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David Lerner Obituary
Brighton: April 7, 2009. Survived by wife, Beatrice; daughter, Marilyn (Ben) Graham; sons, Monroe (Karin) Lerner & Robert (Ellen) Lerner; sisters, Pearl Hagenaur & Etta Lerner; and grandchildren Chad, Seth, Dennily, Elizabeth (Rami), Emily, Shaina, Jane and Evan.
Born 1914, Newark, New Jersey, David worked from the age of seven with his father and brothers delivering milk. He graduated from high school and obtained a variety of metal working certificates before marrying. He enlisted in the Army Air Corps as mechanic and instructor at the onset of WWII and continued in the Reserves during the Korean War. He was always very proud to have served his country. After WWII and his release from the service, he relocated with his wife and two sons to Columbus, Ohio, where his daughter was born and children were educated. He owned and operated a number of businesses and in 1970 moved to California where he worked in auto parts and then real estate, operating Lerner Realty of Downey, California and founding Associated Realtors, a marketing and service organization of area real estate brokers. In 1987, he and Beatrice moved to Rochester, NY, to be near their children and grandchildren in Rochester and the Northeast. He worked in real estate investment for a few years and then semi-retired. He continued to work into his mid-eighties. In 2003, he and his wife moved to the Jewish Home of Rochester. David's family is especially grateful to the Jewish Home and especially the 4th floor Northeast staff for their compassion and attentive care over the past few years.
Graveside Services will be held 10 am on Sunday, April 12th at Stone Road Cemetery (Use Pearson Street entrance). A memorial service will be held following the burial at 1PM at the Jewish Home of Rochester. In lieu of flowers, contributions preferred to Jewish Home of Rochester Fourth Floor Northeast and Jewish War Veterans. At the request of the family there will be no home visitation. For directions to graveside or memorial service or to leave a message of condolence, please visit:
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Emily Graham
April 17, 2009
Grampa was a character and I loved him for it. He always showed his love to me and my sister, my mom and dad, and all the family. He was really a great person to talk to, with so many war stories and interesting perspectives. One of the things I admired most about him was how patriotic he was. He was a true American, in everything he did, from joining the Army, to opening a steak restaurant, then a western club, and then going west to seek fortune in California. He really represented the American dream. Much love to everyone, and especially grandma Bea.
Jane Graham
April 13, 2009
My love is with all the family. Please give a big hug to Grandma Bea for me.
Grandpa Dave will be missed. Growing up, he was always so much fun to be around; playful, fun, and a great sense of humor. He loved politics, and it was enjoyable to engage him in conversation and debate about news of the world. He taught me all about vitamins and lecitin...mmmm, and whenever I have Postum, I think of him.
He was a bold entrepenuer, and never gave up. My mum always tells my sister and I about his restaurants, and the Berwick Manor where she had the greatest broiled rib steak with a mushroom on top in her life.
My love to all my family and his friends.
Love,
Jane
Paprocki Family
April 10, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Know that you can count on us for confort, help, anything. We love you
Sheila Lerner
April 10, 2009
For My Uncle Dave and to Aunt Bea, Rob (Ellen), Monroe (Karin), Marilyn (Ben) and all my relatives. My Uncle Dave (who I called Dad) was a perfect example of what all Uncles should be. He and my Aunt (who I still call Mom) were always there for me, their home was always open for me and they showed and shared their love to me and others at all times. He was much loved by his many nieces and nephews and we all will miss him deeply.
My Dad, Dave's older brother Leo, loved his "Davie," and I consider myself very fortunate to have had a wonderful Uncle Dave. David Lerner was also a member of the Mason's and as is their motto, was giving and generous to many in the community. Uncle Dave (Dad) I love you. Sheila (Lerner) - Your Grateful Niece
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