DEBORAH M. "DEBBIE" GILBERT

1956 - 2018

DEBORAH M. "DEBBIE" GILBERT

1956 - 2018

BORN

1956

DIED

2018

DEBORAH GILBERT Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 11 to May 12, 2018.
GILBERT DEBORAH M. "DEBBIE"
Deborah Meryl Gilbert, age 62, of Mt. Lebanon, passed away Wednesday, May 9, 2018, at Family Hospice, Mt. Lebanon, surrounded by her family. Born April 10, 1956, in Pittsburgh, Debbie was the daughter of Eileen Schwartz (nee Gherman) and the late Paul Becker. After graduating from Penn State University with a Bachelor's Degree in Fine Arts, she worked as an artist and illustrator before dedicating herself to raising her two children. Debbie was driven and fortified by her faith in God, a fixture in her church and anchor of her regular Bible study group for decades. Her faith was the means by which she led a full and productive life despite a 27-year battle with Multiple Sclerosis. The scores of friends and caregivers who assisted Debbie over the years were moved by her unfailing kindness, humor and dignity, frequently insisting that she helped them as much or more than they helped her. She overcame the limitations of her illness to impact a remarkable number of lives. A beloved friend and devoted wife, mother, sister and daughter, she will be remembered and missed by her husband of 38 years, who lovingly referred to her as "Queenie"; her two sons, Matt Gilbert (Aleira Rolon-Colon) and Todd Gilbert; her mother; her sister, Judy Becker; her aunt, Hilda Goldhamer; her brother-in-law, Kalman Katz (Beryl); nieces and nephews, Sarah, Paul, and Emily Gold, Staci Anderson (Nick) and Michael Katz. She was preceded in death by her sister, Susan Katz. Funeral arrangements by BEINHAUERS, 724-941-3211. Family and friends are welcome Saturday, 9:30 a.m. until the time of the Memorial service at 11 a.m., at The Bible Chapel, 300 Gallery Drive, McMurray, PA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Debbie's name to Chosen People Ministries (www.chosenpeople.com) or Pittsburgh Mercy's Operation Safety Net (www.pittsburghmercy.org). Please add or view tributes at:
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November 2, 2018

May everyone that crossed Debbie's path be thankful for how she touched their lives.

May everyone have peace from knowing the serenity she now enjoys and may happiness come from remembering that the love she shared is forever.

Fred & Penny Abbott

May 19, 2018

Bob, we just learned of Debbie's passing yesterday. She was truly one of God's special people. Our heartfelt sympathy is extended to you and your family.
Fred and Penny Abbott

May 12, 2018

You have our deepest sympathies. We pray in your behalf, and we look forward to the day when we will welcome back our loved ones on a Paradise earth. Psm 37:29

May 12, 2018

Dear Bob, I did errands for Debbie for many years and was amazed at how she could control things and knew so much about everyone who came in to her home. I was blessed by her and also your message at her celebration of life today. Thank you, Jill Deer

May 11, 2018

Dear Bob: While I cannot join you for the Saturday services, because of other obligations that I cannot change, I want to offer my deepest sympathy for your loss. I lost my wife to a heart attack after 40 years of marriage, so I can fully understand the trauma and pain which such a loss entails. I can only tell you that time is a great healer, but nothing but the good memories of a full and productive and loving life wlll bring you solace. May your healing be speedy and know that your friends and colleagues grieve with you. Jerry Zoffer

Paul Recht

May 11, 2018

I will miss my Messianic believing cousin, Debbie. I have kept the letter she sent telling me she was also a believer, and that she realized that my wife and I were also.

Marge Bailey

May 11, 2018

So very sorry for your loss. What a wonderful lady that raised a beautiful family. Thinking of you Todd and your family. Marge and Bill Bailey

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