAF and 13 years in the USAF Reserves which laid the groundwork for a career in electronics.
In 1952 David and Betty Hayden were married in the Russell's Point, Ohio Community Church.
As an engineer he was part of the Bomarc Missile Program in Washington and New Jersey. A transfer to Alabama changed his focus from missiles to the Saturn Booster program. As a youth, David had spent winters in Florida with his parents at Bradenton Beach, Florida. In 1966 he was delighted to transfer to Florida, a lifetime goal, and became part of the Apollo program. He was particularly proud of being part of the "Man on the Moon" Apollo 11 launch team.
In 1970, rather than leave Florida, David took a layoff and with several partners opened Brevard Marine Service. For over 30 Years he helped Brevard County boaters until Parkinson's forced his retirement. He was a member of Rotary and the APBA (American Power Boat Association) for many years, taught small engine/outboard repair at Brevard Community College and served as president of the Brevard Marine Association.
David was preceded in death by his eldest son, Robert David, in 2010. He is survived by Betty, his wife of 59 years; and three children, Joanna Stone (Joe, son, Michael Mock), Kay Jean Paredes (Joe, daughters, Ryan Joann Rendon (George) and Meagan Fivecoats, sons, Joseph and Mathew Paredes) and William Lawrence Bickham (Cheryll, sons, Stephen and Ryan); six great-grandchildren, (Jonathan, Justin, Ava and Savanna Rendon, Brendan and Bristol Tamburro); and brother, Ira Ralston "Bick" Bickham (Kathleen).
A Celebration of Life will be held at a date to be announced later.
DB (Daddy Bear), you will be sorely missed more "than the usual bear" by your family and friends.
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Ryan Joann
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Betty J Bickham
April 28, 2024
92 years old today, my love, and some changes in the world that seemed to rush by. A number of your old jobs, starting with the Bomarc Missile system to the Astronauts at NASA, Fl., are gone. Private, more or less, business sending projects and people to the space station (it has grown a well) and some getting ready for the moon again and further. Many countries are involved not only in the US station but working towards their own. Some of your own grandchildren are now grandparents themselves and pictures are here. I live in a senior community (55 and older only) and I think you would like it. Only two cats these days but one of them is an old , personal friend of yours, Stipes, who is 18 years old this year. He is still operates as having one friend only. Took him awhile to pick a new one, but is a loving little fellow. I will say that missing you has not gone away, and seems to crop up at times that it is just as it was initially. Memory of the darndest things can cause such an upheaval such as a roaster oven or a soft toy you gave me. As ever, still missing your company, humor, and love, Betty
Betty J Bickham
April 28, 2024
92 years old today, my love, and some changes in the world that seemed to rush by. A number of your old jobs, starting with the Bomarc Missile system to the Astronauts at NASA, Fl., are gone. Private, more or less, business sending projects and people to the space station (it has grown a well) and some getting ready for the moon again and further. Many countries are involved not only in the US station but working towards their own. Some of your own grandchildren are now grandparents themselves and pictures are here. I live in a senior community (55 and older only) and I think you would like it. Only two cats these days but one of them is an old , personal friend of yours, Stipes, who is 18 years old this year. He is still operates as having one friend only. Took him awhile to pick a new one, but is a loving little fellow. I will say that missing you has not gone away, and seems to crop up at times that it is just as it was initially. Memory of the darndest things can cause such an upheaval such as a roaster oven or a soft toy you gave me. As ever, still missing your company, humor, and love, Betty
Ryan Joann
May 14, 2023
Grandma had a glorious Mother's day, it was definitely one for the books! We surprised her with "gourmet" apple butter, a beautiful Highwaymen-esque painting, and a handpainted "Another day in paradise" sign. That last one may have tugged at the heart strings a little, but it was all in love. Then we cooked her dinner and had a lovely visit. It was an amazing day, but your absence was definitely felt.
I miss you more than yesterday, but less than tomorrow.
I love you.
Ryan Joann
November 7, 2022
You would be enthralled and in love with these two great-great-grandbabies of yours. They are amazing little people
You're missed more than yesterday and less than tomorrow....always.
