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1943
2020
Barbara (Grammie Pink) Brown passed away on April 14, 2020, after losing to an illness that she battled for many years. Grammie was surrounded by her loving and beloved family; and at the end of her journey she looked forward to a reunion with her son, Scott Finnemore, who predeceased her in 1992.
She was born in Portland, Maine, on August 30, 1943.
Barbara was also predeceased by her parents, Charles and Ruby Payne; her sister, Glenna Quimby, and her brother, Reginald Curtis.
Barbara graduated from Hampden Academy but lived most of her life in the Portland area; in later years she enjoyed living with her daughter Pattie and family in South Paris. In her younger years she enjoyed roller skating and bowling. She loved just being with people. When her illness forced her to stop working, she was happy just to be surrounded by her family and her cats. She will be remembered for her genuine kindnesses toward all and never had a bad word to say about anyone.
Some of Grammie Pink’s most fond memories were of time spent with the amazing children and parents from A Great Start Daycare. She adored them and they spent many happy moments together.
Barbara is survived by her oldest son, Alan Finnemore of Portland, Maine; daughter, Patricia and Sean Meehan of South Paris, Maine; daughter, Kelly Brown and Joe Nichter of Eddington, Maine. Grandchildren: Tori and Ben Blood of Gorham, Sean Michael Meehan of South Paris, Cody Meehan of Portland, and Jameson O’Neal of Fort Fairfield. In addition, Grammie had two great grands: Caleb and Emma Blood of Gorham, Maine. She is also survived by her sister and favorite brother-in-law, Steve and Betty Trimm of Eddington; several nieces and nephews.
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Scott, Kelly and Tori as a baby.
April 25, 2020
Kelly Brown
April 25, 2020
Hi Mum
I miss talking to you.  Hard to accept I can't pick up the phone to chat. Breaks my heart because I can't imagine you not being in this world. I love you and someday will meet again and be together.
Love Kelly
Judy Brown
April 22, 2020
Barbara was a Beautiful person inside and out .I will miss you my dear friend.untill we meet again . Love you
Caleb Blood
April 22, 2020
Grammy Pink, I miss you. The best memories I have of you are spending time with you sitting in your chair and me sitting on the couch and we were talking about everything.You loved you talk.You were the best Grammy Pink I ever had. 
   Love, CALEB
Pattie Meehan
April 22, 2020
Mom, There are no words to express the emptiness I feel right now or how much I am going to miss you being apart of my life each day. I am one of the luckiest people in the world because you are my Mom. You gave me unconditional love at all times. There was never a day that I didnt know that I was loved. That is priceless.
I know you worried about me not being okay when you passed away. 
I AM OKAY because you are now able to breath ( that Im sure of) It is your time to be an angel and that gives me such a good feeling knowing you are in heaven with our loved ones. Give them my love.
I will continue to do my best to make you proud. I will always say What would Grammy do? I know that will be the right thing♥. Until we are together again please watch over our family. 
Love and miss you so much
Benjamin Blood
April 22, 2020
Grammie, 
     You were a very special lady to many. To me you were another grandmother, the great grandmother mother to our children, a friend and an extremely special person. From the beginning you welcomed me into your family with open arms. I loved our special times and will always remember our Christmas shopping dates...You were a selfless person who always wanted to see the good in others. You were more than willing to help anyone in need and never expected anything in return. I wanted to thank you for being a special part of our lives and I will think of you often during this journey of life.   Love Benji
Cody Brown-Meehan
April 22, 2020
Grammy, there are no words I can say that describe our bond as grandson and grandchild in depth. We saw each other almost every day. Did almost everything together. You helped me, supported me and advised me even through the worst turmoils. When I thought I was alone In this life, you were always there to lift me up. To help guide me in my life. You gave me hope day by day. Now, I must continue this journey to bring with me and spread the 24 years of hope and love that you have given me.
Tori
April 21, 2020
GRAMMIE PINK... 
While my heart aches thinking about all the firsts without you, I also know you are free of pain and suffering.  
Thank you for being the kindest Grammie that a girl could ever have! I am thankful for everyday that I had with you and for everyday that Caleb and Emma were able to have your love! 
I know you will look over us always! 
