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David Lee Ruffin
1953 - 2017
David Lee Ruffin
1953 - 2017
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BORN
1953
DIED
2017
David Ruffin Obituary
David was born in Johnstown, PA and resided in Virginia Beach since 1956. He was preceded in death by his parents, Charlie and Dorothy Ruffin. He was a carpenter by trade and was an avid fisherman and enjoyed hunting.
Survivors include 3 sons David Lee Ruffin, II and wife Samantha, Justin C. Ruffin and Holly Kendig and Jeremy T. Ruffin; 2 brothers Charles Ruffin and wife Diane and Eugene Ruffin; 3 sisters Dorothy Simpson and husband Richard, Robin Baker and husband Michael and Susan Augustus and husband Gus; and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins.
The family will receive friends on Friday, November 10, from 6 to 8 p.m. at Smith & Williams Funeral Home, Kempsville Chapel.
A graveside service will be held on Saturday, 10:00a.m. at Woodlawn Memorial Gardens.
Friends may offer condolences at www.smithandwilliamskempsville.com
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David Laswell
November 13, 2017
I was saddened to hear of David's passing. He was a good friend and co-worker. My thoughts and prayers are for the Ruffin family.
susan gullixson
November 13, 2017
David was a sweet & charming man. I am happy to have met him!
Jeremy Ruffin
November 13, 2017
You were the greatest father I could ever ask for and you always made sure we had everything to make us happy. I appreciate you so much Dad and will always remember you as the fun and goofy dad. I love you so much and will miss you I LOVE YOU DAD!!!!
Theresa Stillman
November 10, 2017
I was saddened to hear of Uncle David's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God cover you in peace and understanding.
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Wayne Bielitz
November 10, 2017
To the Ruffin Family, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of David Ruffin, I have known him since the 5th or 6th grade, Courthouse Elementary, also went to Kellam with him, was good friend, he will be missed.
Wayne Bielitz " Murphy"
shirley frank
November 10, 2017
David was my cousin. he was a great guy. thanks for sharing the pictures. he will be missed. Shirley ruffin-frank
Kathy Bodie O'Neal
November 9, 2017
Thoughts and prayers for the Ruffin family. Have known David since high school along with brothers Charles and Gene. May you find peace knowing David is now wrapped in God's loving arms. Love to you all.
Mary Hickman
November 9, 2017
So sorry to hear about the loss of David! I went to school with David at Courthouse elementary and Kellam!
Martha and John Stewart
November 9, 2017
Martha and I met David at the wedding of Angella and Scott Wetterlin. During part of the celebration, he sat at our table among his family. When we were readying to leave, he made a point of coming up to us, introducing himself, and thanking us for being a part of the evening. We shall always remember that moment - such kindness and consideration for people he had barely met. We share in the grieving for his loss.
Vance & Jenny Owens
November 9, 2017
David was a great guy. Always had something nice to say to everyone. The Ruffin family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Angella Wetterlin
November 8, 2017
We're so sorry to hear about the passing of Uncle David. Lee, Justin and Jeremy and family, you are in our thoughts. Love, Scott, Angella, Alexander and Erik.
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