Betty Bickham
November 5, 2022
It is hard to believe that 70 years ago we were within days of getting married. You had washed and polished the little coup only to have friends write all sorts of things on it using bonami and tie a variety things on the back bumper. It rained on the way to Florida, men at the gas station in Georgia made cracks about the comments on the car and we had a wonderful time. You did note, however, that you wanted to live in Florida eventually. Well, thank you to the AF electronics education, eventually the Bomarc program got us there, and that in the 1960's. It did take the furniture a month or so to get there after we did (It went to New Orleans but it was another 10 years before we did), but you already had the hydroplane and racing trailer here so, all worked out really well. Shuttle program took over KSC and life, kids growing up, college for parents, a business started with friends, and you were in your heart's desire place to live. We found a great place to retire, at the end of a canal, but sadly so did some health problems. First, we lost Robert, and then I lost you. Recently, I read in the 'narrative' that I started in about 2000 the adventures of our family and travels and especially the section you narrated and wrote for me about you and your relatives. You cannot know how I treasure those words. Even those that talked about a 50 gallon drum of castor oil in the basement for racing fuel. We had nearly 60 years together and all the memories surely emphasize what a great husband you were, a kind , loving family man, a treasured friend to many . It is a loss that is endured, but seems without relief of sadness or missing the companionship and love of your nearness. I will offer up one yearly anniversary thought, just for you, that even family would remember: Mexican dinner to celebrate, but.... desert first. Till next year, my love.
Ryan Joann
June 19, 2022
Happy Father's Day. You will always be the best surrogate "daddy" a lost little girl could ever have or have asked for. Oh, Grandpa, my Grandpa. I wish you here, but just know that your beautiful bride is loved and respected and protected and safe. I have my flaws, but I do everything in my power to keep you proud of me.
I love you more than yesterday, but less than tomorrow and you are missed every day.
Joanna L. Bickham-Stone
June 17, 2022
Happy Heavenly Father's Day! Wish you were here to protect and love me like you always did! I miss you this year more than ever. Love always! Squirrel Bait
Squirrel Bait
April 28, 2021
Happy Birthday in Heaven to my beloved Daddy Bear. We are his legacy and born of his childhood love of fast boats and two stroke engines! Love you always! Your youngest and Brevard Marine Service, Inc
Betty Bickham
July 3, 2020
It is difficult to believe that it has been 67 years since we were driving in the dark through Columbus Ohio towards Lockbourne AFB where our first child, Robert David would be born on the 4th. I am not sure when he finally realized that all the fireworks that were produced every year on the 4th of July were NOT for just him but then, we never discouraged that either. He was a great kid, boy and man. He is right next to you in Columbarium A of the Cape Canaveral National Cemetery in Mims, Fl. The corona virus keeps us close to home even now, and probably will for several more months. The flue of 1919 took 2 years to finally be "gone" so perhaps if a vaccine is developed we won't have as many deaths as then. I do hope that on our anniversary, a jaunt to a Mexican restaurant and sopapillias may happen. Love and hugs.....
Joanna Bailey-Stone
April 28, 2020
Happy 88th Birthday in Heaven to the best Dad, Daddy, Father, role model, mentor and friend a girl could ever ask for! My heart is broken everyday you are gone but it was you who helped me be the strong person I am today. I love you and miss you, always. Your youngest and always your "squirrel bait".❤ "Better than the average bear" Daddy Bear.
Betty J Bickham
April 28, 2020
Good morning, dear heart, 88th birthday! I had sort of planned on a Mexican lunch for us to day at one of our favorite restaurants but it seems a coronavirus pandemic has pretty much eliminated just whipping out to a casual lunch these days. I suppose that can be delayed a little while but then we planned on eating desert first as you had taken up doing, sopapillias, but no doubt I could wait a bit for those as well. Joanna sent me a picture of Frenchie yesterday that you would enjoy, a "pot hanger" she calls him. He is such a smart "little" cat (tubby) and it is a shame at times that he is a typical male tomcat. Not an aggressive one though. I will see about getting a couple of pictures on line for you. We have two great-great grandchildren now, Emiliana and Robert David Rendon. Yep, Robert David, named after his daddy and grand-dad. How about that. Our own Robert David is probably pleased as well. Anyway, Bick still doing well, not sure if he will get to Ohio this summer. Sort of depends on how the pandemic affects travel coming up. Jon and Doug have been taking him back and forth as opposed to flying, which is almost non existent right now. Heard from Jan Wilt, the pianist at our wedding almost 68 years ago. Maybe my Mexican lunch plans will be all okay by November. Really nice note from Ray Heurtin last year. Love and hugs, ....
