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David Elam Obituary
He was born Oct. 30, 1982, in Long Island, the son of David Elam Sr. and Lisa Ford.
He married Jessica Kelley on July 1, 2006.
Mr. Elam worked for Catskill Craftsman in Stamford. He enjoyed monster trucks and car races in the area, and always shared his good sense of humor with all around him.
He is survived by his wife, Jessica, of Meridale; a month-old daughter, Madison Elam of Meridale; his father, David Elam Sr., of Long Island; his mother, Lisa Ford, of Hamden; sisters, Shannon Elam of Meridale and Nicole Elam of Georgia; brothers, Cody Guile and Matthew Guile of Hamden, and Derek Elam of Georgia. Also his maternal grandparents, Harold and Barbara White, of Meridale; and his paternal grandparents, Hugh and Marion Elam, of Long Island; his mother-in-law, Rhonda Kelley, of Worcester; and many aunts, uncles and cousins.
Funeral services will take place at 11 a.m. Wednesday, Jan. 3, 2007, at the Delhi Alliance Church with Pastor David Wheatley officiating. Calling hours will take place from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Tuesday, Jan. 2, 2007, at the MacArthur Funeral Home, Delhi. Burial will take place in Hamden Cemetery, Hamden.
Contributions in his memory may be made to a college fund for his daughter, Madison, established at the National Bank of Delaware Co. Hamden office, Hamden, NY 13782.
Arrangements are with the MacArthur Funeral Home, Delhi.
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Erika Campbell
January 9, 2007
I'm Sorry for you're loss.
I knew Dave through mutual friends, you all will be in my prayers.
Laura Seward
January 9, 2007
I am truly sorry for the loss of David. I worked in grocery with Dave, he had a great sense of humor that kept me laughing each night. He always meant well and was a great guy! I know he had a good heart and he will be remembered and missed! My deeptest regaurds to the family and friends of David Elam.
janet rode
January 3, 2007
Lisa and family,
What can be said about Dave that hasn't already been said..Dave was a good boy, always had that smile on his face. Corey and Dave were close when they were younger. They went in diffeent directions as the grew but stayed friends..We loved Dave and i am so very sorry that we can't be there to pay our respects. Just know you are in our hearts and prayers.
love Janet and Corey
Jessica Barkman
January 2, 2007
Lisa iam so sorry for what has happend i have know david my whole life he was a great person. my mother and lisa were really good friends so that is what made you and your family our family. Iam so sorry and david will be greatly missed. I send you my love. you and the rest of the family will be in my thoughts and in my heart.
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Sarah Bunt
January 2, 2007
I am so sorry. I was good friends with Dave and Jessica is one of my best friends. I participated in their wedding this summer and was shocked and saddened by the news.
Elise Nash Weiss
January 1, 2007
I was David's 5th grade teacher in Delaware Academy. I remember him well as one of my students and I have very fond memories of him -- his smile and fun personality. I am so sorry for your loss.
Mathew Yorganson
January 1, 2007
I am devestated to hear the loss of David! His 1 month old baby was all he talked about he changed apartments and was doing many things im sure i'll never know to prepare for that child.
I lived next to him upstairs for 5 years and only encountered him 3 times or so on a interpersonel level but he from the short convos we had was a great person very family oriented and protective. I enjoyed his company, when he had time to share it and I hope the fish tank I gave him still is in use. Im sorry to hear him go but glad to hear it was quick. Im gonna post for my whole family im sure you have met them all and Shannon you should know me best because you have helped me alot. God Bless best of luck to his wife and baby. Meyer family and Mathew Yorganson
Mathew Yorganson
January 1, 2007
I am devestated to hear the loss of David! His 1 month old baby was all he talked about he changed abartments ands was doing many things im sure i'll never know to prepare for that child.
I lived next to him upstairs for 5 years and only encountered him 3 times or so on a interpersonel level but he from the short convos we had was a great person very family oriented and protective. I enjoyed his company when he had time to share it and I hope the fish tank I gave him still is in use. Im sorry to hear him go but glad to hear it was quick. Im gonna post for my whole family im sure you have met them all and shannon you should know me best because you have helped me alot. God Bless best of luck to his wife and baby Meyer family and Mathew Yorganson
Sarah Barrett(Bush)
December 31, 2006
Lisa & Family,
So sorry to hear about David,my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Brian Woodward
December 31, 2006
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I worked with Dave a short time at Wal-Mart and was drawn to his good humor and values. My prayers are with you and your family.
Gabrielle Pierce
December 31, 2006
Dear Lisa, Matt & Cody: You know how Richie and I feel for all of you, we are so sorry that you are having to do through this sadness and loss. We are here for you, and the two of them are together and they are OK. Take heart in that thought.
mindy (Hull) Stiber
December 31, 2006
to the family of David. I went to school with shannon and david was about two years younger then me. I remember David as being a funny, out going person. He was awesome. May all my prayers be with you in this time of pain and grief and I am truely sorry for your loss.My thoughts will be with you. I know how it feels to loose someone very special, I am sorry.God Bless you.
kim aldrich
December 30, 2006
Lisa, and family,
As I sit here with tears in my eyes, my heart is so heavy. I cannot imagine the pain you have at this time. I wan to talk to you, but know your time is full now. We are in SC, we moved here to be close to the kids and grandkids. Not gonna say alot here, but know I love you, am thinking about you, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Talk to you soon. Love ya lots, Kim
The Guile Family
December 30, 2006
Lisa and Family So sorry to hear about David Keep you in our prayers. Kathy Ellis & Dustin
Kelli Brown
December 30, 2006
I'm so sorry for your loss...I worked with David at Walmart and he never ceased to amaze me with his humor. My prayers are with you!
Heather McAdams (Bush)
December 29, 2006
Lisa, Shannon, & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cathy Dale & Family Schriver
December 29, 2006
Lisa, Fred and Family
So sorry to hear about Dave. He was a great person. Will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Betsy Mazurak
December 29, 2006
Dear Lisa,
You have had a very difficult year. Please accept my sorrow and sympathy for your sadness at this time. Sincerely,
Sharon Smith
December 29, 2006
Fred, Lisa and Family,
We are all so sorry. Our prayers and hearts are with you and your family.
Deepest Condolences,
John & Sharon, Tara, Cory, Kelly, Sarah and Carl
Maureen Babcock
December 29, 2006
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I went to school with Davids sister Shannon and I knew David, he was a nice kid. May my prayers be with you all at this time.
Lisa Barton(Saltzer)
December 29, 2006
I extend to you my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Debra Gray
December 29, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
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