Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Deborah Helga Bute
1954 - 2016
Deborah Helga Bute
1954 - 2016
Obituary
Guest Book
BORN
1954
DIED
2016
Deborah Bute Obituary
Born in San Diego, she was the daughter of Julia Ortega and Harold Bandrup. She grew up with five brothers and attended Madison High School. She shared her life with husband Rodney Kenneth Bute, Jr. for the last 16 years. She worked as an EVS Technician at Scripps Green Hospital for 22 years and received many achievement awards for her performance.
She enjoyed vacations driving across the country to see new places, spending time with her family, reading the newspaper, pedicures and getting her hair done, the Chargers and football, playing penny slots at casinos, had an affinity for sugar skulls, and was a proud Navy mom. She will be remembered for her one-of-a-kind fiery personality, humor, extraordinary work ethic, and enduring strength. Everyone who ever met her knew she was a force to be reckoned with and unforgettable.
She is survived by her mother; husband; daughters Teresa Chandler, Sarah Ferris, Natalie Wood, Timothy Wood, Alexandra Henly; brothers Edward Bandrup, Michael Bandrup, Eric Bandrup, Robert Bandrup, Gerald Bandrup; grandchildren Savannah Whitlock, Mykaela Ferris, Bella Ferris, Skye Ferris, Adryanna Torres.
The viewing will held from 4-8p on Monday March 7, 2016 at El Camino Memorial Park in the large chapel located at 5600 Carroll Canyon Rd, San Diego, CA 92121. The funeral service will be held on Tuesday March 8, 2016 from 10-11a with rosary viewing at 9:30a at the Immaculate Conception Church in Old Town, located at 2540 San Diego Ave, San Diego, CA 92110.
In lieu of flowers, she had wished for donations to be made to either the St. Jude online at www.stjude.org/ (or mail 501 St. Jude Pl, Memphis, TN 38105), or American Cancer Society online at www.cancer.org/donate (or mail P.O. Box 22478, Oklahoma City, OK 73123).
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Rick Bandrup
March 24, 2016
In honor of my beautiful sister, I would like to thank everyone for their prayers and condolences that were shared with our family during this sad time in our lives. Debbie was my only sister, and not only was she beautiful and kind, she was funny, smart and a great mom, wife and grandma. She worked her whole life, I only wish she could have enjoyed her retirement with her loved ones. Debbie we love you and you will always be in our hearts and memories.
Love Rick,Susan, Erica & Patricia
Autumn Arun
March 24, 2016
I will always remember Great Aunt Debbie's kindness, smile and sense of humor. She was a wonderful person and is sorely missed.
Jennifer Bandrup
March 23, 2016
For my aunt Debbie, you are one of a kind, irreplaceable in all of our lives. Whenever we talked, it was like no time had passed. I will always remember your voice, laugh and sense of humor. You will be missed by many, including me. Rest in peace.
Love,
Your niece
Teresa Chandler
March 20, 2016
Missing seeing your face momma but i feel you near sometimes. I will forever strive to make you proud since I know you can see me!
How you can show support
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Rodney Kenneth Bute, Jr.
March 16, 2016
"Oh Lord, could you show me the most beautiful girl in the world?"
When I looked up, You, Deborah were standing there.
I then dared to ask;
"Oh Lord, could you allow me to love the most beautiful girl in the world?"
The day you said yes, my soul had touched heaven.
So I Prayed.
"Oh Lord, could you bless her "My Queen, the most beautiful girl in my world"; and whisper to her, "I'll always love and be here for the most wonderful wife in the world".
Now, I Cry.
"Oh Lord, could you please not take the most beautifully loved treasure in the world. Loved by family and friends? I can't live without her, the most beautiful "LOVE" in my world".
So, on my knees I beg.
"Oh Lord, if you happen to see the most beautiful Women in heaven, tell her that Ken Loves her. Could you tell her, some day, with a loving embrace, we'll be blessed to be in heaven together, forever".
The most beautiful, blessed couple in Your world!
Until we meet again my love, I Love you always!
Rodney Kenneth Bute, Jr.
Amanda Lindt
March 16, 2016
I remember growing up next door with Teresa, Sarah, and little Alex. Debbie was such an amazing person. She was fierce, didn't let anyone get to her, she was such a strong woman. She was also like a second mother to me. I remember her catching me outside after she knew I should've been home, she treated me like one of her own and told me to get home. I can look back and laugh at that 20 years later, because I knew she cared and was looking out for my safety. The last time I saw her was a few years ago. I just remember the look of surprise on her face, the pride to see me as a grown woman. She yelled "is that little Amanda??" and gave me the biggest hug. She had meant so much me, and it sunk in that day, knowing I had made her proud with the direction my life had taken. She is greatly missed. I will never forget the laugh she had that filled the entire room, larger than life personality. I will always admire her strength, love, and grace. I miss her so much, but I'm grateful for the memories I have of her. Such a beautiful woman, gone but never forgotten, she lives everyday through her children.
Velia Valkoun
March 15, 2016
You are missed so much! Your passing has left such a void in so many lives. We love you, Debbie
Iris Rico
March 7, 2016
Debbie had a fun personality, great spirit, and a kind heart. I feel fortunate to have shared many great memories of her hanging out at your place when I was younger. I will miss her smile.~ Iris
Teresa Chandler
March 6, 2016
I want to thank everyone for their love and support. It is a blessing that my mom has touched so many people's lives. Thank you for sharing memories with her.
March 4, 2016
Debbie has been missed at Scripps Green Hospital. She was an integral part of 4 West for many years. The best of the best!!! I know you are missing her terribly. Jeanette Frabotta
March 4, 2016
We at Scripps Green EVS Department will miss Debbie so very much she was a sweet lady. Lou Colantonio
Laurel Martindale
March 2, 2016
What beautiful pictures of a beautiful woman!!! I am thankful she's the Mama of two Sisters that I love dearly - near of far. Thinking of you and praying for your family! Love, love, LOVE the pictures you posted! She looks like she REALLY lived life ;) Hugs to you from Colorado!
Roberta Bush
March 1, 2016
Sending my sincere condolences for the loss of a very special cousin. I would like to share my favorite quote that I believe is so true: "Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know that they are happy." Always remember Debbie is looking down and smiling on you. Keeping you in my prayers.
Mary Williams
February 29, 2016
I'm sorry for your loss.
Alexandra
February 27, 2016
I love you mommy!
Jason Bandrup
February 27, 2016
I am sorry for our loss
Jason Bandrup (Chula vista, CA
Juan Francisco Pinedo
February 26, 2016
Dear Bute family,
I am sorry for your loss. It is never easy to lose a loved one, regardless if they have lived a full life. One thing I will say is that "WE" should be happy and allow our God to take his daughter into his care where she will forever be at peace. When you become sad just remember this; the love and laughter she shared with all of you will live in you forever. My sincerest condolences to you and your families. May God help you find peace and strength to get through this trying time. With all due respect.
J. Francisco Pinedo
Funeral Arranger, El Camino Memorial - SVC
Showing 1 - 17 of 17 results
5600 Carroll Canyon Rd, San Diego, CA 92121
Make a Donation
in Deborah Bute's name
How to support Deborah's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Deborah Bute's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