July 7, 2019
Hard to believe but 50th anniversary of Apollo 11 upon us. How can that be? Lots of video programs currently available about it on TV plus a theater version as well. Never did get to see First man in the theater but will probably be on line soon. Had an aortic heart valve replaced if you can believe that! Darn near same day surgery, well closer to a couple but all things considered, if one ignores all the arterial plumbing involved. apparently the doc's have it down to an art form. In, wham, bam, thank you mam, have a safe trip home! Paredes here for a couple of days so that was a bonus for me for having to have the procedure done. Was in a BIG hospital in Orlando. Almost forgot what a a big hospital looked like. Traffic is absolutely awful around them in Orlando.....but then, it is almost everywhere over there. Renewed my drivers license this month but haven't driven for nearly a year. Titusville changing, maybe even growing a little bit. Maybe will pick up when we start the push for Mars....wonder if I will see man at least going around it....you suppose? Wonder if there will be any sort of a 50 year gathering for the souls that were part of that beautiful day? More than yesterday, less than tomorrow my love.....
Ray Heurtin
June 25, 2019
Miss this old friend and think of how he made my job a lot easier. Had many good years of friendship with Dave and Family.
April 28, 2019
April 28, 2019 Happy 87th dear heart, birthday dinner here at the house for you. Rendons, Stones, Tony and son, and me on a beautiful day. Ryan says Jonathan has new baby on way so will make two plus previous 2 for him. Paredes here in March for brief visit when I had surgery. Got to meet their little grandson. New pictures of a bunch of family in Ohio and Oregon. Will have to sort through pictures for a few to add here. 8 years almost..........miss you more than yesterday, less than tomorrow........without end.
November 8, 2018
A really nice day today. Lunch with Ryan Joann at El Leoncita, opening with sopapillias, then nacho's with the works for both of us plus taco's for Ryan. DB, you would have liked the honey drizzled sopapillias. Nice memory day, good company, thank you Ryan.
Mike and Michelle, Dec 1 2018 to wed
Betty Bickham
November 1, 2018
Savanna and aligator
Betty Bickham
November 1, 2018
New National Cemetery in Brevard Cty
Betty Bickham
November 1, 2018
Rendon Military group
Betty Bickham
November 1, 2018
Frenchie #4, found on fence in the rain
Betty Bickham
November 1, 2018
Emilianna Joann
Betty Bickham
November 1, 2018
Ava and aligator
Betty Bickham
November 1, 2018
Jonathan and Lana
Betty Bickham
November 1, 2018
Betty J Bickham
November 1, 2018
I wanted to add a few things for our 66th anniversary on Nov 8th. Haven't done so since a year ago. Not sure why, but it hasn't been for lack of thinking of you. Jonathan got married and he and his bride, Lana, had a cutie named Emiliana Joann born last March. She joins our ranks as our first great, great granddaughter. He is in the army now, only a few months, rather than the Marines, and Justin has been in the army close to 2 years, currently in Hawaii. The Rendon Sr.s now live in Titusville, just down the street, but George won't be out of the army for about a year yet. Retiring if you can believe that. George gets home at intervals so in a way, it is like another deployment for them. I will ask Ryan to update photos of the girls. Both of the Paredes boys are married and have a little boy each. There was a nice ceremony for you and Robert at the new national cemetery in Mims this past spring. That will be one of the pictures I post this year, plus Emily, and a few others. Maybe even that silly cat that the Stones found hanging on a fence last year, now called Frenchie. He is a delightful, clever animal. And speaking of cats, Stripes, your devoted fan is still with us, just as cranky as ever, and no doubt misses you as much if not more than the rest of us. He had a hard time adapting to anyone else in your absence. Joanna still spends her days at BMS, haven't seen RJ in several months of Sundays or longer, but I don't think they spend a lot of time in FL any more. Have 2 other homes out of state that provide them more comfortable weather. New movie out now called First Man' about the first man to walk on the moon. Remember the day of launch? Bick going to Washington DC to spend a couple of days as a guest of a veterans group that Honors Veterans periodically with a trip there. We wrote letters so he would have mail call' on the way.