XOXOXOXOXO
Beth mary Muchael
April 21, 2020
Aunt Barbara I love and miss you so much !!!!!I know you no longer in pain and suffering Im sure those angels up there were happy to have you give my mom , grandmother and Scotty a hug and kiss. I love you so so much Aunt Barbara you will always have a special place in my heart
Bessie Whitney
April 20, 2020
Thinking of you and the family Pattie. There are not enough words to express how much I am going to miss my sweet, lovable cousin Barb, who was loved by everyone that knew her. 
You took wonderful care of her and she loved you all so very much. {Hugs} xoxo
April 20, 2020
Barbara was the kindest, most caring and genuine person I have ever personally known in my lifetime. She made me a better person by having her in my life. Thank you for being such a calm presence, in such a difficult world. And thank you most of all for bringing and raising such an amazing woman in your daughter Patricia. She has your heart and kind soul. You will both be together someday with Scott. I love you all!!God bless you
Angela Mitchell
April 20, 2020
Our love and prayers go out to all of you!!
Sondra and Richard Kenney
April 20, 2020
So sorry to hear that we have lost this beautiful soul, God has taken her home loved her so much. We are sending prayers to her family for their loss may God give you all comfort in this time rest in peace my cousin.
Phyllis Cooper
April 20, 2020
Didn't know you but can see you were very much loved. Hopefully your memory will keep everyone strong!
Melinda
April 20, 2020
Love you Barbara. You will be missed ❤
Timothy Larsen
April 20, 2020
Patti, Alan and Kelly, it was very sad to hear of your moms passing, she was a great lady, she will be missed and my thoughts are with you
Christine Mills
April 20, 2020
Barb.... mischievous and kind.....one of my first co-workers.....remembered with love~ Chris
Wendi Bourgoin
April 20, 2020
So sorry for the loss of Grammie Pink. She was such a kind soul and will be missed. Thinking of you all
DONALD WEST
April 20, 2020
I only got to know Grammie Pink for a short period of time but she made me feel like I knew her my whole life. Rest in peace beautiful lady! :)
Rachel LaSalle
April 20, 2020
She was the best helper to Pattie that anyone could have. She would put the children before herself. She was very funny, very caring and just amazing to have around. Love, Rachel
April 20, 2020
Grammie Pink was a wonderful lady beloved by my oldest two grandsons. They received amazing care by Grammie Pink and Aunt Patti. I appreciate the valued difference she made in my grandchildrens lives. You will always be remembered and missed.
Harriet Conard
April 20, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always
Svava Cushing
April 20, 2020
I'm saddened to hear of the passing of Aunt Barbara. To me she was always loving and caring and I'll remember her for that! She had a twinkle in her eyes, and I just knew she always cared. She loved my boys and was always so sweet and kind towards them. We will all miss her but I feel so grateful for the memories my children and I had with her! May she RIP!
rita clark
April 20, 2020
so very sorry to hear barbara has passed.she was a nice person as well as the entire family,rita gallant
Pamela Seymour
April 20, 2020
Barbie was the most sweetest nicest cousin.. I miss her so much ..... Rest in peace . You were truly an angel. I am at a loss for words. My heart is broken.
Gail Dennison-Hale
April 20, 2020
So sorry for your loss Pattie and family. Losing a loved one is never easy but she will be forever in your hearts ♥ 
Prayers thoughts and love to all ♥♥♥♥
Nikki Violette
April 20, 2020
I don't know what to say. Like the rest of the family I will miss you and never forget you. I love you
Paula Walls
April 20, 2020
I am really going to miss Barbie. I have very fond memories of her when I was growing up. She used to play with and entertain me when I was very little. She was and always will be one of my favorite cousins. She had a special way with people. She was always kind and loving and never said a bad word about anyone. I do not think that she had any enemies. Everyone that knew her loved her. She helped me through a very hard time when our grandmother died. She was there to comfort me and talk to me about how special I was to my Grandmother. She just had that special touch!! My heart goes out to our whole family but mostly to her children and grandchildren and sister. She loved her family with all her heart and soul. I will forever miss you, Barbie. Thank you for loving me.
Michael Gamache
April 20, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. You were one of the sweetest ladies I had ever met. You never judged people and loved unconditionally. That live your let us will live on
Pattie Meehan
April 20, 2020
Miss you so much Mom
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