Deborah J Wilkins

Deborah J Wilkins obituary, Bowling Green, KY

Deborah J Wilkins

Deborah Wilkins Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jul. 17 to Jul. 19, 2023.
Bowling Green - Deborah J. Tomes Wilkins of Bowling Green, Kentucky died July 17,2023 at the Hospice House of Southern Kentucky. Born January 11, 1960. She was the daughter of James Butler Tomes II and Marilyn Tomes. She was a member of Lehman Avenue Church of Christ and was an attorney throughout her adult life. Deborah was highly respected by her colleagues across Kentucky, especially in the higher education communities. She practiced law with absolute honesty, integrity, ethics, and always exercised sound judgment. Her impact was immense. She was a loving and loyal colleague, friend, daughter, sister, parent, and wife. She and her infectious sense of humor will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her. She is survived by her brother James Butler Tomes, III, (Norma), one sister Jay Davis (Ron), her daughter Jessica Wilkins Mercer (Adam), two grandsons (Hatton Wilkins Mercer and Camden Ross Mercer), as well as several nieces and nephews, cousins, and extended family. She was preceded in death by her husband J.R. Wilkins, her father James Butler Tomes, II and mother Marilyn Tomes. She volunteered at Hospice of Southern Kentucky and often made contributions to the Bowling Green-Warren County Humane Society, Christ Episcopal Church, and Junior Achievement to name a few. Funeral services will be held at 2:00 PM July 19, 2023 at the J.C. Kirby & Son Lovers Lane Chapel. Visitation will be from 10:00 AM - 2:00 PM with the funeral service to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations are being requested in memory of Deborah to Hospice of Southern Kentucky and the Bowling Green-Warren County Humane Society.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Deborah Wilkins's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

September 24, 2023

Norman Parker posted to the memorial.

July 17, 2023

Ellen Sullivan Lyerly posted to the memorial.

July 17, 2023

Legacy Remembers posted an obituary.

2 Entries

Norman Parker

September 24, 2023

Debbie and JR "stood up" with us at our 7 person wedding. They were GREAT friends of ours. I remember how funny she thought it was when I thought someone's muffler had fallen off their car in her driveway. Turns out it was her big fat cat, Bud, stretched out.
Although we had been out of touch we had NO QUESTION about her steadfastness in standing for truth in her life's challenges. God bless Deh-BORE-a Wilkins : )

Ellen Sullivan Lyerly

July 17, 2023

So very sorry to hear of Debbie's passing, and my sincere condolences go out to the family. I have very fond memories of Debbie as a child, and her family living right behind us in Crestmoor. May God bless you during this time!

Showing 1 - 2 of 2 results

Make a Donation
in Deborah Wilkins's name

How to support Deborah's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Deborah Wilkins's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Deborah Wilkins's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

September 24, 2023

Norman Parker posted to the memorial.

July 17, 2023

Ellen Sullivan Lyerly posted to the memorial.

July 17, 2023

Legacy Remembers posted an obituary.