Talked with Michael recently about the trip you and he made to Mexico. He had a good time with you. He was promoted in the police dept. this year, and now works with a police dog. He will be married to Michelle Dec. 1. He will be using your wedding ring, just a tad small so will be stretched'. He seems pleased to have it, I think you would pleased to know how it continues in the family66 years ago that we went to Lima and bought our rings. The birthday kids are due also, Ryan Joann and Jonathan, Nov. 7 and 9. My beloved, so much around changes, moves on but nothing changes in how I miss you.
November 8, 2017
Well, here we are, 65 years ago, finally about ready to head for Florida.....first you had to get some of the bon-ami cleaning stuff signs that your "friends" wrote stuff on your fresh polished little Plymouth coup. The guys at the motels we stopped at smirked a lot and made smart remarks about it. You insisted I rent the room. Mercy. Sprinkled rain off and on during the day but the reception at the folks house was nice. Lots of friends there, of course with more smart remarks. Ryan had her birthday yesterday and Jonathan has his tomorrow. Ryan said today that Justin is to go to Hawaii for his duty station. She doesn't think that George will be sent overseas any more due to what he does now, something to do with getting troops ready for shipping out. Lots of time away from home for whatever training and readiness preps but at least close to home where they are in LA now. We have a NEW Frenchie, #4 even though one is named Chico. He escaped from where ever and was hanging on a fence in the rain crying and Joe heard him and Joanna kept him. Was to stay at the store as new store cat, but Irma tore up the roof, so he had to stay here until roof was fixed and that was the end of him being a store cat. He is near 6 months old, a little firecracker when one considers that your cat, Stripes, is now 12 years old. The other cats put up with him and so far other than a lot of high speed leaps and bounds, he seems almost indestructible and Jo says he is fearless. Greased lightening at the very least. Tearful days this week with your absence marked as with quote marks with the birthdays. Missing you remains overwhelming a good share of the time. I know you are near but I would rather be with you.
Betty Bickham
June 16, 2017
Well, here we are two days before Father's Day and closing on on the 6th anniversary of Parkinson's winning the race, so to speak. I was wondering today how many boat races were where we celebrated a Father's day. I suspect a number of them as were just about any number of birthdays or other holidays. They were, by far more meaningful, just family days and we did have some really good times. Have to say, though, that a Howard Johnson's was more my idea of camping out than a Rambler with tail gate tent. Those boys, really thought sleeping in a hydro with a rain cover to keep them covered was pretty neat camping. Outgrew them in nothing flat. Girls never tried it, not their style I guess. There are plans, have no idea how firm, that we might be sending a vehicle to mars in the next few years. And, of all things, a 'tourist trip' is being planned for a jaunt around the moon. Priced and already paid for by some. Private company will be doing the honors, not a NASA project. Who would have thunk it? All those years at Fort Wayne, Seattle, New Jersey, Huntsville and Titusville with the Bomarc, Boosters and launches of the Apollo and finally the shuttle. I rather doubt anyone involved in the space program ever had doubts that man would traipse around on the moon eventually or visit even further...but it is amazing to think where it has been and watch it continue to evolve. I don't know that you would have volunteered for a trip but I know you would have been excited to see the progress. As usual, miss you, love and hugs. Oh, lest I forget, Joseph Paredes is now the daddy of our newest great grandson, Christopher. This next month Justin will be in the army, Jonathan has been a marine 2 years. Time has a way of whizzing by, kids growing up,
Betty Bickham
January 1, 2017
This is a bitter sweet New Year's day, all 3 of the Bickham men in my life are now together. Bill died in December after a relatively brief bout with cancer. Joanna and I were able to spend a few days with him and his family in the early part of November while he was still relatively well. It does not get any easier I must say.
Brother Bick and William
Betty Bickham
November 9, 2016
Betty Bickham
November 9, 2016
Betty Bickham
November 9, 2016
Betty Bickham
November 9, 2016
Betty Bickham
November 9, 2016
I added a few pictures today, one of them being your newest great grand baby, Aiden Paredes.....a total of 7 now. Also, a copy of one the Bomarc that you were very involved with before the Apollo program. Your first great grand son, Jonathan, is here along with his men folk.
Betty J Bickham
November 8, 2016
Well, here it is the morning of our 64th wedding anniversary and wouldn't you know, it is the election day to pick the new president from a pair of marginal candidates. The people of this country should have so outstanding a candidate to choose as I had so many years ago. At any rate, yesterday was Ryan Joann's birthday and tomorrow is Jonathan's. It turns out, a "new" relative, one of dad's eldest brother grandsons, Mike, also a MacKay, is a Facebook friend, of a sort. At any rate, his birthday is Nov. 6 so I suppose that means something, or not. Personally, I suppose that all is well here, but then I do not have a definition of what that actually means since I have only the warmth of your memory. I do miss you and love you and hope you know my thoughts. My love.........always.
April 28, 2016
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAPA, NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT YOU ARE ROBERT. LOVE YOU KAY JEAN
April 28, 2016
Happy Birthday, Dad! We miss you each and every day. :-( You'd be so proud of all your kids and grandkids. I work every day to be just like you. Funny, kind and (this ones pretty hard) smart.
Love you then, now and forever!
Betty Bickham
April 27, 2016
Well, I am trying to type this with your cat, Stripes, on my lap. He only has room in his life for one Human and since you aren't here to give him belly rubs and back scratches, I have been elected. He barely tolerates Chico or any one else for that matter that enters my room. Hisses and spits and is otherwise obnoxious. Your birthday tomorrow and I am beyond lonely for you.....not lonely for lack of people around, but your absence is so profound.
Your eldest daughter is looking forward to a new grandson, due on her birthday, by Matthew and Lauren. Joseph has been home for a number of months and seems to be doing well at this time. Kay and Joe were here briefly this spring bringing Meagan and her 2 kids with them. Totally unexpected but nice visit.
November 9, 2015
Spent yesterday milling around town, movie, shopping and whatever, thinking about 63 years ago. At 2pm, was watching NASA figure out how they were going to rescue an astronaut. Quasi-appropriate in a way. Decided not to have a Mexican dinner, which would have been most appropriate, so headed home and ate the Twix bar that Joanna bought for me, sort of a anniversary present of a sort. Titusville is changing, so I expect am I, but you would still recognize it. Penny's is gone, as is the whole shopping center, and mostly now a lot of upheaval in the parking lot. I suppose by this time next year the new center proposed for the site will at least be started. I am still waiting................miss you every bit as much if not more.
June 27, 2015
Four years now, come and gone as of the 25th. I am still waiting to join you. I suppose that it is fair to say that do not grieve with so many tears now, but it doesn't take a lot to push them out. Looking at a some pictures on the wall where you are walking along with a toddler hanging on to your hand. I wonder how your mother managed all those years after Ira died. Strong lady, but then we always knew that. I love you more than yesterday, less than tomorrow, and miss your humor, companionship and presence. You were and are forever, a truly good man.
April 28, 2015
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Ryan Joann Rendon
April 28, 2015
Happy birthday, grandpa, my grandpa. I miss you more everyday and you still are and always will be my favorite boy.
Another fun day......
David Bickkham
April 27, 2015
April 27, 2015
Well, another birthday, so Joe, Joanna and I (plus Sam and Jack) day tripped to Chico's in Putnam Cty. for our favorite Mexican Food. The place hasn't changed much, food is still great and we had a lovely time of it. Went out to see the Ft. ferry, still running believe it or not, just not the day we were there. The little boat that nudges the ferry across the river is referred to as a "tug boat"............well I am not sure I would call anything about the size of a john boat a tug, but I guess they can call it what ever they want. Not sure I venture out if any white caps apparent. This day was beautiful, lunch was grand and a major empty spot was yours at the table as we ate. I still remember your "joke" when you told Joanna we couldn't have Mexican for Christmas dinner. One of your better "gotcha" lines. Love always...bjb
Ben Johnson
January 22, 2015
Dave, I was just going through my address book, saw your name and thought I would check up. I did not realize you had passed. For the family, I was one of many "Dave fans" during his time with Brevard Marine Service. I was probably one of many protoges he enjoyed bantering about with about Evinrude outboards and such. He taught me a lot as I maintained my own small boats, and never didn't have a moment to discuss something (although I'm now certain he had other more important things to do). He's one of the people I genuinely am happy to have known. We stayed in contact only briefly after I moved away from Florida in 1994, but each time I did see him it was a great experience. Dave, you definitely left your mark on the hearts of many - enjoy the peace you are experiencing now.
Sincerely - Ben Johnson
Ryan Joann
November 9, 2014
Oh, grandpa, my grandpa. You are missed everyday and then some. You would be so awesomely proud of this lovely little legacy you left behind, especially with today being Jonathan's 19th birthday (you know, the day AFTER your anniversary :-) ) and him also being a bona fide Marine now. Time flies so fast and even faster when you're having fun. I wish you could be here to see it all and share it with us.
Jonathan David Rendon, our new Marine
November 8, 2014
Well Daddy Bear, lots going on. So, on our 62nd, most recent news is Jonathan graduated from Marine basic training and after a 10 day leave went off to "combat training" although he is supposed to be some sort of supply person. However I cannot imagine that should some sort of serious incident occurs he would be left behind to do supplies at home. Anyway, Ryan is a bundle of mixed emotions and stresses what with George in Afghanistan and Jonathan now a marine. Jo and Joanna are more or less moved in and mostly more or less moved out of their place. 7 of her cats are here now and occasional out breaks of loud caterwauling occur about once or so daily, mostly stare-downs. Generous spritzing upsets them one and all. Bick and Kathy still reasonably well as are the rest of us. If you have the option, a little gentle watching over of our Marines would be appreciated (I know George is in the army but in as much as he started as a marine, "once a Marine, always a Marine"). I am ready, any time you are. I am beyond lonely without you.
June 17, 2014
Well, here we are, 3 years this evening since you left while sleeping. I have envied you so many times that I have not done the same. Anyway, just in case you don't know, the cats and I have taken up residence in the 12 by 25 foot room that Robert called home. Now, that is a SNUG fit, at least for me and a wide variety of projects, books and varied belongings. Cats are NOT wildly thrilled about the whole situation. I am a bit indifferent about the situation in that I am not particularly interested in a number of "hobbies" or activities that have followed or consumed me during the years. Downsizing has been a way of life now since we moved into the condo altho not as much as in the last few years. Can't give up clothes yet since too many people still show up. Might cure them of dropping in though. I got through fathers day, but today is just about too much. On a lighter note, a picture of a "dress" I recently made from one of Joanna's former gowns. I love and miss you every day.
June 15, 2014
Happy Father's Day my wonderful, miss your humor and wisdom every single day!
Wish you were here for a big ole mexican dinner in your honour!! Squirrel Bait
April 28, 2014
Well, dear heart, it has not got easier so will give you a short review of happenings: Jonathan graduates from HS this year and shortly thereafter will head for marine boot camp. RJ's grandson Albert won a $100,000 science award. George remarried, and Jo and JOe will be moving in here in the fall. At least looking like that at the moment.
I continue to hear your voice "in the next room" regularly. I"M ready to join you most any time. I had no idea how much your absence would affect me.....it never occurred that you would be first. Not fair but then life was never a sure thing was it? I appreciate that the love was such a sure thing and lasted as long as it did.
Miss you!!!!!!
Joanna Bickham-Stone
April 28, 2014
Happy Birthday in heaven Dad! Love and miss you always!
March 23, 2014
I was reminded so graphically re your ability to love unconditionally by a posting on FB tonight. Sent a copy to Jo and she immediately said it sounded like you. So here I sit in a puddle of tears, missing you as much now as ever.
Thanksgiving 2001. Two of my favorite people!
November 28, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving, Dad! I love and miss you every day, just feels lonelier on the holidays with out you.
Joanna
June 16, 2013
Sort of a mixed day for Fathers Day....we missed you greatly but we "borrowed" Bick, Kathy and Doug for the day. Bick has been having a tough time of late and Joanna, Joe and I wanted to maybe ease it a bit for him and be selfish for us to share Fathers Day with him. Joanna has my favorite picture on Face Book of you and Jo with what I call the "kiss". It is a wonderful picture of a really special moment of you both. Still lonely for you my love.
June 15, 2013
The world's best Grandpa!
June 15, 2013
His favorite past time!
June 15, 2013
Happy Father's Day in Heaven Daddy Bear! I love you to infinity and beyond!
Ryan Joann Rendon
May 18, 2013
I miss you more everyday.
May 17, 2013
The loss of a father
Is a heavy burden to bear.
He's a source of quiet strength
That is so missed when he's not there.
Take comfort he's in Heaven,
And looking down at you.
He'll be there through the coming years,
Watching over and guiding you.
He's your very own guardian angel,
And he'll be with you to the end,
When you meet again in Heaven,
And your broken heart will finally mend.
April 27, 2013
There is not a day that the want of you does not grow stronger.
Betty Bickham
April 27, 2013
Betty Bickham
April 27, 2013
Betty Bickham
April 27, 2013
April 25, 2013
Happy 81st birthday in heaven Dad. I miss you as much today as the day you went away. Love always, squirrel bait.
April 14, 2013
January 3, 2013
Happy New Year in heaven, Dad!! I miss you so much each and every day! I find myself sounding more like you every day. Your humorous quips and sage advice has stuck with me. Love you! Your youngest! :-)
November 8, 2012
I remember the day as if we were there again today..........Nov. 8, 1952. Rarely lonely these days but so lonesome for you.
November 8th, 1952, the beginning of so many good memories. I miss you, love.
November 7, 2012
DB and Jo at one of his last races
Betty Bickham
June 30, 2012
Dad and Jack sharing a moment!
Joanna
June 29, 2012
Dad and Jack! Jack loved Dad as much as Dad loved Jack!
Mike and Gr. B
Betty Bickham
June 29, 2012
Michael didn't make Mexico trip with Gr & Gr. B
Betty Bickham
June 29, 2012
One head scratcher for Gr. B teaching another
Betty Bickham
June 29, 2012
Betty, David, Robert, Kay and Joanna 2008
Betty Bickham
June 29, 2012
2008 family group
Betty Bickham
June 29, 2012
David, Robert, Kay Jean, Joanna and Betty
June 29, 2012
Michael David Bickham Mock, grandson
Betty Bickham
June 29, 2012
Betty Bickham
June 28, 2012
It has now been a year since my love and companion of nearly 56 years died. I have trouble still with tears thinking of him and missing him. It has reminded me that 3 of the important men of my life are now gone.
My dad died a few years ago. He was a full fledged character, full of Western lore and tried diligently to put some of it to paper using a computer. When something it took hours for him to get typed up disappeared never to be found again he was less than charitable regarding the device. a cousin gave me a photograph album which had many pictures of him as a child and the homestead that his parents and siblings worked so hard on. Though he was a Wyoming born cowboy, Oregon became the place he loved the most. He would have been tickled to death to hear of granddaughter Joanna and me acquiring guns and learning how to use them, especially so late in our lives. No doubt he would have had some funny comments about it.
Son Robert died in 2010. There was never a day when he wasn't living at home, that he didn't call me 4 or 5 times a day. Most of our family members got daily calls as well. He loved to hear about the animals, new silly commercials and what ever was going on. We (me, Joanna, or a friend) took him to movies, lunch, or Disney World. Life in a wheel chair and frequent seizures never seemed diminish his love of life. I miss those calls.
When David died, a year this week, I couldn't believe he wasn't somewhere in the house. I seem to hear him commenting about something I am watching or listening to because I know he would have been interested. He loved Mayan history. He really enjoyed going to Brevard Marine with Joanna and Jack as long as he was able to do so. Probably would have liked it if we had had to take him in the ambulance. While Stripes, our cat, was really his cat who had trained him to provide never ending back scratching and belly rubs. However it was Jack that he was really partial to. Joanna's lab would hop in bed with him at any opportunity. Even Big, our big cat who scares Jack to death, did not deter Jack from bounding into the house to see David.
I am rarely lonely but the loss of companionship of someone who shares the history of things, places and people is sorely missed. David had such a loving, caring personality. He rarely got angry let alone mad at anyone. Intelligent, thoughtful, a really great father and friend, and a husband beyond compare. I miss you daddy bear. Betty
June 17, 2012
Happy Father's Day Dad! Our first without you. We love and miss you so much. So hard to believe it's been almost a year since you left us. Still feels like yesterday. Love you always and a day! Joanna
April 28, 2012
Happy Birthday, Dad. I miss your wisdom and wit every single day. I hope the heavens appreciate and love you as much as we do! Going to have a sopapilla in your honor today. I love you, Daddy bear, Happy 80th birthday! Your loving daughter, Joanna
Cheryll Bickham
October 3, 2011
Living in Ohio, I didn't get to know Dad Bickham as well as I wanted. I do remember that he was the first to accept me and the boys into the family. I remember that he took time from his reunion visit in Ohio to watch the boys in a baseball game. That was real special since we had no other family up here! I'm glad I was able to talk to him this past February. I hope to see him one day in Heaven and we can finish our conversation. Cheryll
Tranquillity
Thomas & Betsy White
August 11, 2011
David Bickham set the principals for the Bickham clan and set an example for parents of Carlton Terrace of Honesty, Charity, Compassion and Patience. There was always a throng of kids at the Bickham's house because David and Betty were so "COOL" (who else would let their kids have pet SKUNKS in the house!!)
His principals and legacy have been left with his prodigy.
No matter how many times I bothered him with my adolescent questions and why's, he always took time to answer me and explain in the moment.
I wish the world could have many David Bickhams, it would be a far, far better place.
He will be sorely missed in our life.
Thomas & Betsy White
August 11, 2011
Dave set the principle for the the Bickham clan of honesty, charity, patience, and understanding. His legacy is left with his prodigy.
No matter how much I bothered him with my adolescent questions about boats and engines, he always took the time to answer at that moment. I learned so much from him. I wish the world could have more Dave Bickhams, it would be a far, far better place.
Gary Swift
August 10, 2011
Dave taught me that racing a boat had to be on your knees or you were just riding around. His perspective of all things in life had that same logic. He will always occupy a special place in heart and my spirit.
Frank Masiello
August 10, 2011
Dave will always be remembered as the man that gave me the gift of his unbelievable friendship at a time when it was most needed. He will always be my champion, both now and in eternity.
August 9, 2011
Back in 1988 I along with my partner Dick decided to purchase a boat yard in Cocoa .One of the first things I di was visit Brevard Marine,then located on Merritt Island .I was greeted by Dave and Joanna.It was the first time I heard the question "how do you make a million " well you know the answer Dave always had time to chat and I considered him a friend He will be missed .God Bless
Art Donnelly
Tiffany Shults
July 13, 2011
I have known Dave since I was about 10, but I don't think I even came close to knowing who he was personally until about 4 years ago when I started working at Brevard Marine. Dave would come in at least twice a week and he would tell me stories about his life. About his different careers, his boat racing, and about raising his family. He always asked how my children were doing and if I was doing well. He told me of car trips with his children driving across the U.S. I will always remember his kind words and the wonderful man that he was.
Bobby & Diane Ennis
July 7, 2011
You are in our prayers.
Ray Heurtin
July 6, 2011
I new Dave for some 40 years. I met Dave & his family from my job with Evinrude. I always liked family owned businesses & Brevard Marine always made me feel welcomed. Dave would call me the ragun cajun every time I came into the store. Dave was special. I discribe Dave as very intelligent, caring, honest,wonderful sense of humor & most of all a great Father, husband & friend. I will always remember Dave & know that he will be sadly missed.
July 6, 2011
HOLA MI JEFE! HI MOM
MISSED--YES
FORGOTTEN--NO
LOVED-- FOREVER
LOVE YOU DAD.
JOE aka CHICO
Tim & Sharon Netzley
July 6, 2011
Our deepest sympathies go out to all of your family. My dad knew Dave from his racing days on the Miami River in Troy, Ohio. I met Dave through Sharon's years in the Brevard Marine Association. God Bless and Best Wishes from all of our family.
Yvonne Urbanek
July 5, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. God Bless
Tom, Yvonne and Andrew Urbanek.
July 5, 2011
Betty and Family,
David always had a story to share and would bring joy to all around him. I will always remember my time with him and his quick wit. May God bless and comfort you. Janet Rooks (Merritt Island)
Charles Doege
July 4, 2011
Betty: A personal concern is spoken in this message of the honor it has been to have known David. He will always be a teacher and mentor to me in every walk of life that I am able to provide. His family was his life and will always be remembered to me as a great and generous person whom I respect and whose wisdom will never be equaled. Personal regards to you.
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